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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems it's ok for ladies and couples to wink men but men do it and that get shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks. In fact we'd generally rather get a wink than a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are one of the very few on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually people put in their profiles if they like winks or not.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

We don't mind them as long as the person sending employs some common sense.

Winks from a single guy with nothing on the profile (like nice pics not cock) and a who doesn't match what we're looking for, we will usually block for not reading the profile, because to us it's being lazy.

A wink from someone who sparks our interest may get one back.

A wink from someone with face pics who there is an attraction to, with a good profile, some verifications and been on a while will definitely get a wink in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a wink, but yes there has to be a decent profile to back it up. I wink sometimes if I'm not sure the person will be interested in an older curvy lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mass delete ALL winks

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

they dont get shot at all mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mass delete ALL winks "
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood people who complain about winks. It's hardly causing anyone any trouble, and can be an ice breaker

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"mass delete ALL winks "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind winks and if interested we will wink back or message . But we don't like it when they wink and we wink back then nothing ????? Pointless

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By *arrykathCouple
over a year ago

eastbourne

We have no issues with winks if the person who winks actually reads the profile, we state no single guys but still get winks from single guys, if we get wink from a couple then we look and communicate cos that's what we r looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understood people who complain about winks. It's hardly causing anyone any trouble, and can be an ice breaker "
totally agree ,think them harmless ,shows interest can't see why people get upset unless someone constantly winks over and over this would be good reason to block them I expect there's a few pests out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks. It is a good way of gauging interest. What I don't like is that people tend to wink us when they know they don't meet our requirements (usually because they are too old for us). That can be a bit annoying.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind em, anyone can send them our way but if it's plain we're not compatible they'll just end up binned.

No dramas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely look at who's winked at me.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Find them harmless to be honest can be quite flattering like fabs not going to complain lol

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Totally harmless. But often than not I ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understood people who complain about winks. It's hardly causing anyone any trouble, and can be an ice breaker "

Agree. And if the winker's profile is crap then that's good too, as there's no need to do anything at all and no-one gets upset (like they can when a message isn't responded to).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like Winks, and any that catch our eye we'll message they don't do any harm do they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like winks. In fact we'd generally rather get a wink than a message."

Yes me too, it's then up to me whether I thank them for the wink and make contact rather than politely decline a message

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I very rarely look at who's winked at me."
I very rarely get one so no point in looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to wink and if I get a wink back then I message. It's a way of gushing interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are fine by us totally like a smile across a bar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meant guaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could've been worse, they could've shot their load at you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never understood people who complain about winks. It's hardly causing anyone any trouble, and can be an ice breaker

Agree. And if the winker's profile is crap then that's good too, as there's no need to do anything at all and no-one gets upset (like they can when a message isn't responded to)."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy a good wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mass delete ALL winks This"

This too

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By *aboo teenWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have no issue with receiving winks but I never look at them.

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By *aboo teenWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think it would be good to have the option if you want to receive them or not.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

What a load of Winkers lol!! We like winks both sending & receiving, we however only send winks to people we would like to chat to or meet, or that we have something in common with. We've never understood why people wink & then ignore our return one or even just wink again, we have even had messages ignored from people who've winked us, makes you wonder why they bother. We've received hundreds of winks but never met anyone off the back of it, similary we have sent hundreds of winks but only met one couple (they did say in their profile they respond to winks), for us they are a pretty useless tool, nevertheless we like them & have no expectations of meeting people as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always check out who's winked us, and if we feel there could be a possibility of mutual attraction, then we wink or message back.

When we send out winks, we like to think of them as a quick 'Hi, come look at us' kinda thing.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Im obviously misusing my wink button.

i wink to show interest but also if i like a profile, or appreciate a few pics .... or just like the thoughts they write. I didnt realise it got on peoples wick so much. Will refrain from now on.

wink wink

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