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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When do you think is the right time to explain your boundaries?

If you're meeting someone at a club or swing resort and you start flirting of chatting and the chemistry seems right I think you should be quick to inform if you're just into soft swap or if it's girl-girl only etc.

It is so disappointing to start getting busy and find out half way through play that their rules aren't the same as yours.

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soon as you chat about sex is the time, saves the mess about if you dont match

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I think that the responsibility lies with both parties to work that out before its too late and someone is unintentionally offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The slap in the kisser should be your final warning,anything up to that is foreplay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suspect it may also be done intentionally.

IE soft swap couples will not say it upfront out of fear of rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"I suspect it may also be done intentionally.

IE soft swap couples will not say it upfront out of fear of rejection. "

I think it's still each persons responsibility,If you don't like soft swap then you need to say you prefer full,I wouldn't expect someone else to know what I wanted unless I told them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect it may also be done intentionally.

IE soft swap couples will not say it upfront out of fear of rejection.

I think it's still each persons responsibility,If you don't like soft swap then you need to say you prefer full,I wouldn't expect someone else to know what I wanted unless I told them "

Agreed, it's just that sometimes everything happens rather quickly and there isn't a right time to say " unless you're DTF we're not interested" ??

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