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By *aaLaa OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontesbury

I've loved my time on FAB, met some great guys and had some stunning meets, but it occurs to me that whilst the sex has been physically good and exactly what I needed in my life, there has rarely been much passion in it.

So my question is, is it just me? Do all you other swingers feel the erotic passion flowing through you when having sex with a partner you only met an hour or so before? Or is NSA sex missing that tingle of emotional connection?

Or am I just overthinking things at 1am........

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've had some remarkably passionate experiences with some I've met on here. NSA doesn't mean there isn't the chance of that intensity; however fleeting. I may have just been lucky in that respect but I think passion is entirely possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some remarkably passionate experiences with some I've met on here. NSA doesn't mean there isn't the chance of that intensity; however fleeting. I may have just been lucky in that respect but I think passion is entirely possible."

Agree, agree, agree!

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I experience passion only once on of my meets

an the other meets have been social s .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet younger guys, that's my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet younger guys, that's my advice. "

Disagree, disagree, disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. I struggle with this too. I find that there is excitement but rarely passion or even lust.

I'm not sure if its me because I refuse to connect with people and keep quite a distance from a meet or if it's come from the fact that I kept hoping for it and after several years of expecting it and it not happening that I just blanked off and enjoy the sex for sex and the experiences. I get passion from the couples or group meets as I am with my partner but I find that without it being a shared adventure there is no passion for me. He is very passionate with others xx and I love to watch it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've loved my time on FAB, met some great guys and had some stunning meets, but it occurs to me that whilst the sex has been physically good and exactly what I needed in my life, there has rarely been much passion in it.

So my question is, is it just me? Do all you other swingers feel the erotic passion flowing through you when having sex with a partner you only met an hour or so before? Or is NSA sex missing that tingle of emotional connection?

Or am I just overthinking things at 1am........ "
Love passion..i do!

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By *aaLaa OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontesbury

Exactly this, and I think you worded it much better than I did.

I've been avoiding younger guys to be honest, maybe I should give that a try.

I was thinking of trying a group social, but there not in my area and I'm very rarely free at weekends so this isn't very likely.

Oh well, I'll just have to keep enjoying the physical workout I get from meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some remarkably passionate experiences with some I've met on here. NSA doesn't mean there isn't the chance of that intensity; however fleeting. I may have just been lucky in that respect but I think passion is entirely possible."

Totally agree. I dont look for rushed meetings. I like to establish a connection and lose myself with the other party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op. I struggle with this too. I find that there is excitement but rarely passion or even lust.

I'm not sure if its me because I refuse to connect with people and keep quite a distance from a meet or if it's come from the fact that I kept hoping for it and after several years of expecting it and it not happening that I just blanked off and enjoy the sex for sex and the experiences. I get passion from the couples or group meets as I am with my partner but I find that without it being a shared adventure there is no passion for me. He is very passionate with others xx and I love to watch it x "

Agree. It's totally different (much better) enjoying it with a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of related to the frequent "kissing" threads. There's little point for me unless there's passion. I'm not one for cold fuck n go's, there's got to be connection, attraction, anticipation. I think all this breeds passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some remarkably passionate experiences with some I've met on here. NSA doesn't mean there isn't the chance of that intensity; however fleeting. I may have just been lucky in that respect but I think passion is entirely possible."

this.

Iv have experienced meets with no passion though, but learnt from those ones

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I thought I had had passionate meets until I met Mr who is now my partner ...there's something about a special connection on all levels that makes it so much more passionate and intense and everything rolled into one. Nothing else comes close. When we met, we were both at a point you seem to allude to, OP, yes well, but .... this is sort of yawn .... where next and for what ... now I don't feel that in any way, just the warm glow that gets hot very often ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I had had passionate meets until I met Mr who is now my partner ...there's something about a special connection on all levels that makes it so much more passionate and intense and everything rolled into one. Nothing else comes close. When we met, we were both at a point you seem to allude to, OP, yes well, but .... this is sort of yawn .... where next and for what ... now I don't feel that in any way, just the warm glow that gets hot very often ..."

Couldn't agree more with this. When I met my fuck buddy, God the sex was electrifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I had had passionate meets until I met Mr who is now my partner ...there's something about a special connection on all levels that makes it so much more passionate and intense and everything rolled into one. Nothing else comes close. When we met, we were both at a point you seem to allude to, OP, yes well, but .... this is sort of yawn .... where next and for what ... now I don't feel that in any way, just the warm glow that gets hot very often ..."

Couldn't agree more with this. When I met my fuck buddy, God the sex was electrifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet younger guys, that's my advice.

Disagree, disagree, disagree "

Most passionate, long sessions, i've had on here were with guys in their early 20s.

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By *olyCheshireCatMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Passion is essential to me, I find it comes from having an intellectual/emotional connection - which sex is pretty pointless without imo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my sexual meets have been quite passionate especially the last one or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Passion is essential to me, I find it comes from having an intellectual/emotional connection - which sex is pretty pointless without imo!"

Absolutely! A meet would be completely unsatisfactory without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's okay saying you want passion but I've met loads of guys and simply they are mostly interested in getting sex ...

One of the reasons I now prefer to watch Mr play a lot is because he is so passionate with whoever he is with... And that excites me as I know I'm unlikely to get passion from any one but him x

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