FabSwingers.com forum: Fab turning into a dating site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems to me that men and women are expecting far too much from a SWINGING site! I see more and more profiles from single fems saying that they would like to meet the one! And stories from single fems or couples about guys getting the wrong idea and possessive over them once they've met! I don't get what goes through a guys head once he's met a married female alone that she's suddenly going to leave her husband and be with him! I'm sure plenty of fish is for dating! Not fab! Anyone else finding the same thing? Or am I just looking at the wrong profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about others..

There are plenty people who are suitable for what you are here for...

Just be proactive.. Get searching. Attend socials. Clubs?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I think everyone can use this site as they see fit, not what other people tell them to do.

Personally, if I were looking for a relationship I'd want someone who was also into swinging, so why shouldn't I look for a partner on here if I wanted to?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

People looked to be loved everywhere, this place is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed and no offence intended but the ones I see re falling for fbs etc tend to be female great if you become good friends but keep it real its a sex site.

Maybe time when people are like that to try another type of site.

Same applies to men its mainly females I see posting the I fell for fb what shall I do or fb has stopped replying etc. They moved on to other folk on the merry go round known as fab.

I am very lucky to be great friends with lots I meet but keep in perspective.

Lust and love can be confused.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I saw a status requesting another lady to catch a guy out ??? Yeah some people get a wee bit serious and stalk like. Let it go, let it go lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"People looked to be loved everywhere, this place is no different."

well apart from me,

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Maybe looking at all the wrong profiles.

Everybody uses the site for their own reasons.

Some are looking for dates & probably better off on another site; others like to chat & are entitled to do so; many genuine swingers use the site to keep in contact with friends they've met here but possibly get more hook ups via the Socials or Clubs mentioned in the Forums here.

It's up to the individual to get what they want out of the site, be it friends, FWB's, 121's, group meets, or something more social. Just a case of keep looking & making the site work for YOU.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont worry about others..

There are plenty people who are suitable for what you are here for...

Just be proactive.. Get searching. Attend socials. Clubs?"

I would but I never liked the idea of going alone

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Well POF was just a shagging site so what the heck! I've had way more social invitations on here!

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Yeah I saw a status requesting another lady to catch a guy out ??? Yeah some people get a wee bit serious and stalk like. Let it go, let it go lol"

Damn Tom - did you HAVE to put that bloody song in my head? Aaaaaargh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I saw a status requesting another lady to catch a guy out ??? Yeah some people get a wee bit serious and stalk like. Let it go, let it go lol

Damn Tom - did you HAVE to put that bloody song in my head? Aaaaaargh!

Sorry random, just had to do it but to be fair it's in mine now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think everyone can use this site as they see fit, not what other people tell them to do.

Personally, if I were looking for a relationship I'd want someone who was also into swinging, so why shouldn't I look for a partner on here if I wanted to?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well POF was just a shagging site so what the heck! I've had way more social invitations on here!

Exactly! POF is a shagging site too, they just like to pretend it isn't.

I use Fab in a way that suits me. If that means just meeting one man on here or meeting a different man each night, I'll do what makes me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well POF was just a shagging site so what the heck! I've had way more social invitations on here!

You're eight , me and my girlfriends all call POF plenty of fucks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well POF was just a shagging site so what the heck! I've had way more social invitations on here!

Hahah I get that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right ffs, predictive text !!!

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"It seems to me that men and women are expecting far too much from a SWINGING site! I see more and more profiles from single fems saying that they would like to meet the one! And stories from single fems or couples about guys getting the wrong idea and possessive over them once they've met! I don't get what goes through a guys head once he's met a married female alone that she's suddenly going to leave her husband and be with him! I'm sure plenty of fish is for dating! Not fab! Anyone else finding the same thing? Or am I just looking at the wrong profiles?"

I don't see anything wrong with that. Some people want one offs. Some people want ongoing relationships of sorts. Friends with benefits, fuck buddies, subs and Doms, people looking for cuckolding. It's an ideal place to find an alternative relationship.

While I'm not looking for one as I'm currently in one, I know I've learnt that I could never have a vanilla relationship again and would look for a relationship with a swinger or fetishist. So why would I go on POF.

Let people look for whatever it is they are searching for. No harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right ffs, predictive text !!!"

Ha ha! He looks very young but eight was pushing it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might not have meant his age ha ha... But then again it's not imperial measurement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might not have meant his age ha ha... But then again it's not imperial measurement"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right ffs, predictive text !!!"

Haha I was about to say I know I look young but give me some credit ha

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Sorry random, just had to do it but to be fair it's in mine now

Tom, just as you were about to be promoted to Bromance Buddy. That's you DUMPED!

Lol

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Right ffs, predictive text !!!

Haha I was about to say I know I look young but give me some credit ha"

Phone credit? You might wanna try a contract if yer using Fab on yer phone.

(Couldn't resist)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right ffs, predictive text !!!

Haha I was about to say I know I look young but give me some credit ha

Phone credit? You might wanna try a contract if yer using Fab on yer phone.

(Couldn't resist)"

Pretty terrible joke in the end though....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I would but I never liked the idea of going alone

well then you are the one that closed those avenues without even trying them... no one else!

at the end of the day the site is what people make of it.... if you are after one thing, and some people are after something else..... move on to the next profile

such a simple solution that seems to be ignored by people for angst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like s squaddies look at me thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let people look for whatever it is they are searching for. No harm. "

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Right ffs, predictive text !!!

Haha I was about to say I know I look young but give me some credit ha

Phone credit? You might wanna try a contract if yer using Fab on yer phone.

(Couldn't resist)

Pretty terrible joke in the end though.... "

Don't start me on ends!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Well POF was just a shagging site so what the heck! I've had way more social invitations on here!

Exactly! POF is a shagging site too, they just like to pretend it isn't.

I use Fab in a way that suits me. If that means just meeting one man on here or meeting a different man each night, I'll do what makes me happy."

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By *il_minx_xxxWoman
over a year ago

hereandthereandeverywhere

"I think everyone can use this site as they see fit, not what other people tell them to do.

Personally, if I were looking for a relationship I'd want someone who was also into swinging, so why shouldn't I look for a partner on here if I wanted to?"

This ^

if and when I want a relationship I want someone who would be into swinging so why wouldn't I look on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks like s squaddies look at me thread

Defiantly not the case. He is actually a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People looked to be loved everywhere, this place is no different.

well apart from me,

Your dogs love you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

asian pro cost me 120 let piss on her titts I she cum 3times she fuck 20 blokes tonight letme fuck her arse an im in love she cum in my face an fuck her bearback sexy bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging clubs are a turn on but I find marride women are so cock hangry love shagin work mate she bi wont me to wear wig short skirt she fuckme in my work van,single blokes that aint got bull shit profiles the joke is this is a sex site an im yet shag from hear is my cock to littel 6,7 round head fat an loads vains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bitchen about not shaggin on a sex site .any one in my work van mmmmthe longest Ive licked pussy is a mother sister at same time just one shag be nice wanking so horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all, well i hope all aware of what fab is and what Fab is here for and provides, those that you speak of may come here to date without knowing anything of fab. Id hope that when they read the Site name "FAB" "swingers"?? They realise and scatter..

Either way they dont concern me.

I know what i want from fab and hope i can give to others in return what they want too.

Off to facefuckbook now...l8terz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof an tinder are shag feast but take girl out 3 times a week an graigs list id meet dirty house wifes shag the best if post my cock it tattooed big round head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bitchen about not shaggin on a sex site .any one in my work van mmmmthe longest Ive licked pussy is a mother sister at same time just one shag be nice wanking so horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

London clubs fuckin on the mandy mates girl just nocks for fags seeme naked start messing about big rock up arse love still come up me I wonnt cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Martincool what the fuck are you on about? You lost me on your first post and still talking shit now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bitchen about not shaggin on a sex site .any one in my work van mmmmthe longest Ive licked pussy is a mother sister at same time just one shag be nice wanking so horny

sjust let him suck it bitch that makes bi haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any womenwonna come round sunday roast bring ya fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^^^ anti-drug advert right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts exactly. Strange ramblings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh the wonderful and weird world of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging clubs are a turn on but I find marride women are so cock hangry love shagin work mate she bi wont me to wear wig short skirt she fuckme in my work van,single blokes that aint got bull shit profiles the joke is this is a sex site an im yet shag from hear is my cock to littel 6,7 round head fat an loads vains

any womenwonna come round sunday roast bring ya fellas

Would you like to repeat yourself one more time?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Don't drink and type, kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any womenwonna come round sunday roast bring ya fellas

Would you like to repeat yourself one more time?"

Nooooooooooooo once was enough

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

any womenwonna come round sunday roast bring ya fellas

Awesome post!!!!

Any alka seltza needed this morning

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"^^^^^ anti-drug advert right there.

My guess English is not their first language & possibly typed whilst intoxicated.

Spellcheck possibly set on Alien Mode.

I wonder if they come in peace?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any womenwonna come round sunday roast bring ya fellas

Would you like to repeat yourself one more time?

Nooooooooooooo once was enough

I think he repeated all his posts about 3 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People looked to be loved everywhere, this place is no different."

This.

Plus people are not emotionless robot's. Sometimes feelings develop and it's hard to ignore. They key should always be respect

As for plenty of fish I'd say it's worse than here for people looking for sex. Or for a bit on the side. Plus from my experience the men on it all seem far less interesting and often a bit ned like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"^^^^^ anti-drug advert right there.

My guess English is not their first language & possibly typed whilst intoxicated.

Spellcheck possibly set on Alien Mode.

I wonder if they come in peace?

I think he's auditioning for a part in the remake of Auf Wiedersehen, Pet - probably Oz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh God no, I'm not using it as a dating site.

I'm a swinger, I looked up the definition on google. SEX, no strings for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any womenwonna come round sunday roast bring ya fellas

Would you like to repeat yourself one more time?"
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Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guilty and proud of it. I'd love to be in a swinging relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You actually get replies on a dating site haha

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

any womenwonna come round sunday roast bring ya fellas

Righty-dokey matey-bloke flap old salty sea-dog amigo skip-jack jockstrap piano-tuner, let's see you balls this one up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for plenty of fish I'd say it's worse than here for people looking for sex. Or for a bit on the side. Plus from my experience the men on it all seem far less interesting and often a bit ned like."

Last night i wasn't sure whether to laugh or cry when my ex husband came up as one of the best possible matches for me on there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for plenty of fish I'd say it's worse than here for people looking for sex. Or for a bit on the side. Plus from my experience the men on it all seem far less interesting and often a bit ned like.

Last night i wasn't sure whether to laugh or cry when my ex husband came up as one of the best possible matches for me on there !

Ha ha. . I had that when I still lived near mine too. Theres an evil part of me that would love for him to stable up on my profile here though just so he can see I'm not what he thinks

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"...As for plenty of fish I'd say it's worse than here for people looking for sex. Or for a bit on the side. Plus from my experience the men on it all seem far less interesting and often a bit ned like."

Been on many sites including AFF, POF, LPSG etc etc. Fab is STILL the best of the bunch. Sure it has its types I wouldn't go near, just as other sites have; I prefer Fabs interface (some other sites look cheap, others too elaborate, Fab's got it just right - user friendly & plenty filters to out the ones I'm not interested in).

Sure, it has attracted more attention & custom than it was originally set up for & the name is maybe now a bit of a misnomer but things change with time. That includes the clientele & what folk want from the site. I'm very fortunate that I met loads of folk over the years who've become good friends & some great Meets I wouldn't have met otherwise if not for Fab. So focus on the positive things you get out of the site & if folk want to use it simply to chat to people they know, or date another person (who might also be into swinging), or just a succession of 121's then fine. They're not doing me any harm. I simply filter folk out if they ain't for me.

Happy swinging fellow Fabbers.

(Whatever you're looking for.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't pick where you fall in love with someone, yes this mainly for sex but! If you are looking for a partner who you want to be in a relationship and swing, this is a good place to find like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more success on dating sites that I ever will on here! The women on here seem to think they are gods lol with statements like this. Put a face photo in your message this isn't blind date! Yet hide them selves away haha it's all to funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get more success on dating sites that I ever will on here! The women on here seem to think they are gods lol with statements like this. Put a face photo in your message this isn't blind date! Yet hide them selves away haha it's all to funny!"

What's wrong with that, they'll probably send one in reply if interested ? No point wasting time if no attraction and you don't have to send one, just move on to a different profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's wrong with that, they'll probably send one in reply if interested ? No point wasting time if no attraction and you don't have to send one, just move on to a different profile.

It's a contradiction in terms!"

So what ? People can run their profile how they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a contradiction in terms! It's okay to waste my time just not theirs?haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a contradiction in terms! It's okay to waste my time just not theirs?haha"

How have they wasted your time ? Don't like it then don't message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind dude!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"^^^^^ anti-drug advert right there.

...for real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've some that some do seem to be looking for more than just sex on fab. Personally I was in POF first but feel I graduated to Fab. The level of adventure is so much better here. I have no interest whatsoever in dating or meeting the so-called "one". It suits me fine her.

Also, I have to say to the poster above, the OP has no need of starting a "look at me" thread, you'll have to trust me on that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, I have to say to the poster above, the OP has no need of starting a "look at me" thread, you'll have to trust me on that one. "

LOL

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

As for plenty of fish I'd say it's worse than here for people looking for sex. Or for a bit on the side. Plus from my experience the men on it all seem far less interesting and often a bit ned like.

Last night i wasn't sure whether to laugh or cry when my ex husband came up as one of the best possible matches for me on there !

Sorry, but

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You can't pick where you fall in love with someone, yes this mainly for sex but! If you are looking for a partner who you want to be in a relationship and swing, this is a good place to find like minded people"

I had no interest in a relationship. Only had one "proper" one in my life, with my husband. I was on my own for ten years, on here for five at the time when I answered a message from Ben.

His attitude was find em, fuck em and forget em: suited me fine. We met for a social a week after our first message. We haven't been apart since and we've been living together for a year.

Ben is Dutch, a cross between Jason Stathem and Bruce Willis, a ukip voting business owner whose previous girlfriends were leggy Scandinavian types. I'm a full time union official more Monique than Aleysha Dixon.

We shouldn't work on any level yet we do and planning on our future.

We weren't looking for a relationship at all and we both look at each other at times with a wtf?!!

Cupid has a sense of humour!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Ive been on dating sites....met some fruitcakes ... but the thing with dating sites ... is sex isnt necessarily one of the subjects you discuss on a first meet

Whereas on a sex site ... you dont feel uncomfortable talking about sex ...

Im not looking for a boyfriend ... friend with benefits ... whatever u want to call it

BUT ... if I met someone on here who I got on really well with and the sex was good for both of us ... BINGO !!

whatever will be .... untill then .... its fun looking ....

Hope this helps OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing about pof! Least you know who you are talking to! How many times have you asked for a face photo on here and been disappointed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people expect, think they expect and pretend to expect is irrelevant unless it's a person with the reciprocated interest - move on to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried getting a POF long term boyfriend into swinging and he couldn't handle it so I think if I wanted to go down that road again I'd look for someone here. Makes sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best thing about pof! Least you know who you are talking to! How many times have you asked for a face photo on here and been disappointed!"

Nah, same happened to me on POF. Guy's photo was 20 years out of date. When he fessed up and showed me a current one, he hadn't fared well.

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"bitchen about not shaggin on a sex site .any one in my work van mmmmthe longest Ive licked pussy is a mother sister at same time just one shag be nice wanking so horny

I think you are typing too fast for your own imagination!

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Best thing about pof! Least you know who you are talking to! How many times have you asked for a face photo on here and been disappointed!

Nah, same happened to me on POF. Guy's photo was 20 years out of date. When he fessed up and showed me a current one, he hadn't fared well.

Tough paper round?

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agreed and no offence intended but the ones I see re falling for fbs etc tend to be female great if you become good friends but keep it real its a sex site.

Maybe time when people are like that to try another type of site.

Same applies to men its mainly females I see posting the I fell for fb what shall I do or fb has stopped replying etc. They moved on to other folk on the merry go round known as fab.

I am very lucky to be great friends with lots I meet but keep in perspective.

Lust and love can be confused."

Maybe only see females post as they more open in how they chat, from messages we have had, its more men after love than females, men just wont say in forums incase puts people off meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best thing about pof! Least you know who you are talking to! How many times have you asked for a face photo on here and been disappointed!

Nah, same happened to me on POF. Guy's photo was 20 years out of date. When he fessed up and showed me a current one, he hadn't fared well.

Tough paper round?

Yes...in a desert area with no knowledge of sun protection.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"Yes...in a desert area with no knowledge of sun protection.

The moral being: Always use protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sit is for everyone and you can use it as you want lol.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks like s squaddies look at me thread

Defiantly not the case. He is actually a nice guy

Thank you

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over a year ago

"Well POF was just a shagging site so what the heck! I've had way more social invitations on here!

You're eight , me and my girlfriends all call POF plenty of fucks "

I'm no longer on POF as it seemed more about hooking up than dating. If I wanted a relationship it would be with a like minded lady so why not find it here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah fall in love with a couple haha

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

" Or am I just looking at the wrong profiles?"

This. For every individual that seeks out "the one" or takes things too seriously (by your own standards) there's another individual that keeps things more casual. The swinging world is as diverse as the wider world in which it is nestled.

It is an interesting topic though - at what point does swinging become something more? It's a blurred line, and one that's drawn far earlier for some than for others.

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By *r JelabiMan
over a year ago

North London

Think, the problem with NSA meets, is unless your both on the same page, a regular fuck buddies always seems to catch feelings.

But I'd rather her fancy/like me, then catch an STD

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

"I'm guilty and proud of it. I'd love to be in a swinging relationship.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

I don't see anything wrong if you find your life partner through a swinging site. As far as both of you are happy.

Some people still _iew swinging as a taboo place to meet someone for a proper relationship.

I see no different between vanilla club or what you call conventional club.where I find love is no man business.

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