FabSwingers.com forum: Intimate sensual meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are we on the wrong site? We are new to this, had one meet that went very well although we didn't play. It has changed the perception of what we are looking for. A social drink or intimate dinner with an other couple or couples... Flirting and nice relaxed intimate atmosphere. Maybe or maybe not leading to anything else.....

Dinner parties another idea.... Anyone else interested in this rather than wham bam sex ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Lots of people but it can be very difficult indeed.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Don't think you're on the wrong site. We don't like wham bam sex. We both enjoy socialising as much as play. Flirting etc makes it all more fun!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love a long sensual flirty meet. Preferably one that leads to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only interested in intimate meets and social side of things. Nothing else appeals to me. I'd find a wham bam meet boring and unfulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who you meet, some you get on with more and want more with even a barbeque and some just a quick one lol.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Are we on the wrong site? We are new to this, had one meet that went very well although we didn't play. It has changed the perception of what we are looking for. A social drink or intimate dinner with an other couple or couples... Flirting and nice relaxed intimate atmosphere. Maybe or maybe not leading to anything else.....

Dinner parties another idea.... Anyone else interested in this rather than wham bam sex ?"

What do you think the correct site will be? Match.com? Where 'classy' couples meet and flirt not for 'wham bam' sex (after-all, they are 'classy') but to have slow sex with each other's wives and husbands

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Dinner parties another idea.... Anyone else interested in this rather than wham bam sex ?"

I don't think you're on the wrong site.

I think plenty of others would enjoy this, so sure you won't have trouble finding it.

Personally, it wouldn't be for us. If I was going out for a meal, I'd rather just have a romantic dinner for 2.

Everyone has different things they want out of this site and swinging in general and if your both happy the just do what works for you.

I like that this site has different people with a common interest but varying approaches to it.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Sounds great. We want our minds stimulated as well as our bodies. Cheeky flashes, lots of flirting, smutty chat followed by some saucy suggestions and some fun.

Penetration not necessarily needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We very much prefer the long flirty build up over dinner and drinks. The beauty of this site is that it caters for all.

From the wham bam'era to the long game players and everything in between.

Don't feel as though you're in the wrong place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also enjoy more intimate meets, the build up the flirting. Can't stand fast quickie fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do this often...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dinner parties another idea.... Anyone else interested in this rather than wham bam sex ?"

I prefer intimacy, teasing, licking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do this often..."

I like it xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the middle ground. A chat over some drinks ( I don't drink as such so would only have a glass of wine) and then play.

We have been out for dinner with couples but only people we have met and certainly not intimate cosy dinners.

I actually find if there is to Much pre play interaction I go off the idea of fun x

But there is someone for everyone on here and as long as everyone is honest with what they want they Will get it.

Have to admit though our best couples meets have been either friends we are comfy with or people that we have met spur of the moment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your style...have sent you a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dinner parties another idea.... Anyone else interested in this rather than wham bam sex ?

I don't think you're on the wrong site.

I think plenty of others would enjoy this, so sure you won't have trouble finding it.

Personally, it wouldn't be for us. If I was going out for a meal, I'd rather just have a romantic dinner for 2.

Everyone has different things they want out of this site and swinging in general and if your both happy the just do what works for you.

I like that this site has different people with a common interest but varying approaches to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love sensual meets - but we have no need to be wined and dined -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea of dinner and drinks which may or may not lead to fun is what we do together .

Too much time socialising inevitably leads to nothing when it comes to the actual play from our experience .

A drink or two and a flirt before play is fine , but dinner and so on is not for us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't think of anything worse than sat eating with a potential play mate

I really don't want somebody I want to have sex with sat watching me eat my dinner, trying to fit a conversation in around mouthfuls, does not appeal to me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind dinner, what's wrong with a picnic in the park? If you click you can snuggle up and if you don't click you can amuse yourself throwing crumbs to the birds.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Dinner parties another idea.... Anyone else interested in this rather than wham bam sex ?"

Certainly not on the wrong site! We do full and soft swap and as well as that, we also love just flirting, groping and a lot of touchy feely!

Remember when we were teenagers? Having a snog behind the shops and trying to cop a feel? Well what is wrong with that even at our age. We love the meets where we have dinner, have a laugh and then all sit in close proximity and flirt. Maybe hands on legs, maybe brushing past a boob for a reaction and snogging with the other guys girlfriend!

Yes we like full swap. Yes we like soft swap, but we would never rule out a flirty meet, even if led no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only interested in intimate meets and social side of things. Nothing else appeals to me. I'd find a wham bam meet boring and unfulfilling. "

You're not on your own and luckily I'm finding that quite a few of the guys I speak to have that idea too.

The flirting is a major turn on, as is getting closer during the social so you can't wait to get somewhere comfortable and get to grips!

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

"I can't think of anything worse than sat eating with a potential play mate

I really don't want somebody I want to have sex with sat watching me eat my dinner, trying to fit a conversation in around mouthfuls, does not appeal to me at all "

Sounds a cheap date

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I find, the more I find out about someone - the more they generally bore me. I am terrible at flirting in truth. Fair enough there may be physical attraction or there may be mental connection or a great personality. There may be a great role play scenario lined up, there may be a great location or maybe a group/party (the latter may be the exception to the rule). But 1-2-1, it is going to turn into date night, where you are going to be bound to try and win their favour all night, and if things dont go perfect, you know it is likely you are not ever going to be fucking.

It sounds more romantic dating, more long-term partner finding, than everyone being on the same page and enjoying their freedoms.

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