FabSwingers.com forum: Male photo's on Couples profiles

By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I enjoy looking at sexy photo's of girls and I am happy to look at cocks but why don't more guys put pictures of themselves clothed, face shots, smiling - you know, the way we normally decide whether we fancy a guy or not!?!

Ok, i accept that some people want privacy (like we do), but surely in private photo's we could have more images of guys, we are on here to have fun and whilst Melv can look at photo's and be turned on, I get very little to look at!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy looking at sexy photo's of girls and I am happy to look at cocks but why don't more guys put pictures of themselves clothed, face shots, smiling - you know, the way we normally decide whether we fancy a guy or not!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some couples with lovely photos of them together. It helps to think of them as a couple and not just a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have those sorts of pics but private so we can send when we think there's some mutual interest.

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

Same here,thanks for the wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have those sorts of pics but private so we can send when we think there's some mutual interest. "

Same here, there's a few of me on the public gallery but nothing naughty. That's an acquired taste

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

cos im friggin butt ugly ,,,,,end of story ,,,, it says so in my profile ,,,, anyway wouldnt want to be cause of a vomiting bug which closes down A +E throughout the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have those sorts of pics but private so we can send when we think there's some mutual interest. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same here,thanks for the wink"

No problem, loved your pics so wanted to let you know. One pic in particular, you look sensational.

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

As do we, it just bugs me when many don't. It seems that even couples profiles are pretty much just focused on what the guy wants. I like looking at sexy girls and I am happy to play, but I want to fancy the guy if we play with a couple and that means photo's of the guy and preferably the two of them together...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both.. It's nice to be treated as a couple and not as a singular element x

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

cant send anything back,too old your limit says 49 lol

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

We like to see a couples together in pics.

Also, no one really asks about me the male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cos im friggin butt ugly ,,,,,end of story ,,,, it says so in my profile ,,,, anyway wouldnt want to be cause of a vomiting bug which closes down A +E throughout the country

What do you do when another couple turns up to meet you? Gimp mask? Paper bag? Stand in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cant send anything back,too old your limit says 49 lol"

Ahhhh, I'll see if I can increase it, ever so slightly obv

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"We have both.. It's nice to be treated as a couple and not as a singular element x "

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We have both.. It's nice to be treated as a couple and not as a singular element x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to see a couples together in pics.

Also, no one really asks about me the male "

Join the club lol

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

i am always being told im a single guy,dont get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to see a couples together in pics.

Also, no one really asks about me the male "

True. We show pics of both but, strangely enough, the fem gets all the fabs

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We like to see a couples together in pics.

Also, no one really asks about me the male

True. We show pics of both but, strangely enough, the fem gets all the fabs "

Not true, i fab'd your singing in the rain photo! ; )

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

i got 23 in eight months,she gets 1000,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to see a couples together in pics.

Also, no one really asks about me the male

True. We show pics of both but, strangely enough, the fem gets all the fabs "

Have you tried posing provocatively like your wife does? Bermuda shorts don't quite cut it for me.

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

just me i guess,didnt really think about it

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"i got 23 in eight months,she gets 1000,lol

Yeah I bet, we don't allow Fabs anymore because of all the single guys, does make it hard to tell these days x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a lot of couples profiles look like single women ones.

A few above ^^ have a very good mixture tho....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The blokes that say they are ugly/ don't look good so have no pics of them, shouldn't be swinging.

If they truly think so little of themselves it's disgusting what thoughts must go through their head when they are fucking a woman other than their partner. Pity? Horror? That she must be desperate to fuck you???!

It's horribly disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we keep them as private so can send to couples or singles that look a promising prospect

what gets our goat is face pics where the guy has made no effort - is amazing why they would not try their best !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me a lot of couples profiles look like single women ones.

A few above ^^ have a very good mixture tho....

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I'm in about 1/3rd of ours but no has ever addressed me in a message lol,and so what.

I dont think I'm the eye candy on this profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End if rant

I don't put mine up as it would make you lesser mortals feel inadequate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have lots of pics of R. Mainly cos I think he's the hottest man I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cos im friggin butt ugly ,,,,,end of story ,,,, it says so in my profile ,,,, "

According to who though? Beauty in the eye of the beholder and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have those kinds of pics but in our friends only gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to give a good mix of both and together too, face pix is private and when chatting a bit to someone, we swap, as for fabs on pix, think it's mainly guys fabbing so I do get bit more, although Scottie does get chuffed when a few hot ladies fab his

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

End if rant

I don't put mine up as it would make you lesser mortals feel inadequate

Make us feel inadequate then! ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have lots of pics of R. Mainly cos I think he's the hottest man I know

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

End if rant

I don't put mine up as it would make you lesser mortals feel inadequate

Make us feel inadequate then! ; )

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By *andl76Couple
over a year ago

north east

I on occasion put a pic of me ( male) on but receive so few likes compared to the wife it makes me think either I'm too plain or not what folks want and as such maybe shouldn't post again .

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I on occasion put a pic of me ( male) on but receive so few likes compared to the wife it makes me think either I'm too plain or not what folks want and as such maybe shouldn't post again .

Rubbish, you both look really cute

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By *andl76Couple
over a year ago

north east

"I on occasion put a pic of me ( male) on but receive so few likes compared to the wife it makes me think either I'm too plain or not what folks want and as such maybe shouldn't post again .

Rubbish, you both look really cute

Aah thanks

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

Tend to keep my face out of it,puts people off fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instantly puts me off when there is no picture of the man..You are a couple,then why not show you are a couple??!!..

I understand if people do not want to show their faces on public photos,but at least send one in private!!....AND,i am sick of seeing dick pics!!...So what if your dick is big,doesn't mean to say it works properly!!!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have lots of pics of R. Mainly cos I think he's the hottest man I know

He's hot that's for sure.

I'm having a nice daydream of being the sandwich filling between him & Mr P4K.

Okay cold shower time, me thinks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to see a couples together in pics.

Also, no one really asks about me the male

True. We show pics of both but, strangely enough, the fem gets all the fabs

Have you tried posing provocatively like your wife does? Bermuda shorts don't quite cut it for me. "

Did you mean us? If so, my arse is being all provocative in the shower!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have lots of pics of R. Mainly cos I think he's the hottest man I know

He's hot that's for sure.

I'm having a nice daydream of being the sandwich filling between him & Mr P4K.

Okay cold shower time, me thinks!!"

I regularly daydream about him. I've just some new pics off him. I'm getting demanding now. Yesterday was bum. Today thighs lol. Will stick them on in a bit when I grab a cuppa

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

"cos im friggin butt ugly ,,,,,end of story ,,,, it says so in my profile ,,,, anyway wouldnt want to be cause of a vomiting bug which closes down A +E throughout the country

What do you do when another couple turns up to meet you? Gimp mask? Paper bag? Stand in?"

I knew that there might be an issue when we started out on this lifestyle journey hence why we only met at clubs ,,then at least those that did not like what was before them could at least look elsewhere ,weve had one or two 'thanks but no thanks' and one 'hell fuck no',, but at least people can make their own judgement face to face and can make a better informed decision on what sort of fella i am . I am lucky in the fact that we have met one couple and they have become fantastic friends and if truth be known it has taken us away from the swinging scene ,,,, i have other problems now and its just nice that when we are out as a foursome they are prepared to put up with my inadequacies, at the end of the day I think im a real nice chap with plenty of charisma and charm ,,,, for some folks that is enough ,,,,,,, for others its not and thats fairy muff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined in the hope of experiencing threesomes with mf couples. I did meet a few in the beginning but in all honesty I was put off by the pics, not only as nobody seems to have pics of the men (which I find weird, men are usually less shy than women) but also just a load of action shots. I just wanted to meet a nice couple I could have a drink and laugh with as well as sex. And even tho I'm be I'm definitely more attracted to men than women.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Would love to have some extra photos to put in my profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah u seem to get a lot of picture of the female but the only male pics are of his cock

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By *andl76Couple
over a year ago

north east

"I joined in the hope of experiencing threesomes with mf couples. I did meet a few in the beginning but in all honesty I was put off by the pics, not only as nobody seems to have pics of the men (which I find weird, men are usually less shy than women) but also just a load of action shots. I just wanted to meet a nice couple I could have a drink and laugh with as well as sex. And even tho I'm be I'm definitely more attracted to men than women."

You're just the type of person we're looking for but very hard to find /meet shame your on the other side of the country

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

"cos im friggin butt ugly ,,,,,end of story ,,,, it says so in my profile ,,,,

According to who though? Beauty in the eye of the beholder and all that

absolutely but im also not a muppet ,,,, someone once told me 'you cant polish a turd '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to see a couples together in pics.

Also, no one really asks about me the male "

is that because 90% of your mail is dick pics from single guys? :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just the type of person we're looking for but very hard to find /meet shame your on the other side of the country

Aww thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has made me think again about our pics. We have a face pic in private but wouldn't put one in public. We both like taking sexy pics of C so it seems natural to put them up, we don't really think of taking 'those sort' of pics of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah we've got pix of our faces in private gallery and always happy to send if peeps like the no face pix. Pity we can't post them in public as we seem to get a few fabs in private

, just can't have them up all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End if rant

A LOT of couples go by the wayside because of this, we don't understand it either, but it's very common. I (the male) find the lady attractive and my wife is 'well what is there for me?' so we tend to just skip them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has made me think again about our pics. We have a face pic in private but wouldn't put one in public. We both like taking sexy pics of C so it seems natural to put them up, we don't really think of taking 'those sort' of pics of me."

But you're looking for guys so I would assume they are more Interested in the woman anyway. Whereas I'm more interested in the men and seeing a profile full of women's pics make me think they only want me to play the woman and I wouldn't be allowed to touch the man

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

End if rant

You have great photo's. This is exactly how we feel - and is pretty much why we go to Clubs, at least we get to see both people. Also why we go to clothed clubs as I like looking at guys clothed and then going from there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End if rant

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By *eggaeloverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Some nice ones of me for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love to mix it up... Hopefully something for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we are just ugly feckers with hot wives ?

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We love to mix it up... Hopefully something for everyone.

Certainly looks that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have equal amount of both. Face pics sent if a good interest both ways

Mildred like other ladys likes to see the guy aswell. Nothing worse than contacting a cple. Then having to excuse yourself when you see the guy is not what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love to mix it up... Hopefully something for everyone.

Your pictures are hot

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

" Maybe we are just ugly feckers with hot wives ?"

So why would i be interested then!? Again fine for my bf, but what do i get...

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

that us lol

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We have equal amount of both. Face pics sent if a good interest both ways

Mildred like other ladys likes to see the guy aswell. Nothing worse than contacting a cple. Then having to excuse yourself when you see the guy is not what you want"

Spot on!

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By *otlerCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

" Maybe we are just ugly feckers with hot wives ?"
thats us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have equal amount of both. Face pics sent if a good interest both ways

Mildred like other ladys likes to see the guy aswell. Nothing worse than contacting a cple. Then having to excuse yourself when you see the guy is not what you want"

Exactly, that's why we don't bother asking any more. Seems some men are ashamed of themselves, but I know in our case my wife has very peculiar tastes lol. We've had James Bond types approach us that I thought would be a nail on certainty for her to like and she didn't like them, and then what to me look like bald headed lads who look like they've ran into the back of a bus and she's fancied the arse off them!

So, just show what you got lads, no need to be shy

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By *wiceasnice2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

My bloke hates his photo being taken. Miserable bugger! XXX

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"My bloke hates his photo being taken. Miserable bugger! XXX

So do i, but this is all about marketing and i don't buy what i can't see - although try before you buy might be fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My bloke hates his photo being taken. Miserable bugger! XXX

Don't take photos, they never come out right. Take a video and then pause it and run through it and choose the stills that look good, take a screenshot of it and you end up with better pics. Top tip of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love to mix it up... Hopefully something for everyone.

Gorgeous pics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My bloke hates his photo being taken. Miserable bugger! XXX

Lol should have looked before I replied, you have plenty of pics of him and they look great which you bloody well knew haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My bloke hates his photo being taken. Miserable bugger! XXX

At least you have some of him though and nice body so it should go in your favour x

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By *wiceasnice2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"My bloke hates his photo being taken. Miserable bugger! XXX

Lol should have looked before I replied, you have plenty of pics of him and they look great which you bloody well knew haha

I meant together. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love to mix it up... Hopefully something for everyone.

Your pictures are hot"

And likewise xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love to mix it up... Hopefully something for everyone.

Gorgeous pics xx"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also keep face pics just for trusted users . But we also try and have a mix of photos xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like to see a couples together in pics.

Also, no one really asks about me the male

True. We show pics of both but, strangely enough, the fem gets all the fabs

Not true, i fab'd your singing in the rain photo! ; )"

You did, and it's much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol classic, no pics of the man on the op's profile and they want single men to have it?, next.

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"lol classic, no pics of the man on the op's profile and they want single men to have it?, next."

We do have them on friends ones and that is where they stay. My point is that many dont even do that! Technically we are both in both pictures

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By *aeDragonCouple
over a year ago

Calne

We like to see both parts of a couple, so we put us both up on our profile. Fae wants to see the guy as much as I like to see the lady. Face pics are a must but don't have to be instantly available but for when we've chatted a bit!

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I find it frustrating. Alot of couples message just send the females pics too. I cant decide from that!

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By *ethnmelv OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"lol classic, no pics of the man on the op's profile and they want single men to have it?, next.

We do have them on friends ones and that is where they stay. My point is that many dont even do that! Technically we are both in both pictures

Update - even more so now!

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