FabSwingers.com forum: CATCH 22 HELP

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok guys I'm new and need advice. ...

I'm a professional, respectful young guy who needs some well deserved fun.

BUT. ..

people won't meet unless I'm verified. ...can't get verified without meeting?

What do I do....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try socials "

Or cams in chat

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Try socials "

If only all catch 22 situations were this easy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a little far for me to give you a MOT lol

good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok guys I'm new and need advice. ...

I'm a professional, respectful young guy who needs some well deserved fun.

BUT. ..

people won't meet unless I'm verified. ...can't get verified without meeting?

What do I do....?"

Go in the chat room and I will verify you

Problem solved

Message me when your ready

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pity I'd live for you to do that....I see you like your ass filled of cum

love the taught of you doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously not that keen to be verified

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Obviously not that keen to be verified "
you try to help people but if they don't take the hint, why try?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pity I'd live for you to do that....I see you like your ass filled of cum

love the taught of you doing that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've no webcam at mo....at work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops, ignore me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's typical as usual people want a verify but surprise surprise they can't cam

The they wonder why they can't get a verify

Op that was not directed just at you had a message from another who wanted a verify but no cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's typical as usual people want a verify but surprise surprise they can't cam

The they wonder why they can't get a verify

Op that was not directed just at you had a message from another who wanted a verify but no cam

Sometimes they just want a cam wank and start going on about their cock when i've offered to verify. Does my head in. Had some nice chats with guys otherwise though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometime I really wonder why I try to help these guys meet women

I just cringe at their whole outlook towards women and to be honest I see why you women get so many idiotic messages

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"That's typical as usual people want a verify but surprise surprise they can't cam

The they wonder why they can't get a verify

Op that was not directed just at you had a message from another who wanted a verify but no cam

Sometimes they just want a cam wank and start going on about their cock when i've offered to verify. Does my head in. Had some nice chats with guys otherwise though."

I don't do cam veri's anymore for that reason, I'm happy to chat but that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's typical as usual people want a verify but surprise surprise they can't cam

The they wonder why they can't get a verify

Op that was not directed just at you had a message from another who wanted a verify but no cam

Sometimes they just want a cam wank and start going on about their cock when i've offered to verify. Does my head in. Had some nice chats with guys otherwise though.

I don't do cam veri's anymore for that reason, I'm happy to chat but that's it "

I don't mind doing them still. Luckily they give me heads up in PM about wanking so i just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's typical as usual people want a verify but surprise surprise they can't cam

The they wonder why they can't get a verify

Op that was not directed just at you had a message from another who wanted a verify but no cam

Sometimes they just want a cam wank and start going on about their cock when i've offered to verify. Does my head in. Had some nice chats with guys otherwise though.

I don't do cam veri's anymore for that reason, I'm happy to chat but that's it

I don't mind doing them still. Luckily they give me heads up in PM about wanking so i just block.

A charity wank lol

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"That's typical as usual people want a verify but surprise surprise they can't cam

The they wonder why they can't get a verify

Op that was not directed just at you had a message from another who wanted a verify but no cam

Sometimes they just want a cam wank and start going on about their cock when i've offered to verify. Does my head in. Had some nice chats with guys otherwise though.

I don't do cam veri's anymore for that reason, I'm happy to chat but that's it

I don't mind doing them still. Luckily they give me heads up in PM about wanking so i just block.

At least they tell you, the amount of times they just flop it out in the middle of chatting. I used to wave then block

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"I can't cam and I am too shy to go to a club".

Then you're not going to get verified.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

And why does the OP "deserve" fun?

Does anybody deserve sex?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Are you sure that the refusals are due to not being verified . Could there be any other reason ?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

This place is like a vampire TripAdvisor - you need to get bitten by another member so you can join the inner sanctum and write bitchy/gushing reviews about others.

It'll happen...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's typical as usual people want a verify but surprise surprise they can't cam

The they wonder why they can't get a verify

Op that was not directed just at you had a message from another who wanted a verify but no cam

Sometimes they just want a cam wank and start going on about their cock when i've offered to verify. Does my head in. Had some nice chats with guys otherwise though.

I don't do cam veri's anymore for that reason, I'm happy to chat but that's it

I don't mind doing them still. Luckily they give me heads up in PM about wanking so i just block.

At least they tell you, the amount of times they just flop it out in the middle of chatting. I used to wave then block

Yeah. I think they get carried away about finally going on cam with someone and can't hold back. They haven't even got my skype at this point either.

I might actually start verifying these guys too actually. It will say:

"I offered to verify anyone on cam and this guy PMed asking me to verify him. Imagine my surprise when i was expected to verify his cock and not his face. Ladies this guys cock is real, he came quick and was boring, i do not recommend."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Paulajay and _o30 what are you raving about....

I cant just drop what I'm going and go on webcam at work..

I've no problem doing it tommoro evening I'm off.

And if I wanted a wank I wouldn't need to do it over webcam and I have plenty of fuck buddies. .just never met anyone off this. Yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you sure that the refusals are due to not being verified . Could there be any other reason ? "

Well I sent you a private mail what do you think?

No other reasons...always polite and male an effort with the mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paulajay and _o30 what are you raving about....

I cant just drop what I'm going and go on webcam at work..

I've no problem doing it tommoro evening I'm off.

And if I wanted a wank I wouldn't need to do it over webcam and I have plenty of fuck buddies. .just never met anyone off this. Yet. "

That's me off good luck op x

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

"That's typical as usual people want a verify but surprise surprise they can't cam

The they wonder why they can't get a verify

Op that was not directed just at you had a message from another who wanted a verify but no cam

id kill for that opportunity

just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience lol.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

What makes you professional op.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Paulajay and _o30 what are you raving about....

I cant just drop what I'm going and go on webcam at work..

I've no problem doing it tommoro evening I'm off.

And if I wanted a wank I wouldn't need to do it over webcam and I have plenty of fuck buddies. .just never met anyone off this. Yet. "
we're not going on about you, it's just our experience with going on cam. Not every guy is happy to just chat.

Just a little patience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paulajay and _o30 what are you raving about....

I cant just drop what I'm going and go on webcam at work..

I've no problem doing it tommoro evening I'm off.

And if I wanted a wank I wouldn't need to do it over webcam and I have plenty of fuck buddies. .just never met anyone off this. Yet. we're not going on about you, it's just our experience with going on cam. Not every guy is happy to just chat.

Just a little patience x"

If only a verification eg check picture of face to cam make sure it's not a video I will do . If you want to wank and using the opportunity I am giving you to get started on the site as a quick wank session you need to find someone else

I wonder how many guys miss out on the verify because there cock is on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Paulajay and _o30 what are you raving about....

I cant just drop what I'm going and go on webcam at work..

I've no problem doing it tommoro evening I'm off.

And if I wanted a wank I wouldn't need to do it over webcam and I have plenty of fuck buddies. .just never met anyone off this. Yet. "

Seems like you've got most bases covered there op..

I started with no verifications, I'd guess most do., a lot of the folks I messaged didn't seem to mind that fact. Put yourself out there, meet folk face to face it's already been suggested get yourself to a social..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paulajay and _o30 what are you raving about....

I cant just drop what I'm going and go on webcam at work..

I've no problem doing it tommoro evening I'm off.

Just a little patience x

I wonder how many guys miss out on the verify because there cock is on cam "

Quite a few miss out with me, i suspect they didn't want a veri anyway and just wanted to wank on cam.

If i wanna see someone wanking i can go to chat on here, loads of guys ask you to watch them wanking in there so i got my pick of penises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paulajay and _o30 what are you raving about....

I cant just drop what I'm going and go on webcam at work..

I've no problem doing it tommoro evening I'm off.

Just a little patience x

I wonder how many guys miss out on the verify because there cock is on cam

Quite a few miss out with me, i suspect they didn't want a veri anyway and just wanted to wank on cam.

If i wanna see someone wanking i can go to chat on here, loads of guys ask you to watch them wanking in there so i got my pick of penises."
I will always verify someone either by cam or they can meet us out one night .

Loads have us as their first veri

Just because we offer does not mean any offer of sex etc etc or even see again

Simple meet and greet and on your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Paulajay and _o30 what are you raving about....

I cant just drop what I'm going and go on webcam at work..

I've no problem doing it tommoro evening I'm off.

Just a little patience x

I wonder how many guys miss out on the verify because there cock is on cam

Quite a few miss out with me, i suspect they didn't want a veri anyway and just wanted to wank on cam.

If i wanna see someone wanking i can go to chat on here, loads of guys ask you to watch them wanking in there so i got my pick of penises. I will always verify someone either by cam or they can meet us out one night .

Loads have us as their first veri

Just because we offer does not mean any offer of sex etc etc or even see again

Simple meet and greet and on your way "

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