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By *ustus4u OP   Man
over a year ago

closer then you think

Out of interest which do you prefer a man that's a shower or a man that's a grower don't be shy all are welcome to answer

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a grower

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By *ustus4u OP   Man
over a year ago

closer then you think


"Both

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that's just greedy lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Both

that's just greedy lol

"

Have we met?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Not that bothered if I'm honest.

Though, we did meet a really nice Asian guy once who was a real strong grower. Before he started to grow I did think "oh, that's a shame" but once he was aroused.... Oh my, was he impressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont understand the question I must be in dense mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a grower but wish I was a shower

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Effectively it's a question of how big cocks are when soft.

Which always seems to be an unnecessary thing to focus on to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even no what I am lol

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Well, considering guys fuck with a hard cock not a limp one, I don't care what it looks like limp as long as it looks healthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, considering guys fuck with a hard cock not a limp one, I don't care what it looks like limp as long as it looks healthy."

You say that, some of us are cursed with being a grower and trust me it's embarrasing, hard is not a problem.

But people do judge, most definitely.

If I was to post pics of me soft I would never ever get a woman to consider Me.

We go nude sunbathing and luckily I am always a bit semi which helps, but if I go swimming it's acorn time.

So Personally being a grower or a shower definitely does matter.

Maybe not from a Purely sexual point of view, but for self confidence it matters.

This is one reason why we won't go to a swinger spar.

When erect I am of average size and everything works.

However as much as people in particular women say that they don't judge.

You only need to read a few thread's and pick some random profiles.

Appearance, both body and cock size is most definitely something that is high on most (not all) women's agenda.

So from my point of view.

Grower, but would much rather be a shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been bothered how other people think I look a don't care what they think am happy with who I am and if there not then that's upto them liking someone is not all about how they look it's about who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been bothered how other people think I look a don't care what they think am happy with who I am and if there not then that's upto them liking someone is not all about how they look it's about who they are "

Well some of us are cured with low self esteem and do care what others think unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cursed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much a growe. Time was that I was very hung up about my body, I felt very awkward and angular. I was a cyclist when growing up so I had great legs but zero upper body strength, I felt very self conscious and didn't felt very masculine. Recently though I realised you just have to own your body, I'm not the most attractive guy nor am I ripped nor hung (am I selling myself ladies?!) But I'm me. I'm intelligent and articulate, I'll get naked and flaunt what I've got as it does exactly what it should and noone has ever complained although they've all moaned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a grower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither! 4.5 flaccid and 7 erect so neither here nor there.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a grower :P

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Well, considering guys fuck with a hard cock not a limp one, I don't care what it looks like limp as long as it looks healthy.

You say that, some of us are cursed with being a grower and trust me it's embarrasing, hard is not a problem.

But people do judge, most definitely.

If I was to post pics of me soft I would never ever get a woman to consider Me.

We go nude sunbathing and luckily I am always a bit semi which helps, but if I go swimming it's acorn time.

So Personally being a grower or a shower definitely does matter.

Maybe not from a Purely sexual point of view, but for self confidence it matters.

This is one reason why we won't go to a swinger spar.

When erect I am of average size and everything works.

However as much as people in particular women say that they don't judge.

You only need to read a few thread's and pick some random profiles.

Appearance, both body and cock size is most definitely something that is high on most (not all) women's agenda.

So from my point of view.

Grower, but would much rather be a shower. "

I don't understand when guys have photos of them soft on their profiles anyway, what's the point? You are trying to sell yourself so sell yourself. You don't fuck with a limp cock so why worry about what it looks like limp? If people are funny about it then a) don't post a picture of it and b) don't take what they say so seriously because you know that your size when soft is not important, especially when you are a grower.

If you do put up a photo of your limp cock on your profile which is your shop window showing everyone what you have to offer then all you are doing is saying my best is this limp cock. Not suprising if people just pass you by after seeing it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

grower. brad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From tiny acorns do mighty oaks grow. Skipper.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Well, considering guys fuck with a hard cock not a limp one, I don't care what it looks like limp as long as it looks healthy.

You say that, some of us are cursed with being a grower and trust me it's embarrasing, hard is not a problem.

But people do judge, most definitely.

If I was to post pics of me soft I would never ever get a woman to consider Me.

We go nude sunbathing and luckily I am always a bit semi which helps, but if I go swimming it's acorn time.

So Personally being a grower or a shower definitely does matter.

Maybe not from a Purely sexual point of view, but for self confidence it matters.

This is one reason why we won't go to a swinger spar.

When erect I am of average size and everything works.

However as much as people in particular women say that they don't judge.

You only need to read a few thread's and pick some random profiles.

Appearance, both body and cock size is most definitely something that is high on most (not all) women's agenda.

So from my point of view.

Grower, but would much rather be a shower. "

Seconded, when I was in school in the showers I got the piss taken out of me for having a micro dick because when it's flaccid it's barely two inches, when it grows I hit 6 which is nothing to be embarrassed about but for a long time I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From tiny acorns do mighty oaks grow. Skipper. "

your tits are awesome, just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a grower.. something about feeling and seeing it get bigger and harder is a huge turn on. However I am a self confessed reaction chaser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From tiny acorns do mighty oaks grow. Skipper.

your tits are awesome, just saying"

Her tits. Lol (and they're in bloody turkey! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grower me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both was actually quite fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a grower nice to feel them grow as you play but then again I like a shower for the oh I want you now moments

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By *ammykingMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

Surely its what you do with it when its hard not how big it is when its soft?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most certainly a grower! And concur with miss seductive's last comment! Fairplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most certainly a grower! And concur with miss seductive's last comment! Fairplay"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who wants to find out?

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"I'm a grower but wish I was a shower "

I'm a grower, but not a huge amount

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