FabSwingers.com forum: What made you into the Sexual person you are

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have often wondered, what made you a Swinger, Bi, Fetish lover etc. For me it was finding porn mags and videos when I was younger. I just loved reading the stories. So what was that point in your life?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Imagination and loads of practice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting each other , starting a relationship together , and exploring our desires together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a Scorpio, my sex drive was written in the stars...

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Getting my cock suck through a glory hole at a young age

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A trailing off and then stopping of sex within my marriage led me to Fab. An mmf led me to becoming bi. Strange how life pans out in unexpected directions.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A meeting off another site that brought out my, shall we say, positive approach to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mates older sister took me aside one day, shoved her tongue deep down my throat, laughed and said 'one day you're going to be real good at that!'...I've been obsessed ever since

And if you're reading this and it was you, get in touch I've got something to show you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And bouncing boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I've always been a horny kinky bugger hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always been privitely curious,but very shy so was using a vibrator to pleasure myself knowing I was missing out on something. all my friends are quite prudish and i felt odd enjoying watching porn and playing. Eventually aged 27 having still my virginity I decided enough was enough and had a one night thing. It opened my eyes to what I was missing out on and started playing catch up!!! Slowly losing the shyness, each meet I get better and looking forward to going to clubs when im brave enough, just not sure i can on my own.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

When I was young my car broke down outsite a dirty book shop.So being there I went in and fell in love with fetish and never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a job with Sydney University.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting a job with Sydney University."

Lol!

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Being naturally curious, and experiencing a failing sex life in a former long term relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Best friend girlfriend sent me a txt to ask will you come fuck me

with his permission

never been so horny in my life

had fun ever since

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By *ringiton89Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Genuinely don't know. I'm a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 years of catholic school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I collect extreme experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum's work mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a suppressed sexual desires.

Ex husband walked out, new fella found, watched "the bunny ranch on TV" next weekend we went to a "sex club". Morning after, I asked if that made me a swinger! lol. 7 years later, I'm still fucking my first swing. My Fuck buddy daddy, as I call him. Although I found out he is a granddad yesterday!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I have often wondered, what made you a Swinger, Bi, Fetish lover etc. For me it was finding porn mags and videos when I was younger. I just loved reading the stories. So what was that point in your life?"

It was always something I'd fantasized about and then I met Paul, who had done this in a former life....see, dreams do come true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its always been in me waiting to be brought out

heres hoping

very new and just finding my way round

care to help me !!!

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

I honestly have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination of nature and nurture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex when I was 18. He'll never know how thankful I am to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't started it yet, but looked fun on the tv documentaries about it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom and an inquisitive mind.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Boundless curiosity

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

"I'm a Scorpio, my sex drive was written in the stars..."

Hehe.. must be where I get it from too

so it's not my fault after all; I couldn't find a reason but now I know.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

As far back as I can remember I've always been curious about anything to do with sex.

When I met Mr B, it allowed me to unlock it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really any of the things mentioned in the op but I do have a couple of kinks and sexual preferences. Met my ex when we were both 17 and we were together almost 10 years. Most of out adult life was spent fucking just each other and we just pushed each other's boundaries and developed our sexual style. With him I discovered that I love rimming a guy, I like sucking guys and putting my tongue up their arse whilst they sleep. I like guys to pretend they have some sort of injury and I'm their carer that has to bath them and wash them and do inappropriate things to them. I like fake rape scenarios, I also like guys to eat their own cum out of me, can't do that with a casual partner cos it involves unsafe sex, the things I like to do I can only do with a boyfriend. I like guys with big dicks because my ex was just shy of 9 inches and that's what I'm used to. I like cock worship, just playing with a dick, rolling it over my face and smelling it. There's a few weird and wonderful things that I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't started it yet, but looked fun on the tv documentaries about it lol."

A documentary? About Penge? Whatever next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What made me into the sexual person I am now?

X-ray vision, tight underpants, tin foil and sticky back plastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a Scorpio, my sex drive was written in the stars...

Hehe.. must be where I get it from too

so it's not my fault after all; I couldn't find a reason but now I know.

Handy to know you can just check horoscope to know when you're getting lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't started it yet, but looked fun on the tv documentaries about it lol.

A documentary? About Penge? Whatever next?"
lol no not this time in penge, but it was a program about swingers that was out dogging u know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always been curious, so a largely sexless teenage existence led me to the internet. Not necessarily porn, I got heavily into chat rooms and different adult sites and discovered the world of fantasy and kink that way.

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

"I'm a Scorpio, my sex drive was written in the stars...

Hehe.. must be where I get it from too

so it's not my fault after all; I couldn't find a reason but now I know.

Handy to know you can just check horoscope to know when you're getting lucky

That's where I've been going wrong. I've just been turning up to the club's everytime and hope my luck is in. I'll consult the stars for tomorrow and if it's not a good forecast I'll avoid going. Won't be disappointed then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genetics.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Curiosity and being open minded and willing to try everything there is

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Naughtish books when I was younger (13). Then my divorce opened my eyes to wanting to experiment and try things I always wanted to

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

An insane curiosity to try new things & explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was personally not very sexually experienced when I dated Marc (I had never even seen another dick, in person). So, starting from a rather innocent point, Marc encouraged me to explore whatever fantasies I had, through our relationship. When we had been married a little while, he told me about swinging and asked if I would be interested. We moved on from there.

So I think for me it was a combination of three things....a certain sexual innocence, a very encouraging and loving partner, and a liberal and open mind.

-Courtney

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Led Zeppelin II!!

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

A very naughty but nice older woman xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got tired of the foxes outside my window mocking me with their constant dusk till dawn loud fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A older women when i was sixteen ! After that my cravings for naughty ladies knew no boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seven years in the french legion and a security job in london where the club owner was a female dom lady who took me under her instructions mmmmmm was I a quick learner

and she made a good income out of me albeit to my ignorance of that fact but I still thank my lucky stars that she did xxx

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

A fuck buddy at university who had a thing for being watched

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By *adboi9inchMan
over a year ago

manchester

Porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puberty

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

Pretty much the same as you OP ..... Just found looking at naked girls fascinating and a major turn on and of course porn vids ... I was wanking like no tomorow then

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"Meeting each other , starting a relationship together , and exploring our desires together

Pretty much the same for us

. Xxx

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Meeting each other , starting a relationship together , and exploring our desires together

Pretty much the same for us

. Xxx

So jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been very curious.

I got married when I was 16. I had no real clue about the world of sex or even myself. I found myself on an other site at 18 and then the first time I split with my husband I started phone chat with a man who opened my eyes to many things. I loved him for it. When I finally got divorced I also said good bye to him and I've evolved myself since. With the help of one or two others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiosity and confidence I think

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Meeting each other , starting a relationship together , and exploring our desires together

This for me. Not that I had a totally vanilla sex life before we met

Nita x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame my Care Bear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A broken marriage and a friend told me to stop moping about and get on here. God knows what I would be doing now if he had not

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

because ..... I CAN!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told a few years ago by my mother when I was 18mth old, if my auntie came round with tights on, I would plonk myself on the floor in front of her and run my finger in circles on her legs\tights

36 years later and no change

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

"I was told a few years ago by my mother when I was 18mth old, if my auntie came round with tights on, I would plonk myself on the floor in front of her and run my finger in circles on her legs\tights

36 years later and no change "
now that's what I call showing early promise! I was collecting and hiding (not very well as it turned out) page 3 pics at the age of 5, but you've beaten me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both had some naughty experiences when we were younger. I have to admit I sometimes look back and wonder 'how the hell did that happen?'. We are both sexually open minded and I guess it grew from there. Then we met and it just keeps getting better

-Mrs-

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I'm pretty sure access to the internet has had a big influence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love cock!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting a job with Sydney University."
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting a guy in a chatroom and then meeting in person to look at his bdsm toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boarding school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame my Care Bear "

Those bastards have so much to answer for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being in a monogamous relationship for 10 years. I had to make up for lost times

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By *infulsarah67300Woman
over a year ago

weston super mare

Break up of my marriage left me thinking is that it!!! A friend told me about a adult site, I thought why not! Luckily my first meet was a good one!!! A real eye opener!!! A guy actually licking my pussy! My ex never did. Realised what I'd been missing out on. But going to a swingers club with a male friend was the icing on the cake?! So much fun!!! Now go when I can and enjoy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tittle of the thread -"What made you into the sexual person that you are" and the OP could be interpreted differently. In my case, my early sexual experiences with an older cousin, the fact that my Dad left when I was 10yrs old and my experimentation with a sadistic girl got me hooked on promiscuous and submissive behaviour as a way of expressing my needs. Then after a 24yr and a 9yr marriage, both peppered with affairs my 2nd husband and I sat and really talked about how why I felt the need to stray and what positives and negatives there were. Our openness made us realise that on the plus side - sex with other people meant I was much more horny with him too and the idea of me fucking others turned him on aswell. On the negative side we agreed that it was a betrayal of trust, hurtful and took alot of energy,time and concentration to keep track of the lies and excuses. So we decided to try swinging - and guess what?????No strings attached sex is definitely working for both of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curiosity got the better of me and since 2000 I've not stopped

So many different paths to explore

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Haribo and your mum

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Playing with my older sisters best mate when i was 14, she was 19. Sucking her nipples why she was wanking me off. Mmmmm not good to be at work at this particular moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A trailing off and then stopping of sex within my marriage led me to Fab. An mmf led me to becoming bi. Strange how life pans out in unexpected directions. "

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Having my first 4sum at 24, 8 years later my OT suggested to look on sites to experience it again and ended up here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catholic school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know if this counts but this site has given me a lot of coincidence and brought me out of my shyness

Thank you genuine people of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame my Care Bear

Those bastards have so much to answer for!

Yes! Esp the blue one!!!

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Getting married very young

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is a very good reply

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

Getting my cock sucked in park toilets / gloryholes after school

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Genetics

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