FabSwingers.com forum: I despair...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sometimes people on this site really do manage to piss me off.

Just updated my status to say I was back in the North East soon and I received a very brief but graphic message from a woman asking to meet. She had no photos on her profile so naturally I sent a message back along the lines of "maybe, do you have any photos".

No reply. Message deleted instantly

Was I being unreasonable? Would you meet someone without seeing what they looked like?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

So it was a guy then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes people on this site really do manage to piss me off.

No reply. Message deleted instantly

Was I being unreasonable? Would you meet someone without seeing what they looked like?

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No, we have had similar messages and replied with the same only to be deleted. Of course you want to see what someone looks like!. Doesn't piss us off though as is no biggie.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Kids are on holiday atm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So it was a guy then..."
Possibly. Although what a bloke would get out of messaging as a woman is beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People seem to feel the need to hide their photos, whether they are camera shy, or think they're ugly I have no idea.

At the end of the day I wouldn't meet anybody who would meet me without having seen my photo

Some people just like the attention of getting a message off someone, lot of nutters about.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So it was a guy then... Possibly. Although what a bloke would get out of messaging as a woman is beyond me

a string of graphic messages to wank over before disappearing. Try being a woman logged in here after the pubs shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it was a guy then... Possibly. Although what a bloke would get out of messaging as a woman is beyond me

a string of graphic messages to wank over before disappearing. Try being a woman logged in here after the pubs shut

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

The other day with had a couple, no pics, no veris etc. Ask us "do you want to fuck?", we replied "yeah" the he just deleted it! We really meant it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a message... dont want to get a 48 time out here..... this is NOT what was said, but my profile says single.... I am..... implied I was Married as I have a double user name. I was a couple, now single, Just cant remove the other user name. And was questioning why I cant accom? Could be a million reasons - I'm a hoarder and you cant lie down in my place, to I have children and dont want strings of men around. Not met this person. They are the other end of the county. P'd me off big time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me a few times but this morning I log on and have received a wink from a couple not far from me I I click to view them and I'm blocked what's that about?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

If it pisses you off, consider whether you invest too much on the site?

Its fab... yes every now and again it makes me

and

and often

but usually laugh.

I often get messages from people who have clearly not read my profile, and seem to have had a run of soft swing straight couples who want to watch... uhm, not sure what I offer in that capacity... but it makes me chuckle.

Its their time, and they are the ones who get frustrated when no-one meets them.

Don't get me wrong - i'd much rather have an inbox full of great offers from people who match my preferences... but then I'd struggle with the time constraints of having a life outside of fab, and not being a prolific meeter via here.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"If it pisses you off, consider whether you invest too much on the site?

Its fab... yes every now and again it makes me

and

and often

but usually laugh...............

Its their time, and they are the ones who get frustrated when no-one meets them."

Our take on Fab too.

We're pretty laid back about it all.

It's a bit of fun, and if we get a meet or two every so often, all the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes people on this site really do manage to piss me off.

No reply. Message deleted instantly

Was I being unreasonable? Would you meet someone without seeing what they looked like?

We always insist on exchange photos and chat on phone or via kikchat too - unless spur of the moment thing in a club. Nice to hear you are coming to an area near us - fancy a visit to Isisquest sometime? Kikchat me if you do m x

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