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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd be up for it with someone I trusted completely.

What about you?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Whatever floats yr boat.

People frequently end up places they didn't expect with me, but as I invariably say "I didn't make anyone do anything they didn't already want to do".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do we know for real when they type it in their profile? I would be up for it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky situation. Think explicit consent is safer ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thread pulled in T minus 5 seconds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do we know for real when they type it in their profile? I would be up for it too."

I couldn't put it in my profile as an interest as that may give the impression I'd want it on a meet.

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By *ause and EffectCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Sorry to be a thick - what is it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my biggest fantasies!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Tricky situation. Think explicit consent is safer ground."

All you need is a safe word.....

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Sorry to be a thick - what is it?! "

You give consent for the other person to do what ever they want. It might include role play covering themes such as reluctance, coercion or even rape. But the key part of it is that consent has been even for all this to happen, so although it might look and feel non-consensual, it actually is consensual.

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By *ause and EffectCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Thanks for the clarification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing with the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do we know for real when they type it in their profile? I would be up for it too.

I couldn't put it in my profile as an interest as that may give the impression I'd want it on a meet."

Yes that's a good point

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away


"It's amazing with the right person.

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It's finding the right person. I wouldn't have thought ANYONE would be willing to do it on their first meet. You need to trust that individual, trust is earned and built up within time.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Thread pulled in T minus 5 seconds "

If a man raised the topic, probably.

A lot of trust needed but each their own.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Already tried it with a regular of ours ...

Was well worth it

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