FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

im experianced so why am i not taken seriously

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not here to pretend or make out im anythin im not so why do i get so many timewasters or people talkin to me like im the one who gonna back down is this a sex site or a chance for people to belittle the percentage who want to get a somethin worth while , i aint desperate just thought if wanted fun a sex site be easyist to find it , feel like im not good enough but know i am why are u on a sex site if u dont plan on meetin for sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have had a fair few meets not sure what you are complaining about.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus it is a swingers site and not a sex site. Swinging is a whole lot more than sex x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple "

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple "

Agreed. Your post constantly refers to yourself as "I" not we, seems odd.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus it is a swingers site and not a sex site. Swinging is a whole lot more than sex x"

It annoys us when people think it's just about getting your end away on this site we as a couple don't look for just a quick fuck we want to enjoy the company and explore and experience new things

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple

Agreed. Your post constantly refers to yourself as "I" not we, seems odd. "

This

Oh and you have plenty of verifications saying you meet, including 3/4 days ago, it's now the working week and also school holidays for some, whining and moaning won't really get you anywhere faster

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

7 veris this month so what are you complaining about?

If you're experienced, and you've been on here for a while (which your profile says you have), then you know that some times are quieter than others.

As others have pointed out, it's school holidays and a lot of people will be busy with family stuff or away on holiday.

Also, what's with the "I"? You're a couple apparently?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bud you've had plenty of meets yet you're moaning, kinda takes the piss a little out of ones who are genuinely struggling with no meets at all. Surely you know how to spot the signs of a timewaster by now, or to rephrase that, someone who isn't interested in meeting you ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Wow! 7 meets this month and you're complaining??!! Not actually sure what the problem is??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wow! 7 meets this month and you're complaining??!! Not actually sure what the problem is?? "

Here's a shot in the dark. Could it be the self-entitlement thing?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will get more meets if ur less selective no doubt lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple "

The post is written as a single...true. But not necessarily as a guy. All verifications are from men. All refer to either couple or the lady of the couple.

My logic says the post is from the lady?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never operate machinery or start forums threads while under the influence of drugs.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have had a fair few meets not sure what you are complaining about."

To be fair it is his other half that is getting the fun and not the OP. All the veris are from men rather than couples which means she has the smile on her face and he is missing out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have had a fair few meets not sure what you are complaining about.

To be fair it is his other half that is getting the fun and not the OP. All the veris are from men rather than couples which means she has the smile on her face and he is missing out"
lol thats true I guess watching her having fun is not as fun.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pictures suggest you do bareback? Thats not going to suit a lot of people. So id say your doing well.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't my type so I'm out

Try using we not I as it will reflect you are a couple

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You aren't my type so I'm out

Try using we not I as it will reflect you are a couple"

That's not right just using we or I

I reckon that people look too much into things here stupid things like that And they don't message

My theory is go to clubs people travel miles to them some every week make a easy to remember user name

Don't forget not every couple or single girl can meet every day at any time

I am lucky my kids are grown up but when younger it was a logistical nightmare going out .

Like always clubs clubs parties parties social social leave the one on one meets to those that have the time to spend yonks sifting through Internet wannabes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple

The post is written as a single...true. But not necessarily as a guy. All verifications are from men. All refer to either couple or the lady of the couple.

My logic says the post is from the lady?"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of pictures of the female enjoying herself. None of the male or of them in just some ordinary poses, all just having sex and like some have said, bareback too. But you have veris, so its obviously working. Hope it continues this way for you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try using we not I as it will reflect you are a couple...

That's not right just using we or I

I reckon that people look too much into things here stupid things like that And they don't message.

I was referring to the OP where it is written in the singular. I did not read their profile as I'm not interested. Many previous posters mention the same...

Did you highlight their comments?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple

The post is written as a single...true. But not necessarily as a guy. All verifications are from men. All refer to either couple or the lady of the couple.

My logic says the post is from the lady?"

Spot on, i didn't realise the OP was a 'couple'....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus it is a swingers site and not a sex site. Swinging is a whole lot more than sex x"

Very good comment. Even at clubs I notice the tendency towards social gathering is more common than sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not here to pretend or make out im anythin im not so why do i get so many timewasters or people talkin to me like im the one who gonna back down is this a sex site or a chance for people to belittle the percentage who want to get a somethin worth while , i aint desperate just thought if wanted fun a sex site be easyist to find it , feel like im not good enough but know i am why are u on a sex site if u dont plan on meetin for sex "

We are , we do , and often

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus it is a swingers site and not a sex site. Swinging is a whole lot more than sex x

Very good comment. Even at clubs I notice the tendency towards social gathering is more common than sex"

That's why we stopped going to clubs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Lots of pictures of the female enjoying herself. None of the male or of them in just some ordinary poses, all just having sex and like some have said, bareback too. But you have veris, so its obviously working. Hope it continues this way for you. "

Was just about to post the same ... surely this what the OP counts as experienced

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not complaing bout meets just the way get spoken to , sorry am a couple aint single male wouldnt have the verivications to say i am if wastnt , funny how i make a point about timewasters putting us down then u all attack sayin i must be timewaster and im ungratefull , if i have so many people sayin im genuine and i am lucky why all the put downs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus it is a swingers site and not a sex site. Swinging is a whole lot more than sex x"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

We wouldn't meet for various reasons but primarily you have no pictures of the man, just the female half having lots of fun?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Coz that how he like it , and some of tge pics are him , sorry im greedy yet aint my wishs , u all judge me yet it how he want it and he my man and i dont think twice bout meets only him , glad u all think u know it all , and swinging as a coouple is only sex as if u in love what else cud a stranger give but a emotionless toy to get off on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

But humans aren't emotionless. You are using people and that is not attractive. Neither is pissed posting, but that's another thread.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/08/15 05:44:19]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abloversCouple
over a year ago

London

Why ask for people's comments if you don't like the answers?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"Coz that how he like it , and some of tge pics are him , sorry im greedy yet aint my wishs , u all judge me yet it how he want it and he my man and i dont think twice bout meets only him , glad u all think u know it all , and swinging as a coouple is only sex as if u in love what else cud a stranger give but a emotionless toy to get off on "

^^ this says to me that you are more into this than him, maybe he wants connections and swinging relationships, you want a fuck behind the bike sheds. Just,y opinion, not a judgement. It sounds like a lack of communication between you as a couple tbh.

What a lot have said is its very difficult to know who is posting, maybe an idea - as most couples do - and sign off as him or her, you know just give us a clue

You started this thread asking why you weren't being taken seriously, I think your latest posting answers that question OP, try talking to each other and finding what you BOTH want.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top