FabSwingers.com forum: How many is too many?! Or is there such a thing?

By *eordie JoJo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just wondered what everyone's thoughts on ... Does it get to a point where someone has had too many meets?

Reason I mention it .... I've been here near on nearly 3 years in that time I've had around 60 meets (averaging 20 a year) .... I've kept the same profile so Neva deleted or recreated ... There are 2 Tgirls in my area who 1 although been here 4 months has racked up more meets than me as has the other ... Now for me (this is my own opinion) .. I won't meet lads who have met either of these 2 ... (Hard I know as unless verified you can't tell) and I know it's not match.com and I ain't no prude! ...

What's others takes on this? Do you have a limit for meets ?! ... But you can never measure it anyways due to people deleting and recreating new profiles and not verifing each other.

If there is such a thing .... What is too many meets?!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

To be fair I have quite a lot of meets but they don't all verify me as I prefer a few regular friends with benefits as opposed to loads of one offs, but I don't think there's a right or wrong answer here as its a case of each to their own

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By *eordie JoJo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

"To be fair I have quite a lot of meets but they don't all verify me as I prefer a few regular friends with benefits as opposed to loads of one offs, but I don't think there's a right or wrong answer here as its a case of each to their own "

Yeah sure ... I agree but even if was ... It could never be monitored therefore Neva measured due to too many variables but I have heard people mention they wouldn't meet them as they've met half the site but guess they are just the honest ones as in ... Evidencing it

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

As long as you are happy, no need to stop, so no such thing as too many meets. Keep being safe and keep enjoying and, hey......you choose who YOU want and let the others worry.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We got married very young Swinging for 36 years we have no idea how many meets we have had had some great one,s bad one,s and a few funny one,s which are fun now but not at the time.

As long as your happy no problem

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By *eordie JoJo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

"As long as you are happy, no need to stop, so no such thing as too many meets. Keep being safe and keep enjoying and, hey......you choose who YOU want and let the others worry."

I think deep down we all are somewhat stereotypical ... Or should I say at least I am

... As depending on who lads have met depends on if in interested. And yeah double standards for me ... As I expect I can play with anyone yet I do judge (rightly or wrongly) but I'm also honest and say it how it is

I can't surely be the only one on here who has that mind set

or am I haha

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Somebody whose opinion I trust advised me not to display all of mine so I only display those that give a consistent testimony t and certainly don't repeat any from the same people.

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