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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have bedposts as it's a divan bed. Does that make me a perpetual virgin?

sorry that wasnt very helpful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?

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We have quality not quantity on our profile.. for us its not about a number, I suppose it means something a little different to everyone who puts/reads it on a profile. For us its about the people we meet. we really look for those that we are comfortable in each others company. We also really enjoy the social side. for example there are plenty of people who we would think 'yes'. and based on appearance, we find you sexually attractive.' but there other aspects.. how they interact with us, can they excite the mind as well? do we share common expectations etc. For me especially, how they interact with S is a major factor.because her comfort and enjoyment is very important to me. we've politely declined a few based on how they've interacted with us whilst thinking its such a shame. but that's were the quality not quantity part comes in. ( for us anyway) But everyone will have their own interpretation of what it means..

Jason

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"at what number do meets become a notch or quantity?

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When only a toothpick is holding up your matress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?

We have quality not quantity on our profile.. for us its not about a number, I suppose it means something a little different to everyone who puts/reads it on a profile. For us its about the people we meet. we really look for those that we are comfortable in each others company. We also really enjoy the social side. for example there are plenty of people who we would think 'yes'. and based on appearance, we find you sexually attractive.' but there other aspects.. how they interact with us, can they excite the mind as well? do we share common expectations etc. For me especially, how they interact with S is a major factor.because her comfort and enjoyment is very important to me. we've politely declined a few based on how they've interacted with us whilst thinking its such a shame. but that's were the quality not quantity part comes in. ( for us anyway) But everyone will have their own interpretation of what it means..

Jason"

So it's not "quality not quantity " it's "if we like you we'll meet you"

As quantity is not seemingly an issue for you.

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman
over a year ago

Northwest


"I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?

We have quality not quantity on our profile.. for us its not about a number, I suppose it means something a little different to everyone who puts/reads it on a profile. For us its about the people we meet. we really look for those that we are comfortable in each others company. We also really enjoy the social side. for example there are plenty of people who we would think 'yes'. and based on appearance, we find you sexually attractive.' but there other aspects.. how they interact with us, can they excite the mind as well? do we share common expectations etc. For me especially, how they interact with S is a major factor.because her comfort and enjoyment is very important to me. we've politely declined a few based on how they've interacted with us whilst thinking its such a shame. but that's were the quality not quantity part comes in. ( for us anyway) But everyone will have their own interpretation of what it means..

Jason"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as I said.. everyone has their own interpretation of quality.. for example how would you define it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as I said.. everyone has their own interpretation of quality.. for example how would you define it?"
A pulse lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not notches,,,,its teeth marks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not notches,,,,its teeth marks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy a quantity of quality .

Despite having over 260 meets in 8 months we are as discerning as anyone else on here . We know what floats our boat at any given time and always get that . A rough estimate of playing with10% of offers is our meet criteria .

For example we may feel.like meeting couples one week , single bi females another , guys and tv's another .Or any mix come to that .

What gets us pissed off is the assumption that we will play with anyone and everyone .... far from it .

We will happily stick to enjoying a quantity of quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't veris become repetitive as everyone will say they had a great time tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't veris become repetitive as everyone will say they had a great time tho?"

They didn't on my single profile

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

I'm trying to get so many notches my bed will be whittled from a double bed to a single bed do my OH has to sleep on top of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't veris become repetitive as everyone will say they had a great time tho?

They didn't on my single profile "
lol good point there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't veris become repetitive as everyone will say they had a great time tho?

They didn't on my single profile "

Aww.

Ryan did though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't veris become repetitive as everyone will say they had a great time tho?

They didn't on my single profile

Aww.

Ryan did though. "

Haha

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I see quite a few profiles with 'quality not quantity' and 'not after notches on a bedpost' at what number do meets become a notch or quantity? How many different meets a month?

We have quality not quantity on our profile.. for us its not about a number, I suppose it means something a little different to everyone who puts/reads it on a profile. For us its about the people we meet. we really look for those that we are comfortable in each others company. We also really enjoy the social side. for example there are plenty of people who we would think 'yes'. and based on appearance, we find you sexually attractive.' but there other aspects.. how they interact with us, can they excite the mind as well? do we share common expectations etc. For me especially, how they interact with S is a major factor.because her comfort and enjoyment is very important to me. we've politely declined a few based on how they've interacted with us whilst thinking its such a shame. but that's were the quality not quantity part comes in. ( for us anyway) But everyone will have their own interpretation of what it means..

Jason"

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