FabSwingers.com forum: Hard to get women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Genuinely find it hard to get women on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a profile with one word lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With a profile with one word lol"

yo!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Effort in, rewards out.

You've put no effort in, so guess what!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just going to say a one worded profile isn't great lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With a profile with one word lol"

You have a point, but also don't know what to write, being discreet, as I have seen people I know on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm, change of approach needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im gonna pull my chair up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you have straight, but then put you want to meet TV/TV's may put some women off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Help on writing a profile then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mysterious type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol

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By *ilthy LadyWoman
over a year ago

Wickford

Exactly! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With a profile with one word lol

You have a point, but also don't know what to write, being discreet, as I have seen people I know on here "

You can say what you want and what you don't want and who you are while being discreet. Shockingly enough, we're all on here for the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Six cock pics, yo. Gotta up your game.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuinely find it hard to get women on fab "

At least have the decency to try a bit more it seriously take more than a one word profile

I would love to help. When you have read other people's wingding emails about not being able to get a meet I will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you looked at your own profile, would you respond to it if you had lots of others to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op what would happen if you saw a lady in a bar and went up to her and said YO?,what would her reply be?.And here is no different,put some effort in.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Genuinely find it hard to get women on fab "

I don't know what else I expected opening this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of most of the cock pics put some other pics up not of cock and write.more than one word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Have you got haribo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Have you got haribo?"

Do you and Shag have a haribo franchise business going?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Have you got haribo?"

I would have sent you some but filters prevent. You'll have to use your imagination......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Have you got haribo?

Do you and Shag have a haribo franchise business going?

-Courtney"

No. I just like haribo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Have you got haribo?

I would have sent you some but filters prevent. You'll have to use your imagination......

What are Jelly Men?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cleaned up profile a bit

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Help on writing a profile then? "

As I suggested to someone yesterday.....

Post pictures of you in a big bird from sesame st costume balanced on a stack of Argos catalogues - and use the text "anyone fancy a fuck? Any age, size, gender."

*or just come up with something yourself to save it being a BS profile created by the suggestions of others that doesn't reflect the true you in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does it look better? Just need to update pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Have you got haribo?

I would have sent you some but filters prevent. You'll have to use your imagination......

What are Jelly Men?!"

I can't send you any haribo because your filter doesn't allow me to post them to you. I've got cake too......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics "

But who are you? Where's the personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics "

Getting there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Have you got haribo?

I would have sent you some but filters prevent. You'll have to use your imagination......

What are Jelly Men?!

I can't send you any haribo because your filter doesn't allow me to post them to you. I've got cake too......

Sledgehammer darling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

Getting there!

What else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From your friends list, i don't think its women you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

But who are you? Where's the personality?

Need some discretion, some mystery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the clud.its so hard on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Have you got haribo?

I would have sent you some but filters prevent. You'll have to use your imagination......

What are Jelly Men?!

I can't send you any haribo because your filter doesn't allow me to post them to you. I've got cake too......

Sledgehammer darling

Not to crack my nuts I hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

But who are you? Where's the personality?

Need some discretion, some mystery "
not when your only method of attracting people is your profile. Mystery is useless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

But who are you? Where's the personality?

Need some discretion, some mystery "

Suit yourself. People are providing advice, your damage if you can't help yourself by taking it on board

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

But who are you? Where's the personality?

Need some discretion, some mystery "

Ok, at the minute your profile/pictures are very generic and dull.

There's a rough average of ten men per woman on the site and most of the men actively chase the women so you need to stand out, you don't... At all.

There's younger men, hotter men, men with bigger dicks, men who are more experienced, men who don't need to be discreet, so what makes you special?

What do you have to offer?

Why should they talk to you?

Assume they get 100 messages per day, everyday. Why would they remember you?

I'd revaluate your expectations of the site compared to the effort you are putting in.

Short messages, short boring profiles, cock photos and one liners do not work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

But who are you? Where's the personality?

Need some discretion, some mystery "

Everybody likes some degree of mystery, but they want to know that they are not getting a booby prize. No pun

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Oh and right now search for all women between 18-99 who are verified looking to meet men and online now within 20 miles, count the total.

Then search for all verified men looking to meet women aged 18-99 within 20 miles, add it up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and right now search for all women between 18-99 who are verified looking to meet men and online now within 20 miles, count the total.

Then search for all verified men looking to meet women aged 18-99 within 20 miles, add it up...

In my search 20 mile looking for cd/ts/TV is in single figures

but with filters I get around a dozen message a day from couples where shock horror only the guy can meet

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Oh and right now search for all women between 18-99 who are verified looking to meet men and online now within 20 miles, count the total.

Then search for all verified men looking to meet women aged 18-99 within 20 miles, add it up...

In my search 20 mile looking for cd/ts/TV is in single figures

but with filters I get around a dozen message a day from couples where shock horror only the guy can meet "

I don't see how that's relevant but cool story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

But who are you? Where's the personality?

Need some discretion, some mystery

Ok, at the minute your profile/pictures are very generic and dull.

There's a rough average of ten men per woman on the site and most of the men actively chase the women so you need to stand out, you don't... At all.

There's younger men, hotter men, men with bigger dicks, men who are more experienced, men who don't need to be discreet, so what makes you special?

What do you have to offer?

Why should they talk to you?

Assume they get 100 messages per day, everyday. Why would they remember you?

I'd revaluate your expectations of the site compared to the effort you are putting in.

Short messages, short boring profiles, cock photos and one liners do not work. "

Don't forget the men with smaller dices. Let's not be dickist here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and right now search for all women between 18-99 who are verified looking to meet men and online now within 20 miles, count the total.

Then search for all verified men looking to meet women aged 18-99 within 20 miles, add it up...

In my search 20 mile looking for cd/ts/TV is in single figures

but with filters I get around a dozen message a day from couples where shock horror only the guy can meet

I don't see how that's relevant but cool story

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It's not but hey let's tumble the topics abit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

But who are you? Where's the personality?

Need some discretion, some mystery

Ok, at the minute your profile/pictures are very generic and dull.

There's a rough average of ten men per woman on the site and most of the men actively chase the women so you need to stand out, you don't... At all.

There's younger men, hotter men, men with bigger dicks, men who are more experienced, men who don't need to be discreet, so what makes you special?

What do you have to offer?

Why should they talk to you?

Assume they get 100 messages per day, everyday. Why would they remember you?

I'd revaluate your expectations of the site compared to the effort you are putting in.

Short messages, short boring profiles, cock photos and one liners do not work.

Don't forget the men with smaller dices. Let's not be dickist here....

Don't forget the men with auto carrot.

Dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From your friends list, i don't think its women you are looking for

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how do u see his friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll give you some credit. You have updated the text a bit and have gotten rid of some of the cocks. As other have said, your text could still use a healthy dose of personality and I think a body shot is necessary (to catch my interest, anyway). But at least you are taking some of the advice.

And just as a side note, you should stop using discretion/mystery as a crutch for why your profile is shitty. The only people who need so much discretion that they can't have a body pic up are usually cheating. It's not necessarily the image you want to portray, unless you are in fact cheating, in which case I have no more to contribute anyway.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll give you some credit. You have updated the text a bit and have gotten rid of some of the cocks. As other have said, your text could still use a healthy dose of personality and I think a body shot is necessary (to catch my interest, anyway). But at least you are taking some of the advice.

-Courtney"

Thank you, just uploaded a body pic (not the best body but hey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still can't get a meet, but at least I'm getting some replies now rather than ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im gonna pull my chair up

Share some popcorn?

Salt ones ? pulls up chair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still can't get a meet, but at least I'm getting some replies now rather than ignored "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it look better? Just need to update pics

But who are you? Where's the personality?

Need some discretion, some mystery "

I'm not interested in mystery. I want to get a feel for what you're like as a person from your profile, so that I know if I want to mail you or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Help on writing a profile then?

As I suggested to someone yesterday.....

Post pictures of you in a big bird from sesame st costume balanced on a stack of Argos catalogues - and use the text "anyone fancy a fuck? Any age, size, gender."

*or just come up with something yourself to save it being a BS profile created by the suggestions of others that doesn't reflect the true you in the slightest."

#spatoutmypopcornlaughing

Has someone done this yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still can't get a meet, but at least I'm getting some replies now rather than ignored

Haha

How do you do those smileys, by the way?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All women are hard to get.....it's their 'thang' ....anything worth having is worth working for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes time and effort but will come?right a bit about your self and what your looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting statments like this in the forums will not help.

I would suggest maybe attending a local swingers club, or any social meets in your area.