FabSwingers.com forum: Wish started earlier

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now most couples on this site are enjoying their play ! do they wish they had started earlier in their married lives ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pray tell why

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No. The time was right for us when we started.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No. The time was right for us when we started."
4.36pm?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"No. The time was right for us when we started. 4.36pm? "

oh that's good....we were so much later than that!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No. The time was right for us when we started. 4.36pm? "

I think it was 4:52 pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think our timing was right. I like that we had the intimacy of our earlier years together and that now we can share this. Feels perfect.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great question!we are only a year married and still young but we are glad we started now not to say out sex life is boring it's far from that we just love sex and experiencing everything about it, I love watching my wife get fucked it turns me on so much but I also love that when we are alone we have a wild time in the sack

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No. The time was right for us when we started. 4.36pm?

I think it was 4:52 pm

If you'd only started earlier.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Seriously......if I'd been in this mindset years ago, I would have done but I wasn't so didn't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No. The time was right for us when we started. 4.36pm?

I think it was 4:52 pm

If you'd only started earlier.....

Indeed, things would have been so much better and there would have been time for tea and trumpets.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Seriously......if I'd been in this mindset years ago, I would have done but I wasn't so didn't. "

I think for some of us this mindset comes with the years.

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By *ammieandalex12Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

We started a few weeks ago and although we have only been together 2 years and are still young we are both really happy we started when we did. Neither of us have had many partners outside of our relationship and gives us a great way to explore new things while being in an amazing relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sure wish we had met up earlier . We started swinging after a year together and got married a year later 3 years ago , never looked back .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Seriously......if I'd been in this mindset years ago, I would have done but I wasn't so didn't.

I think for some of us this mindset comes with the years."

(Yet again) I think you might be right as years ago I was quite jealous of other men chatting to my wife, now my fantasy is for more to happen. It's not lack of respect or marriage longevity and taking things for granted just another dimension.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Seriously......if I'd been in this mindset years ago, I would have done but I wasn't so didn't.

I think for some of us this mindset comes with the years.

Yep. We enjoy seeing each other enjoying life.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Seriously......if I'd been in this mindset years ago, I would have done but I wasn't so didn't.

I think for some of us this mindset comes with the years.

(Yet again) I think you might be right as years ago I was quite jealous of other men chatting to my wife, now my fantasy is for more to happen. It's not

lack of respect or marriage longevity

and taking things for granted just

another dimension.

Yep. We enjoy seeing each other enjoying life."

Exactly. Rolo, as the younger peeps say.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Seriously......if I'd been in this mindset years ago, I would have done but I wasn't so didn't.

I think for some of us this mindset comes with the years.

(Yet again) I think you might be right as years ago I was quite jealous of other men chatting to my wife, now my fantasy is for more to happen. It's not

lack of respect or marriage longevity

and taking things for granted just

another dimension.

Yep. We enjoy seeing each other enjoying life.

Exactly. Rolo, as the younger peeps say. "

Rolo?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I think it was the right time for us, together 7 years, married 5. I guess it was the 7 year itch

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

"I think it was the right time for us, together 7 years, married 5. I guess it was the 7 year itch

We started after 7 years together too. We always joke about the 7 year itch lol.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I meant yolo

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I meant yolo

I thought you did but I'm not up with the current vernacular and thought it might be a new one

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I meant yolo

I thought you did but I'm not up with the current vernacular and thought it might be a new one

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if it were, it would be the last one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meant yolo

I thought you did but I'm not up with the current vernacular and thought it might be a new one

if it were, it would be the last one. "

Until society ends, there will always be a new one

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

You know it's hard to say part of me says yes but I like the way life has turned out so overall no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually didn't join this site for swinging, I went to the Attic on my own the first time for social reasons, and people kept mentioning fab, about a week later, I joined, and fortunately had some good friends I made on my first visit who verified me. I've been back once, and it seems to be a fortnightly thing, but I'm happier now I have a place I feel comfortable going to, being myself, that I can simply ask to join in the fun and know where I stand with the responses.

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

I wish I had started swinging while I was married, might have kept us together......

but now as a single I'm making up for lost time!!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I think it was the right time for us, together 7 years, married 5. I guess it was the 7 year itch

We started after 7 years together too. We always joke about the 7 year itch lol."

We'll stratch your itch if you'll scratch ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to butt in as a single on here but I wish I had joined years ago too. Might be less inhibited now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I allowed to answer as a single??

I spent nearly two years sitting at home watching TV every other weekend whilst my ex had the kids - or going on very dull dates when I wasn't really looking for a 'real' relationship! Then someone recommended fab and I gained access to a fantastic social life, great friends and the best sex of my life!!

My next step one day, perhaps, is to find the right person and to explore as a loving couple too!

Frankly I wish I'd found fab the week after my ex and I split up!! Xx

Swinging can be perfect for singles too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoops! I think I killed the thread!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Whoops! I think I killed the thread!!

I've 'white knighted' you. Can I have a shag, please?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We got married very young i was 17 Paul 19 Paul was my first started swinging at 24-26 on holiday was our first time 36 years ago made our marriage very strong and happy happier than any of our friends who no nothing about this side of our life

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"We got married very young i was 17 Paul 19 Paul was my first started swinging at 24-26 on holiday was our first time 36 years ago made our marriage very strong and happy happier than any of our friends who no nothing about this side of our life"
thats really good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I allowed to answer as a single??

My next step one day, perhaps, is to find the right person and to explore as a loving couple too!

Frankly I wish I'd found fab the week after my ex and I split up!! Xx

Swinging can be perfect for singles too!!

I quite agree. If I'd had the balls to go to a sex club when I broke up with the ex before last, I wouldn't have been looking for something I couldn't offer and wouldn't have been a total knobhead in my last relationship. However, that being said, the reaction of my last ex was what put me off the idea of relationships for the time being, whereas I was open to the concept before, so I guess it is how it was meant to be for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoops! I think I killed the thread!!

I've 'white knighted' you. Can I have a shag, please?"

Yes! Absolutely!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We started 2 years after our marriage too

was perfect for us

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over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Whoops! I think I killed the thread!!

I've 'white knighted' you. Can I have a shag, please?

Yes! Absolutely!!

*gallops over* late but chomping at the bit

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Am I allowed to answer as a single??

My next step one day, perhaps, is to find the right person and to explore as a loving couple too!

Frankly I wish I'd found fab the week after my ex and I split up!! Xx

Swinging can be perfect for singles too!!

Thats similar to my story.... except it was every weekend....lol

Life is good now...

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By *avenvalCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We started when we were 22 long before we got married. We have been swinging 38 years enjoyed every minute and have a very strong relationship. We lost count of the number of couples and singles we have played with a long time ago howeverwe can safely say the journey has been a lot of fun.

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