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"Another couple here who love it. The sex afterwards is always brilliant too so it's a win win " Totally agree - we love it | |||
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"How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?" In front, behind, below, on top - Yes I do! m x | |||
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"How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?" Yup. It's great fun. | |||
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"Would love for this to happen " Waves hands , me me me l | |||
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"Next time my hubby is gonna walk in from work whilst I'm sat on the couch with a man off FAB. I'll send him upstairs to shower, then I'll be cuffing him to our bed, leaving the door slightly ajar. I'll head downstairs & have lots of fun with my meet-all the while he'll be able to hear us, talking, laughing & f*#^ing" Uhhh. That is fantastic. | |||
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"My hub actually prefers watching me fuck other men than doing it himself, suits me" Lucky other guys ! | |||
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"My hub actually prefers watching me fuck other men than doing it himself, suits me" Ditto! | |||
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"Yes, hubby likes to watch me being used when he can. Not done the humiliation bit yet, guys seem reluctant to do this for some reason but hubby is up for it." I'll give it a go | |||
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"We do this and me and my husband love it! Not cuckolding though more voyeuristic!" same as us - not really cuck but I love watching my wife having sex with someone else, sometimes joining in. | |||
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"Love Mrs f being slutty with another guys only problem is she doesn't take advantage of the situation enough!! Foxes x" Yes that is probably where we are at. She must be similar to Mrs N. | |||
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"He is a lucky man then Jane that you indulge him in his fantasies. x" I'm indulging mine......he's along for the ride! | |||
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"My hubby simply adores seeing me with another guy - he also likes to be truly humiliated during the process but it is VERY hard to find guys that can do that properly." It is difficult to find guys who know how to run a cuck session, they know how to look after me but not what to do about hubby. | |||
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"Isn't this sort of thing that jane and Tooty are on about ?. The Bull needs to asset himself a bit more and do things that are a turn on like what I have just described." Yes. He should be in charge of the situation taking control of me and hubby. You really need a bi guy for this to be done properly. | |||
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"Once Mrs N gets the confidence then she can join in with your bull and take control of how you are treated. I feel that once she was enjoying herself then she would want you there to watch and to tell you how good he was. I keep my hubby there the whole time in case I, or my fellow controller, require any services from him. " Good point here Jane. Yes that is a good scenario too. Perhaps that is her dynamic. She enjoys me watching, how she is being attended to by the bull. She has told me she loves the idea of me being on the other side of the door, or in the next room, waiting patiently to be invited back in. | |||
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"Once Mrs N gets the confidence then she can join in with your bull and take control of how you are treated. I feel that once she was enjoying herself then she would want you there to watch and to tell you how good he was. I keep my hubby there the whole time in case I, or my fellow controller, require any services from him. Good point here Jane. Yes that is a good scenario too. Perhaps that is her dynamic. She enjoys me watching, how she is being attended to by the bull. She has told me she loves the idea of me being on the other side of the door, or in the next room, waiting patiently to be invited back in." This works as long as she is good and loud! | |||
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"Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other! Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too?" Good point you make there. Mrs N prefers the couples scene and given choice would always want to meet couple. One of reasons is I think she feels less under pressure to perform and the workload can be shared regards fucking | |||
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"He likes to watch for a little while . . I prefer him to join in Her " That's nice. Perhaps as a one off give him what he really needs and explore his boundary. You may be pleasantly suprised at the result. | |||
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"Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x " | |||
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"Only done wank and suck, she takes the guys load too! Had her tits played with. Looking to go further in the next meets " What a deliciously naughty lady she must be and so much for you to look forward to by the looks of it. I bet there are times when you could burst with passion for her. I hope you attended to her and cleaned off her spunky boobs. Were they well coated ? | |||
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"How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?" This is what we mostly do | |||
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"Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other! Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too?" Yes - a cuckolding couple is fantastic - though VERY VERY hard to find | |||
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"Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other! Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too? Yes - a cuckolding couple is fantastic - though VERY VERY hard to find " Really? Why is that...do you mean finding a couple who will engage in the humiliation aspects if required is difficult, or who are happy playing with the husband as an onlooker? | |||
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"How many women love doing it behind their mans back? Mine did the bitch lol thats why im on here solo gaha any ladies to cheer me up lol" That's not really a cuckold more a man being cheated on. RG did fuck someone at a do once that I didn't attend, only found out the morning after so was the closest to having it done behind my back. For the record, we had a fantastic fuck when she got back as she replayed what they had done! | |||
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"How many women love doing it behind their mans back? Mine did the bitch lol thats why im on here solo gaha any ladies to cheer me up lol That's not really a cuckold more a man being cheated on. RG did fuck someone at a do once that I didn't attend, only found out the morning after so was the closest to having it done behind my back. For the record, we had a fantastic fuck when she got back as she replayed what they had done!" fair enough if you can cope with that. I hope you pounded her ass good n proper as punishment! . Deceit pisses me off personaly good she came clean | |||
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"How many women love doing it behind their mans back? Mine did the bitch lol thats why im on here solo gaha any ladies to cheer me up lol That's not really a cuckold more a man being cheated on. RG did fuck someone at a do once that I didn't attend, only found out the morning after so was the closest to having it done behind my back. For the record, we had a fantastic fuck when she got back as she replayed what they had done! fair enough if you can cope with that. I hope you pounded her ass good n proper as punishment! . Deceit pisses me off personaly good she came clean " Erm no I didn't and it wasn't deceit as I had given my blessing to pursue if she met someone, not much to cope with, it's all part of a cuckold relationship. Think you may have misunderstood my last post. | |||
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"We do this and me and my husband love it! Not cuckolding though more voyeuristic!" Dictionary definition... Cuckold.. A man with an unfaithful wife. So at its basic definition it is | |||
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"We like to do this. I (Mr) do especially. Probably the main reason for me wanting to get into swinging. Although, not really in the Cuckold sense, more Voyeurism." These things are not black or white. Cuckold is one thing. Voyeurism another. It's easy to do both.... or even take it further with humiliation,bondage etc etc. | |||
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"Cuckolding is such a broad subject, and means different things to different folks." Very true. But in the English language words have meanings. Yes there are several dictionaries but the English classic is the Oxford English Dictionary. Here is the link to the definition http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/cuckold | |||
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"I watch but I'm not "cucked" at all, she's a "hotwife" and I watch her do what we do. Any degrading of my role is a no no, we don't play like that, watching strictly from a third person aspect and I'm 100% focused on Mrs N regardless of who's she's with male or female. I'm almost irrelevant (fly on the wall) on a meet, that's the way WE like it." It is a huge misconception that humiliation goes hand in hand with having a hotwife. Good friends of mine (online) have struggled to get this understood. He, in no way, wishes to be talked down to or belittled..... His turn on is to see her turned on, to see her lose herself, give into her lust.....to view from a distance and be able to drink in the whole picture. | |||
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"Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x " If you are married and they have sex it does. See my OP | |||
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"How many women love doing it behind their mans back? Mine did the bitch lol thats why im on here solo gaha any ladies to cheer me up lol That's not really a cuckold more a man being cheated on. RG did fuck someone at a do once that I didn't attend, only found out the morning after so was the closest to having it done behind my back. For the record, we had a fantastic fuck when she got back as she replayed what they had done!" Yes it is. Read the definition in my other post. Just needs marriage and unfaithful wife. | |||
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"I watch but I'm not "cucked" at all, she's a "hotwife" and I watch her do what we do. Any degrading of my role is a no no, we don't play like that, watching strictly from a third person aspect and I'm 100% focused on Mrs N regardless of who's she's with male or female. I'm almost irrelevant (fly on the wall) on a meet, that's the way WE like it." Nothing in the definitions say degrading. Unfaithful wife is the key. | |||
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"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband. " Never work, a cuck by nature is submissive. | |||
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"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband. " I have been both cuck to a previous GF and am now Bull to couples. I understand the thrill from both sides of the scenario and find I have a better connection with the hubby and understanding of his desires from the meet. | |||
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"Esse loves it and so do I,not happened enough though " That could be rectified | |||
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"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband. I have been both cuck to a previous GF and am now Bull to couples. I understand the thrill from both sides of the scenario and find I have a better connection with the hubby and understanding of his desires from the meet." I am a cuckold male but can be very Dom. I have had my way with a few wives and of course know what buttons to push for the couple. | |||
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"I watch but I'm not "cucked" at all, she's a "hotwife" and I watch her do what we do. Any degrading of my role is a no no, we don't play like that, watching strictly from a third person aspect and I'm 100% focused on Mrs N regardless of who's she's with male or female. I'm almost irrelevant (fly on the wall) on a meet, that's the way WE like it. Nothing in the definitions say degrading. Unfaithful wife is the key." if she is having sex with someone in front of him, male or female its not being unfaithful.. sharing yes and many other terms but not unfaithful in any way shape or form when all 3 (or more) are there and its consensual play.. | |||
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"Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x If you are married and they have sex it does. See my OP" wrong again.. | |||
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"Why can't I ever find a boyfriend who gets off on watching other men fuck me? My life sucks " That's because you've never met me x | |||
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":D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls. " What a great idea - socials for cuckold couples and bulls, wonder if there's anything like that in Norfolk??? | |||
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"Dictionary definitions are static but terms are dynamic and certain practices develop certain connotations. The average perception of a cuckold is an unwilling participant or humiliated husband. As with all sexual practices, it is impossible to pigeon hole kinks." I disagree. The language in this case is so simple. It is like an atom. But you can combine other attributes or kinks together. You can humiliate you husband without Cuckolding. Ditto chastity etc. Like chemistry it is possible to combine lots of individual ideas into a more complex idea. However the basic premise remains the same. | |||
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"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband. Never work, a cuck by nature is submissive. " In the wider BDSM world they say a similar thing. That to be good dominant requires the experience of a submissive. I can't say I agree but if is anorher popular statement. | |||
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"I think the the best "Bull" could be a ex cuckold. thus knowing excactly how to treat the husband. Never work, a cuck by nature is submissive. In the wider BDSM world they say a similar thing. That to be good dominant requires the experience of a submissive. I can't say I agree but if is anorher popular statement. " I would guess it's popular because to understand what it's like to be in someone's position, you have to walk a mile in their shoes, however, it's not foolproof and is dependant on the individual | |||
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"I watch but I'm not "cucked" at all, she's a "hotwife" and I watch her do what we do. Any degrading of my role is a no no, we don't play like that, watching strictly from a third person aspect and I'm 100% focused on Mrs N regardless of who's she's with male or female. I'm almost irrelevant (fly on the wall) on a meet, that's the way WE like it. Nothing in the definitions say degrading. Unfaithful wife is the key. if she is having sex with someone in front of him, male or female its not being unfaithful.. sharing yes and many other terms but not unfaithful in any way shape or form when all 3 (or more) are there and its consensual play.." Very valid and this is the only big issue I have ever had with the definition. What is unfaithful. Is it just dishonest cheating. Is is not unfaithful in a consensual lifestyle. The OED says unfaithful means "Engaging in sexual relations with a person other than one’s regular partner incontravention of a previous promise orunderstanding:" But can an agreement of consent override marriage vows. In practice yes. We do this all the time in this lifestyle... however if a swinging couple divorced unfaithfulness could be quoted as there is a societal expectation of fathfullness. But thanks for thinking about it fully. | |||
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"Next time my hubby is gonna walk in from work whilst I'm sat on the couch with a man off FAB. I'll send him upstairs to shower, then I'll be cuffing him to our bed, leaving the door slightly ajar. I'll head downstairs & have lots of fun with my meet-all the while he'll be able to hear us, talking, laughing & f*#^ing" . I'm flirtygirls other half and tonight I'm been cuckolded I've watched here get ready put on something sexy do her make up and has now gone to a party on her own while I'm in a cage talk about horny butterfly's in the tummy why the f--k is it such a turn on x | |||
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"I don't like using the term 'cuckolding' to mean watching my wife have sex with another guy ...but yeah, watching my wife have sex with another guy is hot. To me, the term cuckolding is the full gammut ...humiliating the husband, the husband cleaning the woman out etc .....eeeugh." I like wot you've put we're the same we don't do the whole cuckold part it's enough knowing that she's out there playing and going to come back and tell and tease me with wot goes on x | |||
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"We love it but it is hard to find a guy who 'gets it'. Lots of times I've arranged meets with guys who say the right things about understanding the dynamic, what we want etc then when he turns up he just fucks me and that's it. " There are quite a lot of knows about I agree.There are the sheep (in clubs follows women / couples around luke lost sheep - the prettier the girl the bigger the train she pulls. These guys will simply lie to get a fuck - that's how they see all sex as, a fuck. No such word - erotic - in their vocabulary. Then there are the sharks, more predetermined but calculating in their approach, indestinguishable from a genuine guy who wants the same thing as you do - mutually satisfying mind blowing sex with just the right talent in role play, understanding everybody's needs not just their need to empty. | |||
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"Next time my hubby is gonna walk in from work whilst I'm sat on the couch with a man off FAB. I'll send him upstairs to shower, then I'll be cuffing him to our bed, leaving the door slightly ajar. I'll head downstairs & have lots of fun with my meet-all the while he'll be able to hear us, talking, laughing & f*#^ing. I'm flirtygirls other half and tonight I'm been cuckolded I've watched here get ready put on something sexy do her make up and has now gone to a party on her own while I'm in a cage talk about horny butterfly's in the tummy why the f--k is it such a turn on x " Mr General is in his cage and this is what we are doing tonight - can't wait. | |||
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"We love it but it is hard to find a guy who 'gets it'. Lots of times I've arranged meets with guys who say the right things about understanding the dynamic, what we want etc then when he turns up he just fucks me and that's it. " Snap, loads of guys talk the talk but when it comes to it just want to empty their balls. It's not what we want as to make it work properly everyone has to be involved including the cuck. | |||
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"We love it but it is hard to find a guy who 'gets it'. Lots of times I've arranged meets with guys who say the right things about understanding the dynamic, what we want etc then when he turns up he just fucks me and that's it. Snap, loads of guys talk the talk but when it comes to it just want to empty their balls. It's not what we want as to make it work properly everyone has to be involved including the cuck. " Then explain the situation. Tell us what you 're really lookin for. Don't miss a thing.. you know? Careful what you wish for.. ) | |||
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":D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls. What a great idea - socials for cuckold couples and bulls, wonder if there's anything like that in Norfolk???" If there is we could be interested. We will be moving to North Norfolk in October. | |||
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"Why can't I ever find a boyfriend who gets off on watching other men fuck me? My life sucks " | |||
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":D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls. What a great idea - socials for cuckold couples and bulls, wonder if there's anything like that in Norfolk??? If there is we could be interested. We will be moving to North Norfolk in October." All you need is a venue for people to meet at whether that be a restaurant, nightclub or a swingers club, a date and then see if people are available. We'd never been to a social or hosted one until the other week and purely started life as an idea on the forum | |||
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"My hubby simply adores seeing me with another guy - he also likes to be truly humiliated during the process but it is VERY hard to find guys that can do that properly. It is difficult to find guys who know how to run a cuck session, they know how to look after me but not what to do about hubby. " Oh I don't know ab. Some of us know exactly what to do with both the wife and the cuckold | |||
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"How many women like to have sex in front of their husband/partner?" Love it, so naughty | |||
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"I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships. When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife. Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much. " We love the lifestyle cuckolding and poly relationships have been part of our lives for 10+ years. I don't think jealousy comes into it, I couldn't see it working if the husband/partner was a jealousperson. As for the psychological damage I think my hubby would be more damaged if we didn't do this. Like the other women who am I to complain | |||
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"I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships. When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife. Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much. " It's possible that some relationships the safeguards for physical, psychological and emotional abuse don't exist but for the majority of couples this is a consensual thing that cuck has asked for. For most the lifestyle isn't full time and is a bit of role play. | |||
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":D we do. That's why we've started socials for cuckold couples and bulls. What a great idea - socials for cuckold couples and bulls, wonder if there's anything like that in Norfolk???" Thats something we would attend too | |||
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"I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships. When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife. Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much. It's possible that some relationships the safeguards for physical, psychological and emotional abuse don't exist but for the majority of couples this is a consensual thing that cuck has asked for. For most the lifestyle isn't full time and is a bit of role play." That's good to know. I get that generally it's been asked for but just like rough sex you can see why safe words or safe guards maybe needed. It's only the odd post conversation I've had that raises concern. But when they talk of her disappearing for unplanned weekends and other things you could see a situation were humiliation changes ones opinion of themselves. But as you say for most it's a part time roleplay. | |||
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"I get there are levels and degrees of humiliation but I do wonder about those in long term cuckold relationships. When the game never stops and all they hear is humiliation and they are never sexual with their own wife. Whether they are picking up psychological damage along the way and if there is a safe word if the jealousy gets too much. It's possible that some relationships the safeguards for physical, psychological and emotional abuse don't exist but for the majority of couples this is a consensual thing that cuck has asked for. For most the lifestyle isn't full time and is a bit of role play. That's good to know. I get that generally it's been asked for but just like rough sex you can see why safe words or safe guards maybe needed. It's only the odd post conversation I've had that raises concern. But when they talk of her disappearing for unplanned weekends and other things you could see a situation were humiliation changes ones opinion of themselves. But as you say for most it's a part time roleplay. " We consider ourselves pretty tame with humiliation compared to things we've read and heard but have a safe word in case ever goes too far. Never had to use it though which shows I made the right decision to trust Ginger. We often have a chat after every meet to talk about what was good and what could have been done better. Communication is THE most important part of cuckolding. | |||
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" We consider ourselves pretty tame with humiliation compared to things we've read and heard but have a safe word in case ever goes too far. Never had to use it though which shows I made the right decision to trust Ginger. We often have a chat after every meet to talk about what was good and what could have been done better. Communication is THE most important part of cuckolding." I think that applies to all successful human relationships. Yet commonly neglected. | |||
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"Just watching your partner does not make the guy a cuck though. Mr loves to watch me but isn't a cuck in the slightest x " yes it does, cuckolding is a very wide spectrum including or not including many things depending what the people involved want, there are no set rules that it must include this or that, each situation will be unique to its own. | |||
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"I watch but I'm not "cucked" at all, she's a "hotwife" and I watch her do what we do. Any degrading of my role is a no no, we don't play like that, watching strictly from a third person aspect and I'm 100% focused on Mrs N regardless of who's she's with male or female. I'm almost irrelevant (fly on the wall) on a meet, that's the way WE like it." you dont need to be degraded to be cucked, if you are watching your wife then you are been cucked, whether you choose to use the word is upto you, if you are watching others then you are been voyeuristic. | |||
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"I watch but I'm not "cucked" at all, she's a "hotwife" and I watch her do what we do. Any degrading of my role is a no no, we don't play like that, watching strictly from a third person aspect and I'm 100% focused on Mrs N regardless of who's she's with male or female. I'm almost irrelevant (fly on the wall) on a meet, that's the way WE like it. you dont need to be degraded to be cucked, if you are watching your wife then you are been cucked, whether you choose to use the word is upto you, if you are watching others then you are been voyeuristic. " I agree, degradation, cleaning act at the end is not required in cuckolding | |||
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"Love these cuckold stories, you guys have really found an exciting level of intimacy with each other! Is cuckolding always about finding a guy to play with the wife, or do the wives and husbands enjoy couples coming to satisfy her too?" I (f) enjoy couples (greedy) and he enjoys me getting pleasure but joins in when invited. For us it's the watching and knowing he's there to watch..but prefer cpls as less stress then single guys as usually they fail to perform | |||
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"Yes yes yes , we really enjoy this and have been into it nearly 6 yrs, we enjoy several scenarios , me playing while Cuck isn't present , both me and the guy send text messages , pics and phone calls to cuck teasing him in what he is missing, cuck being there and preparing both the guy and myself and then either watching and awaiting the end result or if he's been really good I may get on all fours and let him lick my clit as the guy fucks me from behind . " My favourite is to have the cuck handcuffed outside the room so he can hear everything but can't touch his little dick!! Then bring him in for clean up duties! | |||
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"My hub actually prefers watching me fuck other men than doing it himself, suits me Ditto!" Would he like to watch you ride me x | |||
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"My hubby loves watching me being fucked etc but always joins in, long may it continue !!!!" Love an audition for future events xx | |||
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"Yes yes yes , we really enjoy this and have been into it nearly 6 yrs, we enjoy several scenarios , me playing while Cuck isn't present , both me and the guy send text messages , pics and phone calls to cuck teasing him in what he is missing, cuck being there and preparing both the guy and myself and then either watching and awaiting the end result or if he's been really good I may get on all fours and let him lick my clit as the guy fucks me from behind . My favourite is to have the cuck handcuffed outside the room so he can hear everything but can't touch his little dick!! Then bring him in for clean up duties!" That's where a chastity cage comes into play!!! | |||
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