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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For a male contacting a couple or lady for the first time can be quite daunting. I for one am not the greatest at it so can any couples give me any advice on what makes a good first message?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Personally, I like an honest message, with a face pic. Something to prove you've actually read the profile and why to think you match my needs. If I think, from reading your message and profile that we are a match I'll reply with a positive message and we can go on from there.

Remember though, like real life, some will be attracted and some won't. Well, actually, people on here can be more selective than they would be in the real world. For certain, most men wouldn't give me a second glance in the real world but on here ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a single guy (when we were looking for single guys) I liked a message that said something along the lines of "Hi, this is me, I read xyz on your profile and because I am into abc I think we could have some fun together." And we only really paid attention to the single guy messages that included face pics.

I was never into the "Hey, hot pics" messages nor was I ever interested in the messages that could have been the introduction to a book. In my opinion, keep it short, keep it relevant (referencing what on their profile got your attention), and include a face pic. Though, as the poser above said, attraction is key, so it still might not necessarily get you a meet. Good luck!

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a male contacting a couple or lady for the first time can be quite daunting. I for one am not the greatest at it so can any couples give me any advice on what makes a good first message? "

A face pic and a cock pic are a good start

If they look.ok we will read the message , but to be honest , if they are good it doesn't really matter what the message is like - we will happily meet

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

start with hello...... end with goodbye

everything else in the middle is very individual....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a single guy (when we were looking for single guys) I liked a message that said something along the lines of "Hi, this is me, I read xyz on your profile and because I am into abc I think we could have some fun together." And we only really paid attention to the single guy messages that included face pics.

I was never into the "Hey, hot pics" messages nor was I ever interested in the messages that could have been the introduction to a book. In my opinion, keep it short, keep it relevant (referencing what on their profile got your attention), and include a face pic. Though, as the poser above said, attraction is key, so it still might not necessarily get you a meet. Good luck!

-Courtney"

This don't beat around the bush with Hey how you doing rubbish.

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