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By *attitude6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Hello all, its a nicely cold Monday today.

On this site, there are couples looking for Males/Females/Other couples. And these couples are comfortable with a 3rd party doing sexual things with their partner, which is errrm good for them obviously, some couples could do that, other couples cant... however..

What is also on this site is Females (Dont know about Males) whom are on this site who want a Discreet Encounter because they dont want their boyfriend to find out. Thats not swinging, thats cheating. They are seeking out cheating. And also guys who want to hook up with the girl, they know that by being with that girl, they are also responsible and accountable for the cheating too as they are fully aware that the person has a partner

Which, well, in the REAL World, as opposed to online world.. if a girl and guy met in a club or something, and they went back to his/her place and slept together, and then it was found out that one has a partner.. the question is always popped up of 'well he/she didnt say they had a parter'... followed by 'well did you ask'...... Almost as though if they had asked or KNOWN that the person had a partner, the cheating encounter wouldnt take place... however on here... they DO know and yet people are still willing......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

didn't a thread like this just get deleted?

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By *attitude6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Errrm if it did then I didnt see it lol It was off the top of my head lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was another poster but his winge was direct to the married swingers

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Errrm if it did then I didnt see it lol It was off the top of my head lol"

Any chance you could summarise?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

From “our” observations, they majority on here are NOT cheaters!

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Interesting.....there are many females on here that automatically presume some guys are cheating, yet to some of the males it doesnt seem to matter if the female is the one cheating...basically...dont mattter if you are male or femaile....many cheat and always will be found on sites like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Is there a question cos I don't get it

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"Is there a question cos I don't get it "

Nah I think its a statement for people to shred

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By *attitude6 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Haha no question no, more of a errrm I duno as Im not a regular Forum'er.. discuss! lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am going to hazard a guess here..

a big cock referenced either in the profile or verification

and

a meet today or update asking for a meet..

I am doing research into the minds of forums postings and have correlations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to hazard a guess here..

a big cock referenced either in the profile or verification

and

a meet today or update asking for a meet..

I am doing research into the minds of forums postings and have correlations"

so far your doing very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all on here for the same reason, sex, whether our partners know about it or not, whether we are single or not! Everyone as a preference and what goes on behind closed doors is their business and no one elses!

So if they are cheating, who cares! I don't go with married men but that's my preference. So don't bleat on about it, it's happening get your head around it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all on here for the same reason, sex, whether our partners know about it or not, whether we are single or not! Everyone as a preference and what goes on behind closed doors is their business and no one elses!

So if they are cheating, who cares! I don't go with married men but that's my preference. So don't bleat on about it, it's happening get your head around it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to hazard a guess here..

a big cock referenced either in the profile or verification

and

a meet today or update asking for a meet..

I am doing research into the minds of forums postings and have correlations"

Cynical...but true..and do they still have that commune that grows giant veggies in your neck of the woods..??

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

It is my business if a man tells me he isnt married and I meet with him,have sex and then find out he is married. That is my business as he makes it my business the moment anything sexual happens in my book.

Its not nice to be called by the wife saying stop seeing my husband and being called a homebreaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"didn't a thread like this just get deleted?"

Yes it did...didn't last a minute!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think the wording on the deleted thread was rather like a red rag to a bull which was why it went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour me on this one as the topic has been exhausted on a few occasions.

The very fact that you are having SEX with a stranger rather thna your partner is that not "Cheating" whether the yare involved or not.

Morals, let me guess these are the things you were taught in school, sunday school etc on a Pro Christian upbringing. What if you are not a Christian and don't share the same idealisms on life.

Like I said entertain me,

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

That's the funny thing with this world, it's made up of loads of different people, cheating will take place regardless, don't let it worry you! We do our utmost not to meet cheats but you just don't know 100% all the time, especially in a club. Feel sorry for people who need to cheat personally but that's their lookout and I don't loose sleep over it! Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Humour me on this one as the topic has been exhausted on a few occasions.

The very fact that you are having SEX with a stranger rather thna your partner is that not "Cheating" whether the yare involved or not.

Morals, let me guess these are the things you were taught in school, sunday school etc on a Pro Christian upbringing. What if you are not a Christian and don't share the same idealisms on life.

Like I said entertain me,"

Having sex with some one else with the consent of your partner isn't cheating, you aren't hiding anything.

Morals haven't got much to do with your religion - you can be agnostic or aetheist and still have a strong moral code. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your still breaking your vows.

I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"

Cynical...but true..and do they still have that commune that grows giant veggies in your neck of the woods..?? "

aye the Findhorn Foundation.. very good produce indeed.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Your still breaking your vows.

I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them"

What vows? You actually said Christianity, I misread, so that in itself opens up a whole other can of worms which I don't intend to get involved with! ie. what about Judaism, Hinduism, Islam etc - don't they have moral codes too? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your still breaking your vows.

I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them

What vows? You actually said Christianity, I misread, so that in itself opens up a whole other can of worms which I don't intend to get involved with! ie. what about Judaism, Hinduism, Islam etc - don't they have moral codes too? Z"

I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


" and all that jazz!! "

Jazz hands!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t go for all that religious crap, but deception is deception and will never have justification, its like me arguing that smoking isn’t bad for me just because I smoke, I know its wrong but choose to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" and all that jazz!!

Jazz hands!! "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think the wording on the deleted thread was rather like a red rag to a bull which was why it went"

* nods *

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Your still breaking your vows.

I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them

What vows? You actually said Christianity, I misread, so that in itself opens up a whole other can of worms which I don't intend to get involved with! ie. what about Judaism, Hinduism, Islam etc - don't they have moral codes too? Z

I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!! "

I know what he meant - I'm not married! Z

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!! "

...which assumes that we all took that particular vow.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I have no idea what I agreed to, the service was'nt in English

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!!

...which assumes that we all took that particular vow."

And we all know what assume does don't we? Although we're not married, I wouldn't consider - even for a second - lying or cheating in my relationship to Steve, we swing of course but there isn't any duplicity involved! Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I have no idea what I agreed to, the service was'nt in English "

lol - Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has the OP got his cock up his vest??!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Agree cheating isn't to be condoned, but wonder if 'morals' is the right word? If a lot of people could see us 4soming at home or paying in a club they'd think that pretty immoral. We didn't promise to keep to one person in our wedding vows, which is just as well!

For various reasons most people have affairs or one-night stands without their partner knowing at some time in their married life. It's just that some people are using this site to do it; that's their business really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why even start this thread?

if your not happy move on

if you are stay to chat to them

it honestly isnt anything you should waste your thinking time on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your still breaking your vows.

I agree about the religion, but morals in general are to a degree built on them

What vows? You actually said Christianity, I misread, so that in itself opens up a whole other can of worms which I don't intend to get involved with! ie. what about Judaism, Hinduism, Islam etc - don't they have moral codes too? Z

I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!! "

she means forsucking I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think he means marriage vows..."forsaking all others" and all that jazz!!

...which assumes that we all took that particular vow.

And we all know what assume does don't we? Although we're not married, I wouldn't consider - even for a second - lying or cheating in my relationship to Steve, we swing of course but there isn't any duplicity involved! Z"

we talking DP here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has the OP got his cock up his vest??! "

he he only a troll could have one that big shirly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there was a thread like this one earlier only it was from a guy who was actually married and wanting to cheat.

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By *ittle-Miss-MuffetCouple
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

All these posts and I'm still not really sure what the OP's post was about. Was it a statement or question? ....

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