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By *khotcouple20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages... Sooo if your not willin to do this then please save both ours and your time and use your energy up trying to con another couple into sending you some pics lol... Sad guys... If your a guy then just admit it and u might have more chance.. No couple are going to let you meet them on the premise of you being a girl and then when you turn up at their door with your penis it's gonna be a long journey home.. Just sayin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing will change, all we can keep doing is reporting and move on. No sense getting into a thrombo over it.

As long as there are anonymous interweb services, there'll be anonymous folk using them for skullduggery (love that word )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess they do it for the reading/wanking issue, i couldnt do it myself as sex talk does nothing for me or lilly for that fact, we can both take porn or leave it, meeting is for us

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

iIts there way of getting the only thrill they get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see loads of updates with 'Male playing alone' etc. He would be on the basis the Female is figment of his imagination !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood why people do it but that's the same with many things I guess.

Had it myself a couple of days ago, spotted within two messages. Some are so transparent it's laughable.

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By *NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

Guess it's fantasists who believe that their 'oh sorry she can't do the meet tonight but I still can' line will result in a meet and they will bowl you over with rakish charm and wit. Thankfully most of them seem to be really dim and easy to see through so not worth the emotional energy of getting upset about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a gay guy in Alloa/Falkirk who starts a new member every day. He should change the age and heights sometimes. Clown.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow


"Nothing will change, all we can keep doing is reporting and move on. No sense getting into a thrombo over it.

As long as there are anonymous interweb services, there'll be anonymous folk using them for skullduggery (love that word )"

yes we agree skullduggery is a fantastic word. And much under use in our opinion

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By *NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

How about shenanigans there's a fantastic word to describe what they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't get me started on women pretending to be men................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand the couple profiles that are blatantly single men. Always the same message, wife isn't playing (insert reason) but has given me full consent to play still. Yeh ok then!

Create a single guys profile then and we may take you more serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep getting messages from "single bi females" but they are never verified!! Makes me skeptical tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages... Sooo if your not willin to do this then please save both ours and your time and use your energy up trying to con another couple into sending you some pics lol... Sad guys... If your a guy then just admit it and u might have more chance.. No couple are going to let you meet them on the premise of you being a girl and then when you turn up at their door with your penis it's gonna be a long journey home.. Just sayin... "

Totally agree, its so boring and time consuming...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL@ idea that some still try it on lol ---- some will recall I used to have a "couples" profile on here and my partner in crime at the time used to meet lots of people and we had the odd "odd ball" trying it on - Fake Couples mainly was our problem ie; single men pretending t be a swinging couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you correspond with them if you know they are fake? Are you just leading them on? Why not leave them to their fantasies and wanking. There's room on here for everyone.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

On my single female profile, I get lots of messages from couples - I only meet women one to one alone - and it states it blatantly and directly on there, otherwise I meet with my partner, from this profile. I think many people presume they have what you are looking for, best to leave them be, block and move on, and why send them pictures??

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.

I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find filters and common sense work best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How far does that lead them, I wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find filters and common sense work best "

This

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages... Sooo if your not willin to do this then please save both ours and your time and use your energy up trying to con another couple into sending you some pics lol... Sad guys... If your a guy then just admit it and u might have more chance.. No couple are going to let you meet them on the premise of you being a girl and then when you turn up at their door with your penis it's gonna be a long journey home.. Just sayin... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say about 80% of single womens and some bi womens profiles are single men lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.

I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.

I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me "

What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if I am a guy or women depends how I feel when I wake up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find filters and common sense work best "

two obvious things some people don't seem to apply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure if I am a guy or women depends how I feel when I wake up "

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I find filters and common sense work best "

you do know that's way too radical a concept.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This gets my goat, I turn up for a meet and they end up turning down myself and my girlfriend...cos we aint a real couple?..its not my fault she was made in china and inflates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.

I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me

What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not? "

Only if it's the woman from the couple doing the mailing.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.

I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me

What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not?

Only if it's the woman from the couple doing the mailing. "

Are you telling me that couples don't communicate with each other on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can notice them profiles a Mile off and they will always ask if u got kik?lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.

I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me

What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not?

Only if it's the woman from the couple doing the mailing.

Are you telling me that couples don't communicate with each other on here? "

The men run the profiles. The women do as they are told. It's in the Swingers Rulebook.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always thought it would be blatantly obvious whether a profile is run by a female or male.

I just think we are totally different, we write differently and think differently, so don't understand how people get caught out, or maybe it's just me

What I also meant to say was, I can understand why single men get duped as they probably think everyone thinks and acts with their little head, but a couple? Surely they would know the difference, should they not?

Only if it's the woman from the couple doing the mailing.

Are you telling me that couples don't communicate with each other on here?

The men run the profiles. The women do as they are told. It's in the Swingers Rulebook. "

Damn as a single female I must teach the cat to type! I might get more luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All male here and true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't stand the couple profiles that are blatantly single men. Always the same message, wife isn't playing (insert reason) but has given me full consent to play still. Yeh ok then!

Create a single guys profile then and we may take you more serious."

We are a couple and I (female) am happy for Toby to play alone as do I. I am real - been verified and go on cam 2-3 times a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your nice looking lara x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can notice them profiles a Mile off and they will always ask if u got kik?lol"

And I love kik! Toby doesn't even use it but I love flirting with the guys. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love whatapp lara its great fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whose lara?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ment laura x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How funny why would men do this call me innocent but is nt it risky getting some men all worked up expecting to meet a woman and then a man rocking up.

How do you prove you are a woman though some tvs are stunning and so feminine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw come on. The amount of 'men pretending to be women' myth is almost as fucked up as the 3 million single guys to every woman. I'm guessing that the biggest proportion of people pretending are couples. Guys in couples using their other half to entice women to play. Yeah ok. Shoot me now. Prove me wrong. Disclaimer: I don't mean all couples by any means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How funny why would men do this call me innocent but is nt it risky getting some men all worked up expecting to meet a woman and then a man rocking up.

How do you prove you are a woman though some tvs are stunning and so feminine."

Yea you're right. You look amazing but how do I know you don't have a cock? (I don't think you do by the way, I'm just confirming your point) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This gets my goat, I turn up for a meet and they end up turning down myself and my girlfriend...cos we aint a real couple?..its not my fault she was made in china and inflates!"

Yay!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I would say about 80% of single womens and some bi womens profiles are single men lol."

Shag, where do you get your statistics? And are bi women not also single women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure if I am a guy or women depends how I feel when I wake up "

How or who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I just found one - they didn't even remember the eye colour they had boasted of on their profile!

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By *eyKMan
over a year ago

North

Loads of lads with couple profiles and suddenly the mrs is away and it's just the lads playing 24/7. Shame really

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By *khotcouple20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Hold up a second... Some people think they know it all don't they... We have dealt with people before who have like 30 photos of a female and have sent them over a period of time even managed to send a pic we requested of her (him) putting a finger on her nose... Then arranged a meet even phoned us and put on a voice All be it suspect.. But along with the amount of pics and verification pic we asked for how would we know it wasn't a girl? Then when we ask for a meet she finally confessed that she's actually a guy but would still really like to meet... We're not pissed off ever it's just a waste of time... And slightly annoying... Maybe by highlighting it, it will hopefully bring more attention to it and the guys will stop... But here's to hoping... Each to their own and let people have their thrills but not at the cost of deceiving other people... That's pretty sick and sad

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By *khotcouple20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple. "

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

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By *khotcouple20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?"

Lol good question... I have one for you... Why be so judgemental..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages... Sooo if your not willin to do this then please save both ours and your time and use your energy up trying to con another couple into sending you some pics lol... Sad guys... If your a guy then just admit it and u might have more chance.. No couple are going to let you meet them on the premise of you being a girl and then when you turn up at their door with your penis it's gonna be a long journey home.. Just sayin... "

Blatantly a single male preneding to be a couple pic hunting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't stand the couple profiles that are blatantly single men. Always the same message, wife isn't playing (insert reason) but has given me full consent to play still. Yeh ok then!

Create a single guys profile then and we may take you more serious."

We play as a couple or alone as we choose, or as opportunities present themselves. Just because I (the male) am able to play alone it doesn't mean I'm faking it. In fact, quite the opposite because most single women don't want attached men, so pretending to be a part of a couple will have a detrimental effect.

More common is attached men pretending to be single.

Even more common is people pretending to be something they're not in one form or another, whether that's hiding their age, putting (very) old photos up (we've known 12 year old photos before), or just hiding their relationship status.

End of the day, you meet people and decide if they're for you or not. You'll get yourself all in a tizzy if you try play Sherlock Holmes about it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?"

I'd have to ask the same question.

If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.

Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?

If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).

It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

I'd have to ask the same question.

If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.

Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?

If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).

It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.

A"

I'm curious how the other person must prove it

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

I'd have to ask the same question.

If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.

Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?

If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).

It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.

A

I'm curious how the other person must prove it"

Prove what.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

I'd have to ask the same question.

If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.

Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?

If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).

It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.

A

I'm curious how the other person must prove it

Prove what.

A"

What they said in their op

"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

Lol good question... I have one for you... Why be so judgemental..? "

How the hell am I being judgemental?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

I'd have to ask the same question.

If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.

Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?

If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).

It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.

A"

Common sense..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

Lol good question... I have one for you... Why be so judgemental..?

How the hell am I being judgemental?"

Using your common sense is wildly insulting to those without it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

I'd have to ask the same question.

If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.

Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?

If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).

It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.

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I'm curious how the other person must prove it

Prove what.

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What they said in their op

"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages.."

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Ah yep.

DNA test?

I guess even a phone call or webcam can be faked.

Suppose a good old social meet or just arranging to meet at a club is the only foolproof way.

Hard to fake those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

Lol good question... I have one for you... Why be so judgemental..?

How the hell am I being judgemental?"

I was going to ask the same question!!

OP, I have no idea what kind of pics you are sending people on here as your public photos provide a random pic collector with ample wank fodder but you have to remember it's the Internet & people lie.

Instead of sending pics why not arrange a social meet to prove the person is the gender they say they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't room on here for everyone because if I'm sending private material of my wife... Stuff that isn't on our profile and viewable by the public I might add... Then I need to have an element of trust there to know that the person I'm sending it to is at least genuine... I understand there are really obvious profiles and we don't get caught out by every fake profile we just ignore hundreds of messages but every now and again one slips through the net and it's just frustrating to know that sad guys like that exist to be honest... Watch a porn site and have a wank if that's what u wanna do... I'm sure there are plenty of cheating girlfriend porn vids or duping porn vids online, none of which will be of detriment to an actual real life married couple.

Why send private material to people you haven't met?

I'd have to ask the same question.

If you're looking to meet then surely normal pics showing your bodies and/or faces are what you need to determine whether you're interested/attracted to the other party.

Does it take the exchange of intimate, explicit pics to make a decision?

If swapping sex pics is your thing then fine - but it leaves you open to the kind of abuse you're saying happens. The same goes for webcamming. Put on a live sex show and there's a high probability that somebody, somewhere will be recording it. Sit in front of a screen, dressed and chatting will rarely produce the same result (unless it's explicit wank fodder chat!).

It's common sense. Sharing things you'd be worried about being made public with complete strangers is asking for trouble.

A

I'm curious how the other person must prove it

Prove what.

A

What they said in their op

"If your profile States that your female and you have pictures of a girl then please know that we will expect you to prove this fact within the first couple of messages.."

Ah yep.

DNA test?

I guess even a phone call or webcam can be faked.

Suppose a good old social meet or just arranging to meet at a club is the only foolproof way.

Hard to fake those.

A"

They got duped by a phone call so that's out :p

Club visit is promising but easily faked by sending an expensive escorts in your place.... but this may backfire

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By *herrywaffleCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Guys,

its the school/university summer holidays What else do these people have to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys,

its the school/university summer holidays What else do these people have to do"

Fuck like the teenagers they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And don't get me started on women pretending to be men................ "

I just spat my tea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SAD desperate Twa,,,ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Profile was a couple now a single fem, But I cant get rid of the joint user name.

But I looked and I am a girl. Pics on page to prove too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Profile was a couple now a single fem, But I cant get rid of the joint user name.

But I looked and I am a girl. Pics on page to prove too. "

If you do site supporter you can change your username. You only have to pay once, it's not a subscription thing. You'll get to keep your new name even if you don't want to do site supporter again.

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