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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that when single guys message a couple most seem to presume they are talking to the female? Makes me laugh some of the stuff they come out with ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when single guys message a couple most seem to presume they are talking to the female? Makes me laugh some of the stuff they come out with ...."

It happens so much x and yes it can be amusing. X

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's always easy to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually cuz they've probably got their cock in their hand while texting

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Usually cuz they've probably got their cock in their hand while texting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually cuz they've probably got their cock in their hand while texting "

Ha, sussed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny, most guys who message us assume the are talking to Marc but always about me. Weird.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why speak to the man, of the house, when the monkey just wants his organ grinding...?

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

The number of mails saying "would love to f"ck you" and Mr responds with "who me?" Signed. It all goes quiet after that

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By *psidaisiMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"Why is it that when single guys message a couple most seem to presume they are talking to the female? Makes me laugh some of the stuff they come out with ...."

It seems easier to think that if you dwell on the possibility its only a single guy pretending to be a couple interest disappears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

start with Hi both and you cant really go too far wrong.

Whilst there are hurdles to getting a meet, if you trip it addressing a couple properly then you really have no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when single guys message a couple most seem to presume they are talking to the female? Makes me laugh some of the stuff they come out with ...."

I find it amusing when couples talk to me, they don't state which one is talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when single guys message a couple most seem to presume they are talking to the female? Makes me laugh some of the stuff they come out with ....

I find it amusing when couples talk to me, they don't state which one is talking."

We were really bad for that, just an oversight.as we're mostly on here via our phones, its habitual... getting better though started signing the messages.

Jason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it when couples reply...they rarely say which it is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when couples reply...they rarely say which it is? "

We always say who is talking on the forum (usually me) but in messages we usually sign off from both of us because we don't want anyone to think they are only meeting one of us. But we do put the name of the person who is actually responding first (so Marc and Courtney vs Courtney and Marc).

-Courtney

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By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Why speak to the man, of the house, when the monkey just wants his organ grinding...? "

This

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By *idscouple999Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Ah... Left handed surfing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when couples reply...they rarely say which it is? "

When we reply,the reply is as a couple,if someone wants to talk to one of us individually go find our single profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when couples reply...they rarely say which it is?

We always say who is talking on the forum (usually me) but in messages we usually sign off from both of us because we don't want anyone to think they are only meeting one of us. But we do put the name of the person who is actually responding first (so Marc and Courtney vs Courtney and Marc).

-Courtney"

That's a great way to do it and reminds people that they are talking to / meeting a couple. Hope you don't mind if we copy the idea

Jason

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Why is it when couples reply...they rarely say which it is?

When we reply,the reply is as a couple,if someone wants to talk to one of us individually go find our single profile."

Same for us, its usually me, pepper, but he does what I say, so same as saying it is both of us. We refer people to our single profiles if they want to talk to one of us as a single entity .... saying 'hi both' is a turn off for us, why not use someone's names at least?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when couples reply...they rarely say which it is?

We always say who is talking on the forum (usually me) but in messages we usually sign off from both of us because we don't want anyone to think they are only meeting one of us. But we do put the name of the person who is actually responding first (so Marc and Courtney vs Courtney and Marc).

-Courtney"

Admittedly some do put a xx which leads me to believe it's the female part.

I always try and refer to both in an opening message, unless it's in relation to a forum post and I reply privately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number of mails saying "would love to f"ck you" and Mr responds with "who me?" Signed. It all goes quiet after that "

Great photos, I wouldn't mind giving Princess my girth,..... But would be more than happy to watch Shrek do the job instead

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Why is it when couples reply...they rarely say which it is?

We always say who is talking on the forum (usually me) but in messages we usually sign off from both of us because we don't want anyone to think they are only meeting one of us. But we do put the name of the person who is actually responding first (so Marc and Courtney vs Courtney and Marc).

-Courtney

Admittedly some do put a xx which leads me to believe it's the female part.

I always try and refer to both in an opening message, unless it's in relation to a forum post and I reply privately. "

Interesting that the xx implies female as I never put it and have been pulled up on it. Guess I am not a xx kissey kissey female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not use common sense and if its a bloke asking for a fuck then let the wife read it instead of bawling on a forum about it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood why most couples profiles have just photos of the woman on it.

No wonder why single men think they're talking to the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not use common sense and if its a bloke asking for a fuck then let the wife read it instead of bawling on a forum about it.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the contrary I get sick of our couples profile getting constant messages of "you're a lucky man" or "your gf is sexy I'd love to spend a night with her"

Like 9/10 times I'm the one on fab chatting, the profile is even written in first person by me lol

Even this profile, because my profile text says I have a partner I get messages referring to him being good to let me play etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that when single guys message a couple most seem to presume they are talking to the female? Makes me laugh some of the stuff they come out with ...."

Welcome to a females world lol

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