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By *ombshell OP   Woman
over a year ago

islington

what are your views when your on a meet social or otherwise and your meets on the fone in fab.

Personally i think its rather rude!

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

If it's a social event, no problem at all.

If it's a one on one I dislike anybody being on their phone unless it replying to an important text because I find it rude to be browsing the Internet on any site when you have company.

I always turn my phone off.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Errm, didn't you do that to me? Lol. Hope your well Julie, you certainly look it. xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"what are your views when your on a meet social or otherwise and your meets on the fone in fab.

Personally i think its rather rude! "

If they were riding me and still on the phone I might assume they were going through the motions and not really into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always turn the phone off for a meet !!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ok at a group social because I've done it to show my profile and look at others. A 1:1 social or sex meet: no, it's bloody rude

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By *ombshell OP   Woman
over a year ago

islington


"Errm, didn't you do that to me? Lol. Hope your well Julie, you certainly look it. xx"

no i never ya cheeky sod! and yeah im great thanks hun xxx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Ok at a group social because I've done it to show my profile and look at others. A 1:1 social or sex meet: no, it's bloody rude "

.. definitely bad manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Errm, didn't you do that to me? Lol. Hope your well Julie, you certainly look it. xx"

Found that quite funny

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By *ringiton89Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If it's a one on one meet then yeah it's fucking rude! Unless you're both having a swatch to find someone else to join of course...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I have done it on a one to one social, to show a pic to someone that isn't on public view, for example.

Messaging or texting while on a meet - unless it's urgent, then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very bad manners, certainly in a 1-2-1 situation. I think I've said before, your focus on a meet is the current one, not the next one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So arranging another meet while fucking is frowned upon is it?

Shit, better stop doing that

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"So arranging another meet while fucking is frowned upon is it?

Shit, better stop doing that "

Thinking about it I'm sure they wouldn't have a problem with a phone call during being fucked, the guy on the phone hearing you being fucked, the guy doing the fucking knowing somebody's listening wishing they were getting what he is...

I mean obviously not my thing but I can see how it'd be a turn on

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"So arranging another meet while fucking is frowned upon is it?

Shit, better stop doing that "

Yeah..stop showing off. you know us blokes can't multitask..

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Errm, didn't you do that to me? Lol. Hope your well Julie, you certainly look it. xx

Found that quite funny "

Really??? As Julie will tell you, there is nothing funny about me. EVER..!!!! Ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So arranging another meet while fucking is frowned upon is it?

Shit, better stop doing that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have my phone any where near when I'm playing and expect the same in return. Especially don't want it going off when I'm dogging and alerting "civvys" what I'm upto.

Plain rude if using a phone while on a social or playing.Mind you I always have a mouth full of cock and can't answer anyway.

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I met someone once for fun ... had fun was laying on the sofa next to him and he was going thru a dating site and showing me pix saying ph she's nice

she's stunning etc

I walked out

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I met someone once for fun ... had fun was laying on the sofa next to him and he was going thru a dating site and showing me pix saying ph she's nice

she's stunning etc

I walked out

"

Haha! I had a coffee with a lady once who said we'd probably end up fucking later, anyway, at hers she started looking through loads of men profiles on fab saying 'he's nice' etc.....I sat there agreeing for a while then said 'this isn't going to work' and left. She txt later to say she didn't fancy me after all but didn't know how to say it!

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By *ombshell OP   Woman
over a year ago

islington


"I met someone once for fun ... had fun was laying on the sofa next to him and he was going thru a dating site and showing me pix saying ph she's nice

she's stunning etc

I walked out

"

don't blame you

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

We both spent ages on fab on my last meet but that's because we were looking a hot bi guy to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's a social event, no problem at all.

If it's a one on one I dislike anybody being on their phone unless it replying to an important text because I find it rude to be browsing the Internet on any site when you have company.

I always turn my phone off. "

This. My friends even know better than to have their phones on the table while at dinner with me. I think it is so rude.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So arranging another meet while fucking is frowned upon is it?

Shit, better stop doing that

Yeah..stop showing off. you know us blokes can't multitask.."

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree its quite rude ,surely people can leave their phone for a bit and give their meet full attention.

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By *ombshell OP   Woman
over a year ago

islington

my sentiments exactly!

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Maybe alot of people just don't have the conversational skills for a social, so using the phone for a mutual interest like fab probably makes them feel like they are more interesting than they actually are.... Or maybe not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't appreciate this, feel it's very rude and we would lose interest very quickly.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion"

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I find it rude. I always have my phone on just in case but I don't go on fab during a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are your views when your on a meet social or otherwise and your meets on the fone in fab.

Personally i think its rather rude! "

Personally i think thats disrepectful, if your meeting someone be it social or otherwise i would expect there full attention

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"what are your views when your on a meet social or otherwise and your meets on the fone in fab.

Personally i think its rather rude! "

Depends, if they are showing me/us something, fine.

If they are sitting logged in to Fab or replying to messages etc then I'd cut the meet short and tell them why.

I'll have my phone within easy access and I won't switch it off incase there is an emergency. But I won't sit fiddling with it as I think it's rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rude

should be all about whos in front of you at the time

surely !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly on my meets we get on to the subject of being popular on fab and they ask to see messages. A guy couldn't believe it when I had over 3000 messages haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to be "that" person

One of my Fab friends came up for a weekend earlier this month, and we both did pop on Fab during that time. We attended a social together, we also run a thread on the forums in the evenings, and we both logged on to check that. It doesn't mean that we had plenty of time for each other.

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By *hatalifeMan
over a year ago

london


"what are your views when your on a meet social or otherwise and your meets on the fone in fab.

Personally i think its rather rude! "

I would want to understand the facts. If someone was on their phone at the table, on a date etc whilst the person is with them and in front of them then that is rude regardless of what they are doing on the phone (unless they said a valid reason why they are checking their phone, emergency etc and its a one off then I'd let that slip). If unbeknown to the individual that the person was on their phone when the other is away from the table, regardless of what they are doing and for what reason I wouldn't care less as long as they put it back by the time I returned?

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By *ombshell OP   Woman
over a year ago

islington


"I'm going to be "that" person

One of my Fab friends came up for a weekend earlier this month, and we both did pop on Fab during that time. We attended a social together, we also run a thread on the forums in the evenings, and we both logged on to check that. It doesn't mean that we had plenty of time for each other."

thats different and to be fair i have gone onto fab whilst with a meet to show them how to do something or access something with their profile ... but not when sitting in a pub!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Mostly on my meets we get on to the subject of being popular on fab and they ask to see messages. A guy couldn't believe it when I had over 3000 messages haha. "

wow 3000 messages ! I don't know if I feel better at not getting a meet knowing there are that kind of odds or worse knowing that's what us guys are up against ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met someone once for fun ... had fun was laying on the sofa next to him and he was going thru a dating site and showing me pix saying ph she's nice

she's stunning etc

I walked out

"

The audacity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know their are on fab maibe they did something else onit, did you look? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly on my meets we get on to the subject of being popular on fab and they ask to see messages. A guy couldn't believe it when I had over 3000 messages haha. "
lol if you been on fab long enough he should of known women are popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may have been using his phone to spell check,unlike some I could mention!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting a feeling why though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally unacceptable. A quick check for urgent texts if I leave the room only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have just seen one side of the story as usual, remember that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion"

And they'd soon have a bollocking from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've browsed with someone together while we were on a soc meet.

Got us both horny enough to meet soon after for a fun time

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By *ombshell OP   Woman
over a year ago

islington

well, apparently now i'm controlling and jealous because i think its rude to be on fab whilst on a meet! wtf!!!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I did it on the last site I was on, but just to annoy them with hourly updates of particularly long shags.

Silly sods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wouldn't need too, they're with me...

Seriously tho I think I've been with 2 people I know well and we looked at something together on fabs & then logged out.

Concentrate on reality not the virtual world.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Someone I met went on fabs and verified me half way through a meet lol!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have my phone on silent when at work, out with friends etc: I'm not a doctor on call or awaiting an organ donation so I don't need to be tied to my phone for any reason.

Met a guy for a social meet and he asked if he could phone the garage about his car. No problem says I. After ascertaining the car was fine he went on to talk about it's engine, whether he should trade it in blah blah.

I left.

Must have been an hour later he phoned to ask where I was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very bad manners, certainly in a 1-2-1 situation. I think I've said before, your focus on a meet is the current one, not the next one!!"

Absolutely this

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"Someone I met went on fabs and verified me half way through a meet lol! "

maybe he thought he was being efficient?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are your views when your on a meet social or otherwise and your meets on the fone in fab.

Personally i think its rather rude! "

Totally rude, I'd walk out or tell them to leave if this was the case.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Someone I met went on fabs and verified me half way through a meet lol!

maybe he thought he was being efficient?"

I was pure youthful enthusiasm, lol, we laughed about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion"

How ever I do have permission tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

How ever I do have permission tonight "

That still doesn't make it ok!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they feel that bored in your company, find someone that wont be..and yes there always is out there.

Other than that, get your clothes and do one pal.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on circumstances.....if it's a longer meet and we having a rehydration break then we may both go on for a nosey or a laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on circumstances.....if it's a longer meet and we having a rehydration break then we may both go on for a nosey or a laugh!"

Really!?!?

I know I wouldn't and this thread is a good filter system

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Would not go on fab on my phone as the site is blocked on my phone and I don't ever go on during the day when I am at work or our with. my kids. Always have my phone with me and on, again because of my kids ... they are more important than any meet

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I leave my account constantly logged in via my phone so I look online when I'm actually often not so that I don't feel is rude, however if they were ignoring me to fanny about on their phone during our meet I'd be annoyed and they'd know it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".....we may both go on for a nosey or a laugh!"

Seems a little rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I leave my account constantly logged in via my phone so I look online when I'm actually often not so that I don't feel is rude, however if they were ignoring me to fanny about on their phone during our meet I'd be annoyed and they'd know it too "

Having fab on your phone and keeping yourself logged in does not show you are online all day.. It kind of switches off after several minutes and shows when you were last on line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be worse they could be on Feces Book

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I'm on a meet be it social or fucking ...no I wouldn't be on fab and would be pissed off if they went on here....rude

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If anyone showed more interest in their phone than me on a meet,social or not,fab or faceache I'd just get up and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone showed more interest in their phone than me on a meet,social or not,fab or faceache I'd just get up and leave

"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I leave my account constantly logged in via my phone so I look online when I'm actually often not so that I don't feel is rude, however if they were ignoring me to fanny about on their phone during our meet I'd be annoyed and they'd know it too

Having fab on your phone and keeping yourself logged in does not show you are online all day.. It kind of switches off after several minutes and shows when you were last on line."

Strange how I've received messages asking me if I'm ignoring them for not replying when I'm "online" then

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By *ombshell OP   Woman
over a year ago

islington


"Very bad manners, certainly in a 1-2-1 situation. I think I've said before, your focus on a meet is the current one, not the next one!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows why someone is online whilst on a meet. Except for them 2 ppl only. This happened to me this week. I had a one on one at mine. he asked me to log in to check something out. Also looked at my private pics. That's when we were getting to no more whilst having a drink and giggle. When the fun started obvs no phones. So where's the issue on that one..

but if someone just kept getting phone out for the sake of it then I would just assume there very bored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion"

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

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By *ight pussy4youWoman
over a year ago

witham


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion"

very rude

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated"

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different "

Yep - despite what I've said above, this situation is completely different. Not sure why many don't see the difference?

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By *hitegodsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

london

Bombshell - did this happen to you then? Was he at the table with you on his phone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different

Yep - despite what I've said above, this situation is completely different. Not sure why many don't see the difference?"

You're in the fab forums that's why....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different "

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

How ever I do have permission tonight

That still doesn't make it ok!! "

we were having a mischievous time, together..we came onto fab, we didnt mutually deide to watch netflix, or mutually decide to go to the pub or the cinema...it was an appropriate place to have our giggle and we did so....dont know what all the fuss is about..i dont have an internet phone or my tablet with me so he posted for both of us and said so..if this isnt for some people then fine...we thought it was fun..people shouldnt judge, what we do on our meets isnt anyones business..maybe im just not that uptight about stuff like that..i dont want to ask permission to check my usually off phone, i dont expect others to have to ask me for permission to do anything for themselves...i like freedom to be and let others be who they are...im more comfortable that way ...just my addition to the thread, so people know how i felt about the whole thing...not that my opinion counts for anything, in this one particular case, i wouldnt dream of being so important giggles

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

How ever I do have permission tonight

That still doesn't make it ok!!

we were having a mischievous time, together..we came onto fab, we didnt mutually deide to watch netflix, or mutually decide to go to the pub or the cinema...it was an appropriate place to have our giggle and we did so....dont know what all the fuss is about..i dont have an internet phone or my tablet with me so he posted for both of us and said so..if this isnt for some people then fine...we thought it was fun..people shouldnt judge, what we do on our meets isnt anyones business..maybe im just not that uptight about stuff like that..i dont want to ask permission to check my usually off phone, i dont expect others to have to ask me for permission to do anything for themselves...i like freedom to be and let others be who they are...im more comfortable that way ...just my addition to the thread, so people know how i felt about the whole thing...not that my opinion counts for anything, in this one particular case, i wouldnt dream of being so important giggles"

ps it was my idea...i was the corrupting influence of breaking fab taboos, illusory laws..i seem to just go with the flow.. sorry honey you are getting shit for my unspoken rule flaunting x

pps...has anyone guessed the right answer by the way..are we on?...hehehe

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By *issing in actionWoman
over a year ago

Llanelli

Funny, this happened to me whilst I was upstairs in his bedroom slipping into something more comfortable for him. I chatted to a friend about it who'd met him a few times, which made her realise he'd done the same thing while she was at his house too!

Yes it is bad form, I would have thought a bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

How ever I do have permission tonight

That still doesn't make it ok!!

we were having a mischievous time, together..we came onto fab, we didnt mutually deide to watch netflix, or mutually decide to go to the pub or the cinema...it was an appropriate place to have our giggle and we did so....dont know what all the fuss is about..i dont have an internet phone or my tablet with me so he posted for both of us and said so..if this isnt for some people then fine...we thought it was fun..people shouldnt judge, what we do on our meets isnt anyones business..maybe im just not that uptight about stuff like that..i dont want to ask permission to check my usually off phone, i dont expect others to have to ask me for permission to do anything for themselves...i like freedom to be and let others be who they are...im more comfortable that way ...just my addition to the thread, so people know how i felt about the whole thing...not that my opinion counts for anything, in this one particular case, i wouldnt dream of being so important giggles

ps it was my idea...i was the corrupting influence of breaking fab taboos, illusory laws..i seem to just go with the flow.. sorry honey you are getting shit for my unspoken rule flaunting x

pps...has anyone guessed the right answer by the way..are we on?...hehehe "

I pm'd my answer to TIG

Hey, what can I say I have a competitive nature...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different

Yep - despite what I've said above, this situation is completely different. Not sure why many don't see the difference?"

I see it as, fab and the forums would not even be anywhere on/near my mind during a meet.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

How ever I do have permission tonight

That still doesn't make it ok!!

we were having a mischievous time, together..we came onto fab, we didnt mutually deide to watch netflix, or mutually decide to go to the pub or the cinema...it was an appropriate place to have our giggle and we did so....dont know what all the fuss is about..i dont have an internet phone or my tablet with me so he posted for both of us and said so..if this isnt for some people then fine...we thought it was fun..people shouldnt judge, what we do on our meets isnt anyones business..maybe im just not that uptight about stuff like that..i dont want to ask permission to check my usually off phone, i dont expect others to have to ask me for permission to do anything for themselves...i like freedom to be and let others be who they are...im more comfortable that way ...just my addition to the thread, so people know how i felt about the whole thing...not that my opinion counts for anything, in this one particular case, i wouldnt dream of being so important giggles

ps it was my idea...i was the corrupting influence of breaking fab taboos, illusory laws..i seem to just go with the flow.. sorry honey you are getting shit for my unspoken rule flaunting x

pps...has anyone guessed the right answer by the way..are we on?...hehehe

I pm'd my answer to TIG

Hey, what can I say I have a competitive nature...!"

ahh well x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different

Yep - despite what I've said above, this situation is completely different. Not sure why many don't see the difference?

I see it as, fab and the forums would not even be anywhere on/near my mind during a meet. "

it wasnt it was a way to get to the person we had on our minds...hehehe..if they had been in the house of commons im sure we would have sent them a letter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look on any websites if I'm meeting someone or at a social. I enjoy the night and I can easily be prised away from this site to actually talk face to face with people

I wouldn't ever be on fab at the same time as the person I'd met either. I'm into discretion and I find the attitude of posting threads of the 'hey everyone we're on a meet together' rather immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since all our meets are dogging meets , we often have to direct people to where we are . Or they may have just arrived , so want us to know they are here . We update while we are out and often get messages asking where we are .

So we do log on while we are having meets , although not when playing is actually taking place .

For those who feel so totally opposed to the concept , and use the fact that people like us may do such an abomidable thing as a filter , block away , if you haven't already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude ...bad manners and to me says alot about a person.Why they would want to be on their phone for anything when meeting socially or for play.We seem to be a world obsessed with mobile phones and forget how to really converse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different

Yep - despite what I've said above, this situation is completely different. Not sure why many don't see the difference?

I see it as, fab and the forums would not even be anywhere on/near my mind during a meet.

it wasnt it was a way to get to the person we had on our minds...hehehe..if they had been in the house of commons im sure we would have sent them a letter "

As someone else had said previously on your other thread, why not pm them during your meet together or better still after your meet together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since all our meets are dogging meets , we often have to direct people to where we are . Or they may have just arrived , so want us to know they are here . We update while we are out and often get messages asking where we are .

So we do log on while we are having meets , although not when playing is actually taking place .

For those who feel so totally opposed to the concept , and use the fact that people like us may do such an abomidable thing as a filter , block away , if you haven't already "

As you said you're meets are predominantly dogging meets and your swinging world is way different to time as we have both found out and discussed over the forums before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different

Yep - despite what I've said above, this situation is completely different. Not sure why many don't see the difference?

I see it as, fab and the forums would not even be anywhere on/near my mind during a meet.

it wasnt it was a way to get to the person we had on our minds...hehehe..if they had been in the house of commons im sure we would have sent them a letter "

If you're both comfortable with it and having fun then all is good & others opinions are irrelevant.

I like my time with someone to be more than just sex & having a laugh together creates a great chemistry, imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different

Yep - despite what I've said above, this situation is completely different. Not sure why many don't see the difference?

I see it as, fab and the forums would not even be anywhere on/near my mind during a meet.

it wasnt it was a way to get to the person we had on our minds...hehehe..if they had been in the house of commons im sure we would have sent them a letter

If you're both comfortable with it and having fun then all is good & others opinions are irrelevant.

I like my time with someone to be more than just sex & having a laugh together creates a great chemistry, imo.

"

The times inbetween shagging on a meet are just as important to me as the actual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually am online while waiting for my social meet to turn up, then I just stay logged in but dont actually look at fab while we are chatting, its rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rude if it's either a meet meet or a social. Bad manners and unacceptable in my opinion

I still stand by this rule despite my other thread, posted whilst with a meet and when it was her idea.

funny how she isn't being slated

I don't see a problem with what you were doing last night,you were both together having a giggle ......together

Not one of you ignoring the other which is different

Yep - despite what I've said above, this situation is completely different. Not sure why many don't see the difference?

I see it as, fab and the forums would not even be anywhere on/near my mind during a meet.

it wasnt it was a way to get to the person we had on our minds...hehehe..if they had been in the house of commons im sure we would have sent them a letter

If you're both comfortable with it and having fun then all is good & others opinions are irrelevant.

I like my time with someone to be more than just sex & having a laugh together creates a great chemistry, imo.

The times inbetween shagging on a meet are just as important to me as the actual sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats a phone? id pull out the tablet ^^ jk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly on my meets we get on to the subject of being popular on fab and they ask to see messages. A guy couldn't believe it when I had over 3000 messages haha. "

Bless.

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