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Females or Males from Couples Posts/Status's?

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By *anzell OP   Man
over a year ago

Essex

Hi everyone,

Just wanted to see what others thought of this...

I see quite a few status's/posts along the lines of

'I am away with the girls and I want my hubby/BF looked after/sucked off/whatever it might be...'

Basically what im trying to say is...Are they really the female half posting that do you think or the fellas trying to get there nuts wet being sneaky!!!

Interesting to see your thoughts on this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably pretending to be female lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few messages from couples profiles claiming to be the female half looking for a shag for their fella, some of them are even verified by people meeting them as a couple so I can only assum some women do look for women for their fellas

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

My hubby has full permission to play when he is working away but because people think he's cheating it has never happened

Minnie x

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Hi everyone,

Just wanted to see what others thought of this...

I see quite a few status's/posts along the lines of

'I am away with the girls and I want my hubby/BF looked after/sucked off/whatever it might be...'

Basically what im trying to say is...Are they really the female half posting that do you think or the fellas trying to get there nuts wet being sneaky!!!

Interesting to see your thoughts on this..."

We think most of the time it is the husband posting, or maybe even a single guy.

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple
over a year ago

North West

We have this on our profile - I am the female of the couple and am the one who sends the messages and replies to them. We have found that most people think it's the Mr just fooling around which is why I always state I will happily verify all that is on the profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We are often approached by men whose wives are working away, on holiday, too busy or a number of other excuses and they all say that the women are fine with them meeting alone. They all also say that it isn't possible to contact her to verify this. So while as has been proved here there are couples who play this way none of the ones who have contacted us are genuinely among them so we tend to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ignore ones like this as unless we've met couple together we don't meet them alone as it's too much like a fake profile & a single male.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I get meets for my partner, and I go with him - usually this is with other bi males or with TVs - sometimes I join in, often I do not - depends on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have this on our profile - I am the female of the couple and am the one who sends the messages and replies to them. We have found that most people think it's the Mr just fooling around which is why I always state I will happily verify all that is on the profile "

My problem with this is if im meeting somebody I want to talk to the person I'm meeting not his wife, no offence ment but if I'm not meeting you why would I arrange the meet with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple and I usually do the posting. Very occasionally Mr K will post a status or send messages when I have my hands or mouth full

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We have this on our profile - I am the female of the couple and am the one who sends the messages and replies to them. We have found that most people think it's the Mr just fooling around which is why I always state I will happily verify all that is on the profile

My problem with this is if im meeting somebody I want to talk to the person I'm meeting not his wife, no offence ment but if I'm not meeting you why would I arrange the meet with you? "

We feel that way too the same goes with couples profiles where the man sets all the meets up because his wife doesn't want to be involved. Not for us we like everyone to be involved from the start.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

We are a couple that do play apart, but the chance of Mr ever getting a solo meet are virtually nil. If single men think its hard to get a meet, try being the male half of a couple and getting a meet!

I always think those kind of status posts are blokes pretending to be a couple. But i think they are actually making it HARDER for themselves to get a meet, rather than easier!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"We have this on our profile - I am the female of the couple and am the one who sends the messages and replies to them. We have found that most people think it's the Mr just fooling around which is why I always state I will happily verify all that is on the profile

My problem with this is if im meeting somebody I want to talk to the person I'm meeting not his wife, no offence ment but if I'm not meeting you why would I arrange the meet with you? "

I know not a response to me, but as we have a relationship dynamic where he does what I say - that works for us - but its mainly men he meets - likewise if he wants to meet a woman, he has to get my permission, but not many women can handle that for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't get involved

I have no interest in playing with other women's men even if they were genuine but the majority of the time I don't believe they have permission or are even part of a couple

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple
over a year ago

North West


"We have this on our profile - I am the female of the couple and am the one who sends the messages and replies to them. We have found that most people think it's the Mr just fooling around which is why I always state I will happily verify all that is on the profile

My problem with this is if im meeting somebody I want to talk to the person I'm meeting not his wife, no offence ment but if I'm not meeting you why would I arrange the meet with you? "

I understand that Mr C also talks to the said person however I usually make first contact just to verify he's not lying or playing away without my knowledge - if that makes sense. First and foremost we want everyone comfortable with the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a couple that do play apart, but the chance of Mr ever getting a solo meet are virtually nil. If single men think its hard to get a meet, try being the male half of a couple and getting a meet!

I always think those kind of status posts are blokes pretending to be a couple. But i think they are actually making it HARDER for themselves to get a meet, rather than easier!"

Exactly this.

I doubt anyone does it but if single men set up a fake couple profile in the hopes of getting more women are seriously going down the wrong road lol.

My wife is fine about 1on1 play and is happy to speak to any woman on phone or in person to verify it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have this on our profile - I am the female of the couple and am the one who sends the messages and replies to them. We have found that most people think it's the Mr just fooling around which is why I always state I will happily verify all that is on the profile "

See if we are going to meet separate this is how we would do it as I want tthe woman to talk with me too x

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I occasionally post statuses asking if anyone wants to meet up with my husband, mainly because it's me that does updates lol. Although they are aimed at people we have met previously. We wouldn't meet any half of a couple unless we had already met them together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

Just wanted to see what others thought of this...

I see quite a few status's/posts along the lines of

'I am away with the girls and I want my hubby/BF looked after/sucked off/whatever it might be...'

Basically what im trying to say is...Are they really the female half posting that do you think or the fellas trying to get there nuts wet being sneaky!!!

Interesting to see your thoughts on this..."
you missed tv/ts/cd out

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Hi everyone,

Just wanted to see what others thought of this...

I see quite a few status's/posts along the lines of

'I am away with the girls and I want my hubby/BF looked after/sucked off/whatever it might be...'

Basically what im trying to say is...Are they really the female half posting that do you think or the fellas trying to get there nuts wet being sneaky!!!

Interesting to see your thoughts on this..."

Some are probably 100% genuine, we've posted meets for only of us in the past.

What makes us slightly suspicious is when its the same profiles week after week. Some female halves never seem to be home.

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