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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What a minefield, NSA seems to mean different things to different people and can cause friction.

What does it mean to you?

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By *untime twoCouple
over a year ago

blackwood

To us it means No Strings Atached we put it in a message when we invite couples to ours for first meets and hope that they read it as we are not going to hold you to any thing.EG we are not exspecting you to play there and then if you want more time to think. Hope this makes sence have read couple times not sure lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".... Hope this makes sence have read couple times not sure lol"

Makes perfect sense but I would class that as having a meeting 'without obligation'. It just shows that people seem to have very different meanings when they say no strings.

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Definitely depends on the context it's used. We'd agree if it were a 'no strings' meet we'd think it was a meet socially then see how it goes. Obviously if you were talking in the context of play, we'd say NSA meant sex, probably without the possibility of a repeat performance..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

NSA... you arrive, you fuck, you vanish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means they’re not looking for muppets, sorry puppets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me NSA means that no demands should be made on each others time. You'll meet when you both have the motivation, inclination and time to spare.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Mutually respectful fun that has no obligation on either party to meet again unless BOTH want to.

and zero mindgames from either party.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"To me NSA means that no demands should be made on each others time. You'll meet when you both have the motivation, inclination and time to spare."

I agree with the odd phone call thrown in between meets. Thats all i ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it means we meet, play and then go our merry way. If you call to meet again and the other person is busy you so "no problem, let me know if you'd like to meet again" and you go about your business, no sulking or stalking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO SNOTTY ARSEHOLES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me it means a revolutionary tampon - its remote control, so all you have to do is put it on the top of your thigh and its programmed to head for the cervix - and it has a reversing action - brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means they’re not looking for muppets, sorry puppets "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NO SNOTTY ARSEHOLES"

oh fuck me ...nsa..thought we were talking about astronaughts.

get it now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Sex At all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me NSA means that no demands should be made on each others time. You'll meet when you both have the motivation, inclination and time to spare.

I agree with the odd phone call thrown in between meets. Thats all i ask"

Yeah the odd text or call is fine but no strops if the other can't speak or doesn't respond haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

N S A meens to me you are looking for sexy fun , a shag or whatever with no obligations towards one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No strings attached" is an idiom and, methinks, quite a graphic one.

do not tie me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well unless you are playing master and slave or something

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"To me NSA means that no demands should be made on each others time. You'll meet when you both have the motivation, inclination and time to spare.

I agree with the odd phone call thrown in between meets. Thats all i ask

Yeah the odd text or call is fine but no strops if the other can't speak or doesn't respond haha."

Wanting the odd text or call between meets is a string of sorts in my book... it's an expectation of something beyond/in addition to sex. I am not saying that is a bad thing... just that any form of friendship is a string of sorts as friendships involve degrees of obligation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Wanting the odd text or call between meets is a string of sorts in my book... it's an expectation of something beyond/in addition to sex. I am not saying that is a bad thing... just that any form of friendship is a string of sorts as friendships involve degrees of obligation."

I couldn't have put this any better. I also want to make clear that it's not a bad thing, but for some there does seem to be an expectation of some degree of 'friendship' or further involvement if the sex was good. This is a string, for some the 'innocent texts and calls can be too much. Again I'm not saying it's wrong in any way, but is it NSA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Polo too. I dont ever have anyones mobile number anyway. Chris does on occasions, but thats only for emergencies - if we are meeting someone in say Leeds and we might get lost, so we can text for directions, that kind of thing. We dont text to say hi to each other.

After a meet we will stay friends on fab, occasionally messaging, not regularly, but thats about it, I dont want any other contact than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA means to me - I don't want to marry you, move in with you, go for long country walks with you, stalk you through your phone, home address, work place.....it means no dramas!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think NSA exists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NSA... you arrive, you fuck, you vanish."

yep agree on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NSA... you arrive, you fuck, you vanish.

yep agree on this one "
me too gotta be the true meaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think NSA exists. "

I agree!...should better be called...'fewer strings attached'.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I prefer ropes to strings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer ropes to strings"

Ansd straps are better than ropes...but - that's a different story

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We arrange a meet, we meet, play, they go home and don't hear from each other until another meet is planned.

No one has our normal mobile numbers and can only get in touch on a play phone and so far we have picked right, as we get no one harrasing us as they think the same as us.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

For comfort, it has to be bondage tape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For comfort, it has to be bondage tape."

Comfortable bondage is a very sweet idea!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"For comfort, it has to be bondage tape.

Comfortable bondage is a very sweet idea!"

Well it works for me... I must be a sweet kinda gal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For comfort, it has to be bondage tape.

Comfortable bondage is a very sweet idea!

Well it works for me... I must be a sweet kinda gal."

I have no reason to doubt you are exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA means the freedom to have sexy fun with other people without being tied down to just one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck nd go

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