FabSwingers.com forum: Loads of Verfications

By *aramelMINX OP Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think"

If they're all meets and very frequent, yes.

If they're all meets but spread out, no.

If they're frequent meets and social veris but the meets are spread out, no.

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By *ringiton89Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If there are lots of meets in the space of a couple of months then it puts me off whether that's 5 or 25. But lots of veris over a long period is ok

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By *aramelMINX OP Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Yea that's how I see it too...

then on the profile it says not looking to sleep thru the site

looking for quality not quantity

the old classics

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"If there are lots of meets in the space of a couple of months then it puts me off whether that's 5 or 25. But lots of veris over a long period is ok"

This

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Yea that's how I see it too...

then on the profile it says not looking to sleep thru the site

looking for quality not quantity

the old classics"

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By *aramelMINX OP Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

What about the kinda people they have been with

for example a 22 year old and a 60 year old... does that suggest no standards and any hole is a goal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the kinda people they have been with

for example a 22 year old and a 60 year old... does that suggest no standards and any hole is a goal?

If the 60 yr old was the male I'd have said well done fella. I'll keep to myself what i think about the 22yr old though!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Volume? No.

What's written and who by? Definitely!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Volume? No.

What's written and who by? Definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seldom read peoples verifications, I just ensure that they're verified by meeting first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't as not all will be play meets. What does however is where someone has met someone more than once and verified them each time which means say 37 verifications may only be 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there are lots of meets in the space of a couple of months then it puts me off whether that's 5 or 25. But lots of veris over a long period is ok"

Agreed, lots of verifications are good evidence of a persons character and whether or not they're genuine, plus if they're spread out they look like enthusiastic meeters whilst still being discerning.

Its also important what sort of meets these were, socials are obviously not the same as swinging meets.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

To me, No, but to some people it obviously makes a difference. I think people also forget that a verification doesn't mean that 2 people had sex together. We have verified, and been verified by people that we have met at clubs, or house parties that we can verify as genuine people, but it doesn't mean that we played together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, because I don't judge people based on previous meets.

If I like them, I'll arrange a social meet with them & see then if I'm attracted to them.

What they've done with previous meets is of no concern to me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"If there are lots of meets in the space of a couple of months then it puts me off whether that's 5 or 25. But lots of veris over a long period is ok

Its also important what sort of meets these were, socials are obviously not the same as swinging meets."

Why are meets from socials (not 'social meets') and swinging meets different? Play often occurs at socials. Just because someone chooses not to leave or display graphic veris stating that sex has taken place doesn't mean it hasn't.

A coffee in Starbucks social veri and a social at a club veri will often be based entirely different circumstances.

Do people have to leave a second veri if they meet for a coffee and at a later date end up naked and sweaty?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some people have shit veris anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha !

If we showed all our veris we would be the type to piss off most of the judgemental on here

Last night we met 4 couples , a single bi female , and 5 single guys , and there wasn't much social activity

It's great to be free of the shackles which constrain so many on here . For us the site is a place to hook up with like minded people and enjoy sexual adventures . And luckily there are so many who feel the same way .

So in answer to the op , we don't care how many veris anyone has , the more the merrier . Far more likely that they will be up for the kind of fun we enjoy

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Also I would prefer this site to be a place of sexual empowerment, rather than a place of slut shaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also I would prefer this site to be a place of sexual empowerment, rather than a place of slut shaming."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha !

If we showed all our veris we would be the type to piss off most of the judgemental on here

Last night we met 4 couples , a single bi female , and 5 single guys , and there wasn't much social activity

So in answer to the op , we don't care how many veris anyone has , the more the merrier . Far more likely that they will be up for the kind of fun we enjoy

I understand why some people may only want to meet people with 2 veri's a year. But I find it hilarious that they use the verification system as 100% proof of someone's sex life. Poor deluded souls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have shit veris anyway. "

If a veri says that someone is a shit shag then they must be.

People don't lie.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Ha ha !

If we showed all our veris we would be the type to piss off most of the judgemental on here

Last night we met 4 couples , a single bi female , and 5 single guys , and there wasn't much social activity

So in answer to the op , we don't care how many veris anyone has , the more the merrier . Far more likely that they will be up for the kind of fun we enjoy

I understand why some people may only want to meet people with 2 veri's a year. But I find it hilarious that they use the verification system as 100% proof of someone's sex life. Poor deluded souls.

Because obviously if there's not written evidence that sex took place then it didn't happen.

There is no world outside of Fab - didn't you get the memo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you prefere to see how long exactly the member has been on the site rather than seeing currently more than a year ?

Being able to see how long and then being able to more accurately judge eg

30 meets over 4 years

30 meets over a year

???

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Would you prefere to see how long exactly the member has been on the site rather than seeing currently more than a year ?

Being able to see how long and then being able to more accurately judge eg

30 meets over 4 years

30 meets over a year

???

Look at the date on their oldest pic (if they have some!).

It'll give an indication in some cases.

It shouldn't really matter though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really does not bother me

I'm here for my own reasons and coming on a sex site to judge others on how much sex they have isnt one of them

Does it matter if you have sex 5 times a week with the same guy or with five different guys? We all have a sex drive just some need more servicing than others who am into say how often others can have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see how the number of veris someone has will effect me in any way. We've met people with none, and we've met people with lots. Our veris range from "we've met them in a club, nice ppl" to "we got down and dirty and we'll do it again."

I read them to see what others say about them, but their content or number has never been the deciding factor on whether we'd meet someone.

-Courtney

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

Kesgrave

"Also I would prefer this site to be a place of sexual empowerment, rather than a place of slut shaming."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother us how many verificationa someone has... We don't really have that many as its a newish profile but have still been told we have to many.

Tough.. if someone doesn't like that we meet and play as much as time allows then tough. Also some of ours will be multiple in one evening or day.

We often spend a day at a club then go to a party in the evening x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you prefere to see how long exactly the member has been on the site rather than seeing currently more than a year ?

Being able to see how long and then being able to more accurately judge eg

30 meets over 4 years

30 meets over a year

???

Look at the date on their oldest pic (if they have some!).

It'll give an indication in some cases.

It shouldn't really matter though.

Veris have dates too, if it really matters that much to someone.

-Courtney

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Some people have shit veris anyway.

If a veri says that someone is a shit shag then they must be.

People don't lie. "
unless they think the meet is so awesome they want to keep him for themselves. Or they are a shit shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have shit veris anyway.

If a veri says that someone is a shit shag then they must be.

People don't lie. unless they think the meet is so awesome they want to keep him for themselves. Or they are a shit shag.

Awesome. Definitely.

She doesn't lie, she's lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What only matters to me, if the girl met a 12 inches cock 10 mins before... other than that I am fine haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have shit veris anyway.

If a veri says that someone is a shit shag then they must be.

People don't lie. "

Exactly. I believe all shit veris to be more truthful than the good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think"

Does having more than a handful make someone less genuine and friendly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only been back on this site for 7 months and have about 40 verifications, and that is only because I've been off and on this site for 11 years. My veris are from when I used to hold my own parties years ago or from socials so they re-verified me! I've only had sex with 2 of he guys since I started back! Quality is so much better than quantity for me but everyone is different. If some girls just want to be greedy girls, leave them carry on, if you don't like that then pass them by and find someone else. We are all here for different kinds of fun, what seems normal to some, may feel abnormal to others, doesn't make it wrong! Everyone has got their own do's and don'ts. Stick to what you want and stay happy swinging xx

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By *exxxesCouple
over a year ago

Newbury / London

It's a balance, lots of verifications from say one party night is obviosuly logical. However, meet after meet every other night would not probably be for us.

There is a couple on our local feed who chase meets every other night (how it seems). Their choice entirely, but not for us, glad they have the time. They now have loads of verifications over a few months, which to answer the question - would put us off. Don't they enjoy their own company?? A question we'd ask ourselves.

As always - each to their own of course. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a balance, lots of verifications from say one party night is obviosuly logical. However, meet after meet every other night would not probably be for us.

As always - each to their own of course. x"

To answer the question ' don't they enjoy their own company ?' '

More than you can imagine , and we are lucky enough to enjoy it doing what we both love .

We love getting out every other night , meeting new people , experiencing new adventures , chilling , listening and often singing along to music , grabbing a takeaway and watching the stars . Discussing the day , making plans , cuddling up together and just being us .

Yes we enjoy sex , with each other and watching and joining in with others , but that's just the icing on the cake . The substance is what we have together .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there are lots of meets in the space of a couple of months then it puts me off whether that's 5 or 25. But lots of veris over a long period is ok

Its also important what sort of meets these were, socials are obviously not the same as swinging meets.

A coffee in Starbucks social veri and a social at a club veri will often be based entirely different circumstances.

Do people have to leave a second veri if they meet for a coffee and at a later date end up naked and sweaty?

We have lots of repeat meets without repeat verifications. If someone used the number and frequency of ours to try to judge who, when and how often we meet, they'd be way out...and especially, it's none of their business anyway...someone who's using that as a yard stick, can bugger off because anyone looking down on people actually meeting on a swinging site aren't likely to get an invitation round to ours any time soon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there are lots of meets in the space of a couple of months then it puts me off whether that's 5 or 25. But lots of veris over a long period is ok

Its also important what sort of meets these were, socials are obviously not the same as swinging meets.

A coffee in Starbucks social veri and a social at a club veri will often be based entirely different circumstances.

Do people have to leave a second veri if they meet for a coffee and at a later date end up naked and sweaty?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I have established a network of friends on the site, tend to see them on a fairly regular basis, and would not contemplate the need to either get or give another verification. There'd be no point and it may take on a look of padding the list....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And funnily enough, lots of people meet lots of people who aren't actually on fab at all, shocking, I know...

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've had 40+ meets in the last 10 months or so.Only a few meets have been verified and I haven't asked for them to be verified either.If someone verifies me then I will show the verification and hope that it shows that I actually exist and do turn up.I'm not put off by loads of verifications and I would meet someone who has none..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some degree I guess it does with us but then on the flip side it shows that they're genuine and obv a good fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the kinda people they have been with

for example a 22 year old and a 60 year old... does that suggest no standards and any hole is a goal?

At 55 I met with a 23 year old, we were very attracted to each other, and still are, does that mean we both lowered our standards ??

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think"
I cam never work out if people with loads of verifications are insecure or just showing off. I dont usually bother reading verifications as I make my decision on the content of the profile .What I have noticed is that some members with lots have five or six from the same person which is pointless

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By *aramelMINX OP Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"What about the kinda people they have been with

for example a 22 year old and a 60 year old... does that suggest no standards and any hole is a goal?

At 55 I met with a 23 year old, we were very attracted to each other, and still are, does that mean we both lowered our standards ?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think I cam never work out if people with loads of verifications are insecure or just showing off. I dont usually bother reading verifications as I make my decision on the content of the profile .What I have noticed is that some members with lots have five or six from the same person which is pointless "

I can assure you that we are neither insecure , and nor are we showing off .

If someone goes to the trouble to verify us , we happily display it .

Whilst you are perfectly entitled to your opinion , it matters not one bit to us

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think"

Nope.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

Why?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

Why?

Jealous

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Been around about 10 years now. I think I have maybe eight veris... most of which are ridiculous nonsense. I choose not to show them because quite frankly, who I meet/fuck/hang out with is my business.

I trust my instincts. I don't use other people's verifications to base my decisions on, I have a mind of my own. That's not to say I don't read them, I'm naturally inquisitive and people are fascinating.

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By *aramelMINX OP Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Been around about 10 years now. I think I have maybe eight veris... most of which are ridiculous nonsense. I choose not to show them because quite frankly, who I meet/fuck/hang out with is my business.

Perfect answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just few is ok, it gets boring if they got 100 and everyone are saying the same how good she was and all that and best shag ever, surely some have bad veris that don't display them LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

See that's just silly

Some of the women you have met could go out every weekend pulling guys and shagging them but only have half a dozen verifications on here

Did it make your meet any less enjoyable?

Course not

Do you honestly think that single women on here who only have 4 or 5 meets on show have really only met that amount of men??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about the kinda people they have been with

for example a 22 year old and a 60 year old... does that suggest no standards and any hole is a goal?

At 55 I met with a 23 year old, we were very attracted to each other, and still are, does that mean we both lowered our standards ??

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Interesting reply!! very dismissive!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

Why?

Proof that she was likely a disease ridden whore I imagine..

...or afraid he wouldn't measure up...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

Why?

Proof that she was likely a disease ridden whore I imagine..

...or afraid he wouldn't measure up...?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

See that's just silly

Some of the women you have met could go out every weekend pulling guys and shagging them but only have half a dozen verifications on here

Did it make your meet any less enjoyable?

Course not

Do you honestly think that single women on here who only have 4 or 5 meets on show have really only met that amount of men??"

I've only had one social meet.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"And funnily enough, lots of people meet lots of people who aren't actually on fab at all, shocking, I know...

This isn't allowed! Report them!!!!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

The promiscuous slut! I hope you sent a mob round to her house to stone her! Oh sorry, I forgot this isn't biblical times and we have move beyond slut shaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have shit veris anyway.

If a veri says that someone is a shit shag then they must be.

People don't lie. "
lol it would be a badge of honour to have a shit shag veri

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Some people have shit veris anyway.

If a veri says that someone is a shit shag then they must be.

People don't lie. lol it would be a badge of honour to have a shit shag veri

"I had a shit shag tonight from ShagTonight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have shit veris anyway.

If a veri says that someone is a shit shag then they must be.

People don't lie. lol it would be a badge of honour to have a shit shag veri

"I had a shit shag tonight from ShagTonight""
Ty, that's a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

What a ridiculous post!!

I have seen some members post multiple verifications after having a heap of meets over a very, very short intense period of time. Lucky them!

In our case we have posted 25 over 7 or 8 years.

"Lies, damn lies & statistics".

A simple number tells nothing without context.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We're on a swingers site where the idea IS that people meet other people for sex.

How can you be upset that others have loads of verifications from meets if you're on a site designed to facilitate meets?

If lots of verifications piss you off, join one of the whole gamut of sites designed for swingers where hardly anyone meets. I'm sure you'll be happier there thinking of meeting without actually doing the meeting.

Personally, we like to meet people who are experienced, can obviously perform and have a raft of verifications to prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

The promiscuous slut! I hope you sent a mob round to her house to stone her! Oh sorry, I forgot this isn't biblical times and we have move beyond slut shaming."

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By *psidaisiMan
over a year ago

Halifax

multiple extreme graphic ones do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends as a lot of mine are party varifacations so if you see loads and don't actually read them you wouldn't know if you have played or not I say don't judge it's a sex site not come dine with me after all just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm it's a swingers site, I just think some are busier than others, I don't wanna be chucking a welly down a hole and I imagine some women would not want a wee man that's been in every hole imaginable.

BUT each two their own, the sites here to enjoy. So enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're on a swingers site where the idea IS that people meet other people for sex.

How can you be upset that others have loads of verifications from meets if you're on a site designed to facilitate meets?

Personally, we like to meet people who are experienced, can obviously perform and have a raft of verifications to prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're on a swingers site where the idea IS that people meet other people for sex.

How can you be upset that others have loads of verifications from meets if you're on a site designed to facilitate meets?

Personally, we like to meet people who are experienced, can obviously perform and have a raft of verifications to prove it

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I dont show all of mine..many are social as I go to clubs and loads are from cam as I used to go in the chatrooms alot. Personally I stick a few on to show I meet and thats enough. Love reading other peoples though whatevwr the quantity

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

I'm on here to meet people, I don't ask for veri's, but some people I see more than once write another one anyway.

I don't see veris as showing off, people like acknowledgment of a fun time, and they don't have to be displayed if you don't want to.

I'm right in thinking we can't delete them once someone has written it? So we actually have little control over the 'number' shown in our profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

See that's just silly

Some of the women you have met could go out every weekend pulling guys and shagging them but only have half a dozen verifications on here

Did it make your meet any less enjoyable?

Course not

Do you honestly think that single women on here who only have 4 or 5 meets on show have really only met that amount of men??"

Not silly at all.

The women I have met on here are not hardened swingers, and tend not to go on the pull every night, I speak to them pretty regularly.

This woman had a meet almost every week, and very few duplicate, and obviously these meets are fab members.

Sorry but that's not what i'm looking for..

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over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

What a ridiculous post!!

I have seen some members post multiple verifications after having a heap of meets over a very, very short intense period of time. Lucky them!

In our case we have posted 25 over 7 or 8 years.

"Lies, damn lies & statistics".

A simple number tells nothing without context.

Almost 1 meet a week from different members and she was a member for approx 2 years. Very few duplicated meets.

Yes its a very silly post isn't it?

Not the type of woman I like to meet, if it rocks your boat, go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how many really

I had a woman message me who had over 60 verifications, all by meets.

I thought sod that

Why?

Proof that she was likely a disease ridden whore I imagine..

...or afraid he wouldn't measure up...?"

Definitely not the latter

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over a year ago

What EXACTLY is a verification? To prove that someone is genuine? Well that's one thing. But most verifications seem to be more like recommendations. CV's so to speak

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think"

We've got quite a few but they not all people we've played with it justeans we've nice people who'd recommend us as being well nice lol xxx

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"What EXACTLY is a verification? To prove that someone is genuine? Well that's one thing. But most verifications seem to be more like recommendations. CV's so to speak

Well without verifications, you wouldn't know who to write to for references!

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over a year ago

"What EXACTLY is a verification? To prove that someone is genuine? Well that's one thing. But most verifications seem to be more like recommendations. CV's so to speak

Well without verifications, you wouldn't know who to write to for references!

Thing is there are few jobs but many candidates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha !

If we showed all our veris we would be the type to piss off most of the judgemental on here

Last night we met 4 couples , a single bi female , and 5 single guys , and there wasn't much social activity

So in answer to the op , we don't care how many veris anyone has , the more the merrier . Far more likely that they will be up for the kind of fun we enjoy

This

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think"

I think that any more than 26 verifications means that she is just a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do doublers count?

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By *punkyhelmet5Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-mare

Why would anybody post a,shit veri on.their own profile anyway

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't care. However many people others have shagged is nothing to do with me.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think"

Doesn't bother me.

Loads of veris by webcam only puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least they're having fun.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"Just wondering Do loads of verifications put people off

A handful proves the person is genuine n friendly etc but tons of them... ?

what do people think

I think that any more than 26 verifications means that she is just a slut"

Oh I see what you did there

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