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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh?" True but as a fatty, it doesn't bother me that much. People like me or they don't, we come as a package and everyone who wants, knows what's involved. | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off." one lady into big guys. Perhaps suitable men would be happy to travel to you  | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh?" why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to" That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male. | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male." Cos we're all fat ugly cnuts  | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male." Then do it. I'm sure you could start a few threads etc and make a contribution to the cause. | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male. Then do it. I'm sure you could start a few threads etc and make a contribution to the cause. " Why when this one is already running? | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. one lady into big guys. Perhaps suitable men would be happy to travel to you "It's mostly athletic types, but yes i have had some very sexy BHMs travel to me. | |||
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"We are probably all aware that there is a BBW scene for large, curvy ladied. There is no equivalent for BHM (big guys). So my question is, are there sufficient ladies who enjoy the larger man to start a club night? " There is a scene, it's slowly filtering through from the gay scene. Usually referred to as Bears or Daddies. I have a real weakness for guys who are big built, hairy, and primarily into men. | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male. Then do it. I'm sure you could start a few threads etc and make a contribution to the cause. Why when this one is already running?" Women have pretty much accepted men 'as they are' over the years. Fat, balding, old, etc. Whereas women have always had it shoved in their face that there is a standard of beauty to maintain (and many have profited off this). That's the societal difference i feel. But fat people, men and women, do tend to be treated like outcasts, until someone fetishised BBW. Not sure it's a good thing really, to fetishize people so they're attractive. | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to" I'd suggest the double standard is more in the support big women get from other women vs the support women give big men. | |||
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"I'm a big built bloke ie 42 chest. And I always ask this. I know it's all about the connection but maybe it's also because men will mostly stick their dicks anywhere lol" I wouldn't consider 42" chest big, would seem average to me. | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male. Then do it. I'm sure you could start a few threads etc and make a contribution to the cause. Why when this one is already running? Women have pretty much accepted men 'as they are' over the years. Fat, balding, old, etc. Whereas women have always had it shoved in their face that there is a standard of beauty to maintain (and many have profited off this). That's the societal difference i feel." That's true, this would explain why you get loads of fat, balding, old guys playing the lead roles in big budget movies, on the cover of magazines, winning the X Factor, pinned up on teenage girls walls etc... Seriously ladies, such a big deal has been made of the media promoting 'unrealistic depictions of beauty' for women, the fact that males are largely subject to the same goes completely overlooked. | |||
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"I have a MAJOR large man fetish. I just love flesh. Skinny guys do nothing for me. My pin ups are the hairy bikers. Xxxx" Is that because they're big though or because hairy bearded biker types come across as manly? | |||
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"We are probably all aware that there is a BBW scene for large, curvy ladied. There is no equivalent for BHM (big guys). So my question is, are there sufficient ladies who enjoy the larger man to start a club night? There is a scene, it's slowly filtering through from the gay scene. Usually referred to as Bears or Daddies. I have a real weakness for guys who are big built, hairy, and primarily into men. "Yeah I do get quite a few guys wanting to meet me coz they class me as a bear...wish I had more time to meet all these bear lovers | |||
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"I have a MAJOR large man fetish. I just love flesh. Skinny guys do nothing for me. My pin ups are the hairy bikers. Xxxx" Think I need to visit Colchester x | |||
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"I'm a big built bloke ie 42 chest. And I always ask this. I know it's all about the connection but maybe it's also because men will mostly stick their dicks anywhere lol" 42" chest is the standard size used for photographing clothes in the fashion industry... that's not big built. That's normal! | |||
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"I have a MAJOR large man fetish. I just love flesh. Skinny guys do nothing for me. My pin ups are the hairy bikers. Xxxx Is that because they're big though or because hairy bearded biker types come across as manly?" All of it. I like a man to look and feel like a man. With a belly and handles. I love it! Xxxx | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male. Then do it. I'm sure you could start a few threads etc and make a contribution to the cause. Why when this one is already running? Women have pretty much accepted men 'as they are' over the years. Fat, balding, old, etc. Whereas women have always had it shoved in their face that there is a standard of beauty to maintain (and many have profited off this). That's the societal difference i feel. That's true, this would explain why you get loads of fat, balding, old guys playing the lead roles in big budget movies, on the cover of magazines, winning the X Factor, pinned up on teenage girls walls etc... Seriously ladies, such a big deal has been made of the media promoting 'unrealistic depictions of beauty' for women, the fact that males are largely subject to the same goes completely overlooked." Jack Nicolson? Jack Black? Danny de vito? Just a few i can think of. It's mostly rich people and their families that are represented in the media, it's a clique of people and your average joe doesn't get a look in. I meant society in general, i've seen many fat guys, older guys as well as not that appealing guys walking around in shorts and no top with no pressure to cover up and no abuse hurled at them. If a fat woman did that she'd be bitched about, until society changed and now it's likely she'd get some support. I'm not a man though, this is what i've observed in real life and how i based my opinion. | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male. Then do it. I'm sure you could start a few threads etc and make a contribution to the cause. Why when this one is already running? Women have pretty much accepted men 'as they are' over the years. Fat, balding, old, etc. Whereas women have always had it shoved in their face that there is a standard of beauty to maintain (and many have profited off this). That's the societal difference i feel. That's true, this would explain why you get loads of fat, balding, old guys playing the lead roles in big budget movies, on the cover of magazines, winning the X Factor, pinned up on teenage girls walls etc... Seriously ladies, such a big deal has been made of the media promoting 'unrealistic depictions of beauty' for women, the fact that males are largely subject to the same goes completely overlooked. Jack Nicolson? Jack Black? Danny de vito? Just a few i can think of. It's mostly rich people and their families that are represented in the media, it's a clique of people and your average joe doesn't get a look in." Judi Dench, Whoopi Goldberg, Julie Walters... I'm talking about HUGE, super marketable big budget blockbuster stars, they typically fit into the exceptionally good looking, athletic/muscular mould, ie Bradley Cooper, Tom Hardy, Hugh Jackman, Channing Tatum, Alex Pettyfer, Chris Pine, Chris Hemsworth...I could go on (and on), males are HAMMERED with images of unattainable male perfection, just like women - it's simply that society and the media ignores it. "I meant society in general, i've seen many fat guys, older guys as well as not that appealing guys walking around in shorts and no top with no pressure to cover up and no abuse hurled at them. If a fat woman did that she'd be bitched about, until society changed and now it's likely she'd get some support. I'm not a man though, this is what i've observed in real life and how i based my opinion." No in the hot weather, especially at night time I see plenty of large girls walking about wearing tight miniskirts up to their hips, shorts and hot pants and strutting around in their high hells - social acceptance of revealing skin is far from a male thing. "I have a MAJOR large man fetish. I just love flesh. Skinny guys do nothing for me. My pin ups are the hairy bikers. Xxxx Is that because they're big though or because hairy bearded biker types come across as manly? All of it. I like a man to look and feel like a man. With a belly and handles. I love it! Xxxx" I have legs like tree trunks, so hairy that when wet, they actually look like they're made of wood. That manly enough for you? | |||
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"I get abuse on the street quite regularly from people who assume they know everything about my lifestyle from one glance. but I am very confident and can run, which surprises them!" That says way more about them than you bud. Just tell them you can lose weight if you want but they'll always be rude arrogant twats ! | |||
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"When you relocate, Absinthe-man, I'm right here! Xxxx" wat about tattoed and biggish..lol.. | |||
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"36 waist. " 38" waist and 46" chest. Some of it fat, some of it muscle. On the rugby pitch I love a bit of crash ball, opposition go over like bowling pins | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh?" I'm a big girl but I will admit to preferring slimmer men but fit rugby build is good too  | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male. Then do it. I'm sure you could start a few threads etc and make a contribution to the cause. Why when this one is already running? Women have pretty much accepted men 'as they are' over the years. Fat, balding, old, etc. Whereas women have always had it shoved in their face that there is a standard of beauty to maintain (and many have profited off this). That's the societal difference i feel. That's true, this would explain why you get loads of fat, balding, old guys playing the lead roles in big budget movies, on the cover of magazines, winning the X Factor, pinned up on teenage girls walls etc... Seriously ladies, such a big deal has been made of the media promoting 'unrealistic depictions of beauty' for women, the fact that males are largely subject to the same goes completely overlooked. Jack Nicolson? Jack Black? Danny de vito? Just a few i can think of. It's mostly rich people and their families that are represented in the media, it's a clique of people and your average joe doesn't get a look in. I meant society in general, i've seen many fat guys, older guys as well as not that appealing guys walking around in shorts and no top with no pressure to cover up and no abuse hurled at them. If a fat woman did that she'd be bitched about, until society changed and now it's likely she'd get some support. I'm not a man though, this is what i've observed in real life and how i based my opinion." Most of the bitching about women comes from women. That's based on my experience. Men don't seem too bothered what other males look like? Media fed insecurities? I'm not sure. | |||
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"36 waist. 38" waist and 46" chest. Some of it fat, some of it muscle. On the rugby pitch I love a bit of crash ball, opposition go over like bowling pins "Could I guess at you being about 15.5 to 16 stone then? | |||
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"Men don't seem too bothered what other males look like? Media fed insecurities? I'm not sure." Or they simply don't admit it...remember, males aren't supposed to disclose their emotions and insecurities...its un-manly (another social pressure)... | |||
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"36 waist. 38" waist and 46" chest. Some of it fat, some of it muscle. On the rugby pitch I love a bit of crash ball, opposition go over like bowling pins
Could I guess at you being about 15.5 to 16 stone then?"Fairly close. 14.5 stone but coming down from 16.5 just over a year ago. Trying to get to 13. | |||
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"Men don't seem too bothered what other males look like? Media fed insecurities? I'm not sure. Or they simply don't admit it...remember, males aren't supposed to disclose their emotions and insecurities...its un-manly (another social pressure)..." Is that a projection? | |||
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"Men don't seem too bothered what other males look like? Media fed insecurities? I'm not sure. Or they simply don't admit it...remember, males aren't supposed to disclose their emotions and insecurities...its un-manly (another social pressure)..." That's a fair point, but having chatted to and known many men over the years, they just seem more interested in other things. Body image seems to come way down the list. Again, this is just based on personal experience. | |||
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"I have a MAJOR large man fetish. I just love flesh. Skinny guys do nothing for me. My pin ups are the hairy bikers. Xxxx" Hello  | |||
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"Judi Dench, Whoopi Goldberg, Julie Walters... I'm talking about HUGE, super marketable big budget blockbuster stars, they typically fit into the exceptionally good looking, athletic/muscular mould, ie Bradley Cooper, Tom Hardy, Hugh Jackman, Channing Tatum, Alex Pettyfer, Chris Pine, Chris Hemsworth...I could go on (and on), males are HAMMERED with images of unattainable male perfection, just like women - it's simply that society and the media ignores it. I meant society in general, i've seen many fat guys, older guys as well as not that appealing guys walking around in shorts and no top with no pressure to cover up and no abuse hurled at them. If a fat woman did that she'd be bitched about, until society changed and now it's likely she'd get some support. I'm not a man though, this is what i've observed in real life and how i based my opinion. No in the hot weather, especially at night time I see plenty of large girls walking about wearing tight miniskirts up to their hips, shorts and hot pants and strutting around in their high hells - social acceptance of revealing skin is far from a male thing." I think i'm older than you? But no fat women ever showed themselves off when i was growing up, not even sure if there were any obese people those days coz i don't remember seeing any, well one girl out of my whole year at secondary is all i remember now i think about it, but fat people were about and they never showed it off. Now i think about it more it does tend to be that fat guys were used in comedy mainly. Might be where we got the idea that fat people are jolly from? 
Well, it's kind of weird to hear from a guy that the media pushes for an acceptable male standard, can't really argue with your opinion so will let you have that. Nobody cared when i was growing up though, so it's strange to hear this. | |||
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"We are probably all aware that there is a BBW scene for large, curvy ladied. There is no equivalent for BHM (big guys). So my question is, are there sufficient ladies who enjoy the larger man to start a club night? " In the gay circle they are bears gays have a name for every type of bloke I can't remember them all far too many | |||
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"Men don't seem too bothered what other males look like? Media fed insecurities? I'm not sure. Or they simply don't admit it...remember, males aren't supposed to disclose their emotions and insecurities...its un-manly (another social pressure)... That's a fair point, but having chatted to and known many men over the years, they just seem more interested in other things. Body image seems to come way down the list. Again, this is just based on personal experience." I think it's a natural male thing to be fairly external in your thinking, and that's fine, it doesn't mean we don't have our own insecurities though. I'm not suggesting that a man should be 'encouraged' to be more open, as often he may choose to keep these feelings inside him because he feels it would be a sign of weakness to let them out, if such is the case, then even a simple acknowledgement and respect for his attempts to overcome these problems internally may be all he needs to succeed. | |||
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"Most of the bitching about women comes from women. That's based on my experience. Men don't seem too bothered what other males look like? Media fed insecurities? I'm not sure." Yeah i noticed this. Might be because we tend to become more close with other women though so feel more at ease to talk how we want with them? My cousin was my best mate growing up but she was bitchy at times, idk why she even noticed half the stuff she noticed to bitch about. | |||
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"Now i think about it more it does tend to be that fat guys were used in comedy mainly. Might be where we got the idea that fat people are jolly from? "Well look at guys like John Candy and Chris Farley, they made careers out of playing fat, loveable oafs, but apparently both men suffered from severe depression, largely resulting from their weight, and both died young - coincidence? | |||
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"Now i think about it more it does tend to be that fat guys were used in comedy mainly. Might be where we got the idea that fat people are jolly from?
Well look at guys like John Candy and Chris Farley, they made careers out of playing fat, loveable oafs, but apparently both men suffered from severe depression, largely resulting from their weight, and both died young - coincidence?"Co-incidence i reckon. Loads of people become depressed and off themselves, or try to. But yeah they are mainly used as something to poke fun at, which is sad. | |||
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"I am thinking of "overweight" I suppose, though am tempted to ask......over who's weight? the gay/bear scene has existed for quite some time but I've seen nothing akin to the BBW scene for men. A friend tried to start up a group some years ago and got nowhere. " I think the issue is mostly there's lots of men who will happily pretend they fancy a woman (see how many get messages saying their gorgeous even if they have no pics) to get a dhag and thing fat women are an easy lay Women don't tend to have the same level of desperation so there isn't the same "scene" of women lying to try and get a shag | |||
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"Men don't seem too bothered what other males look like? Media fed insecurities? I'm not sure. Or they simply don't admit it...remember, males aren't supposed to disclose their emotions and insecurities...its un-manly (another social pressure)... That's a fair point, but having chatted to and known many men over the years, they just seem more interested in other things. Body image seems to come way down the list. Again, this is just based on personal experience." I'm bothered about what other men look like stacked up next to me and how I look. Body image is quite high on my list. The issue is its lower down the list than cake | |||
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"I suspect in many cases people turn to food due to feeling low or depressed.....and it becomes a vicious cycle. I know a lot of fat people who were just as depressed after losing weight - to their great surprise. " Excercise works way better than food to fight depression. But anti depressants and anti psychotics ( often used off label for anxiety ) tend to cause weight gain through various mechanisms | |||
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"Excercise works way better than food to fight depression. " It's easy to know that, and very hard to put that knowledge into practice when you're sad or depressed. | |||
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"I'm 34" inside leg, 34" waist, 44" chest. I was described by one guy as a bear and a daddy. Not sure if I fit the description, I'm happy to be described as such, but in my head a bear and a daddy had more if a paunch than me!" You're about the same size as my partner who is called an Otter in the scene. Skinny, extremely athletic, and hairy. | |||
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"Excercise works way better than food to fight depression. It's easy to know that, and very hard to put that knowledge into practice when you're sad or depressed." several friends suffer with depression. I know nobody would choose to be so very low, and that it saps all their energy. | |||
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"I'm 34" inside leg, 34" waist, 44" chest. I was described by one guy as a bear and a daddy. Not sure if I fit the description, I'm happy to be described as such, but in my head a bear and a daddy had more if a paunch than me! You're about the same size as my partner who is called an Otter in the scene. Skinny, extremely athletic, and hairy." Really? 44" chest is skinny? Nearly fifteen stone is skinny? You've just made my year!!! | |||
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"Certain Men like bigger women because they can't get a slim one... Women don't like big men because they have so much choice!! Fact!! Sorry, but the truth hurts!! "If it was the truth, there is a petite fem at the side of me would totally disagree with your statement. | |||
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"Excercise works way better than food to fight depression. It's easy to know that, and very hard to put that knowledge into practice when you're sad or depressed. several friends suffer with depression. I know nobody would choose to be so very low, and that it saps all their energy. " And not everybody that's overweight suffers from depression. Some of the most confident women I've met would be considered as bbw's ( if you're into labels) and some of the most fragile women would be considered athletic. It's about how people perceive themselves which matters more than what others say. | |||
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"Certain Men like bigger women because they can't get a slim one... Women don't like big men because they have so much choice!! Fact!! Sorry, but the truth hurts!!
If it was the truth, there is a petite fem at the side of me would totally disagree with your statement. "Rule of thumb!! There are obviously going to be exceptions... And the exceptions are more likely to comment that the people who agree... | |||
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"Certain Men like bigger women because they can't get a slim one... Women don't like big men because they have so much choice!! Fact!! Sorry, but the truth hurts!! "thank you for your polite observations | |||
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"Certain Men like bigger women because they can't get a slim one... Women don't like big men because they have so much choice!! Fact!! Sorry, but the truth hurts!!
thank you for your polite observations "It's a forum and everyone's entitled to their opinions, including arse holes. | |||
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"Certain Men like bigger women because they can't get a slim one... Women don't like big men because they have so much choice!! Fact!! Sorry, but the truth hurts!! "Herp de derp de teedly dee. | |||
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"I'm 34" inside leg, 34" waist, 44" chest. I was described by one guy as a bear and a daddy. Not sure if I fit the description, I'm happy to be described as such, but in my head a bear and a daddy had more if a paunch than me! You're about the same size as my partner who is called an Otter in the scene. Skinny, extremely athletic, and hairy. Really? 44" chest is skinny? Nearly fifteen stone is skinny? You've just made my year!!!" Clearly you've got a different build around the middle... His chest is 42 and his waist is 33/34. He is a triathlete who completes iron man competitions. Just shows that measurements aren't the whole story. | |||
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"I'm 34" inside leg, 34" waist, 44" chest. I was described by one guy as a bear and a daddy. Not sure if I fit the description, I'm happy to be described as such, but in my head a bear and a daddy had more if a paunch than me! You're about the same size as my partner who is called an Otter in the scene. Skinny, extremely athletic, and hairy. Really? 44" chest is skinny? Nearly fifteen stone is skinny? You've just made my year!!! Clearly you've got a different build around the middle... His chest is 42 and his waist is 33/34. He is a triathlete who completes iron man competitions. Just shows that measurements aren't the whole story." Well I'm no iron man but hardly lacking muscle. I'd call myself more of a copper man. Both malleable and ductile! | |||
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"I'm 34" inside leg, 34" waist, 44" chest. I was described by one guy as a bear and a daddy. Not sure if I fit the description, I'm happy to be described as such, but in my head a bear and a daddy had more if a paunch than me! You're about the same size as my partner who is called an Otter in the scene. Skinny, extremely athletic, and hairy. Really? 44" chest is skinny? Nearly fifteen stone is skinny? You've just made my year!!!" Yes bud, you're not big. | |||
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"Excercise works way better than food to fight depression. It's easy to know that, and very hard to put that knowledge into practice when you're sad or depressed." Bit of a non sequitur | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off." I'd love to help you out there x | |||
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"Excercise works way better than food to fight depression. It's easy to know that, and very hard to put that knowledge into practice when you're sad or depressed. Bit of a non sequitur " not at all. | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x" You gonna buy her a car and get her some time off work ?! | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x" Nice profile. | |||
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I feel it is not blinking fast enough. | |||
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"Wish this smiley blinked faster:
I feel it is not blinking fast enough."Maybe its more of a nervous twitch than a blink ? | |||
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"Wish this smiley blinked faster:
I feel it is not blinking fast enough."wish we lived closer! | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x Nice profile. "Thanks love yours too!  | |||
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"Wish this smiley blinked faster:
I feel it is not blinking fast enough."Big urge to rediscover my Lancastrian roots | |||
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"Wish this smiley blinked faster:
I feel it is not blinking fast enough.
Maybe its more of a nervous twitch than a blink ? "Hope not. I use it to let people know i like them. | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x You gonna buy her a car and get her some time off work ?!" No, but I drive, looks like I'm in the same area, and can accom... | |||
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"Excercise works way better than food to fight depression. It's easy to know that, and very hard to put that knowledge into practice when you're sad or depressed. Bit of a non sequitur " Clearly you've not suffered before. | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x Nice profile.
Thanks love yours too! "I suppose is should PM you...PS pretend these are blinking faster for full effect. | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x You gonna buy her a car and get her some time off work ?! No, but I drive, looks like I'm in the same area, and can accom... " I was joking bud. | |||
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"Excercise works way better than food to fight depression. It's easy to know that, and very hard to put that knowledge into practice when you're sad or depressed. Bit of a non sequitur Clearly you've not suffered before." Yeah the dude with hundreds of self harm scars has never encountered depression. ... | |||
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"I was joking bud." Oops, sorry! | |||
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"I'm 34" inside leg, 34" waist, 44" chest. I was described by one guy as a bear and a daddy. Not sure if I fit the description, I'm happy to be described as such, but in my head a bear and a daddy had more if a paunch than me! You're about the same size as my partner who is called an Otter in the scene. Skinny, extremely athletic, and hairy. Really? 44" chest is skinny? Nearly fifteen stone is skinny? You've just made my year!!! Yes bud, you're not big." Not big granted, but hardly skinny. Then again, I don't try. | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x You gonna buy her a car and get her some time off work ?! No, but I drive, looks like I'm in the same area, and can accom... I was joking bud." Thanks though, much appreciated. I have wanted a car for some time now. | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x You gonna buy her a car and get her some time off work ?! No, but I drive, looks like I'm in the same area, and can accom... I was joking bud. Thanks though, much appreciated. I have wanted a car for some time now. "I need a new car too! Where's that blinking yellow thing when I need it! | |||
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"We are probably all aware that there is a BBW scene for large, curvy ladied. There is no equivalent for BHM (big guys). So my question is, are there sufficient ladies who enjoy the larger man to start a club night? " We've discussed this privately and there are sites for larger men. 'the boy' is cuddly. Not my usual type physically however. If i'm just after physical attraction the athletic built men are going to win it every time for me personally! | |||
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"One fan here. Although i can't travel far and hardly get any nights off. I'd love to help you out there x You gonna buy her a car and get her some time off work ?! No, but I drive, looks like I'm in the same area, and can accom... I was joking bud. Thanks though, much appreciated. I have wanted a car for some time now.
I need a new car too!
Where's that blinking yellow thing when I need it!"Just under the comment box. Or copy and paste those. | |||
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"im with you blackbird i like my men chunky "Nice soft belly, handles, soft ass, heavenly perfection,, all those hard bodies,, well I'll give them amiss x | |||
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"Interesting how so few people ever want to discuss the rather blatant double standards on this issue eh? why is it double standards? so because a lot of guys like big women that means woman have to like big guys? you can't help what your attracted to That so little time and attention is given to promoting and empowering the larger male. Then do it. I'm sure you could start a few threads etc and make a contribution to the cause. Why when this one is already running? Women have pretty much accepted men 'as they are' over the years. Fat, balding, old, etc. Whereas women have always had it shoved in their face that there is a standard of beauty to maintain (and many have profited off this). That's the societal difference i feel. But fat people, men and women, do tend to be treated like outcasts, until someone fetishised BBW. Not sure it's a good thing really, to fetishize people so they're attractive."
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"I get abuse on the street quite regularly from people who assume they know everything about my lifestyle from one glance. but I am very confident and can run, which surprises them!" Fuck em | |||
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"I get abuse on the street quite regularly from people who assume they know everything about my lifestyle from one glance. but I am very confident and can run, which surprises them!" The reason I lost weight is because of the abuse my kids used to get about me I used to be a size 24 and the kids at school would bully mine calling me all kinds of names to them It was that that made me realise I had to do something Sad thing was my kids never told me I found out from somebody else and when I asked why they didnt tell me they said because they didn't want to hurt my feelings It upset me to know my kids where getting bullied because of the way I looked and that they kept it to themself to save my feelings when it was my fault they were bullied in the first place | |||
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"I get abuse on the street quite regularly from people who assume they know everything about my lifestyle from one glance. but I am very confident and can run, which surprises them! The reason I lost weight is because of the abuse my kids used to get about me I used to be a size 24 and the kids at school would bully mine calling me all kinds of names to them It was that that made me realise I had to do something Sad thing was my kids never told me I found out from somebody else and when I asked why they didnt tell me they said because they didn't want to hurt my feelings It upset me to know my kids where getting bullied because of the way I looked and that they kept it to themself to save my feelings when it was my fault they were bullied in the first place " You're kids probably didn't care. You're the world to them and anyone who says there's something wrong with you well they don't believe that. | |||
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"I had a phase of.liking Johnny Vegas and James cordon real men End of the day does it matter you fancy what you fancy Mwah" I think that hits the nail on the head. Can any of us change who we fancy? Be it big guys, big ladies, redheads, blondes....or even whether we are attracted to men, women or don't mind the gender. | |||
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"I get abuse on the street quite regularly from people who assume they know everything about my lifestyle from one glance. but I am very confident and can run, which surprises them! The reason I lost weight is because of the abuse my kids used to get about me I used to be a size 24 and the kids at school would bully mine calling me all kinds of names to them It was that that made me realise I had to do something Sad thing was my kids never told me I found out from somebody else and when I asked why they didnt tell me they said because they didn't want to hurt my feelings It upset me to know my kids where getting bullied because of the way I looked and that they kept it to themself to save my feelings when it was my fault they were bullied in the first place You're kids probably didn't care. You're the world to them and anyone who says there's something wrong with you well they don't believe that." | |||
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