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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can any one answer why I'm having such difficulty finding a genuine couple to meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I would say so many of the genuine couples like us have been messed about by so called veried guys who don't turn up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm beginning to think it may be my age ( and the minority that mess couples about give us genuine guys a bad name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you just bothering to talk to the female half? a real bug bear if so, a couple means just that.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got it,but age wouldn't be an issue we wouldn't think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No , I'm happy to talk to both , hey I'm an adult and can actually have some good conversations with either sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any one answer why I'm having such difficulty finding a genuine couple to meet ?"

We would have zero interest in you as you have zero photos in your gallery. That's just us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get that , but I do have pics on here which I'm happy to send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because most couples don't have much choice on here so they have to ask men for photos?

You're asking, just doing you the courtesy of helping you. No photos is a major hinderance to a lot of people on here getting what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok well I'll take that on board , obviously with the nature of my work I like to be discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok well I'll take that on board , obviously with the nature of my work I like to be discreet "

So discreet that we all know your work before we've even met you? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha yeah that's on my to do list ( change my name )

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Because most couples don't have much choice on here so they have to ask men for photos?

You're asking, just doing you the courtesy of helping you. No photos is a major hinderance to a lot of people on here getting what they're looking for."

Mrs ddc does her own searching for males, if there is no public pic, you wouldn't get a second glance. For her to bother to PM you to ask for one, you'd have to have something pretty special in your profile, since this would then mean you could get around our email preferences at will.

Even then you would have to get past my suspicions about having what looks like two veris from one meet, done months previously, from two separate profiles, before we would meet.

You basically just have to stand out, but in a good way. To meet a couple you have two minds to win over, so it's actually quite hard imo.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with what has been said above. Not having any public pics is enough for us to pass you by (if we met people your age). We don't need to ask for pics with other guys, so we don't look at profiles without them.

Marc is more forgiving in this regard. But I feel that we both have jobs that are important, and we still have pics, so I don't really buy that argument, personally. It's your choice in the end of course, but it will make it more difficult for you.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is great advice , thank you for that , I'll look at restructuring my profile a tad thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok well I'll take that on board , obviously with the nature of my work I like to be discreet "

That's an odd statement considering your username. No one will know what you do if you change your name and have photos excluding your face. Profession seems irrelevant for a fun meet and never needs to be discussed or revealed.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Can any one answer why I'm having such difficulty finding a genuine couple to meet ?"

I genuinely can't understand it. You say you're genuine, you're genuinely looking for couples who are genuine....I'm at a genuine loss as to any genuine reason why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A point about the firefighter thing, it seems firefighters consider that a huge selling point. If it's not in their username or profile it's certainly mentioned very early on.

Same with young lads, they seem to think the fact they are young is enough.

Neither group, in our experience (and that is all we can go by), knows how to make a woman cum. The 'climb on and fuck until you cum' school of sexual technique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A point about the firefighter thing, it seems firefighters consider that a huge selling point. If it's not in their username or profile it's certainly mentioned very early on.

Same with young lads, they seem to think the fact they are young is enough.

Neither group, in our experience (and that is all we can go by), knows how to make a woman cum. The 'climb on and fuck until you cum' school of sexual technique."

My fuck buddy is a firefighter (female) and makes me laugh telling me stories of guys bigging themselves up as firefighters obviously not realising she is and on further questioning its obvious to her that they're not. Most genuine firefighters, according to her, don't feel the need to brag about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics.

Dull if sincere profile. Some spice rqd.

I would attach pics with your messages, try and stand out from the many on here forming a very full crowd, speak to a couple as a couple.

We have failed to find a guy we would see again so far.

The search goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any one answer why I'm having such difficulty finding a genuine couple to meet ?

We would have zero interest in you as you have zero photos in your gallery. That's just us."

I agree. I think we block profiles with no public photos.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


" Most genuine firefighters, according to her, don't feel the need to brag about it. "

I agree, which is why I never tell anyone I'm a firefighter.

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Oh, buggar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are out there but it's a numbers game. Your job would be immaterial as to us meeting though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We are out there but it's a numbers game. Your job would be immaterial as to us meeting though. "

Quite good for 'I have a big hose that spurts' jokes though

I'm a firefighter, do you want to slide down my pole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can any one answer why I'm having such difficulty finding a genuine couple to meet ?"

lmao we find it difficult to find ANY kind of a meet, it's been years for us

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We always play in clubs, usually with one (or several) single men. For those that we play with, clubs offer the best way of building a whole network of couples to meet. Have you tried this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess what. He hasn't changed a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess what. He hasn't changed a thing. "

He's trying to be discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt the username will change as you have to be a site supporter to change it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Guess what. He hasn't changed a thing. "
maybe he's putting a fire out.

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