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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Does anyone actually like being referred to as an "older woman"? Have just read a thread by an 18 year old and he has written multiple times that he is looking for "older women" and it just made me wonder if women actually like to be referred to in that way? Or if reading that would instantly put people off? Are other terms like Cougar or MILF, better, worse or the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone actually like being referred to as an "older woman"? Have just read a thread by an 18 year old and he has written multiple times that he is looking for "older women" and it just made me wonder if women actually like to be referred to in that way? Or if reading that would instantly put people off? Are other terms like Cougar or MILF, better, worse or the same?"

My understanding of older is that it's just someone older than me. Non age specific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mature might go down better with some ladies on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were referred to as an "older couple" by a single guy who was 24...I can honestly say that I didn't enjoy it. I don't feel particularly old, and it made me feel like I was dealing with a child or something (even though only 3 years separated us).

-Courtney

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By *racie14xxWoman
over a year ago

portsmouth

I hate being referred to as a cougar or milf. I'm 40 and do not reside in USA and am not a bored housewife xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't see the point in dressing it up as anything other than being an older woman

I can't stand milf or cougar,I don't think I'm always very mature either despite my age

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By *BA123Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY

I always feel than wen someone refers to somebody as "older" they mean about 20yrs - a generation age gap

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Hats hats hate being referred to as mature. Instant delete.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It honestly doesn't bother me. I am older than an 18 year old and using euphemisms is just facing to face the truth. I dislike labels anyway and if a younger man likes older women how else is he going to say it?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I guess to an 18yr old guy everyone is older.

he couldnt really specify younger could he.lol

im older and dont mind being referred to as that, but wouldnt be jnterested in anyone who specified that they wanted ' older' rather than just falling within their age range.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Failing to face the truth

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Hats hats hate being referred to as mature. Instant delete. "

I always say that men dont mature, they just get old. We're not cheddar for fucks sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me, i am older than an 18 year old so technically they are correct. I don't have any hangups about being older than someone else.

Once had a guy in his early 30s message me saying he was probably too old for me, that made me laugh.

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

not botherd

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

The odds of finding someone younger than 18 are ......

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't though whenever I see on the list of forum posts, older women, I know it will be from some young lad in his 20's wanting to meet older women, claiming he loves them and doesn't understand why they are not queuing at his door

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I think it depends on how you read it to mean, "older" women or women older than myself.

I can how seeing it as you being an older person could be irritating but being older than someone else is just the truest way to say it.

"Mature" instantly makes me think of grandma's with knitting needles and cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone actually like being referred to as an "older woman"? Have just read a thread by an 18 year old and he has written multiple times that he is looking for "older women" and it just made me wonder if women actually like to be referred to in that way? Or if reading that would instantly put people off? Are other terms like Cougar or MILF, better, worse or the same?"

All women have to be older than him

Any younger makes him a pedophile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't though whenever I see on the list of forum posts, older women, I know it will be from some young lad in his 20's wanting to meet older women, claiming he loves them and doesn't understand why they are not queuing at his door "

I know the answer to that have told them but they still don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being told I look good for my age ... Damn.... Do they expect me to look like the wicked witch ?

Oops maybe I do before the slap goes on ...lol

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I see posts/profiles like that & just see it as a desperate way to get a shag with anyone.

As others have said to a 25 year old i would be an older woman (i am 47 btw) however a 44 yr old wouldnt see me that way i hope.

Just say what age women do it for you, be specific.

I dont mind bei g called a milf or a gilf, however cougar doesnt apply as younger guys rarely do it for me...

Is there a name for us ladies who like older guys?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If I said I was looking for younger men, it'd be hilarious if all those younger than me went off their trolleys and had a sulk. They are younger than me.

I can't stand MILF, GILF, MATURE etc....

In truth I'm not really happy with any reference to my age.

Inexperienced men usually think that meeting a woman of a certain age will mean they experience a lot of sexual confidence and expertise in that woman.

The ones that REALLY get to me are the blokes about 46/49 who message me and say they are looking for an older woman.

They CREEP me out!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Does anyone actually like being referred to as an "older woman"? Have just read a thread by an 18 year old and he has written multiple times that he is looking for "older women" and it just made me wonder if women actually like to be referred to in that way? Or if reading that would instantly put people off? Are other terms like Cougar or MILF, better, worse or the same?

All women have to be older than him

Any younger makes him a pedophile"

No it doesn't. Pedophile has a specific meaning and it often misused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid younger guys in general and I don't meet anyone who focuses on age.....although I have no objection being referred to as an older woman, as that is what I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number doesn't really matter if you get on and enjoy each other's company why use words some find offensive .....I have been called a dilf or was it dick may have been down to auto correct error x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hats hats hate being referred to as mature. Instant delete. "

Think I prefer older than mature any day - mature suggests I have to be sensible!

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Does anyone actually like being referred to as an "older woman"? Have just read a thread by an 18 year old and he has written multiple times that he is looking for "older women" and it just made me wonder if women actually like to be referred to in that way? Or if reading that would instantly put people off? Are other terms like Cougar or MILF, better, worse or the same?

All women have to be older than him

Any younger makes him a pedophile

No it doesn't. Pedophile has a specific meaning and it often misused."

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Age is just a number doesn't really matter if you get on and enjoy each other's company why use words some find offensive .....I have been called a dilf or was it dick may have been down to auto correct error x"

No it's not, if age was just a number it'd be acceptable to fuck a 15 year old.

Emotional maturity plays a huge factor, that's kind of the point.

Younger guys/gals tend to be immature in comparison so it feels more like babysitting than fun.

Unless you like that idea but its bordering dangerous territory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats wrong with it?? Somebody older than you; although i do like a more mature lady to a younger one x

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London

I am termed as "older" it is what it is . I don't like milf or cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being called an older woman just object to being called an old woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we could find a younger man who fits what we are looking for and could say more than "hi want to fuck tonight " he could call us what he want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather be called older than a cougar or a milf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always relative so should'nt be seen as anything negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we could find a younger man who fits what we are looking for and could say more than "hi want to fuck tonight " he could call us what he want lol "

With in five mins of posting this we had a message saying "do you want some play today " lol

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