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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex?

Now I,m a single fem, am I here for easy sex?

Yes = nsa sex. However I prefer mmf, mmmf and more m's than f's. I keep getting asked for 1 on 1's but I prefer more.... if I wanted 1 on 1 I would be on a dating site. Some men may not like that. But swinging is the way I can for fill a need, and that to me is lots in one go. Maybe I'm a slut for wanting that. Men can have lots and hes the man. A woman having lots is a tart.

I love what I do, I'm a swinger and proud. I always use protection and get checked. And not an easy lay as some think. I've worn out the block key.

Whats your thoughts on single fems?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's really refreshing to see an honest single female , who is using the site the way she wants to .

An empowered lady who knows what she wants is great to see , and as you say , too many single females seem to just want what they could easily get from a dating site on here .

You are a credit to the lifestyle , keep up the good work and it's a big thumbs up from us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy if you're in a highly populated area and not discerning about who you have sex with. I could have had a lot of sex today if I wanted to. Assuming everyone came through that is but even accounting for the unreliables I could have a lot of sex if I wanted to. The hard part for me is finding someone on my sexual wavelength.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

OP:- I like your honest approach, it's really quite refreshing to see.

I also like your profile pics but I guess you get loads of guys telling you that anyway.

Hope you get your wish. (and secretly wishes was one of those helping you achieve it. )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex?

Now I,m a single fem, am I here for easy sex?

Yes = nsa sex. However I prefer mmf, mmmf and more m's than f's. I keep getting asked for 1 on 1's but I prefer more.... if I wanted 1 on 1 I would be on a dating site. Some men may not like that. But swinging is the way I can for fill a need, and that to me is lots in one go. Maybe I'm a slut for wanting that. Men can have lots and hes the man. A woman having lots is a tart.

I love what I do, I'm a swinger and proud. I always use protection and get checked. And not an easy lay as some think. I've worn out the block key.

Whats your thoughts on single fems? "

Do what makes you happy. It's your life to live. You da woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the beauty of this site is that pepole can use it to find whatever they wish.

All power to you.

However I am a single woman and I like one on one sex with men.

I don't class myself as a swinger. I'm just a fairly liberated and open minded woman.

Fab is not easy sex. Well it might be if I wasn't fussy.

The men here are, in my experience, brighter, more interesting and more my type than any I've encounterd on dating sites. What's more it seems more honest here. I don't want to go on dates for a guy to then sleep with me and vanish. I'd rather not waste my time. I do things on my terms and my rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, its a cock fest for women here lol.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I like one on one but sometimes I like more than that. I love meeting couples or going on a girly night to a club and seeing what happens. Variety is key.

Each to their own..but yes shag it is a shagfest if you want it to be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the beauty of this site is that pepole can use it to find whatever they wish.

All power to you.

However I am a single woman and I like one on one sex with men.

I don't class myself as a swinger. I'm just a fairly liberated and open minded woman.

Fab is not easy sex. Well it might be if I wasn't fussy.

The men here are, in my experience, brighter, more interesting and more my type than any I've encounterd on dating sites. What's more it seems more honest here. I don't want to go on dates for a guy to then sleep with me and vanish. I'd rather not waste my time. I do things on my terms and my rules. "

I think it is only right that standards are maintained. If someone _iews it as being easy then they may become lazy. Without doubt people on here are wiser, and more direct where they need to be. Respect must be given by all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the forums, and I am on the verge of giving up mailing people without them mailing me first. I'll post if I want a meet, but I'm also not fussed if I end up just getting off to porn. I'm happier on fab and going to clubs than I ever was on dating websites and vanilla scenes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex?

Now I,m a single fem, am I here for easy sex?

Yes = nsa sex. However I prefer mmf, mmmf and more m's than f's. I keep getting asked for 1 on 1's but I prefer more.... if I wanted 1 on 1 I would be on a dating site. Some men may not like that. But swinging is the way I can for fill a need, and that to me is lots in one go. Maybe I'm a slut for wanting that. Men can have lots and hes the man. A woman having lots is a tart.

I love what I do, I'm a swinger and proud. I always use protection and get checked. And not an easy lay as some think. I've worn out the block key.

Whats your thoughts on single fems? "

Your on a swingers site looking for nsa sex.

Hmm am I missing something here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 2 cents. You come across as greedy or maybe lazy if you strictly want to be spoiled by multiple men. But it's a free world, life is short and if you can summon them to your bed, why not.

The best sex is 1 on 1 in my opinion with amazing chemistry.

I've done enough group sex including me and multiple girls to be qualified in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex?

Now I,m a single fem, am I here for easy sex?

Yes = nsa sex. However I prefer mmf, mmmf and more m's than f's. I keep getting asked for 1 on 1's but I prefer more.... if I wanted 1 on 1 I would be on a dating site. Some men may not like that. But swinging is the way I can for fill a need, and that to me is lots in one go. Maybe I'm a slut for wanting that. Men can have lots and hes the man. A woman having lots is a tart.

I love what I do, I'm a swinger and proud. I always use protection and get checked. And not an easy lay as some think. I've worn out the block key.

Whats your thoughts on single fems? "

It doesnt matter what anyone thinks...youre a single woman on here so everyone will bow down and kiss your ass even if you look like the back of a bus or express a preference for mass murder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My 2 cents. You come across as greedy or maybe lazy if you strictly want to be spoiled by multiple men. But it's a free world, life is short and if you can summon them to your bed, why not.

The best sex is 1 on 1 in my opinion with amazing chemistry.

I've done enough group sex including me and multiple girls to be qualified in my opinion.

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You have obviously not been the centre of a group session if you think that the op is lazy to do group sex... Greedy...God yes but surely that's her right.

Honesty I can't stand one on one with someone I'm not emotionally into as it bores me to tears. So prefer 3sums or moresums ...

and if we are going to go on about qualification to give advice on this I would say we have way more group experience than most... I spent a good few years only doing gang bangs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need more of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex?

Now I,m a single fem, am I here for easy sex?

Yes = nsa sex. However I prefer mmf, mmmf and more m's than f's. I keep getting asked for 1 on 1's but I prefer more.... if I wanted 1 on 1 I would be on a dating site. Some men may not like that. But swinging is the way I can for fill a need, and that to me is lots in one go. Maybe I'm a slut for wanting that. Men can have lots and hes the man. A woman having lots is a tart.

I love what I do, I'm a swinger and proud. I always use protection and get checked. And not an easy lay as some think. I've worn out the block key.

Whats your thoughts on single fems? "

Ok whatever you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live free.. and enjoy the life) the rest .. it's silence))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on here allows more honesty by being up-front about wanting sex and not a traditional relationship so it goes both ways, suits men and women.

Women on here seem to know what they want sexually and seem to be more sexually liberated and I think men appreciate that and are happy to be meat for single fems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex?

Now I,m a single fem, am I here for easy sex?

Yes = nsa sex. However I prefer mmf, mmmf and more m's than f's. I keep getting asked for 1 on 1's but I prefer more.... if I wanted 1 on 1 I would be on a dating site. Some men may not like that. But swinging is the way I can for fill a need, and that to me is lots in one go. Maybe I'm a slut for wanting that. Men can have lots and hes the man. A woman having lots is a tart.

I love what I do, I'm a swinger and proud. I always use protection and get checked. And not an easy lay as some think. I've worn out the block key.

Whats your thoughts on single fems?

It doesnt matter what anyone thinks...youre a single woman on here so everyone will bow down and kiss your ass even if you look like the back of a bus or express a preference for mass murder"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You have obviously not been the centre of a group session if you think that the op is lazy to do group sex... Greedy...God yes but surely that's her right.

"

I didn't say it's not hard work physically

But 'dial a dick' and 'any hole is a goal' culture can be lazy on a human interaction level. The biggest sex organ is the brain and it doesn't get a good massage in this way. Empty sex is empty sex even if you are getting filled from every angle. I'm talking lust and compatibility not emotional attachment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My 2 cents. You come across as greedy or maybe lazy if you strictly want to be spoiled by multiple men. But it's a free world, life is short and if you can summon them to your bed, why not.

The best sex is 1 on 1 in my opinion with amazing chemistry.

I've done enough group sex including me and multiple girls to be qualified in my opinion.

"

I'm not that into one on one sex either from here. Would rather watch a couple of hot guys that are into each other.

I get enough one on one sex outside of fab that I simply don't have to look for it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is perfectly reasonable for a sexy lady to like and have mfm, mmfm and more meetings. A woman's capacity for sexual enjoyment from multiple concurrent sex partners is so much greater than a male's. Men who desire 1:1 often seem to focus on their own pleasure or fear comparison in a group situation.

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By *rbusyhandsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm glad my post was very well received and I was not hounded as thought it may have been! THANKYOU.

I do have my one on ones, with my few reg fb's. So I dont miss out on the sensual attachment. But 3somes and moresomes thing.

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By *rbusyhandsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex? "

Men on here for easy sex? sex maybe, easy no.

In reality I've find I can get much more sex from other dating sites. However I find the type of people here to be what I'm looking for, hopefully more open minded and like minded individuals.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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Whats your thoughts on single fems? "

On the whole a pretty negative opinion, there are great people but I have witnessed more drama, playing the 'respect' card yet show very little back to people, moochers, scroungers and people who are so desperate to be loved, they will fall in love by the end of the first message.......

you asked

but finishing in a positive, there are great females on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You have obviously not been the centre of a group session if you think that the op is lazy to do group sex... Greedy...God yes but surely that's her right.

I didn't say it's not hard work physically

But 'dial a dick' and 'any hole is a goal' culture can be lazy on a human interaction level. The biggest sex organ is the brain and it doesn't get a good massage in this way. Empty sex is empty sex even if you are getting filled from every angle. I'm talking lust and compatibility not emotional attachment.

"

How demeaning to those women that enjoy it. Maybe to you its empty sex.. But to me one on one with a guy I have no emotional attachment has the potential to be very empty sex. It isn't for all but just because group sex makes you feel like that do not assume it does for everyone.

It's actually empowering and hugely mentally stimulating for me . Yes sex one on one with my partner is sensationally better but that's just because of how we are together. I'm not one of those people that can be like that with just anyone.

I don't want another man to get into my head.I dislike talking to Much above what is liked and when. So for me group play is sexy, and not empty at all for me x although I get my sexual satisfaction from Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Whats your thoughts on single fems?

On the whole a pretty negative opinion, there are great people but I have witnessed more drama, playing the 'respect' card yet show very little back to people, moochers, scroungers and people who are so desperate to be loved, they will fall in love by the end of the first message.......

you asked

but finishing in a positive, there are great females on here."

I can see why you would say this , and to a degree there is a great deal of truth in these observations .

But , it's not always their fault , and here's why . As a commodity on fab the single female is the most valuable due to the shortfall in numbers . So they get way more attention , courting , wooing , and so on . Thus giving an inflated ego and they inevitably get an exaggerated belief in themselves . So I'm not sure we really see the true person from the online persona they portray .

We used to think we couldn't be bothered with all this and avoided single females . More recently we started meeting some and overall , we have enjoyed it as there are plenty who don't seem to have the negative traits described . But from reading the forums , we would certainly concur with your post .

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Personally I think some single women can be incredibky rude, demanding and arrogant but some can be absolutely lovely.

I probably have a persona and I want to attract attention so I can get a good fuck/fucks. As long as you keep levelheaded and definitely dont believe the hype its fine. We're all here for one thing and im no better or worse than anyone else.

Also if the lady prefers multiple men and has fbs for the rest fairplay to her. As far as Im concerned this site is here to help indulge your tastes so why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worth having is easy, as a single guy, the reason I stick with the site is because there's (mostly) no hidden agendas, everyone knows why we're here, people are liberal minded and accepting of others needs wants and desires, oh and I've met some wonderful, and very very sexy ladies. None of it's easy, for me, or them, I'm very discerning you know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think some single women can be incredibky rude, demanding and arrogant but some can be absolutely lovely.

I probably have a persona and I want to attract attention so I can get a good fuck/fucks. As long as you keep levelheaded and definitely dont believe the hype its fine. We're all here for one thing and im no better or worse than anyone else.

Also if the lady prefers multiple men and has fbs for the rest fairplay to her. As far as Im concerned this site is here to help indulge your tastes so why not?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing worth having is easy, as a single guy, the reason I stick with the site is because there's (mostly) no hidden agendas, everyone knows why we're here, people are liberal minded and accepting of others needs wants and desires, oh and I've met some wonderful, and very very sexy ladies. None of it's easy, for me, or them, I'm very discerning you know lol "

Like it couldnt have said it better myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you live in a highly active fab area like some parts of northern England then yes sex I easy, however down south its very hard lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex?

Now I,m a single fem, am I here for easy sex?

Yes = nsa sex. However I prefer mmf, mmmf and more m's than f's. I keep getting asked for 1 on 1's but I prefer more.... if I wanted 1 on 1 I would be on a dating site. Some men may not like that. But swinging is the way I can for fill a need, and that to me is lots in one go. Maybe I'm a slut for wanting that. Men can have lots and hes the man. A woman having lots is a tart.

I love what I do, I'm a swinger and proud. I always use protection and get checked. And not an easy lay as some think. I've worn out the block key.

Whats your thoughts on single fems?

It doesnt matter what anyone thinks...youre a single woman on here so everyone will bow down and kiss your ass even if you look like the back of a bus or express a preference for mass murder"

Never a truer word spoken! Rose West would have a full inbox on here!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"When I was a couple I always wondered why there were single men swingers. Was it for easy sex?

Now I,m a single fem, am I here for easy sex?

Yes = nsa sex. However I prefer mmf, mmmf and more m's than f's. I keep getting asked for 1 on 1's but I prefer more.... if I wanted 1 on 1 I would be on a dating site. Some men may not like that. But swinging is the way I can for fill a need, and that to me is lots in one go. Maybe I'm a slut for wanting that. Men can have lots and hes the man. A woman having lots is a tart.

I love what I do, I'm a swinger and proud. I always use protection and get checked. And not an easy lay as some think. I've worn out the block key.

Whats your thoughts on single fems?

It doesn't matter what anyone thinks...youre a single woman on here so everyone will bow down and kiss your ass even if you look like the back of a bus or express a preference for mass murder"

but not everyone, you have a good point though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the beauty of this site is that pepole can use it to find whatever they wish.

All power to you.

However I am a single woman and I like one on one sex with men.

I don't class myself as a swinger. I'm just a fairly liberated and open minded woman.

Fab is not easy sex. Well it might be if I wasn't fussy.

The men here are, in my experience, brighter, more interesting and more my type than any I've encounterd on dating sites. What's more it seems more honest here. I don't want to go on dates for a guy to then sleep with me and vanish. I'd rather not waste my time. I do things on my terms and my rules. "

Yessssss........ You have me in a nutshell , thanks for saving me the time to write the same

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

Good luck to the single women on here, with the amount of messages you get it must be hard work to sift through picking out the ones worth meeting.

I personally probably won't a single female again, unless maybe at a club or party, because from my experience couples are far easier to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting post from a single womans perspective. I'm new on here so I would I think like to have a one on one with someone then maybe meet a couple or another man. Maybe just first time nerves though

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