FabSwingers.com forum: Why did you get into swinging?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me and my late wife it was was the revelation that my in laws were involved in the scene. They were shamefully outed by an idiot posting flyers all over their street. We always _iewed her parents marriage as a shining example of a rock solid and trusting relationship, which it still is. So, after about a year of flirting with the idea we thought we'd dip our toes in the water and we both enjoyed it, I think it even made us stronger (which most people find strange).

So why did you join the scene?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't started it yet, but the idea sounded fun so I joined lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started by going on webcam to be watched - things went from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me and my late wife it was was the revelation that my in laws were involved in the scene. They were shamefully outed by an idiot posting flyers all over their street. We always _iewed her parents marriage as a shining example of a rock solid and trusting relationship, which it still is. So, after about a year of flirting with the idea we thought we'd dip our toes in the water and we both enjoyed it, I think it even made us stronger (which most people find strange).

So why did you join the scene?"

Because we're dirty fuckers

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

invited a friend to join us...in mmf.. never looked back in anger..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"invited a friend to join us...in mmf.. never looked back in anger.."

Was that a fantasy for both of you?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We got married very young wanted to see what another cock felt like

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Being a single I am not really a swinger, but like meeting couples, and other singles for nsa but with a social element too - I'm not into one night stands or fuck and go meets.

I prefer non-monogamous relationships, and fab for me works to meet that requirement.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Fantasy talk that led to reality

It's been 7 years and had some amazing experiences,ticked lots off the fantasy list and made some great friends

I'm mainly bored shitless with it now though and it takes someone very special to make me want to meet them as I'm spoilt with the guys I know well and I get tired of listening to guys talk rubbish about being desperate to meet up with us but not making any efforts to do so

We dip in and out when we feel the need,I don't think we'll ever give up completely

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

group sex, nothing more.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring past relationship!

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

So I could fuck someone else's wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't if I am a swinger..........

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Was on a night out in Sheffield for An old school gf (id been fooling around with since we were 15yrs old) for her birthday and we'd heard about LC's so went to check it out never looked back since And that was 10 years ago now. Was hard going back to a vanilla relationship when I met my ex husband but I remained loyal while he had a 2 year affair and eventually left me for her so I thought sod it time to get back into the swing of things as a single again and I'm loving it, would be nice to meet someone interested in a relationship that would like to play as a couple also but it's not essential

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By *ykoCouple
over a year ago

york

Was talking about fantasy's and went from there then trying swinging out which we have loved ever since.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

My ex introduced me. When he moved on to pastures younger i met my present hubby. Told him about my past fun and he said he would like to try.

So we did.

he is not up for it at the moment - hence my fem only profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a mirror in the bedroom and was fucking my wife, and I thought 'damn she looks good being fucked'. The thought progressed, she refused to consider it for about 10 years, then I started talking more and more dirtily about her being fucked by someone else, and of course she saw it turned me on. Me being turned on turned her on.

Then about 18 months ago, one of her clients at work came on to her. She told me of course and I said 'go for it' but she refused. A year later the same client came on again and this time after some coaxing from me she went for it. She was disappointed with the sex with him, and so didn't want a repeat with him, but was up for a mmf (as I would be there to at least guarantee the sex would be good), and he came round to meet me and we got on great and all that but he bottled it, so it never came off.

About 6 months after we decided to have a look at swinger sites see what was on offer. After a little while made the plunge and met about 4 guys in a week (socials), she picked her favourite of those, he wasn't available, so we went with 2nd choice and the mmf was good but not great...then a few weeks after, the 1st choice was available and we had a fantastic time.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Flik kept nagging me to go to Chams and I eventually caved in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married and faithful for 22 years. He fooked of with someone else and I wanted some fun with non of the commitment /hassels

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

... just a spur of the moment thing...he had been admiring sweet all evening ,and she had let him have the odd glimpse of her golden pussy hair... so the air was quite electric when time for bed called..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger.. but i like meeting interesting and sexy women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was out with my friends and Mrs l had a girly night in with 1 of her friends, when I got home Mrs l had told the girl I thought she was fit one thing led to another and zeta ended up in bed together, wasn't the greatest experience of our lives but wetted our appetite for more, and haven't looked back since, as someone said earlier a bit bored with the whole scene at the minute, and can be too to much like hard work sometimes

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

No sex with ladies for two years. No sex with men for twelve.

Thought I'd throw myself into the pit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No sex with ladies for two years. No sex with men for twelve.

Thought I'd throw myself into the pit"

Wow. Does your vagina still function?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am inquisitive, I went to a sex club because I was interested in doing something different and I am a Pervy guy hahaha

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Lived in a student house where we always played drinking games, that got more and more risqué over time - nearly always ending in a lot of naked people and dares.

One night our housemates came in with some people we didn't know, and went to play drinking games in private(!). We couldn't understand it! Not like them NOT to want to get the whole house d*unk and naked.

Later, they told us about a nearby club (Xtasia) that they had heard of.

I'd (mrs) kissed girls before and enjoyed it, and enjoyed getting lapdances.

It seemed only inevitable at that point that we would go to the club.

That was 10 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through dirty talk and fantasizing has led to reality. We dip in and out when we can and love the club scene.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"No sex with ladies for two years. No sex with men for twelve.

Thought I'd throw myself into the pit

Wow. Does your vagina still function?

Very much so

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By *orbi24Man
over a year ago

London

First for fun. Then it got to excitement. Leaded up to 3somes. I love to join couples. And looking for an open minded female swinging partner.

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By *ango0505Woman
over a year ago

Dumfries

My boss invited me and another girl to a party at his place. Don't think we realised it was swinging as such at the time but it was an eye opener of a party !

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