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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am surprised no-one has yet posted this question, I suppose it could be looked upon either boastfully or shamefully, depending on your perspective. One of my mates reckons he has had over 300 different partners, and an ex girlfriend of mine who happened to be bisexual, had well over 100 of both sexes. Compared to my 10, I feel inexperienced....!

Jason

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I dont think it has anything to do with boasting or being ashamed at all.... I Just don't think anyone ever asks that question because a lot of people value "discretion" ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nonya......... nonya bleeding business haha

lol sorry honestly i dont really care what my number is, i just reply with not to many and not to few

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Suppose youre right Fabio

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

1 and a half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to keep count until I joined Chams lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped counting ages ago, probably something near a 100.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

nobody's business but mine!!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

2879345 humans and 3 holes in the wall edged with the remnants of an old fur coat.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Two.

Nobody can prove anything different!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope I get my fill before Im too old....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am surprised no-one has yet posted this question, I suppose it could be looked upon either boastfully or shamefully, depending on your perspective. One of my mates reckons he has had over 300 different partners, and an ex girlfriend of mine who happened to be bisexual, had well over 100 of both sexes. Compared to my 10, I feel inexperienced....!

Jason

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Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say."

When I run out of fingers I might stop counting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say.

When I run out of fingers I might stop counting...."

he he "more than ten, less than a hundred?"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

three score n ten x a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember- the spreadsheet won't open

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

more than a football team...less than a football stadium...hahahaha

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"2879345 humans and 3 holes in the wall edged with the remnants of an old fur coat.

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hahahaha View, you forgot a fugy twice and a droopy!!!!!!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"more than a football team...less than a football stadium...hahahaha"

Hahaha... touché

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesnt matter.

as long as someones safe and clean.

thats all that matters

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

more than 10 less than 50. I don't know why it is important i do not think how many or or how little it matters and it will defiantly not give you anymore meets by saying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think it has anything to do with boasting or being ashamed at all.... I Just don't think anyone ever asks that question because a lot of people value "discretion" ...."

I am sure I am not alone when I say'Fabio you are the great wise one of Fab'

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By *attitude6Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Does anybody think though, or is aware of the Number they have been with that is just 'NSA', referring to the single people that is.. as sure the original poster said his mate has been with 300 women... but if that mate of his was to meet a girl whom he liked more, that person may be very put off with his 300... i feel obliged to make a THIS IS SPARTA joke here, hes been with the SPARTAN 300 if they were woman... but get what I mean? Any single people AWARE of the number they have been with and how it may affect future potential relationships? And sure if it bothers a potential life partner then their loss etc but.. yano? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say.

When I run out of fingers I might stop counting...."

are you from norfolk then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find it hard to believe that people are counting. Pinch and salt come to mind for this one I would say.

When I run out of fingers I might stop counting....

are you from norfolk then "

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"When I run out of fingers I might stop counting....

are you from norfolk then "

That would apply if I'd mentioned running out of sisters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or the joke

shes only been with 2.

the milkman.

and the household cavalry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None - I'm a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never asked anyone how many sexual partners they've had: why would you?!!

Also find it strange if someone is on a site where meeting strangers for sex is the order of the day would feel affronted if a potential girlfriend wasn't a vestal virgin!

Blimey: the things I read on this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None - I'm a virgin "

And me.

Dont anything so disgusting....

I thought this was a singing site

doobi doobi doooooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anybody think though, or is aware of the Number they have been with that is just 'NSA', referring to the single people that is.. as sure the original poster said his mate has been with 300 women... but if that mate of his was to meet a girl whom he liked more, that person may be very put off with his 300... i feel obliged to make a THIS IS SPARTA joke here, hes been with the SPARTAN 300 if they were woman... but get what I mean? Any single people AWARE of the number they have been with and how it may affect future potential relationships? And sure if it bothers a potential life partner then their loss etc but.. yano? lol"
Well he will be 36 in April next year and he started very young. The 300 is his own estimate, and includes all experimenting at a young age, through adolescence, teenage years, the drink filled parties in Ibiza and Corfu etc, up till his current spouse with whom he is due to marry and who his children are by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feel affronted..? Far from it, I think I need to get out more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what's the point in counting.

quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm a virgin!! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree with the quality over quantity statement. Now how many people are on my verifications...er 5?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my missus has been cocked more times than John Wayne's rifle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

How am I meant to keep count when I am not even sure how many are in the room sometimes

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district


"How am I meant to keep count when I am not even sure how many are in the room sometimes "

Exactly! Once we used to exchange names but when the playroom I crowded and the action is hot that no longer happens.

We have both genuinely lost count. He was up to 50 before he stopped, and that was years ago before we started swinging.

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Are we counting people we had intercourse with if so, i know my number and its well not very big lol

if we counting peope you played with then its not very big ever boy do i need to get out more.

sue

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Are we counting people we had intercourse with if so, i know my number and its well not very big lol

if we counting peope you played with then its not very big ever boy do i need to get out more.

sue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we counting people we had intercourse with if so, i know my number and its well not very big lol

if we counting peope you played with then its not very big ever boy do i need to get out more.

sue"

Like I said earlier, quality over quantity but I also appreciate the flipside, for those of us who enjoy the club scene, its going be difficult to keep count once the fun begins, you have much more on your mind..

I think as long as your enjoying what you do it doesn't really matter how few or how many, what matters is how good the experiences are.

100 crap shags is the same as 1 crap shag in my book, 1 fantastic session with however many people present, beats the other any day of the week.

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

All I will say is "some"

Not too many, but also not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this where to find the Hardened Swingers

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Is this where to find the Hardened Swingers "

Can be

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

It is an irrelevant question really. Aside from the whole discretion issue, what exactly does it tell you?

It's just a meaningless number that tells you absolutely nothing about the person. So apart from some prurient interest, it really doesn't serve any purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is an irrelevant question really. Aside from the whole discretion issue, what exactly does it tell you?

It's just a meaningless number that tells you absolutely nothing about the person. So apart from some prurient interest, it really doesn't serve any purpose. "

Couldn't agree more.Too much - how many,how big,how often...et al.There is an obsession with numbers here!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

1 am hoping my maths is right ans that says more than 1

anymore and am saying nout!

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"more than a football team...less than a football stadium...hahahaha

Hahaha... touché "

Evo stik league lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats between me and any one that I may have come across during my travel through life......discretion is the key word here

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