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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother with Skype prefer chat first then meet face to face first for coffee etc and if we both click then the real fun starts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a dont skype no more

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I only chat on Skype and occasionally video to prove identity, but not for titillation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately fab is 99.9% blokes.... we can be very unimaginative when horny..

Keep going and be ruthless with the block button.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I personally don't really go for the cam thing at all, but it sounds like you need to lower your expectations of those on the site.

Although there are loads of truly great folk on the site, if you expect the majority of blokes to be crass, demanding and just looking for a zero effort thrill, you are much less likely to be disappointed when they are.... you'll even be pleasantly surprised when some of the better guys come along.

Realistically, I expect an attractive lady like yourself to have no problem finding guys, it's just a matter of getting your filters right.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same? "

Yes,I feel you are having a dreadful experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to use webcam or Skype. I do have kik and used to have whatsapp until it was bought out by facebook. Something else I don't do! Personally camming does nothing for me and I tend to ignore profiles if all their verifications are via webcam.

Much prefer to meet people, is that not what we are all here for? Or most of us anyway.

Sorry to hear of your experience op, but apart from verifying whether someone is male or female, I don't see the point. Just points to timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes many men will.

Put a line in your profile saying that you won't Skype, Kik or WhatsApp and that you prefer all contact to be on here. It won't stop them asking but you can refer them to it if they whinge.

I find that the ones who want to swap lots of pics and sexts generally are busy wanking and once they've got their rocks off don't want to meet. I don't mind swapping stuff with people I've met but then it's sexy anticipation of the next meet for me as well.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

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Three sentences does seem like a lot, I agree. Maybe you're attracting the shy ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its fun how you stereotype, instead type some men in your heading, we are not all the same lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its fun how you stereotype, instead type some men in your heading, we are not all the same lol."

Maybe it sounds like that but I do not, want to see true reaction and answers, although I do not believe anybody until they prove themselves to me personally you can't trust anybody these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Three sentences does seem like a lot, I agree. Maybe you're attracting the shy ones?"

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to sort your way of interacting with men out on here.

I don't webcam full stop & only skype if I'm due to meet the person or have met & we both are up for fun. Wank fodder springs to mind otherwise!

Message and get to know someone a little better 1st & that should help.

Good luck x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've never done the cam thing either on Skype or in the chatroom. It's not my thing at all. I used to do it once in a blue moon on another site but usually for an occasion with the rest of the chat ops. I feel like a dick on cam.

I certainly wouldn't be showing my bits off via cam... there are way too many chins and spare tyres to hold in.

I guess you gotta find a way that works for you. After this mornings chat in the forums it really is clear that we all have all sorts of methods that work for us.

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same? "

Nope. Cybersex doesn't do anything for me. I wouldn't even entertain the idea, as I prefer the real thing in the flesh.

Some guys are only after a cheap thrill, whereas I want real meets. Thus I keep it above board, but with a hint of flirtiness without being too vulgar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Three sentences does seem like a lot, I agree. Maybe you're attracting the shy ones?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same? "
be totally ruthless with the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its fun how you stereotype, instead type some men in your heading, we are not all the same lol.

Maybe it sounds like that but I do not, want to see true reaction and answers, although I do not believe anybody until they prove themselves to me personally you can't trust anybody these days "

I tend to stick to the forums initially. ..you can get a better feel for the person on a random subject and how they interact with others...rather than some who should probably have some personal time before they start messaging. You can work out if you have other points of commonality and things to talk about...unless you want a social where the guy keeps looking at his watch, timing how long before you drop your knickers haha

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block & do the searching. Go at your pace then

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I've had this too a few times so always refuse to Skype. I go in chatrooms but I like to be in control and lead the way.

It usually ends up with me being gawped at and they move the cam up to their face..

I just find it a turn off when youre expecting a bit of flirting..the rest is extra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same? "

OK my personal opinion is if I have set up a Skype chat for fun then maybe I would be cheeky and ask for some flashing that early on , but if it was a get to know you chat skype I would be dressed chilled and cam at my face not my nether regions .

Not all people can distinguish between naughty skypes and a god get to know you chat .

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By *psidaisiMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same? "

Sure I do it every time then display front and back to show they are nice and clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately fab is 99.9% blokes.... we can be very unimaginative when horny..

Keep going and be ruthless with the block button. "

speak for yourself thanks. Im very imaginative when horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Skype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 4 scentences are best before stripping

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

No I wouldn't, but then I wouldn't ask anyone else to either...We aren't all the same on here, or indeed in the world...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same? "

It's hard but unfortunately it's how sites like this work and with men in the majority. You will find you get a lot of arseholes. But there's a saying (if there isn't I'm saying it anyway because it sounds clever) you have to look through a lot of pebbles before you find a gem. So good luck with what you're looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same? "

How is it possible for a single woman to have a dreadful experience on fab ?

Perhaps it's what you are seeking that's causing it .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you go on Skype and take your knickers,boxers etc. after three bloody sentences?

Having such a dreadful experience here, anyone else feeling the same? "

Block single men and search for yourself. We recommend this to many of our single female friends, it stops the flood gates opening

If you're only looking for real meets, why Skype anyway? The Web cam wankers are only looking to get off, you can either accept that it's purely instant gratification and you're not going to be woo'd or don't interact that way..

And seeing as you only meet with your partner, get a couples profile, that may cut down on some of the traffic

Other than that, I'm sorry you're having a bad experience, it is a bit of a jungle in here for single females...

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By *atsuinohadoMan
over a year ago

Southampton

After 3 sentences. No chance! I would exchange a few messages and chat on cam or the phone first to see if we get on. Meet up for a drink and take it from there.

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