FabSwingers.com forum: timid

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So as some will appreciate I am very timid and inexperienced, my wife again has very little knowledge and so sex for us is rare and in the dark straight missionary mostly unenjoyable time and as I had no previous encounters before her, all I watch on porn channels and what I would like to do I am scared to try in case things get messed up And I hurt her. Talking openly about sex also is very Taboo so this is my only outlet for help. In the past I have had several offers to watch while a couple offer to perform in front of me, however I feel I have nothing to offer in return and as I am getting quite old and possibly boring I cannot offer anything sensational to someone's sex life. Having a small penis, doesn't help being over weight makes it worse. I would love to watch some couple put on a show for me but what should I do and what should I expect? Please help

By *uckyman1992Man
over a year ago

Yarm

You need to express your feelings to her. Tell her what's going on; if you were satisfied with this situation you wouldn't be making this plea.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

How did you get on at the dogging site with your timidity?

Have a gentle chat with your wife and move on gradually, she might be feeling the same way you do. What is it that makes you feel you might hurt her, what do you want to do that causes that fear?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think with your brain organ. I am afraid that I believe in honesty. If the situation is intolerable for you, then leave. Otherwise, delete your profile and accept the positives of what you have. The grass is not always greener.