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How excited and nervous do you get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before a new meet?

(Not social)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the best bit. That not knowing, the anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nerves get channelled into adrenalin and I can become very over excited ~ in a good way!

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By *ringiton89Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I get excited more than nervous if I'm accommodating but if I'm going to theirs it's probably the reverse for some reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even after swinging for a few years we still get nervous with the excitement of new meets but that's part off the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To nervous as I'm very very very inexperienced

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm very good at putting people at their ease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get nervous before a meet and only get excited when it's game on time. However, for repeat meets, I can be grinning for days before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get excited more than nervous if I'm accommodating but if I'm going to theirs it's probably the reverse for some reason? "

Ditto!

I always accommodate and very comfortable in my own surroundings. I can't remember the last time I went on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never get nervous before a meet and only get excited when it's game on time. However, for repeat meets, I can be grinning for days before "

I agree with repeats meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm very good at putting people at their ease. "

I like that quality alot

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I get butterflies but i like that,all part of the build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep - I do to. It's all part of the experience for me. I always look for a connection with my meets and aside from the messaging and flirting, to know that you're both feeling the same way makes it so much more exciting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a bit nervous when meeting someone new, but it's a good feeling. Not knowing what to expect or sometimes even what they look like is always a bit of a thrill!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To nervous as I'm very very very inexperienced "

Awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart races .... I get a Lil giddy and then I just say to myself ..... you only live once so live it!!!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm sure when I eventually find someone to meet me, I'll be very very excited!! I rarely get nervous about anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My heart races .... I get a Lil giddy and then I just say to myself ..... you only live once so live it!!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure when I eventually find someone to meet me, I'll be very very excited!! I rarely get nervous about anything."

I get nerves! It's ridiculous

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By *orbi24Man
over a year ago

London

I got excited all the time. So I do prefer to chat a bit than to play. If I am ok for the other half.

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

Always nervous/excited until everyone is naked and hands on

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By *urhamgentMan
over a year ago

durham

Always nervous, apprehensive and having second thoughts right up until the first touch and the first kiss when you relax into each other ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1st experience was a party a couple of weekends ago. I thought I'd be fine until about 30mins before then I just started chatting like a budgie and wouldn't shut up to the point where my date told me to calm down. It took me a few hours to think I was able to do something and that was only after they took the lead. But once in the room I was the wildest one there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before a new meet?

(Not social) "

Always very excited , and the nerves are part of the adrenaline rush .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nervous so much as full of anticipation - in my cases will have chatted to the people for a while so theres a connection so we have already established we get on as people. It's just the chemistry - I think if you don't have any preconceived expectations about how the night will go then its better because you have no expectations to be disappointed on. Once you meet it should just be like a meet in real life - you talk flirt and it build to the point where you either play or you dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so nervous for a meet not long back I was almost arrested , needed pee badly so whipped it out under a bridge to relieve myself and coppers pounced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very good at putting people at their ease. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very good at putting people at their ease. "

Thats interesting does it involve chloroform? x

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

It can depend on my state of mind, but there's always a degree of anticipation which fluctuates between nervousness and excitement... which normally vents as physical energy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not nervous so much as full of anticipation - in my cases will have chatted to the people for a while so theres a connection so we have already established we get on as people. It's just the chemistry - I think if you don't have any preconceived expectations about how the night will go then its better because you have no expectations to be disappointed on. Once you meet it should just be like a meet in real life - you talk flirt and it build to the point where you either play or you dont. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Before a new meet?

(Not social)

Always very excited , and the nerves are part of the adrenaline rush .

"

You get nervous? would never have thought that

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I literally shit myself, whether it is a social or fun meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before a new meet?

(Not social)

Always very excited , and the nerves are part of the adrenaline rush .

You get nervous? would never have thought that "

just normal - interested in your tour too...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ohh I used to get so excited, butterflies everytime we were to meet. Was great feeling being wanted .

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"I never get nervous before a meet and only get excited when it's game on time. However, for repeat meets, I can be grinning for days before "

Yes, this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I literally shit myself, whether it is a social or fun meet."

Glad I'm not the only one

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By *lirtyGirl1Woman
over a year ago

Northwest

Both.......love the 'getting ready' bit.

Bath, shave, dress, makeup, cheeky glass of wine & some sexy talk with my partner before we set off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i puke

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Even after dabbling in this lifestyle for over thirty years, I still get nervous on a first meet. It's also such a buzz, when it stops being so, I'll retire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before a new meet?

(Not social)

Always very excited , and the nerves are part of the adrenaline rush .

You get nervous? would never have thought that "

And that's exactly why we are often misunderstood .

We wouldn't do it if we didn't get the nerves ., we are human after all , despite how we are perceived by some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh I used to get so excited, butterflies everytime we were to meet. Was great feeling being wanted . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get really really nervous ... If it wasn't for how good I know I feel after there are times I would wonder if I could do this.

However this is only for meets where we are going to them privately or them us... And I think it's harder if I know the chances are its play on a first meet after a social. If its straight to play in many ways I get less nervous. I won't have much interaction with the guy from a couple or single guys we are meeting simply because it actually makes me to nervous to bother.

Set me up a group session and I'm just peachy lol x but its what I am used to , so it's all about stretching my abilities x

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

I get really nervous and stay that way until the clothes come off and it all starts. After that I'm fine.

Hubby only feels slight nervous. He's usually just a horny freak before a meet and that takes over everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being that our last meet was a long long time ago i guess we would be quiet nervouse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had a new meet in forever; but still get stupidly giddy and excited (and a little nervous) before my lovely regular Fab Friend and I meet.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'm very good at putting people at their ease.

Thats interesting does it involve chloroform? x"

Try me, bitch, I'm just as good at putting people off their stride.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't get nervous or excited at all. Either we will like eachother or we wont.. will either have great sex or not. I feel happy when I am due to see my playmate, but never get het up about new meets.

Maybe I'm just weird (yeah, probably)

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I love that feeling of excitement/nerves prior to meeting. And then again just before the first contact! The first kiss, and starting to undress.

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin

I get really nervous I don't like how nervous I get. I'm fine once we get into it but before hand I hate the feelings of nervous anticipation!

Foxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very

To the point I want to cancel

I'm OK once I am there its just that what if they don't like me, what if they see me and can't contain their look of disappointment, what if I take my clothes off and they think fucking hell I'm not going there that I can't stop thinking about

I hate to think I've wasted somebody's time

I very rarely arrange meets because of this I think the last meet I had was around February time, I get talking to people and then don't take it any further because I convince myself they won't like me, but when I do bite the bullet and agree to meet I make myself I'll with worry

I'm a very odd person

I do much better with people I have met at parties or socials first, I can't sit at talk to anybody when it's a none sexual meet, in fact shutting me ups the biggest problem

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By *ugatits76Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow


"Very

To the point I want to cancel

I'm OK once I am there its just that what if they don't like me, what if they see me and can't contain their look of disappointment, what if I take my clothes off and they think fucking hell I'm not going there that I can't stop thinking about

I hate to think I've wasted somebody's time

I very rarely arrange meets because of this I think the last meet I had was around February time, I get talking to people and then don't take it any further because I convince myself they won't like me, but when I do bite the bullet and agree to meet I make myself I'll with worry

I'm a very odd person

I do much better with people I have met at parties or socials first, I can't sit at talk to anybody when it's a none sexual meet, in fact shutting me ups the biggest problem

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OMG im exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very very nervous but mixed with excitement it's great! I love that pre meet feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've also just discovered I get a major case of nervous excitment to the point of tummy churning butterflies, 1 year on...

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I dnt get nervous at all meeting new people whether it's a date. Sex meet job interview

I'm glad that I dont

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By *urious couple 69Couple
over a year ago

east durham

We are virgins in this game, I can imagine it being like popping my cheery again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you know if I ever get a meet off here ...

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin


"Very

To the point I want to cancel

I'm OK once I am there its just that what if they don't like me, what if they see me and can't contain their look of disappointment, what if I take my clothes off and they think fucking hell I'm not going there that I can't stop thinking about

I hate to think I've wasted somebody's time

I very rarely arrange meets because of this I think the last meet I had was around February time, I get talking to people and then don't take it any further because I convince myself they won't like me, but when I do bite the bullet and agree to meet I make myself I'll with worry

I'm a very odd person

I do much better with people I have met at parties or socials first, I can't sit at talk to anybody when it's a none sexual meet, in fact shutting me ups the biggest problem

"

Same!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been meeting the same person a long time and even then I still get nervous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get nervous anymore. I don't think that's a good thing, either

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