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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what i do and have face pics public.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought a lot of this was being discrete and having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought a lot of this was being discrete and having fun"

What does that have to do with face pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they didn't find you attractive, it's not to say that you are or aren't your just not to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well for work reasons I can't have face splattered over swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes discreet but I thought swinging was about openness x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they didn't find you attractive, it's not to say that you are or aren't your just not to them "

I get that. Might not be everyone cup of tea but seems people just want face pic then nothing.

Eg. Couple winked at me I got in touch sent face pic then apparently they looking for Beyonce?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes discreet but I thought swinging was about openness x"

Unless your closet swingers like us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes discreet but I thought swinging was about openness x"

That why I been sending pics to people I chat too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking. "

You won't be to everyone's taste & not everyone will be to your taste. Don't let it get to you xxxxx

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Maybe they just don't fancy you? don't worry about it, move on there are folk who will!


"Perhaps they didn't find you attractive, it's not to say that you are or aren't your just not to them

I get that. Might not be everyone cup of tea but seems people just want face pic then nothing.

Eg. Couple winked at me I got in touch sent face pic then apparently they looking for Beyonce?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you must realise and understand that the majority of people you send face pics to, won't fancy you. It'll be nothing personal or meant to offend, just the way it is.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have sent face pictures and been blocked and on one memorable occasion the guy left the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys I get that not everyone will find other people attractive but seems odd people want pics then get pissy afterwards. Been told I don't look like Beyonce then getting abuse and blocked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely you must realise and understand that the majority of people you send face pics to, won't fancy you. It'll be nothing personal or meant to offend, just the way it is."

I've already said don't expect everyone to find me attractive it just the attitude of people thatpissed me off

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Guys I get that not everyone will find other people attractive but seems odd people want pics then get pissy afterwards. Been told I don't look like Beyonce then getting abuse and blocked? "

It is odd I agree but who knows what goes on in the minds of these people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes discreet but I thought swinging was about openness x

That why I been sending pics to people I chat too"

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking.

You won't be to everyone's taste & not everyone will be to your taste. Don't let it get to you xxxxx"

couldnt agree more with miss (not-so) innocent!

I'd say that most people are looking for a particular niché, so find yours and flaunt it mate!

Truthfully, i never thought a young red haired lad ticked anyones boxes - i was wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you must realise and understand that the majority of people you send face pics to, won't fancy you. It'll be nothing personal or meant to offend, just the way it is.

I've already said don't expect everyone to find me attractive it just the attitude of people thatpissed me off"

Why would you let strangers on the internet get to you much? Fab' is about fun, not being pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you must realise and understand that the majority of people you send face pics to, won't fancy you. It'll be nothing personal or meant to offend, just the way it is.

I've already said don't expect everyone to find me attractive it just the attitude of people thatpissed me off"

I don't think many people would expect a 40 year old male to look like Beyonce.

We are not beautiful creatures in a traditional Hollywood sense and have rejected and been rejected many times. You wouldn't want sex with someone you didn't like, would you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely you must realise and understand that the majority of people you send face pics to, won't fancy you. It'll be nothing personal or meant to offend, just the way it is.

I've already said don't expect everyone to find me attractive it just the attitude of people thatpissed me off

Why would you let strangers on the internet get to you much? Fab' is about fun, not being pissed off."

Very easy to say it about fun. But so far had more abuse from keyboard warriors for no reason. I been trying be friendly non pushy ashappy just to chat but some ppeople on here are very aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have sent face pictures and been blocked and on one memorable occasion the guy left the site "

He obviously thought you were way out of his league

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some people have to be careful but why should we be ashamed or embarrassed about our lifestyle choices. Any one close enough to me knows what I do and the rest well they are not worth worrying about.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We have sent face pictures and been blocked and on one memorable occasion the guy left the site

He obviously thought you were way out of his league "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?"

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have sent face pictures and been blocked and on one memorable occasion the guy left the site

He obviously thought you were way out of his league "

Hehe

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking. "

Maybe they thought you were too handsome for them

Put up your photographs here and let us decide

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Surely you must realise and understand that the majority of people you send face pics to, won't fancy you. It'll be nothing personal or meant to offend, just the way it is.

I've already said don't expect everyone to find me attractive it just the attitude of people thatpissed me off

Why would you let strangers on the internet get to you much? Fab' is about fun, not being pissed off.

Very easy to say it about fun. But so far had more abuse from keyboard warriors for no reason. I been trying be friendly non pushy ashappy just to chat but some ppeople on here are very aggressive. "

I've had my fair share of some real doozies over the years, you need to just shrug it off I'm afraid, not worth sweating over x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking.

Maybe they thought you were too handsome for them

Put up your photographs here and let us decide "

Did say have to be discrete x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our type"
Yes, that happens all the time here, its double standards, gues they have been rejected before that's prob why lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our typeYes, that happens all the time here, its double standards, gues they have been rejected before that's prob why lol."

Lol

Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't take it personally, you won't be everyone's cup of tea, even between the two of us we have differing tastes.

We can get a message with face pic that I think RG will go for and she looks and says not for me.


"Perhaps they didn't find you attractive, it's not to say that you are or aren't your just not to them

I get that. Might not be everyone cup of tea but seems people just want face pic then nothing.

Eg. Couple winked at me I got in touch sent face pic then apparently they looking for Beyonce?"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our type"

And you don't need to pander to them! I always say the first to ask should be the first to show, so it is up to you if you want to jump through their hoops

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking.

Maybe they thought you were too handsome for them

Put up your photographs here and let us decide

Did say have to be discrete x"

Oh, well, we'll have to assume that you just blew them away. What other explanation could there be?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our typeYes, that happens all the time here, its double standards, gues they have been rejected before that's prob why lol."

Well Shag we've been rejected before but we'll always send face pictures if a meet is on the cards but if it's not we won't. Couples need discretion too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few that are aggressive, rude, up there own bums etc. As has been said already just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I don't have a visible pic I send one in first message, I also tend to only message women with visible face pics. Sound like a bit of hypocrite but i find if I send to anyone and don't recieve reply then you never know who that person is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our typeYes, that happens all the time here, its double standards, gues they have been rejected before that's prob why lol.

Well Shag we've been rejected before but we'll always send face pictures if a meet is on the cards but if it's not we won't. Couples need discretion too."
That's right and good you do. I guess they feel they got some upperhand as they don't send one first you think?.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Even though I don't have a visible pic I send one in first message, I also tend to only message women with visible face pics. Sound like a bit of hypocrite but i find if I send to anyone and don't recieve reply then you never know who that person is"

Sorry but I wouldn't entertain your profile in the slightest - I always read the profile before even opening the message, so sending pics in a message wouldn't work for at least 50% of women on here I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some people have to be careful but why should we be ashamed or embarrassed about our lifestyle choices. Any one close enough to me knows what I do and the rest well they are not worth worrying about."

We are very private about our face pics and we haven't told friends or family we do this. It isn't a matter of being ashamed or embarrassed. It is a matter of other people's opinions having direct consequences for our lives that we don't want to risk. Not all of us are in a position to put face pics as public, as much as we'd like to do so. Employers even check Facebook now before hiring someone. Imagine if they found my face on a swinging/sex site? Not a good start in the job market for a 27 year old.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know some people have to be careful but why should we be ashamed or embarrassed about our lifestyle choices. Any one close enough to me knows what I do and the rest well they are not worth worrying about.

We are very private about our face pics and we haven't told friends or family we do this. It isn't a matter of being ashamed or embarrassed. It is a matter of other people's opinions having direct consequences for our lives that we don't want to risk. Not all of us are in a position to put face pics as public, as much as we'd like to do so. Employers even check Facebook now before hiring someone. Imagine if they found my face on a swinging/sex site? Not a good start in the job market for a 27 year old.

-Courtney"

Exactly

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking.

Maybe they thought you were too handsome for them

Put up your photographs here and let us decide

Did say have to be discrete x

Oh, well, we'll have to assume that you just blew them away. What other explanation could there be?"

^^^^^^^^

i think thats the attitude everyone should have on here! glass half full!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our typeYes, that happens all the time here, its double standards, gues they have been rejected before that's prob why lol.

Well Shag we've been rejected before but we'll always send face pictures if a meet is on the cards but if it's not we won't. Couples need discretion too.That's right and good you do. I guess they feel they got some upperhand as they don't send one first you think?."

I couldn't answer for anyone else but people only feel they have the upper hand if you allow them to. If single guys refused to engage with couples who treat them like a commodity and stopped the cringe worthy sychophancy things might be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our typeYes, that happens all the time here, its double standards, gues they have been rejected before that's prob why lol.

Well Shag we've been rejected before but we'll always send face pictures if a meet is on the cards but if it's not we won't. Couples need discretion too.That's right and good you do. I guess they feel they got some upperhand as they don't send one first you think?.

I couldn't answer for anyone else but people only feel they have the upper hand if you allow them to. If single guys refused to engage with couples who treat them like a commodity and stopped the cringe worthy sychophancy things might be different. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some people have to be careful but why should we be ashamed or embarrassed about our lifestyle choices. Any one close enough to me knows what I do and the rest well they are not worth worrying about.

We are very private about our face pics and we haven't told friends or family we do this. It isn't a matter of being ashamed or embarrassed. It is a matter of other people's opinions having direct consequences for our lives that we don't want to risk. Not all of us are in a position to put face pics as public, as much as we'd like to do so. Employers even check Facebook now before hiring someone. Imagine if they found my face on a swinging/sex site? Not a good start in the job market for a 27 year old.

-Courtney

Exactly"

Yes it is up to the individuals discretion I just wish more people were more open minded to other peoples lifestyles and choices. Swinging is not a new thing but such stigma to it I guess that is wishful thinking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some people have to be careful but why should we be ashamed or embarrassed about our lifestyle choices. Any one close enough to me knows what I do and the rest well they are not worth worrying about.

We are very private about our face pics and we haven't told friends or family we do this. It isn't a matter of being ashamed or embarrassed. It is a matter of other people's opinions having direct consequences for our lives that we don't want to risk. Not all of us are in a position to put face pics as public, as much as we'd like to do so. Employers even check Facebook now before hiring someone. Imagine if they found my face on a swinging/sex site? Not a good start in the job market for a 27 year old.

-Courtney

Exactly

Yes it is up to the individuals discretion I just wish more people were more open minded to other peoples lifestyles and choices. Swinging is not a new thing but such stigma to it I guess that is wishful thinking x"

I could not agree with you more on this point. Maybe one day...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you must realise and understand that the majority of people you send face pics to, won't fancy you. It'll be nothing personal or meant to offend, just the way it is.

I've already said don't expect everyone to find me attractive it just the attitude of people thatpissed me off

Why would you let strangers on the internet get to you much? Fab' is about fun, not being pissed off.

Very easy to say it about fun. But so far had more abuse from keyboard warriors for no reason. I been trying be friendly non pushy ashappy just to chat but some ppeople on here are very aggressive. "

If people are abusive, report them. Admin are great at dealing with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all working lol, did she show her pic tho?

Nope. That what I finding very interesting couples demanding face pics. Even if they started the getting in touch then demanding face pics then guy says not our typeYes, that happens all the time here, its double standards, gues they have been rejected before that's prob why lol.

Well Shag we've been rejected before but we'll always send face pictures if a meet is on the cards but if it's not we won't. Couples need discretion too.That's right and good you do. I guess they feel they got some upperhand as they don't send one first you think?.

I couldn't answer for anyone else but people only feel they have the upper hand if you allow them to. If single guys refused to engage with couples who treat them like a commodity and stopped the cringe worthy sychophancy things might be different. "
That's right it might stop then and they would show the pics, yeah at least everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some people have to be careful but why should we be ashamed or embarrassed about our lifestyle choices. Any one close enough to me knows what I do and the rest well they are not worth worrying about.

We are very private about our face pics and we haven't told friends or family we do this. It isn't a matter of being ashamed or embarrassed. It is a matter of other people's opinions having direct consequences for our lives that we don't want to risk. Not all of us are in a position to put face pics as public, as much as we'd like to do so. Employers even check Facebook now before hiring someone. Imagine if they found my face on a swinging/sex site? Not a good start in the job market for a 27 year old.

-Courtney"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask for face pics if I mail first I always send a face pic with my first message if somebody mails me first I expect the same, if I open a message and there is no face pic I simply don't reply, so I have no reason to ask for a pic as everybody I talk to had already sent me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking. "

Have you ever been rejected in real life or any other dating sites?

Reading your posts makes me think you're new to the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking.

Have you ever been rejected in real life or any other dating sites?

Reading your posts makes me think you're new to the Internet. "

Not new to the internet.

This one just pissed me off because of the attitude. Approached me me winks and msg then demand face pics. Then knock me back which is fine if I not there type that fine but asked what looking for got Beyonce then abuse and blocked so can't even reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, do people just ask for face pics for fun? Just shared pics and no one interested. talk about ego taking a kicking.

Have you ever been rejected in real life or any other dating sites?

Reading your posts makes me think you're new to the Internet.

Not new to the internet.

This one just pissed me off because of the attitude. Approached me me winks and msg then demand face pics. Then knock me back which is fine if I not there type that fine but asked what looking for got Beyonce then abuse and blocked so can't even reply"

why would you even want to reply to abuse?

makes you the bigger person to rise above it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do what i do and have face pics public."

and us

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Do what i do and have face pics public."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were accused of being "pic-collectors" the other day after receiving a face pic and then not wishing to take it further. This thread should probably be merged with the "too picky" thread, everyone has the things that tick their boxes, we like to see face pics because that initial attraction is important and if one of us says no that's the end of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people 'demand' face pics you can always say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people 'demand' face pics you can always say no "

Now that is a novel idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wat a perfect answer. Don't worry bout what anybody thinks bout you. Just enjoy and have fun. I have no veries but have met some amazing people through this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some people have to be careful but why should we be ashamed or embarrassed about our lifestyle choices. Any one close enough to me knows what I do and the rest well they are not worth worrying about.

We are very private about our face pics and we haven't told friends or family we do this. It isn't a matter of being ashamed or embarrassed. It is a matter of other people's opinions having direct consequences for our lives that we don't want to risk. Not all of us are in a position to put face pics as public, as much as we'd like to do so. Employers even check Facebook now before hiring someone. Imagine if they found my face on a swinging/sex site? Not a good start in the job market for a 27 year old.

-Courtney"

My manager is a friend on Facebook & knows about Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My manager is a friend on Facebook & knows about Fab "

You are a braver woman than I. I'm not even on Facebook. Just to give you an idea of how private I am

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My manager is a friend on Facebook & knows about Fab "

You are a braver woman than I. I'm not even on Facebook. Just to give you an idea of how private I am

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My manager is a friend on Facebook & knows about Fab

You are a braver woman than I. I'm not even on Facebook. Just to give you an idea of how private I am

-Courtney"

I'm very lucky to work with such non-judgmental people.

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