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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Choke her while we fuck, nothing violent just a nice firm choke?

Any ladies like this and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choke her while we fuck, nothing violent just a nice firm choke?

Any ladies like this and why?"

Go straight to subspace, heaven

but only Master can do it to me, too many people don't understand the mechanics of doing it safely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex fuck bud loved that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it but in a way same as slave v says. I will only let one person do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies, I should add it's more of a pressing either side of the wind pipe with my fingers and thumbs than actually restricting the airways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love it but in a way same as slave v says. I will only let one person do it "

What do you get out of it if you don't mind me asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choke her while we fuck, nothing violent just a nice firm choke?

Any ladies like this and why?"

Power exchange makes me hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it but in a way same as slave v says. I will only let one person do it

What do you get out of it if you don't mind me asking?"

For me it's the power Master has over me.

We love throat play and breath play.

For me, I love it when it takes me by surprise, it's an almost instant orgasm. Definitely a trip to subspace, I often need more and more lol, but that's where Masters wisdom comes in, and he keeps me grounded, it's a high that I absolutely adore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but only with hubby so far, a certain amount of trust would have to be built with anyone else.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

there's a few different restraint positions that give an element of the control back to those receiving. It means that whilst yes, someone is exerting restraint / control over you, the positions themselves are such that it is them saying how much they can take. It's a different dynamic but still very much within PE

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it a couple of times recently and loved it at the time but not so much the day after. Probably don't know how to do it safely as it's something new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely "

I agree with this. I enjoy a firm hand on my throat (or anywhere else) during sex. But I have to trust the person, so it is Marc only for now

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is the key word here - too many people on the kinky scene think it is just about what you do to someone else that makes you a Dom or Master - it isn't, it is the mental connection that establishes the true dynamic - once a sub trusts then the power dynamic comes into play, and breath play is a significant part of that - for her "I have put myself into his hands completely" for him "she trusts me to do this" - and then of course we get into spanking and whipping and rope work and suspension and toys and all the wonderful things kink gives us!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being choked. Feels amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choke her while we fuck, nothing violent just a nice firm choke?

Any ladies like this and why?"

Yes, with the right guy and, the right moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust is the key word here - too many people on the kinky scene think it is just about what you do to someone else that makes you a Dom or Master - it isn't, it is the mental connection that establishes the true dynamic - once a sub trusts then the power dynamic comes into play, and breath play is a significant part of that - for her "I have put myself into his hands completely" for him "she trusts me to do this" - and then of course we get into spanking and whipping and rope work and suspension and toys and all the wonderful things kink gives us!! "

Sometimes it's just about the activities. Sure, you have to have a base level of trust, but you don't have to achieve 'deep and meaningful'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust is the key word here - too many people on the kinky scene think it is just about what you do to someone else that makes you a Dom or Master - it isn't, it is the mental connection that establishes the true dynamic - once a sub trusts then the power dynamic comes into play, and breath play is a significant part of that - for her "I have put myself into his hands completely" for him "she trusts me to do this" - and then of course we get into spanking and whipping and rope work and suspension and toys and all the wonderful things kink gives us!!

Sometimes it's just about the activities. Sure, you have to have a base level of trust, but you don't have to achieve 'deep and meaningful'."

I still think there has to be that mental spark otherwise the acts are just that - acts. I have switched and for me, as a sub being done to if it was just by someone casually met it did not carry the same zing as with someone I knew and trusted and was hugely attracted to.

Each to their own I guess!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

I enjoy it but my bf worries when I start turning blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only done this twice with my ex. The rush was crazy! A bit frightening at first. Never wanted it to be 'a thing' so not done it since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely

This "

Mmmmm Classy and Sassy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely

This

Mmmmm Classy and Sassy xx "

Yes ? Lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

As well as loving it myself I have held a man this way while I was on top. It took us both by surprise...in a good way of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely

This

Mmmmm Classy and Sassy xx

Yes ? Lol "

Was just loving your post and then that got me thinking and looking at your profile and then I had to go and have a lie down in a dark room with a cold flannel (kinky I know) ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely

This

Mmmmm Classy and Sassy xx

Yes ? Lol

Was just loving your post and then that got me thinking and looking at your profile and then I had to go and have a lie down in a dark room with a cold flannel (kinky I know) ... "

Lol wanting my hand around your throat ??

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By *biza007Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Choke her and look into each other eyes while we fuck ???

OMG ... one of the best thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely

This

Mmmmm Classy and Sassy xx

Yes ? Lol

Was just loving your post and then that got me thinking and looking at your profile and then I had to go and have a lie down in a dark room with a cold flannel (kinky I know) ...

Lol wanting my hand around your throat ??"

Well that and of course vice versa too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely

This

Mmmmm Classy and Sassy xx

Yes ? Lol

Was just loving your post and then that got me thinking and looking at your profile and then I had to go and have a lie down in a dark room with a cold flannel (kinky I know) ...

Lol wanting my hand around your throat ??

Well that and of course vice versa too xx "

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Has anyone ever gone Too Far? had someone pass out or need the hospital ?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

It's not something we do often but she can enjoy it with me.

But I also enjoy it when she does it to me. Not at the same time as someone has to take the lead.

Probably more unusual for a man to enjoy being submissive in this way but occasionally I do enjoy her using and abusing me

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Has anyone ever gone Too Far? had someone pass out or need the hospital ?"

No but sometimes I'd like her to be harsher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a nice firm hand around my throat. Feeling overpowered gets me hot, it has to be with someone I trust completely "

As someone who strangles people for a hobby and has been choked out on numerous occasions there is some science behind it...

Played with choking during sex with an ex.

During the choke/ strangle the brain diverts lots of energy to the senses as it tries to look for a way out.This creates hypervigilance and hypersensitivity which can increase every sensation.

For the timing if you are restricting air/blood flow it should be done gently and progressively and then released just at the point of climax...this ensures a massive rush of oxygen/ blood which again heightens the feeling of elation at the same time the orgasm hits.

I would recommend avoiding direct frontal pressure on the windpipe or prolonged direct pressure to the vagus complex which sits on the carotid artery. You will know when you get it..it fucking hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust is the key word here - too many people on the kinky scene think it is just about what you do to someone else that makes you a Dom or Master - it isn't, it is the mental connection that establishes the true dynamic - once a sub trusts then the power dynamic comes into play, and breath play is a significant part of that - for her "I have put myself into his hands completely" for him "she trusts me to do this" - and then of course we get into spanking and whipping and rope work and suspension and toys and all the wonderful things kink gives us!!

Sometimes it's just about the activities. Sure, you have to have a base level of trust, but you don't have to achieve 'deep and meaningful'.

I still think there has to be that mental spark otherwise the acts are just that - acts. I have switched and for me, as a sub being done to if it was just by someone casually met it did not carry the same zing as with someone I knew and trusted and was hugely attracted to.

Each to their own I guess! "

I think often excitement can come from a transactional arrangement. Some of my best experiences have been very transactional and I particularly enjoy that style of playing.

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