FabSwingers.com forum: Are my standards too high...

By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do find out that your standards are too high, what will you do about it?

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"If you do find out that your standards are too high, what will you do about it? "

Might have to move closer to Salisbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you do find out that your standards are too high, what will you do about it?

Might have to move closer to Salisbury

That wouldn't help your cause I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just dont bother looking haha noramlly is an eww or whats the point in that profile cba with private pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes?

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"If you do find out that your standards are too high, what will you do about it?

Might have to move closer to Salisbury

That wouldn't help your cause I'm afraid

Probably not, attraction has to work both ways. Lol

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Your standards are probably too high, but your photos are pretty original

haha

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"i just dont bother looking haha noramlly is an eww or whats the point in that profile cba with private pics "

Kimi you always get mmmm's

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!"

I couldn't comment about you, but, judging from the dearth of nymphomaniacal blond twins in our in-box, there are plenty of women on here whose standards are way too high

(C'mon babes, ya knows ya want it really)

(We need a 'shaking ma booty' smiley methinks)

Mr ddc

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I tend to find it's visuals that make me go 'ew'. Since I tend to read profiles first before looking at pictures I may save myself having that many 'ew' moments. Recent pics is a bit roulettey sometimes but I find it amusing rather than icky. With the occasional 'phwoar' for good measure.

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"Your standards are probably too high, but your photos are pretty original

haha"

But you have the better six pack ya bastard! How many hours of sit ups a day does that take?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!"

I never understand these "my standards are too high/I'm fussy/picky" type comments.

Everyone has their own benchmark: one man's yuk is another man's yum.

Just because you go yum the other person may look at you and think

hell no!!!

Just a thought.

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!

I couldn't comment about you, but, judging from the dearth of nymphomaniacal blond twins in our in-box, there are plenty of women on here whose standards are way too high

(C'mon babes, ya knows ya want it really)

(We need a 'shaking ma booty' smiley methinks)

Mr ddc"

Lol women on here can be as fussy as they like, they have plenty of choice!

I think you might have the most entertaining profile pics on fab by the way. Some of them are pure genius, other very brave. Love the naked B+Q shower one, that is going to make me chuckle all evening!

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"I tend to find it's visuals that make me go 'ew'. Since I tend to read profiles first before looking at pictures I may save myself having that many 'ew' moments. Recent pics is a bit roulettey sometimes but I find it amusing rather than icky. With the occasional 'phwoar' for good measure."

I always check out the pics before reading the profile. Saves me a lot of time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!"

Keep your standards high. I (the male half of the couple) have looked for single women to play with on here and the pretty ones obviously get a lot of attention, I've messaged about 6 so far. Two didn't reply, two answered to say they don't play with 'attached' men, and the other two were positive to start with but it petered out.

No way on Earth am I going to lower my standards just for the sake of it. At this moment in time I haven't slept with another woman other than my wife in 14 years, so I'm in no rush, I want the woman I play with to be a bit more special than most.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Mr ddc

Lol women on here can be as fussy as they like, they have plenty of choice!

Tell me about it

We had one of those 'modern' vicars that even let Mrs ddc opt out of the 'obey' clause.

"I think you might have the most entertaining profile pics on fab by the way. Some of them are pure genius, other very brave. Love the naked B+Q shower one, that is going to make me chuckle all evening!"

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"Mr ddc

Lol women on here can be as fussy as they like, they have plenty of choice!

Tell me about it

We had one of those 'modern' vicars that even let Mrs ddc opt out of the 'obey' clause.

That's funny. Someone on my Facebook made the same comment about not having "obey" in her vows earlier today

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

No shag is worth dropping your standards for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your standards are your standards, stick with them. What you like, others may not and vice versa, as in life there's bound to be someone on here who is a perfect match for you but the majority won't be!

The challenge, in my experience, is finding someone you like the look of who doesn't think 'ewww' when they look at your profile!

My search continues ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!"

No idea!

I rarely browse - and when I do there are more cock picks or 'shadow people' than faces - and surprisingly I've never seen a cock pic and thought 'omg I HAVE to meet him!'

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Keep your standards high!

However don't come back complaining!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!"

Yep.... And by no means do I think I'm perfect either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!"

Bob are you bored?

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!

Bob are you bored? "

moi...never! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No shag is worth dropping your standards for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you will find from my past experience on here especially when I had no pics and one line on my profile that some people have no standards and will message anything with a pulse lol if you are lucky will tell you that you are gorgeous without seeing a pic

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"Think you will find from my past experience on here especially when I had no pics and one line on my profile that some people have no standards and will message anything with a pulse lol if you are lucky will tell you that you are gorgeous without seeing a pic

No doubt some people have no standards but then if everyone had standards some people would never have a hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt some people have no standards but then if everyone had standards some people would never have a hope!"

I have no hope lol

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

No doubt some people have no standards but then if everyone had standards some people would never have a hope!

I have no hope lol "

Nope I concede you have no hope.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think its different strokes for different folks. I have seen similar threads go down the route of, how women can be picky on here so women who are desperate in the streets finally get some hot studs on here and shouldn't they be so thankful for that and the morsels they get because they are not worthy in real life. Nothing makes me go ewww more than a profile which smacks of entitlement or judging others. Just saying ...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!"

Fuck knows dude, my standards are too high for you.

Pass, soz.

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By *ob198Xa OP Man
over a year ago

teleford

"Does anyone else find when browsing fab profiles that they a spend a lot more time going ewwww rather than mmmm?

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!

Fuck knows dude, my standards are too high for you.

Pass, soz."
tis ok I would say the same about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop moaning

Get off fab

Get some work done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop moaning

Get off fab

Get some work done "

Awwwww! Do I have to?? It's not fair!!!

I hate you worse than poison!!

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

"No shag is worth dropping your standards for

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Few people are going to like everyone, but most would just think of their selectivity as personal preferences. Thinking of yourself as having high standards sounds like it could be subtle snobbery.

There are people you like and others that you don't. It's life.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Few people are going to like everyone, but most would just think of their selectivity as personal preferences. Thinking of yourself as having high standards sounds like it could be subtle snobbery.

There are people you like and others that you don't. It's life."

Pretty much what I said but the op ignored only replying to the others with equally inflated egos as himself.

Anyone else find it amusing people on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers sticking their noses in the air talking about their "high standards"?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Few people are going to like everyone, but most would just think of their selectivity as personal preferences. Thinking of yourself as having high standards sounds like it could be subtle snobbery.

There are people you like and others that you don't. It's life.

Pretty much what I said but the op ignored only replying to the others with equally inflated egos as himself.

Anyone else find it amusing people on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers sticking their noses in the air talking about their "high standards"?!!

Often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how can anyone know when compliments are real. They just want a fuck and will say anything to get it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Few people are going to like everyone, but most would just think of their selectivity as personal preferences. Thinking of yourself as having high standards sounds like it could be subtle snobbery.

There are people you like and others that you don't. It's life.

Pretty much what I said but the op ignored only replying to the others with equally inflated egos as himself.

Anyone else find it amusing people on a sex site trawling for sex with strangers sticking their noses in the air talking about their "high standards"?!!

Lost count of how many times I've read it and laughed. That and the 'i'm fussy' or 'choosy' comment on profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are my standards too high?"

*proceeds to hit on every woman that psots*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Are my standards too high?"

*proceeds to hit on every woman that psots*

Even me.....and I'm the invisible one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess you're not going to change your existing standards, nor should you really. I have my own and I also see some "eeeeeyewww" pics. I just ignore and stick with the ones I do like. I do try to remember that there's a difference with seeing a static photo and the person in real life and also that we're all just ordinary people here and it's not a beauty parade. Not sure if that helps or if you are actually asking a question or merely making a statement.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Go and do some bloody work!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

There's having standards and being outright pretentious. I find those who are less uptight about their looks are the best meets. For the most - meets concerned about their looks are concentrating on their looks throughout the meet, especially if they haven't met much.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

".....

Maybe I just have my standards set too high!"

How? Only if you are standing on a soap-box

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I don't think standards can be too high or too low - they're just your benchmark and personal to you.

I do chuckle at the threads constantly saying "I can't find what I'm looking for on Fab" as if by writing it down the situation will change!

If you can't find what you want there's likely to be two simple reasons.

1. What you want isn't here in the first place so maybe stop looking and seek other avenues where what you're looking for is more likely to be found.

2. What you're looking for isn't the slightest bit interested in you. So you're pretty much fucked.

Happy Monday all!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

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So you're pretty much fucked.

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I think you have misunderstood

He wouldn't be moaning if he was "pretty much f**ked"

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

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So you're pretty much fucked.

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I think you have misunderstood

He wouldn't be moaning if he was "pretty much f**ked"

I guess that would depend on how thick the strap on was!

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