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By *uncouple8330 OP Couple
over a year ago

tampa

I'm lost I need some advise anyone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of advice ?....get the right mmf together and its awesome

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By *uncouple8330 OP Couple
over a year ago

tampa

She was 3 months pergo and she got super horny and we was talking and she said her fantasy is to do a mfm she wants two guys at once so we did it and the guy was hung like a horse we didn't know that before meeting I got so turned on when I seen it so I joined in while he was eating her pussy and only let him eat her for 10mins and said you need to fuck her now so when they started fucking I laid next to her and started jacking off and rubbing her hand and tits and told him to start pounding her harder she needs a good pounding and I just really watched and the next day she felt bad and like a hoe so I told her no she wasn't and tired comforting her over the next few days I would always bring it up and she agreed to do it again we did it again with him and I did the same thing basicly just watched the next day she wasn't feeling bad or like a hoe like the first time she said she don't wanna do it again tho I always bring it up about doing it again she said no everytime she told me she didn't think I loved her to be able to share her I told her how much I did love her and I shared her cuz it was her fanasty and I wanted to do that for her after that a few months go by and I bought it back up again and she said she don't wanna have sex with someone she don't know to just have sex I said well let's go on a few dates with someone and get to know them she said ok so I found another well hung guy and told her I talked to a old buddy and he is a swinger she told me she's not a 100% sure if she wants to do it I said why she said she don't know how she's really feel after I told her I won't just watch I will join in the whole time she said I don't know love I asked her if it would hurt us she said it may I know she wants to do if but don't know how to make her fill good about it afterwards HELP PLEASE lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is pregnant then her hormones are all over the place and if she keeps saying no are you sure she's not ending up saying yes to please you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you need to back off a bit and not pressurise her..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave her be because if not sure you should not as it seems pressure her its out of order.

Twice I had meets where it was clear the female was doing it to please the bloke I refused to olay because its neant to be fun for all.

She is not a commodity.

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By *uncouple8330 OP Couple
over a year ago

tampa

She told me the 2nd time she did it to make me happy but when she's all worked up she likes the idea of doing another mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".... the next day she felt bad and like a hoe so I told her no she wasn't and tired comforting her ..... over the next few days I would always bring it up and she agreed to do it again ...... she said she don't wanna do it again...... I always bring it up about doing it again she said no everytime........ she told me she didn't think I loved her to be able to share her ...... a few months go by and I bought it back up again and she said she don't wanna have sex with someone she don't know to just have sex ......I said well let's go on a few dates with someone and get to know them she said ok ........ she told me she's not a 100% sure if she wants to do it ..... I asked her if it would hurt us she said it may I know she wants to "

Above are excerpts from your post. Read them and you will realise that you are pushing her to do things she is not sure about. You write: "I know she wants to" but everything else you have written suggests that she doesn't! I appreciate that you want to make her happy, but I think you should concentrate on romance for the time being, rather than sexual encounters. Sometimes turning fantasy into reality is not a good idea.

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By *uncouple8330 OP Couple
over a year ago

tampa

I'm just lost cuz she is the one that asking j would do a mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's not 100% sure she wants to do it, so don't pressure her.

And yes even suggesting it is pressuring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it pretty sad that there are people who want something and expect someone else to just go through with what they want.

Accept people have the right to do what they want, and if they're not sure give them time to decide.

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By *uncouple8330 OP Couple
over a year ago

tampa

Just for all the haters my mrs is the one that ask me toget in this lifestyle I didn't ask her

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

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sounds like you are doing it for your own agenda... i'm not going to judge really is none of my business...sounds like its what you want her to do and your telling her, us and yourself she likes it so you can condone pressurizing her into doing it. AS previously mentioned shes also pregnant... women when they are pregnant get maternal and protective of the ones close to them. Of course if you try give her to someone else it'll damage the relationship goes against everything shes feeling. Id back off and enjoy the pregnancy.

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