FabSwingers.com forum: how hard is it to say "no thanks"

By *enuine_verified_male OP Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

is it just me or does anyone else get frustrated when they receive no answer to a message I mean a "no thanks" isn't hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So im going to have to say no thanks to every message in my inbox which currently stands at 192 unread messages?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Neither is reading a profile to see that you match the preferences and yet I'm still getting messages from people under the age of 96

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By *unLondonLadMan
over a year ago

Camberley/London

"is it just me or does anyone else get frustrated when they receive no answer to a message I mean a "no thanks" isn't hard "

It's easy to think that from a single male point of view. We generally get a lot less messages, if I got a 100 messages a day I definitely wouldn't have the time to respond to all of them, even if it is just a no thanks. Don't get me wrong I agree that it would be nicer and more curteous to reply but some people simply don't have the time. But nothing to get frustrated over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just move on,its not a written rule people have to reply.And some couples and ladies can receive upto 100 a day.Would you spend all that time replying to the them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it doesn't worry me to be honest no answer means no thanks. Forget and move along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No Thanks",there I said it,wasn't hard at all,but then some messages dont deserve a no never mind a no thanks because they completely ignore people's profiles and barge in with their own agenda.then moan no one replies,poor wee souls.

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

The ratio of single males to females and couple is probably around ten to one...

You can't expect a 'no thanks' from everyone you message.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Try to think of your messages as being a little like those pizza leaflets that come through your door tempting you to order food in..... do you call Dominos and say "thanks for the menu and discount offers but im fancying a roast tonight"?

Best advice is to forget you can see your sent mail.... send it and forget it.... dont check its been read coz chances are you will be pissed off if its been deleted.

Secondly read profiles first! it will say if you have messaged before at the top.... if they didnt reply dont bother again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is discussed every day, the fact you didn't hear back means they're not interested. A message saying no will add what?

Top threads on fab

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Is my profile ok

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Hairy or shaved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ratio of single males to females and couple is probably around ten to one...

You can't expect a 'no thanks' from everyone you message."
judging now i would say a hell of a lot more.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"is it just me or does anyone else get frustrated when they receive no answer to a message I mean a "no thanks" isn't hard "
it's not hard at all to say no thanks.. But it's also not that difficult to understand no reply means no thanks either.. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it just me or does anyone else get frustrated when they receive no answer to a message I mean a "no thanks" isn't hard "

Very when too many reply with abuse

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Saying no thanks sometimes results in a very insecure and hurtful and childish response. It's no wonder that they choose not to reply if there's a 1 in 3 chance that they're just gonna get abuse hurled at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typing it a few dozen times a day gets tedious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who gets a fair few messages I don't see anything wrong with not responding all the time, especially when so many messages are the same old 'hi' or 'you want my cock?' Lol x

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

op all we do is send a message then delete it, if we get a reply bonus..spend your time on looking at your inbox,,much more fruitful, wish you well on your search..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is discussed every day, the fact you didn't hear back means they're not interested. A message saying no will add what?

Top threads on fab

Why doesn't anyone reply

Is my profile ok

Cut or uncut

Hairy or shaved

Penis size

You forgot strap on's.

Op we use this site for our fantasies not to cater for those who don't appeal. We try to reply to every message but get jaded by the "why not?" And abusive brigade so sometimes don't bother. Especially if the message lacks game.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"No thanks" because you have responded is often interpreted as "I want to talk further too you".

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Neither is reading a profile to see that you match the preferences and yet I'm still getting messages from people under the age of 96

And you actually do! I think I may steal that idea if I may?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it just me or does anyone else get frustrated when they receive no answer to a message I mean a "no thanks" isn't hard

Very when too many reply with abuse "

This does seem to happen a lot and I have no idea why they would send an abusive message back but why leave yourself open to this.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"is it just me or does anyone else get frustrated when they receive no answer to a message I mean a "no thanks" isn't hard

Especially if your not a site supporter you have a 100 messages per day limit

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"is it just me or does anyone else get frustrated when they receive no answer to a message I mean a "no thanks" isn't hard "

Unless yr an absolute freak suggesting something illegal/grotesque I'll typically say 'Thank you, no".

It's only polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""No thanks" because you have responded is often interpreted as "I want to talk further too you".

Exactly.

I used to say 'no thanks', but have given up because it elicits a long stream of begging messages. People understand silence better than they understand 'no', it seems.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it just me or does anyone else get frustrated when they receive no answer to a message I mean a "no thanks" isn't hard "

Almost as frustrating as getting a message saying "Wanna meet?" when the first line of my profile says I'm not meeting at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So im going to have to say no thanks to every message in my inbox which currently stands at 192 unread messages? "
I think the site should look at having a polite no thanks button to make this easy for people to use when you recieve 50 plus messages a day saying sorry no thanks gets boreing or sorry your to young to old ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""No thanks" because you have responded is often interpreted as "I want to talk further too you".

Exactly.

I used to say 'no thanks', but have given up because it elicits a long stream of begging messages. People understand silence better than they understand 'no', it seems.

Do some men actually beg,thats so desperate

Xxx"

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin advise for people to accept that some people reply and some don't. Once you accept this your time on the site will probably be more enjoyable

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