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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

We all know of fake ids on fab...

Has any couple agreed to meet another couple only for it to be obvious they were not or you had suspicions....of being genuine

How did you react..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! i can usually can tell during messaging and profile..and no wouldnt waste my time or life meeting them.

Her

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We all know of fake ids on fab...

Has any couple agreed to meet another couple only for it to be obvious they were not or you had suspicions....of being genuine

How did you react..?"

if we turned up and there were two people they would be a couple or do you mean they had just teamed up for the meet. When you say genuine what do you mean?

Some people wont meet couples who aren't in a long term relationship or are fuck buddies or are married to other people...is that what you mean?

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"We all know of fake ids on fab...

Has any couple agreed to meet another couple only for it to be obvious they were not or you had suspicions....of being genuine

How did you react..?

if we turned up and there were two people they would be a couple or do you mean they had just teamed up for the meet. When you say genuine what do you mean?

Some people wont meet couples who aren't in a long term relationship or are fuck buddies or are married to other people...is that what you mean?"
just teamed up for meet, i,ve heard its not uncommon when attending clubs / spas etc...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've met couples who only meet up for sex and it didn't worry me at all but there again I already knew before I met them. If I didn't know, I wouldn't mind either so all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

People who are not genuine are generally really easy to suss out very early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it bother you if people just team up for a meet? I guess I never really understood why this would bother people, though I know it does.

For us it doesn't matter. As long as there is a male and female and we like them then it doesn't really matter to me what their personal relationship status is. But I know others feel differently, which is fine, of course.

-Courtney

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've seen a fair few couples in clubs who are FWBs it doesn't bother me in the least.

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Now with replies i feel theres a little smidgen of hypocracy here.... SURELY??

Meaning for those who have suspicions couple are FWB,, yet as a rule don,t entertain single guys or girls....

Affectively isn,t that whats happening??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Now with replies i feel theres a little smidgen of hypocracy here.... SURELY??

Meaning for those who have suspicions couple are FWB,, yet as a rule don,t entertain single guys or girls....

Affectively isn,t that whats happening??

"

Nope. They probably don't entertain singles because they aren't interested in threesomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now with replies i feel theres a little smidgen of hypocracy here.... SURELY??

Meaning for those who have suspicions couple are FWB,, yet as a rule don,t entertain single guys or girls....

Affectively isn,t that whats happening??

"

I'm not positive I understand your question, but I'll give it my best shot.

We are not currently stated as looking for single men or women. However, that has more to do with regulating our inbox than anything else. So, we do still meet men and women but don't list it on fab as we don't want tons of messages from single men at the moment.

Anyway, a fwb or fb couple is not the same as a single man or woman in any case. They may not be a couple in the strictest sense, but what we are looking for in a couple is not the fact that they are emotionally attached to one another. We are looking for a man for me to play with and a woman for Marc to play with. A fwb or fb couple provides this the same as a "real" couple does.

So no, I don't see the hypocrisy at all.

-Courtney

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

So OP is your question "have you ever chatted to a fake profile" or "have you ever met a couple that were actually FB/FWB couple?"

Or something entirely different?

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By *ifferent69 OP   Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"Now with replies i feel theres a little smidgen of hypocracy here.... SURELY??

Meaning for those who have suspicions couple are FWB,, yet as a rule don,t entertain single guys or girls....

Affectively isn,t that whats happening??

I'm not positive I understand your question, but I'll give it my best shot.

We are not currently stated as looking for single men or women. However, that has more to do with regulating our inbox than anything else. So, we do still meet men and women but don't list it on fab as we don't want tons of messages from single men at the moment.

Anyway, a fwb or fb couple is not the same as a single man or woman in any case. They may not be a couple in the strictest sense, but what we are looking for in a couple is not the fact that they are emotionally attached to one another. We are looking for a man for me to play with and a woman for Marc to play with. A fwb or fb couple provides this the same as a "real" couple does.

So no, I don't see the hypocrisy at all.

-Courtney"
yes well explained i i understand fully... Perhaps using term hypocrasy.., was,nt the correct word... Could,nt really think of a more suitable one.

Thanks for taking the time in answering so openly...

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