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Why wink if no interest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sick of getting people winking us and then you send message or wink back and nothing, my question is why bother if your not interested just a complete waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people wink back to be polite, if we wink and get a wink back we would say hi on a message and take it from there.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Don't wink, problem solved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people wink back to be polite, if we wink and get a wink back we would say hi on a message and take it from there."

Thing is they wink first not us so why even bother?, we are the ones being polite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's the point it's not us winking it's others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smartphones and fat fingers?

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"That's the point it's not us winking it's others."
could be they hit the wrong button or are winking to say they like what they see

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Some people wink back to be polite, if we wink and get a wink back we would say hi on a message and take it from there.

Thing is they wink first not us so why even bother?, we are the ones being polite."

Maybe they do it accidentally. It's easily done on the desktop app. Or they use winking differently to you. Maybe they wink to show they like your photos or profile but don't actually want to meet.

Who knows?

Fab is full of such mysteries. Shrug and move on or you can drive yourself crazy wondering why people do what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sick of getting people winking us and then you send message or wink back and nothing, my question is why bother if your not interested just a complete waste of time."

your pix are hot, just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few messages saying "thanks for the wink", but neither of us have knowingly sent one. Does the site send out random winks from you? We've also received them from people at the other end of the country and wasn't sure if they were random winks or due to posting on the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found winks to be a complete waste of time, nothing's ever come from them so we now just delete them on sight. Every now and then we'll wink back, did a couple winks back yesterday just to see and nothing.

If people don't like us enough to message us then it won't lead anywhere anyway.

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By *hazkiandCouple
over a year ago

crawley

I think sometimes its one partner likes the profile and then the other say's no when they see it! But it drive's me nuts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive winked in the past accidentally as my stupid phone clicks that rather than send a message! x

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"We've found winks to be a complete waste of time, nothing's ever come from them so we now just delete them on sight. Every now and then we'll wink back, did a couple winks back yesterday just to see and nothing.

If people don't like us enough to message us then it won't lead anywhere anyway."

And yet that's not my experience at all. Have fwb that started with a wink back at the start of the year

Also had social meets that have led somewhere and social meets that didn't go any further, that all began as winks

Guess it's the world of fab, we all use it in different ways and get different outcomes as a result

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

People wink to show there interested , then they may get a wink or mail back and take it from there , i reply to winks and messages .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I winked and fabbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've winked many people by accident and sent friend requests oops

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

easy mistake when tired or distracted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Smartphones and fat fingers?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sick of getting people winking us and then you send message or wink back and nothing, my question is why bother if your not interested just a complete waste of time.

your pix are hot, just saying "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha,, had some bad time with them winks,, ignore them now ,, have sent some by mistake though,, I think it ask you to confirm now that you want to send one, so it's not so easily done

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Think we all get hundreds every day we take no notice it,s hard enough trying to get back to every one that messages you

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I wink a person if I like their profile, it saves .e and them writing a message and them reading a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't wink, problem solved "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wink a person if I like their profile, it saves .e and them writing a message and them reading a message."

At least you're interested in communicating with the person you're winking. Others who wink aren't interested in communicating at all.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have met some lovely couple from a wink.

If we wink it is because we like the profile and would be interested in meeting. If we get a wink back then we send an email. We never send winks to those to far away to meet but have done by accident it easily done on fab. Either way we don't get hung up on those who wink back but then delete our email it shows they were just being polite.

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