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putting it about ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just got a message saying 'you put it about too much' I was a little shocked to be honest.

I've only met several coupes and 2 single ladies, and half those were repeat meetings through socials ? I'm quite selective and certainly not a slag !

I'd be interested to know what other people genuinely think ?

You'll need to see the veri's to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore , sounds like jealousy . Nice profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, yeah just ignore them.

They might be worried about STIs or just want someone to themselves, but don't worry about it because loads of people on here like sex and 'put it about'.

I'm sure if you had no veris then some people would reject you for that too. Can't win them all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely sounds like jealousy.

Carry on doing what makes you happy

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By *oasted cheese sandwichMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Practise makes perfect !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swing site multiple sexual partners equals lots of verifications.

I don't see the problem with putting it about as long as you are safe and get tested regularly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just got a message saying 'you put it about too much' I was a little shocked to be honest.

I've only met several coupes and 2 single ladies, and half those were repeat meetings through socials ? I'm quite selective and certainly not a slag !

I'd be interested to know what other people genuinely think ?

You'll need to see the veri's to judge."

I genuinely think that whoever said that should have added "for us". If you're happy with how you play and the amount of people you meet what the hells it got to do with anybody else?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Christ, just looked at your profile, god knows what they would have made of ours lol!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Christ, just looked at your profile, god knows what they would have made of ours lol! "

Lol! that made me laugh

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I don't need to see your veris.

Do what suits you. If someone doesn't like what you do, they are free not to meet you.

Ignore them, or report it if it's abusive.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Some are put off by so many veri's in such a short time.

you could just keep the latest veri from each person, or you could just leave things as they are.

Either way, i guess you are the winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's the most shocking message you've ever had then you're lucky! Who cares what complete strangers think, if you're having fun then carry on doing what you want and sod them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on over a year.....summary says 11 meets. Hardly what I would call excessive!

God help me if they looked at my profile.....I would be walking round with a bell and an escort warning people to keep clear lol.......probably just pure jealousy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got a message saying 'you put it about too much' I was a little shocked to be honest.

I've only met several coupes and 2 single ladies, and half those were repeat meetings through socials ? I'm quite selective and certainly not a slag !

I'd be interested to know what other people genuinely think ?

You'll need to see the veri's to judge."

I have had the same a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got a message saying 'you put it about too much' I was a little shocked to be honest.

I've only met several coupes and 2 single ladies, and half those were repeat meetings through socials ? I'm quite selective and certainly not a slag !

I'd be interested to know what other people genuinely think ?

You'll need to see the veri's to judge."

Why do you feel the need to defend yourself? It's no one's business but your own,tell them to jog on.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If your 16 meets is overdoing it, OP, how many did your judgmental correspondent have?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you lovely people ! What support !! I'm a little too sensitive for my own good. Lol

Happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you lovely people ! What support !! I'm a little too sensitive for my own good. Lol

Happy swinging. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a wish i could put it about a lot more, fek em go for it, meet who you want when you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great Profile.

Great Photos.

Ignore them.

Carry on enjoying as you are.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

There's nowt as strange as folk hun and that goes double on here! I think your profile is great. No way does it come across as 'putting it about' just the opposite as you've met the same couples repeatedly? I'm starting to believe that some sad individuals on here just like sending nasty messages. I had one say that my profile was too much about me? Just hit the block button hun and don't cast them a second thought x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Could be the person is jealous that you have met someone that has turned them down.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Sod em dear. You've a decent profile and if they're being judgemental (on a damn swinging site) then they're in the wrong place, not you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who messages someone to criticize, judge, slag off or whatever is bloody sad and needs to get a life. Ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We giggle when people say this to us.. Got called a slut once in a not nice way by another lady at a Greedy girl event ( you would think that they wouldnt be judgemental seeing as they were there for the same thing) anyway. I thanked her.

Just ignore them, thank them and move on x

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By *lack Shoe Red SoulCouple
over a year ago

North Hampshire

Isn't that what it's all about though?!? It's certainly not about being monogamous is it!!!

Just ignore the petty minded people and block them just to be sure

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