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"I wanted full swing on my last 2 meets. Only got soft..." any idea why? | |||
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"not one meet" You've had 2 according to your veris ? Loads of our meets are soft , no penetration ![]() | |||
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"yes correct,meets where swing took place should of said" Ah , cool ![]() | |||
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"We hate soft swing. We've found that couples that usually do that have a jealously issue which we like to avoid, not everyone of course xx" we have tried both | |||
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"Ahh ok, so oral and mast is ok? God that's our main source of sex when we are togther, very very rarely have intercourse. Perhaps soft swing would suit us haha" thanks for the fab,would of sent more,didnt let us | |||
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"We hate soft swing. We've found that couples that usually do that have a jealously issue which we like to avoid, not everyone of course xxwe have tried both" That's good, they say variety is the spice of life xx | |||
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"Personally, I don't see the point of soft swing, but each to their own. " We agree, what's the point? | |||
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"Personally, I don't see the point of soft swing, but each to their own. We agree, what's the point?" It is still pretty erotic (for some) to have four people in a room, touching on each other, giving each other oral. It can be damn sexy. When we started we only did soft because we weren't sure how we would feel about full. But soft still allows for all sorts of touching and watching another couple have sex while you and your partner do. Granted, we do full now, and enjoy it very much, but there is still something to be said for soft swing. It may not be for everyone, but it is still different from having sex with your partner. -Courtney | |||
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"We only soft swap and to be honest I doubt we will ever take it further than that. We completely respect couples who full swap and there are certainly no jealousy issues on our part. We just get enough out of swinging from soft play alone so choose to keep full sex for our relationship. We have had some very horny and erotic meets this way with lots of ff interaction, oral swaps etc. We still get to have spit roasts and double bj's etc so don't feel we are missing out on anything without the full swap. B x " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ahh ok, so oral and mast is ok? God that's our main source of sex when we are togther, very very rarely have intercourse. Perhaps soft swing would suit us haha" we only soft and probably wont swap. As you say foreplay oral touch and tease make our sesssions not just penetration. Also soft doesnt mean you dont get penetration as you do but only with your partner. We do find it hard to get meets but what we do get is great for us | |||
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"soft swingers, I'd drown them all at birth ![]() When you get your old school attitude out of 1976 you're more than welcome to try.. Maybe it's just the old folk who hate soft swingers.. Unfortunately you up against a very young, very hot demographic of people who will no doubt change the scene. | |||
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"everything but full sex,at least thats what we tend to think" The idea is people meet for sex no? | |||
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"Bring on the soft swing haters .... Just to throw it in the mix we have partied with the hardest of full swingers, they have said they have never experienced nights like the ones they've spent with us.. Soft swing isn't a great label because it gives an impression that somehow we are amatures within a scene of professional "full swingers".. Just because you swap partners to the full extent does not make you better people, more fun, more experienced! As for the jealousy amongst us softies I call BS, I've seen more arguments among full swingers as they are generally out just to fuck everyone but there own partners.. They stand in clubs barely talking to each other looking for a dish like you would a sushi bar because full penetration is the absolute and only goal.. As for boring, I would challenge any full swingers to keep us with us in every arena of play.. Not generalising of course!! " Have to agree with this I prefer all the oral and foreplay and when I meet a guy and he knows full sex isnt on the table he takes his time over it When he's getting a shag it seems to be a rush to get there and oral is limited if offered at all I've also been in clubs many times and heard couples having that aggressive whispering argument that they hope others won't pick up on over how many each other has shagged, but their body language stands out a mile | |||
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"soft swingers, I'd drown them all at birth ![]() Im sorry I didn't realise you had so much experience. | |||
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"everything but full sex,at least thats what we tend to think The idea is people meet for sex no? " Depends how you define sex If all sex is to you is a cock in a pussy then yes I suppose that's the idea ![]() | |||
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"Bring on the soft swing haters .... Just to throw it in the mix we have partied with the hardest of full swingers, they have said they have never experienced nights like the ones they've spent with us.. Soft swing isn't a great label because it gives an impression that somehow we are amatures within a scene of professional "full swingers".. Just because you swap partners to the full extent does not make you better people, more fun, more experienced! As for the jealousy amongst us softies I call BS, I've seen more arguments among full swingers as they are generally out just to fuck everyone but there own partners.. They stand in clubs barely talking to each other looking for a dish like you would a sushi bar because full penetration is the absolute and only goal.. As for boring, I would challenge any full swingers to keep us with us in every arena of play.. Not generalising of course!! " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nobody seems interested in soft swing,dont know why" It's. Because your other half wears sunglasses inside people are worried it may be catching Have sent you a priv mail | |||
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"We only soft swap and to be honest I doubt we will ever take it further than that. We completely respect couples who full swap and there are certainly no jealousy issues on our part. We just get enough out of swinging from soft play alone so choose to keep full sex for our relationship. We have had some very horny and erotic meets this way with lots of ff interaction, oral swaps etc. We still get to have spit roasts and double bj's etc so don't feel we are missing out on anything without the full swap. B x " This ![]() | |||
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"everything but full sex,at least thats what we tend to think The idea is people meet for sex no? Depends how you define sex If all sex is to you is a cock in a pussy then yes I suppose that's the idea ![]() I like foreplay. I like sex too. | |||
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"Bring on the soft swing haters .... Just to throw it in the mix we have partied with the hardest of full swingers, they have said they have never experienced nights like the ones they've spent with us.. Soft swing isn't a great label because it gives an impression that somehow we are amatures within a scene of professional "full swingers".. Just because you swap partners to the full extent does not make you better people, more fun, more experienced! As for the jealousy amongst us softies I call BS, I've seen more arguments among full swingers as they are generally out just to fuck everyone but there own partners.. They stand in clubs barely talking to each other looking for a dish like you would a sushi bar because full penetration is the absolute and only goal.. As for boring, I would challenge any full swingers to keep us with us in every arena of play.. Not generalising of course!! ![]() ![]() ![]() It's an outdated attitude.. but it'll soon change I'm sure.. X | |||
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"We are looking for either soft or a mix. It's nothing to do with jealousy. It's me (Rach) that has set the limits with soft only with a guy. We are new to this and won't go faster than we are comfortable. I am not comfortable with the idea of full sex with another guy. In all honesty it took months for R to get that with me, I won't just rush into it with others because we want to swing. R is comfortable with the idea of full with a woman and I love the idea of seeing him enjoy himself in that way. As others have said it's not that penetrative would be absent. Surely again it's just a sexual preference like straight or bi and rather than be rude to others that aren't compatible, wish them luck and move on? But there again I'm just a naive newbie..." Agreed.. Just take your time and go at your own pace, there are as many lovely accepting people on the scene as there is negative ones.. Both full and soft.. We love our lifestyle and wouldn't change our approach for anybody, anyone who request that just comes across as desperate. Have fun and stay safe x | |||
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".... Surely again it's just a sexual preference like straight or bi and rather than be rude to others that aren't compatible, wish them luck and move on? ..." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Bring on the soft swing haters .... Just to throw it in the mix we have partied with the hardest of full swingers, they have said they have never experienced nights like the ones they've spent with us.. Soft swing isn't a great label because it gives an impression that somehow we are amatures within a scene of professional "full swingers".. Just because you swap partners to the full extent does not make you better people, more fun, more experienced! As for the jealousy amongst us softies I call BS, I've seen more arguments among full swingers as they are generally out just to fuck everyone but there own partners.. They stand in clubs barely talking to each other looking for a dish like you would a sushi bar because full penetration is the absolute and only goal.. As for boring, I would challenge any full swingers to keep us with us in every arena of play.. Not generalising of course!! " Amen to that. ![]() | |||
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"Being new to all this I had to look up soft swing, seems like a nice time, can`t see the problem. ![]() I know... But wouldn't it be disappointing "only" to get amazing oral sex and an epic tit wank from a hot woman!! Lol | |||
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"Being new to all this I had to look up soft swing, seems like a nice time, can`t see the problem. ![]() Why would it be a disappointment... ? | |||
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"Being new to all this I had to look up soft swing, seems like a nice time, can`t see the problem. ![]() Sarcasm.. Sorry lol ![]() | |||
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"Personally, I don't see the point of soft swing, but each to their own. We agree, what's the point? It is still pretty erotic (for some) to have four people in a room, touching on each other, giving each other oral. It can be damn sexy. When we started we only did soft because we weren't sure how we would feel about full. But soft still allows for all sorts of touching and watching another couple have sex while you and your partner do. Granted, we do full now, and enjoy it very much, but there is still something to be said for soft swing. It may not be for everyone, but it is still different from having sex with your partner. -Courtney" ![]() | |||
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"I prefer soft swing but it's very hard to find single guys who are happy to meet up and not shag I've had a few decline meeting when I have suggested this, it seems to be more a couples things as at least they have each other to have sex with " I love soft swing i think its more relaxed and less pressurized than the full swap meets | |||
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"Nobody seems interested in soft swing,dont know why" i would side swing.! | |||
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"Bring on the soft swing haters .... Just to throw it in the mix we have partied with the hardest of full swingers, they have said they have never experienced nights like the ones they've spent with us.. Soft swing isn't a great label because it gives an impression that somehow we are amatures within a scene of professional "full swingers".. Just because you swap partners to the full extent does not make you better people, more fun, more experienced! As for the jealousy amongst us softies I call BS, I've seen more arguments among full swingers as they are generally out just to fuck everyone but there own partners.. They stand in clubs barely talking to each other looking for a dish like you would a sushi bar because full penetration is the absolute and only goal.. As for boring, I would challenge any full swingers to keep us with us in every arena of play.. Not generalising of course!! " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"soft swingers, I'd drown them all at birth ![]() Well, I was with on your posts supporting soft swing, then you lost me when you thought it necessary to have a pop at someone's age. | |||
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"soft swingers, I'd drown them all at birth ![]() That's going to end well | |||
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"no, haven't heard a decent argument for soft swinging so yep, still drown them all at birth ![]() What if your single and prefer soft swing? I mak my own choices, decide who I meet and what I do on that meet, I'm prefer not to have penatrive sex and that's my choice I have nobody to tell me what to do or to keep happy So what do single soft swingers = | |||
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" Perhaps those that say they can't understand soft swing have no imagination. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nobody seems interested in soft swing,dont know why" We would if you were closer ![]() | |||
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"Nobody seems interested in soft swing,dont know why" It's all we have done so far and love it, it's very erotic xxx | |||
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"not one meet" No one at Chams seems to have an issue with us only soft swinging ![]() | |||
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"Nobody seems interested in soft swing,dont know why" Shame you're so far away. | |||
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