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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Is anyone else struggling to find a bi female to join a couple. We're early forty been together years and know each other's wants and likes. No hang ups just enjoy life and looking to have some fun.

The only thing we haven't done is a club but imagine they're full of couples?

I'm sure we stand more chance of finding rocking horse s##t x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You could add some pictures it may help and some more info on your profile .

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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Fair advice thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many successful couples who meet single fems on here. Have a look at a few profiles and figure out how you might improve yours.

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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Ok debs help me out here I'm struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Your profile says 'me' not 'us'.

2. You have hardly anything on your profile.

3. You have no pictures up.

4. You say nothing to make me think that this is as much about the single bi woman's pleasure as it is about your pleasure.

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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Good advice wasp that's one for the Mrs tonight!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You met a female last year

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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Yes but you see Santa once a year! I'm sure if you got presents monthly you wouldn't complain either! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me your profile comes across as a single pretending to be a couple.

As said above, add pics, write a profile that speaks about both of you and also says what you are looking for.

Bi females are highly sought after on here and you have to stand out from everyone else. Make them want you

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes but you see Santa once a year! I'm sure if you got presents monthly you wouldn't complain either! X"

My point was its not impossible as you know and your approach has worked before so why change it

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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Point taken coco, was only joking but to be honest that's the most luck we have had and wasn't someone regular. X

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You have a 10 year age gap in your preferences, younger than yourself. Whilst we all have preferences, why make you target market so small?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile just screams fake to me. You have a veri from a year ago. Perhaps a couple initially but now a single male still using the same profile. I find it hard to believe a genuine couple who are verified haven't managed to meet in the last year, even if just socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The only thing we haven't done is a club but imagine they're full of couples? x"

We've met a few single fems through the site but have had more success in clubs. Alot of fems we know prefer to meet in clubs as it's a safe environment.

You can actually have a proper conversation in a club and you can get to know eachother a little instead of them having to make a quick judgement based on your profile and/or message which may not even be a true representation of your personalities.

Try it! Sasha x

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Your profile just screams fake to me. You have a veri from a year ago. Perhaps a couple initially but now a single male still using the same profile. I find it hard to believe a genuine couple who are verified haven't managed to meet in the last year, even if just socially. "

Me too,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love meeting couples and receive a fair amount of messages, your profile isnt one that i would reply to really. Theres just nothing on there. Needs pics and personality and humour. As others have said, i would have assumed it was a guys profile who was too lazy to make much of an effort. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Your profile says 'me' not 'us'.

2. You have hardly anything on your profile.

3. You have no pictures up.

4. You say nothing to make me think that this is as much about the single bi woman's pleasure as it is about your pleasure."

Plus your profile basically says you just want to swap pics.

What are you looking for? What are you offering? Soft or full swap? Girl on girl only or all three playing? Unless your messages say a lot more I personally wouldn't even consider replying never mind getting in touch

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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Kitty your spot on. We are having a profile revamp starting with non face pics so we will expect a verdict from you when complete if possible please? Like yours by the way! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kitty your spot on. We are having a profile revamp starting with non face pics so we will expect a verdict from you when complete if possible please? Like yours by the way! X"

Ooh look forward to it! And thanks very much x

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Both pics look different one has smallish normal nips the others are huge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both pics look different one has smallish normal nips the others are huge "

Agree

I'm sorry but those look like two different ladies.... with those questionable pics and only one veri which could be yourself off another profile...if you approached me for a meet I would assume fake profile

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I like to see pics of both the male and female on a couples profile

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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Wow some people are hard to please! The pics are old pics but are defiantly of the same wife and I really only have got one! Some new pics coming soon

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By *jc44 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Just looked back at the pics, taken from further away and using a different phone. Anyone privy to private photos will see she's defiantly the same!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Just looked back at the pics, taken from further away and using a different phone. Anyone privy to private photos will see she's defiantly the same!"

Bear in mind that it's a couples profile - why only have pics of her?

And when you rewrite your profile text can I suggest that you break it up into paragraphs, one big block is daunting and single bi females get lots and lots of offers so may glance at a profile like that and just move on to one that's easier to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow some people are hard to please! The pics are old pics but are defiantly of the same wife and I really only have got one! Some new pics coming soon"

The problem for me still is that there are no pictures of you on there.

You might think that your wifes tits are the selling point in your relationship, but I'd suggest that *most* single, bisexual women on this site are actually more into men than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that meeting single bi females is on Fab difficult but in a club not impossible and preferable. This as it is safer for the single female and also if there is no click then no problem...

Many single bi female profiles are sadly guys who just want to see the "private/friends only" pictures and it takes time to find a "real" single bi female.

Don't forget single bi females on FabSwingers maybe represent 2% and those 2% every body is mailing, winking to ...

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

If she is bi curious that might be off putting.

I'd assume bi fems want to play with both male and female, but a bi curious lady may suggest that she's not into it all or possibly only doing it for your benefit.

I can see why others are suggesting fake profile too but that would be resolved by a phone call but you have to get that far first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still says more about what you're looking for than what you are offering.

Also the female half calling herself bi curious would put me off - I only want to play with females who know they enjoy FF play, so maybe talk about any experiences she's had?

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By *khotcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Hi girls... Just curious but how is our profile? We also have had very little luck on here finding bi females so wondered what your opinions were on our profile? Xx thanks

Jen and jake x

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

We've been on fab for 3 years maybe, have enjoyed playing with others on and off for 12 years and have had the fortune to meet a handful of single girls (together as a couple)in that time scale. Our point is you should think yourself lucky to have met one already as its a special and unique experience.

I should imagine especially single females need to feel safe/comfortable with a couple before they hop into bed with them so I wouldn't expect a deluge of females gagging to meet complete strangers.

Speaking from experience most singles we've met we were introduced to at clubs or parties before hand or Mrs F had met on her own.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi girls... Just curious but how is our profile? We also have had very little luck on here finding bi females so wondered what your opinions were on our profile? Xx thanks

Jen and jake x "

I would have assumed you are a single woman at first glass, because ther aren't both of you in your avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the most common problem for bi fem couples seems to be attracting meets with the elusive single bi female . Months and months go by with the single minded focus on finding one .

Some say clubs are the way forward , and this is true , but the competition is invariably going to strong isn't it ? And the dream of having an evening with the meet of ones dreams isn't quite the same in a club for many .

So what's the answer ?

Simple , stop looking so hard , it reeks of desperation and when you are fixated on just one thing it's impossible not to lose track of reality . It really doesn't appeal to a perspective meet if you are obsessed with wanting something so much .

We don't look for single bi females at all , and yet we have met plenty . Each and every one has come from them contacting us . We are almost ambivalent to arranging the meet with them , yet every time we post a meet we get single bi females asking to meet . We meet maybe one in ten who ask us , and each meet has been great . Maybe it's because there's no pressure and we won't jump through hoops , and don't expect them to ?

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"Perhaps the most common problem for bi fem couples seems to be attracting meets with the elusive single bi female . Months and months go by with the single minded focus on finding one .

Some say clubs are the way forward , and this is true , but the competition is invariably going to strong isn't it ? And the dream of having an evening with the meet of ones dreams isn't quite the same in a club for many .

So what's the answer ?

Simple , stop looking so hard , it reeks of desperation and when you are fixated on just one thing it's impossible not to lose track of reality . It really doesn't appeal to a perspective meet if you are obsessed with wanting something so much .

We don't look for single bi females at all , and yet we have met plenty . Each and every one has come from them contacting us . We are almost ambivalent to arranging the meet with them , yet every time we post a meet we get single bi females asking to meet . We meet maybe one in ten who ask us , and each meet has been great . Maybe it's because there's no pressure and we won't jump through hoops , and don't expect them to ? "

Agree with this

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