FabSwingers.com forum: verifications - do we believe them or not

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm very new to this scene. Looked at verifications and several points jumped out at me..

1 no one has bad meets or sex that is not good..

2 some fabswingers seem to collect verifications

3 seems to be a way for exes to see who ex is now shagging and send fb messages and friend add...

4 tracker on who is shagging who..really not interested...

5 So I am not going to display anymore verifications...

6 What is other fabswingers _iews on this?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Look at your number 1 then look at mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't everyone last for hours tho? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not had a bad meet. And if I did I would not send a bad veri I would just not send one at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't everyone last for hours tho? lol."
don't you ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have not had a bad meet. And if I did I would not send a bad veri I would just not send one at all "

Maybe you forgot mine? Been waiting bloody months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't everyone last for hours tho? lol. don't you ?

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No, just 2min lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Don't everyone last for hours tho? lol."

They don't call me 'seven second Steve' for nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe mine, that's for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have not had a bad meet. And if I did I would not send a bad veri I would just not send one at all

Maybe you forgot mine? Been waiting bloody months

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still writing it mate you was that good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't everyone last for hours tho? lol.

They don't call me 'seven second Steve' for nothing

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Seven ???? 5 it was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Obviously would not show a bad verification on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't everyone last for hours tho? lol.

They don't call me 'seven second Steve' for nothing

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lol that's a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I collect mine. They are like charms on a charm bracelet.

Now I need one that looks like a star....

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should only believe the ones to state how incredible I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh my fab name is star ..I'm sure it would look lush on your charm bracelet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had owt bad to say pointless saying it in a veri as they can choose to display or not . I think veris should have a choice to be negative or positive a bit like eBay feedback then at least good as well as bad can be recorded too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm liking the replies..just as I thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my fab name is star ..I'm sure it would look lush on your charm bracelet.."

Why hello there! It would look mighty fine on my bracelet.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally agree...It gets boring reading the same stuff in veris...and some don't even really change what they say about dufferent Meets..I think some might just copy and paste lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't believe a word of them .

We've got loads that say how nice we are , when really we are a pair of miserable fuckers .

We happily do all we can to ensure we make every meet as unpleasant as we can , yet still keep getting good veri's .

in fact last week we went 3 days without washing , ate garlic bread , curry and beans every night preceeding the meet . Had the meet and spent the whole time farting , belching and on our phones . Yet we still got a glowing veri .

So there you have it , they're all lies I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't believe a word of them .

We've got loads that say how nice we are , when really we are a pair of miserable fuckers .

We happily do all we can to ensure we make every meet as unpleasant as we can , yet still keep getting good veri's .

So there you have it , they're all lies I say

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you mean all mine are lies ? Shit I thought I were great

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol made me laugh...I'm honest ...straight talking and real...and know the law of averages not everyone is having this much fucking fun on every meet. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some, are very over exaggerated. I will make my own opinion if I want to meet them.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I bribed ours with cake..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think some, are very over exaggerated. I will make my own opinion if I want to meet them."

How about if we lay off the curry ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

just like anything... take them with a pinch of salt....

why would you take the opinion of one person you have never met..... about another person you have never met..... as gospel!!!

people seem to use veri's as a crutch and as substitute for using good old fashioned basic common sense a lot of the time

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly. .good point well made. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. .good point well made. .."
you need to use the quote to let the person know who you are replying too

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Exactly. .good point well made. .. you need to use the quote to let the person know who you are replying too

It was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. .good point well made. .. you need to use the quote to let the person know who you are replying too

It was me

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or me

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Exactly. .good point well made. .. you need to use the quote to let the person know who you are replying too

It was me

or me

No it was definitely me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. .good point well made. .. you need to use the quote to let the person know who you are replying too

It was me

or me

No it was definitely me.

It certainly wasn't me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. .good point well made. .. you need to use the quote to let the person know who you are replying too

It was me

or me

No it was definitely me.

It certainly wasn't me

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could of been you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to show mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly. .good point well made. .. you need to use the quote to let the person know who you are replying too

It was me

or me

No it was definitely me.

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I'm not sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I choose not to show mine "
me too at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one meet tell me to piss off back to the north pole. Still; proves I'm real huh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

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you was not bad. You just need to move a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

you was not bad. You just need to move a bit

Now you tell me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

you was not bad. You just need to move a bit

Now you tell me!

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well I did try and wake you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I choose not to show mine "

Too much curry and garlic bread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

you was not bad. You just need to move a bit

Now you tell me!

well I did try and wake you up

But you didn't pull me nightie down when you'd finished!

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By *evilish_swingerMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Hi there!

I sometimes wonder myself whether displaying too many verifications could put people off, so I was also thinking about keeping them hidden.

But, they can also be advantageous in showing other potential couples that I am in fact genuine and not on here to mess people around.

It's a tricky one...nice subject!

Happy Swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

you was not bad. You just need to move a bit

Now you tell me!

well I did try and wake you up

But you didn't pull me nightie down when you'd finished!"
you seemed so peaceful I did not want to disturb you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

you was not bad. You just need to move a bit

Now you tell me!

well I did try and wake you up

But you didn't pull me nightie down when you'd finished! you seemed so peaceful I did not want to disturb you x"

Such a gentleman

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some people do seem to manage to verify themselves really, what with all the 'she took my huge cock 17 times and made me come 8 times as i made her gush for England with my immaculate oral technique' bollocks...

They never need to be graphic, in my opinion, but there you go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

you was not bad. You just need to move a bit

Now you tell me!

well I did try and wake you up

But you didn't pull me nightie down when you'd finished! you seemed so peaceful I did not want to disturb you x

Such a gentleman

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and this is why I have good veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and make my veris a bit different. More of an in joke with the recipient. And I never go into the mechanics of a meet. Only so many variations of that...so much more to say about a person. A veri says as much about the writer as the subject..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hide all mine cos they all tell Fab I'm a shite shag

you was not bad. You just need to move a bit

Now you tell me!

well I did try and wake you up

But you didn't pull me nightie down when you'd finished! you seemed so peaceful I did not want to disturb you x

Such a gentleman

and this is why I have good veris

Ha ha!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I try to read between the lines to see some clues to what they are really like. I hate the ones that advertise more about the person writing them and their ego, and the ones that give to much away - but often they do give away the dynamic between the people who met - tongue in cheek, fun, boring or whatever .... I think they are interesting to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know yourself if it was a good or bad meet, so if you have had good meet it is nice to get a good veri x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find them a bit tacky especially all the graphic details.

If any man compared my mouth to a Dyson I'd be offended

I've got 3 which are all social. Not sure they give much away really.

I also think they can cause more hassles and drama's than they are worth.

Lastly you should never believe all you read

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've had bad meets I just don't verify them or meet them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had bad meets I just don't verify them or meet them again"

This is the same as us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't believe a word of them .

We've got loads that say how nice we are , when really we are a pair of miserable fuckers .

We happily do all we can to ensure we make every meet as unpleasant as we can , yet still keep getting good veri's .

So there you have it , they're all lies I say

we try the same tactics plus not washing for s few days before and we still get good ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just settle for a veri lol

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

At some point verifications seem to have become re_iews not verifications.

The content of them is pointless, they to some extent verify that two parties met - but if abused some of them may even not mean that. I have no problem writing nice things about people I have fun with but if someone pressurises me to verify it's a turn off.

I don't push for veris as documenting my full fabs sexual history benefits who exactly?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I'm very new to this scene. Looked at verifications and several points jumped out at me..

1 no one has bad meets or sex that is not good..

2 some fabswingers seem to collect verifications

3 seems to be a way for exes to see who ex is now shagging and send fb messages and friend add...

4 tracker on who is shagging who..really not interested...

5 So I am not going to display anymore verifications...

6 What is other fabswingers _iews on this? "

Do NOT; I repeat, do NOT ever meet anyone who is verified by tons of people

Verifications can only ever mean one of he two things:

1) she is either a fake and everyone who has veified her are fakes too

2) she is just a hussy and an easy lay; not 'marriage material' or a virgin, which is afterall, what you are looking for

Always, always try and meet women who have been on this site for years but don't have a single verification; they are the only real ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why can't we just have a met In person list with a date which is sent by the other person just like a verification at least it shows if weve been active or not and even if everyone didn't hit it off at least we can still say we've met in person to be polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't need to be a good or bad report, just there to show who is genuine and actually turn up as who they say they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opening ourselves up here but...

Verifications are whatever you want them to be for us they are either mini re_iews of our club night or play date verifications, both we like for obvious reasons, those with the opinion verifications are there to just show someone is real and turned up mmm not sure that's written in the fabswingers rule book x

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

"They don't need to be a good or bad report, just there to show who is genuine and actually turn up as who they say they are"

Yes exactly a verification... But they have become re_iews to some. I've almost been told what to write before (rest assured they got no veri at all).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people use veris to see what the person is like or what they are into , if someone does not like veris just don't read them. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 some fabswingers seem to collect verifications"

I can't help it, I'm like a verification magpie!

But seriously, I enjoy meeting interesting new people, and having lots of verifications at least shows people whom I've yet to meet, that they'll hopefully enjoy my company if they decide they'd like to get together sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't need to be a good or bad report, just there to show who is genuine and actually turn up as who they say they are

Yes exactly a verification... But they have become re_iews to some. I've almost been told what to write before (rest assured they got no veri at all).

I see a verification as being a means of proving you're genuine, turn up and are who you say you are. I don't see them as a means to leave a re_iew on sexual performance or to show what a great person YOU are as the verifier (e.g. I shudder at all these 'treat her well guys' bobbins).

And of course they are important to some of us as many prospective meets are not interested unless you have veri's on your profile (some insist on multiple and / or very recent veri's too)

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

My theory is that sex is a bit like driving. Everyone thinks that they are brilliant at it when in reality some are shit at it, most are ok at it, and some are great at it.

We aren't really interested in the content of the veris, as has been said above, no one would probably bother writing a crap one because it is unlikely it would get displayed. We would sometimes look at what kind of people they have met (men, women, couples, TV/TS), what kind of veris they are (cam, social or play) and most importantly is when was their last meet. If it was 2 years ago, they we suspect that they are unlikely to actually meet us, if it was 4 weeks ago, much more likely that they are currently active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at your number 1 then look at mine

Nice to have you back, I've missed your "wisdom" in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave one verification on so that it's clear I'm genuine and verified, I hide everything else. It doesn't hurt to be discreet even if someone has verified you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hide mine. Not into drama or people knowing my sexual business.

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