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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been blocked off a female because im a "time waster" I forgot to text between the times she asked me to, the following day from recieving her number, I text her out with those time and explained what happened and no reply but came on here tonight to find a message saying I'm a time waster and when someone wants to meet (she's said sometimes next week) I should meet them.

Where is the justice LOL!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

One woman's attitude to one single guy.

Your communication didn't go as planned. It doesn't say anything about women's attitudes to single men.

You didn't do what you agreed to. You then texted her when you weren't supposed to. Perhaps her reaction was a bit OTT but we only have one side of the story.

Suck it up, move on and do what you agree to do next time. If you don't, expect that someone else may be annoyed and block you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One woman's attitude to one single guy.

Your communication didn't go as planned. It doesn't say anything about women's attitudes to single men.

You didn't do what you agreed to. You then texted her when you weren't supposed to. Perhaps her reaction was a bit OTT but we only have one side of the story.

Suck it up, move on and do what you agree to do next time. If you don't, expect that someone else may be annoyed and block you."

You're on fire tonight, I think I might you a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone blocked you, it happens, you're not the first and won't be the last. Onwards and upwards and waste no more time worrying about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been blocked off a female because im a "time waster" I forgot to text between the times she asked me to, the following day from recieving her number, I text her out with those time and explained what happened and no reply but came on here tonight to find a message saying I'm a time waster and when someone wants to meet (she's said sometimes next week) I should meet them.

Where is the justice LOL!"

You know you texted her when hubby was around

Rookie mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound like she might be married and no I wouldn't meet someone that said you was a timewaster and then wanted to meet the next week again lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She asked if I would be ok having fun with her man around so that was no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he straight too? lol or what kind of fun?.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Sound like she might be married and no I wouldn't meet someone that said you was a timewaster and then wanted to meet the next week again lol."

She's blocked him so he won't be getting the chance to meet her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sound like she might be married and no I wouldn't meet someone that said you was a timewaster and then wanted to meet the next week again lol.

She's blocked him so he won't be getting the chance to meet her."
He didn't say he was blocked tho.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"She asked if I would be ok having fun with her man around so that was no big deal"

Her man may not have been referring to her actual partner. I could have been another fb.

If you agree to a certain time window for texting, there's usually a reason. Texting outside those times is not a good idea, generally.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Sound like she might be married and no I wouldn't meet someone that said you was a timewaster and then wanted to meet the next week again lol.

She's blocked him so he won't be getting the chance to meet her.He didn't say he was blocked tho."

Re-read the first 3 words of the OP, Shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sound like she might be married and no I wouldn't meet someone that said you was a timewaster and then wanted to meet the next week again lol.

She's blocked him so he won't be getting the chance to meet her.He didn't say he was blocked tho.

Re-read the first 3 words of the OP, Shag "

Too many haribos, sugar blindness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sound like she might be married and no I wouldn't meet someone that said you was a timewaster and then wanted to meet the next week again lol.

She's blocked him so he won't be getting the chance to meet her.He didn't say he was blocked tho.

Re-read the first 3 words of the OP, Shag "
Yes and ty I did and your right he was there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sound like she might be married and no I wouldn't meet someone that said you was a timewaster and then wanted to meet the next week again lol.

She's blocked him so he won't be getting the chance to meet her.He didn't say he was blocked tho.

Re-read the first 3 words of the OP, Shag

Too many haribos, sugar blindness!"
That's right, had to many haribos earlier

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Sound like she might be married and no I wouldn't meet someone that said you was a timewaster and then wanted to meet the next week again lol.

She's blocked him so he won't be getting the chance to meet her.He didn't say he was blocked tho.

Re-read the first 3 words of the OP, Shag

Too many haribos, sugar blindness!"

*Something* that causes blindness, certainly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She asked if I would be ok having fun with her man around so that was no big deal

Her man may not have been referring to her actual partner. I could have been another fb.

If you agree to a certain time window for texting, there's usually a reason. Texting outside those times is not a good idea, generally."

She referred to him as her hubby, so it's not just a fb. There wasn't an agreement she gave me her number and told me to text she then didn't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been blocked off a female because im a "time waster" I forgot to text between the times she asked me to, the following day from recieving her number, I text her out with those time and explained what happened and no reply but came on here tonight to find a message saying I'm a time waster and when someone wants to meet (she's said sometimes next week) I should meet them

Where is the justice LOL!"

Damn you for not jumping through that particular hoop

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"I've been blocked off a female because im a "time waster" I forgot to text between the times she asked me to, the following day from recieving her number, I text her out with those time and explained what happened and no reply but came on here tonight to find a message saying I'm a time waster and when someone wants to meet (she's said sometimes next week) I should meet them.

Where is the justice LOL!"

This is ONE females attitude to ONE guys actions, u were asked to contact at a certain time, could be due to work, kids, family ... ANYTHING! You didn't respect that, simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take being blocked as a very lucky escape...bet my bottom dollar she her behaviour would have got worse ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again another thread that's from a bloke and gets negative replies. If it was a woman it would be totally different responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again another thread that's from a bloke and gets negative replies. If it was a woman it would be totally different responses.

"

Shame your not into women your hot!

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Again another thread that's from a bloke and gets negative replies. If it was a woman it would be totally different responses.

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Not from me, respect works both ways

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

To be fair, UK this happened to a woman, I truly believe I'd tell her she was making a mountain out of a molehill, in extrapolating the majority from a sample size of one.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

When I say UK, I mean "if". Odd auto correct behaviour.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Again another thread that's from a bloke and gets negative replies. If it was a woman it would be totally different responses.

"

Not in this case.

One person does not represent the behaviour of an entire gender.

The OP didn't do what they agreed he would. The woman probably decided he's unreliable. If someone can't text at a certain time when they say they will, how sure would you be they'd turn up to a meet?

I give up on guys if they seem flakey or don't do what they say they will too. I don't see why anyone else shouldn't, be they male or female.

I don't think the OP has room to complain since he was the one who made the mistake.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Again another thread that's from a bloke and gets negative replies. If it was a woman it would be totally different responses.

Not in this case.

One person does not represent the behaviour of an entire gender.

The OP didn't do what they agreed he would. The woman probably decided he's unreliable. If someone can't text at a certain time when they say they will, how sure would you be they'd turn up to a meet?

I give up on guys if they seem flakey or don't do what they say they will too. I don't see why anyone else shouldn't, be they male or female.

I don't think the OP has room to complain since he was the one who made the mistake."

+1

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London


"Again another thread that's from a bloke and gets negative replies. If it was a woman it would be totally different responses.

"

You're absolutely correct but you'll be told you're wrong.

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