FabSwingers.com forum: blocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i reply to a message to a meet and then get blocked.I only asked if it was day or night. Am i missing something.???????

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

lol - if you don't know what time of day it is that may be why they blocked you! Z

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

" Am i missing something.???????"

looks like you are going to miss getting yur leg over..

block back and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont know if its day or night,perhaps you are blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They either changed there mind about meeting you and didnt want to say why or they are idiots saying they want to meet then blocking guys,in other words messing you about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will hedge a bet and say it might be something to do with the 3 cock shots and 2 bareback photos on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could even be that you accept every Tom, Dick and Harry as a friend or just make friend requests before you are in actual fact FRIENDS

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

meow.some good comments and some not. i only send face pic on request. not into splashing myself about. it just seems some people have double standards on here. They either want a message or they dont. We cant please everyone with the messages we send.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"meow.some good comments and some not. i only send face pic on request. not into splashing myself about. it just seems some people have double standards on here. They either want a message or they dont. We cant please everyone with the messages we send. "

It's not double standards - It's their OWN standards and they have every right to run their time on here as they see fit, that includes blocking who they want to for whatever reason they decide to!

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By *omcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"if you dont know if its day or night,perhaps you are blocked

wow chattycpl your profile pic must be one of the best I have seen on here

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"We cant please everyone with the messages we send. "

Good point. Hopefully, the OP will agree with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol - if you don't know what time of day it is that may be why they blocked you! Z"

LMAO!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people will block you for just sending a mail introducing yourself politely.

one women who blocked me still looks at my cam in the chatroom.

what a fucking idiot

fuck em move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people will block you for just sending a mail introducing yourself politely.

one women who blocked me still looks at my cam in the chatroom.

what a fucking idiot

fuck em move on."

How you gonna fuck em if they block you? (Confused of Kent)

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

"people will block you for just sending a mail introducing yourself politely.

one women who blocked me still looks at my cam in the chatroom.

what a fucking idiot

fuck em move on."

If she has you blocked; can she really still watch your cam? Or was that just said for effect!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"How you gonna fuck em if they block you? (Confused of Kent)"

If I told you, you'd block the move...;-)

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"it just seems some people have double standards on here."

Rephrase that to "some people have standards"

" They either want a message or they dont. We cant please everyone with the messages we send. "

Who are you to say they want a message from you, especially a pathetic one.

Who is to say they didn't look at your profile and see you can't accommodate.

Who is to say they didn't look at your profile and just see yet another 'single' bloke with cock pictures everywhere.

Who is to say they didn't read your profile and see the safe sex box ticked but a picture where you obviously do bareback.

Who is to say that the same old boring profile, seen on a million men's profile didn't put them off.

Who is to say that they didn't just block you so that it saves you the trouble of getting in touch with them AGAIN... all in vain.

Who is to say that you have the right to whinge about a couple who obviously don't want anything to do with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"it just seems some people have double standards on here.

Rephrase that to "some people have standards"

They either want a message or they dont. We cant please everyone with the messages we send.

Who are you to say they want a message from you, especially a pathetic one.

Who is to say they didn't look at your profile and see you can't accommodate.

Who is to say they didn't look at your profile and just see yet another 'single' bloke with cock pictures everywhere.

Who is to say they didn't read your profile and see the safe sex box ticked but a picture where you obviously do bareback.

Who is to say that the same old boring profile, seen on a million men's profile didn't put them off.

Who is to say that they didn't just block you so that it saves you the trouble of getting in touch with them AGAIN... all in vain.

Who is to say that you have the right to whinge about a couple who obviously don't want anything to do with you.

I didnt ask to be judged. jeez a mountain out of a mole hill from you. i stopped reading your post so stop ranting. whf. i asked the couple for a time of day when the meet was occuring. Thats it. done. lol. Then they blocked me.

The couples meet has now been with drawn so what does that tell you. Plenty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The couples meet has now been with drawn so what does that tell you. Plenty."

That they now have something arranged?

Was your first message to them just the is it day or night without any other introduction because if so then thats another reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people need to grow a pair and get some manners and reply to people instead of blocking... Find that very immature and cowerdley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people need to grow a pair and get some manners and reply to people instead of blocking... Find that very immature and cowerdley.

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I do too ........ I think its very rude and show people for who thay really are ... He should think himself lucky he never meet this couple ... yes blocking is there for good resons and up to people at times theres just no need too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a similar point on another thread: you need to be 'thick skinned' to be on a site like this because there are so many issues that will cause upset if we let them. Basic amongst these is a lack of basic courtesy and manners. I absolutely agree that a quick "No Thanks" takes seconds if you're not interested or a "Sorry have made other plans/changed our minds" if arrangements are still being made. It does also require the rejected party to be big enough to accept rejection without lashing out with abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people need to grow a pair and get some manners and reply to people instead of blocking... Find that very immature and cowerdley.

I disagree with you!

The FIRST sentence of my profile states I'm not meeting until December due to medical reasons. It then goes on to state if you DON'T meet what I'm looking for I wont reply, so don't waste your time.

Now, to make it as simple as I can for the mentally challenged, I've even set out WHAT I'm looking for: tall, single, straight, white, sub, local, men over 45 who can accommodate (I don't do hotels - ever) - easy peasy.

Are you honestly telling me if you were me and you got a message from a married bi guy who was on business "in my area" who wanted me to dress up in a mini skirt and stockings (I'm a size 24 Domme) and give him a blow job you'd write back?!!

Really?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people need to grow a pair and get some manners and reply to people instead of blocking... Find that very immature and cowerdley.

I disagree with you!

The FIRST sentence of my profile states I'm not meeting until December due to medical reasons. It then goes on to state if you DON'T meet what I'm looking for I wont reply, so don't waste your time.

Really?!!

A simple "NO THANKS" isnt hard to type.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"some people need to grow a pair and get some manners and reply to people instead of blocking... Find that very immature and cowerdley.

I disagree with you!

The FIRST sentence of my profile states I'm not meeting until December due to medical reasons. It then goes on to state if you DON'T meet what I'm looking for I wont reply, so don't waste your time.

Really?!!

A simple "NO THANKS" isnt hard to type. "

Depends how many messages you get in your inbox every day......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people need to grow a pair and get some manners and reply to people instead of blocking... Find that very immature and cowerdley.

I disagree with you!

The FIRST sentence of my profile states I'm not meeting until December due to medical reasons. It then goes on to state if you DON'T meet what I'm looking for I wont reply, so don't waste your time.

Really?!!

A simple "NO THANKS" isnt hard to type. "

Well I think you are damned if you do and damned if you don't.

I have specific preferences on my profile and yet still get mail from unsuitable people. I started by replying and saying "thanks for your interest but no thank you" and was surprised and disappointed at the amount of abuse that I received in response. So, that has now got me to the stage where if you are not what I am looking for I no longer respond I just delete.

So I can actually see both sides of this argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get 100s of letters most weeks and i dont mail back to all i cant, so say in profile i cant ...... some do mail again and again but do stop in the end i find. I have 1 on my block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if this guy messaged this person only once and asked something simple, i still dont see the reason for blocking. A lil reply as i mentioned or ignore the message alltogether would have been as effective.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"if this guy messaged this person only once and asked something simple, i still dont see the reason for blocking. A lil reply as i mentioned or ignore the message alltogether would have been as effective."

They have the blocking facility the same as you do....if they choose to block then it's their business, you only have one side of the story to go on so how can you make such a judgement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people need to grow a pair and get some manners and reply to people instead of blocking... Find that very immature and cowerdley.

I disagree with you!

The FIRST sentence of my profile states I'm not meeting until December due to medical reasons. It then goes on to state if you DON'T meet what I'm looking for I wont reply, so don't waste your time.

Really?!!

A simple "NO THANKS" isnt hard to type. "

So what part of "don't waste your time contacting me if you're not what I'm looking for as I won't reply" don't people get?!!

If I then go back on my word and reply it sends mixed messages and the mail continues!!

Hat's off to those that can send "thanks, but no thanks" and the subsequent follow up messages to people they don't want to meet!!

My life wont be long enough to do that - that's why I try to dissuade time wasting from the profile stage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have the blocking facility the same as you do....if they choose to block then it's their business, you only have one side of the story to go on so how can you make such a judgement?"

I know its their business, its my opinion, the author of the thread created this topic for opinions.. I gave mine. Get over it. Thanx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people need to grow a pair and get some manners and reply to people instead of blocking... Find that very immature and cowerdley.

I disagree with you!

The FIRST sentence of my profile states I'm not meeting until December due to medical reasons. It then goes on to state if you DON'T meet what I'm looking for I wont reply, so don't waste your time.

Really?!!

A simple "NO THANKS" isnt hard to type.

So what part of "don't waste your time contacting me if you're not what I'm looking for as I won't reply" don't people get?!!

If I then go back on my word and reply it sends mixed messages and the mail continues!!

Hat's off to those that can send "thanks, but no thanks" and the subsequent follow up messages to people they don't want to meet!!

My life wont be long enough to do that - that's why I try to dissuade time wasting from the profile stage!"

As i said, if someone is bombarding u witn messages, its fine, but for u to block him after one, i think its extreme. Its obv ur porogative to deal with things however u wish, i was just stating my opinion on blocking people as first measure.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

IT'S NOT RUDE TO BLOCK SOMEONE!

Did I say that loud enough?

It is a site function... do you really think admit would allow a button which sent a "fuck off you munter/twat/freak of nature (delete as appropriate)" message?

Whatever the reason people block other people for, it all boils down to "I don't want to receive a message from you".... that's all.

I rarely use the block button, I prefer being rude to people. But if someone blocks me, I just look at it as they have done me a favour... I won't accidently waste any of my time writing them a message.