FabSwingers.com forum: Is Fab, Fab?

By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

Is it just me or had Fab been a waste of time for the last few months, maybe even this year?

Time wasters, fake profiles, no shows, UNLOS, etc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some great people so it's been fab for me

But yes like any site you will come across twats

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I've met some great people so it's been fab for me

But yes like any site you will come across twats "

Oh we've still some great meets, I meant like a recent decline

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

It's been ok here xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I did turn my profile off for the majority of last year - couldn't really say if that was me getting bored of messaging people, or if it was the people I was seeing on here not interesting me.

I do have a rule that I try not to break though, that is - if I message, and it is deleted, you aren't interested so I move on... which might go against me. I dont message newbies as a rule only verified people, so fake profiles didn't really affect me not meeting.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I'm just annoyed that my profile has been stolen by someone who has freely admitted it in a forum and sees nothing wrong with what he's done....

Now that's low.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I'm just annoyed that my profile has been stolen by someone who has freely admitted it in a forum and sees nothing wrong with what he's done....

Now that's low."

Can't you complain to ADMIN?

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"and out of 3 answers, ones already blocked me and ones a serial Time Waster, go figure

there is a block between us - I haven't put it there

it is on your side! pmsl!

Maybe I wasn't referring to you

well that would be two then - so doesn't look like you are doing that well out of three respondents. "

I said maybe lol

No, that's why I rarely use the forum

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I'm just annoyed that my profile has been stolen by someone who has freely admitted it in a forum and sees nothing wrong with what he's done....

Now that's low.

Can't you complain to ADMIN? "

I have done but so far have not heard back from them

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I'm just annoyed that my profile has been stolen by someone who has freely admitted it in a forum and sees nothing wrong with what he's done....

Now that's low.

Can't you complain to ADMIN?

I have done but so far have not heard back from them

Not sure how people do that or why bother, the pics aren't going to match when meeting and we've walked out on a couple for not being their pics xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used to get cross if I was mucked about or failed to get a meet when I was free. Now I find I'm more relaxed about it all. On here for the forums as much as anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, Ive had countless deleted messages and a time waster... still continue to look though

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I used to get cross if I was mucked about or failed to get a meet when I was free. Now I find I'm more relaxed about it all. On here for the forums as much as anything.

Yes getting a meet exactly when you want is tricky, we've set plenty up only to have UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats a UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats a UNLOS"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had that yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's hard as a couple? Try it as a single male lol.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion...."

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Maybe your superiority complex is the issue then, not the site and its other users.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Maybe your superiority complex is the issue then, not the site and its other users."

What makes you think we have a superiority complex? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about how it was before, but we have found the site great over the past few months. It's has its annoying moments, but we've enjoyed it for the most part

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Even if you block someone it still shows in your summary if they verified you....

But to answer your OP.

From looking at the forums there do seem to be more fakes and "time wasters" (please define?). There are certainly more "single" guys chancing their arm for a quick shag behind obvious partners backs.

But from personal experience I haven't really seen much difference......maybe my experience has taught me to soot and avoid those who would waste my time or who are not for me.......9 months and 19 verified meets would make me think you could do this yourself too.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Maybe your superiority complex is the issue then, not the site and its other users.

What makes you think we have a superiority complex? Lol"

The comment "we block crap shags".

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Even if you block someone it still shows in your summary if they verified you....

But to answer your OP.

Nope, when you block or get blocked you lose the verification and if your unblocked it comes back, look it up xx

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Maybe your superiority complex is the issue then, not the site and its other users.

What makes you think we have a superiority complex? Lol

The comment "we block crap shags"."

Yes, crap shags are those who say one thing & do another when they meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Maybe your superiority complex is the issue then, not the site and its other users.

What makes you think we have a superiority complex? Lol

The comment "we block crap shags".

Yes, crap shags are those who say one thing & do another when they meet x"

The dynamics of a first meet can change quite a lot from chatting to the actual sex, doesn't make it crap. Maybe the other person/people felt pressured to stick to your script.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Maybe your superiority complex is the issue then, not the site and its other users.

What makes you think we have a superiority complex? Lol

The comment "we block crap shags".

Yes, crap shags are those who say one thing & do another when they meet x

The dynamics of a first meet can change quite a lot from chatting to the actual sex, doesn't make it crap. Maybe the other person/people felt pressured to stick to your script. "

As a single guy you'll never get to find out what we call A crap shag is Xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Just as a side-note; wondering where Southend is in comparison to Manchester - is it far? Anyone? Not wasting anyones time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Maybe your superiority complex is the issue then, not the site and its other users.

What makes you think we have a superiority complex? Lol

The comment "we block crap shags".

Yes, crap shags are those who say one thing & do another when they meet x

The dynamics of a first meet can change quite a lot from chatting to the actual sex, doesn't make it crap. Maybe the other person/people felt pressured to stick to your script.

As a single guy you'll never get to find out what we call A crap shag is Xx"

I'm sure I'll live...

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Just as a side-note; wondering where Southend is in comparison to Manchester - is it far? Anyone? Not wasting anyones time

Don't know, Google it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't seem to have noticed any particular difference, the site is one tool we use amongst others...I suppose it varies depending on what you're looking for and how you go about it...

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Maybe your superiority complex is the issue then, not the site and its other users.

What makes you think we have a superiority complex? Lol

The comment "we block crap shags".

Yes, crap shags are those who say one thing & do another when they meet x

The dynamics of a first meet can change quite a lot from chatting to the actual sex, doesn't make it crap. Maybe the other person/people felt pressured to stick to your script.

As a single guy you'll never get to find out what we call A crap shag is Xx

I'm sure I'll live...

I hope you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say recently there has been increas in this type of topic.

Me personally I love it.

Not aimed at o p but folk have options stay or go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is total waste of time. I could write a long story about what i think but won't in order not to offend any genuine people out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been great for us , but we are happy to meet single guys , and love bi fem play too .

It's probably down to your preferences , which you are quite entitled to stick to , rather than the site .

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"It is total waste of time. I could write a long story about what i think but won't in order not to offend any genuine people out there. "

I think you are safe enough - all you have to do is read the OP's replies

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I've found it great and have been amazed at the number of hot wives and single ladies who seem to prefer the maturer man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is total waste of time. I could write a long story about what i think but won't in order not to offend any genuine people out there. "

As a single guy I've found the site great. It requires a little bit of effort and getting yourself out there to clubs and socials but it's time well spent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im wondering what its all about at the moment tbh, guys message who clearly havent read my profile, thinking I will just drop everything and go. Had a guy who has gone UNLOS in the last four weeks twice now on me, we had met once and were going to have a second meet. This time we were going to arrange something more fun, but have now come to the conclusion after last night that he just wants naughty pics/videos to play over. I know this as he stopped talking and went UNLOS two minutes after I said I hadnt filmed myself for him.

Profile rewrite happening today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is total waste of time. I could write a long story about what i think but won't in order not to offend any genuine people out there. "

Have to ask the question if that bad why stay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, there are some wasters but on the whole fab is fab for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't noticed any change, been the same for yearsssssssss here lol.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Joined fab from another site the chat room,s arent as good but the threads are very good but all site,s are the same time wasters Genuine people have just got to live with it but on the whole think fab is about the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some great people and have a couple of friends that I keep regular contact with although dont get to see often. There are men who don't read profile etc but stick to what you are looking for don't go doing things you don't want to and have fun.....thankfully those rules are still working for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us it seems to be if the face fits........our face dont fit anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is total waste of time. I could write a long story about what i think but won't in order not to offend any genuine people out there.

Have to ask the question if that bad why stay."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find fab works for me.

But then I have no expectations from it. If I message someone, even though I may match their criteria I don't expect a reply. If I get a reply I don't expect it to lead to a meet, whether play or social. I have a first meet planned for this afternoon, but until it happens, I expect nothing.

It's down to experience, not that I am a pessimist! Or perhaps I am.

I have made some good friends on here and had some good meets, many becoming more than a one off. In fact several of those who have verified me I see regularly, how ever regular, is.

I am a member on a couple of other sites, but I have to say fab is now my site of choice.

I do agree that there are a lot more joining and then going unlos, usually after a weekend, what seems a good idea at the time, in the cold light of day, isn't.

I have only been messed around a couple of times, never had a no show or someone you could call a true timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of little boys on here. Waiting for the real men to stand up and show themselves, think I may have a long wait though

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By *andp01Couple
over a year ago

here n there

"Is it just me or had Fab been a waste of time for the last few months, maybe even this year?

Time wasters, fake profiles, no shows, UNLOS, etc xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fab is very good for what it is ..but there are other sites too...why put all your eggs in one basket....but saying that fab is the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met some great people so it's been fab for me

But yes like any site you will come across twats "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is good .... It's just some of the arseholes on here that aren't lol ......

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We've had a great time on Fab....long may it continue being fab

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Verified by 19 meets in 9 months.

Hardly a waste of time in my opinion....

It's closer to 29 but we Block crap shags.

Perhaps we want a shag a week

Even if you block someone it still shows in your summary if they verified you....

But to answer your OP.

Nope, when you block or get blocked you lose the verification and if your unblocked it comes back, look it up xx"

You don't lose it in your summary though

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

Abergavenny

4 months on Fab and so far it's been very useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or had Fab been a waste of time for the last few months, maybe even this year?

Time wasters, fake profiles, no shows, UNLOS, etc xx"

Its just you

Imo anyway

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