FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever been caught cheating,

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

or caught someone cheating on you ?

How did you/they find out ?

Did you forgive the person or were you forgiven by them ?

Did you stay in the relationship or end it ?

Do you regret it ?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Uh, there was this one time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Uh, there was this one time..."

At band camp ?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

...with the fuck bud. Good shag. We were a bit late. Went down stairs for a post shag fag. He smokes straights, went out in to the garden. I roll one at the matlepeice and go out to join him...

See him coming up the garden with a look like thunder...

Look past him and see my woman at the bottom of the garden.

Get rid of him toot sweet and she's like, "Who's the young guy".

"Errm, you know, the man about the boiler."

Problem was, in all seriousness, all I had on were a pair of black dress trousers and a bow tie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...with the fuck bud. Good shag. We were a bit late. Went down stairs for a post shag fag. He smokes straights, went out in to the garden. I roll one at the matlepeice and go out to join him...

See him coming up the garden with a look like thunder...

Look past him and see my woman at the bottom of the garden.

Get rid of him toot sweet and she's like, "Who's the young guy".

"Errm, you know, the man about the boiler."

Problem was, in all seriousness, all I had on were a pair of black dress trousers and a bow tie.

What happened then?!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I spent the rest of the evening lounging about with just the trousers & bow tie in an effort to seem 'normal'.

Three times she asked me about him.

The last time waited until after a particularly good fuck and, *again* asked about the man in the garden.

That time I cracked and told her everything.

She looked at me, kissed me, told me she loved me and thanked me for being honest.

She wanted to know if there was/is an emotional connection (no) and who's better in bed (she is).

I wouldn't put up with my shit.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Poleaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I caught both of my 2 exes cheating. One I walked in on in bed with someone else, the other showed me his iPad not realising a message was open on Facebook. I stupidly tried to make it work for months after both, but it rightfully ended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for being honest after the deed, and after she'd asked you a shit load of times lol ah well, you came clean in the end! Spose that counts for something lol

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Hubby came home early from work one day, and caught me going at it on the sofa.

With a carrot. I was freaking mortified!!

He just picked me up, carried me upstairs , threw me on the bed and showed me just how unimpressed he was!

Being caught like that still makes me cringe tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby came home early from work one day, and caught me going at it on the sofa.

With a carrot. I was freaking mortified!!

He just picked me up, carried me upstairs , threw me on the bed and showed me just how unimpressed he was!

Being caught like that still makes me cringe tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hubby came home early from work one day, and caught me going at it on the sofa.

With a carrot. I was freaking mortified!!

He just picked me up, carried me upstairs , threw me on the bed and showed me just how unimpressed he was!

Being caught like that still makes me cringe tho

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent the rest of the evening lounging about with just the trousers & bow tie in an effort to seem 'normal'.

Three times she asked me about him.

The last time waited until after a particularly good fuck and, *again* asked about the man in the garden.

That time I cracked and told her everything.

She looked at me, kissed me, told me she loved me and thanked me for being honest.

She wanted to know if there was/is an emotional connection (no) and who's better in bed (she is).

I wouldn't put up with my shit. "

I love reading your stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent the rest of the evening lounging about with just the trousers & bow tie in an effort to seem 'normal'.

Three times she asked me about him.

The last time waited until after a particularly good fuck and, *again* asked about the man in the garden.

That time I cracked and told her everything.

She looked at me, kissed me, told me she loved me and thanked me for being honest.

She wanted to know if there was/is an emotional connection (no) and who's better in bed (she is).

I wouldn't put up with my shit.

I love reading your stories.

I think he should write a book!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I spent the rest of the evening lounging about with just the trousers & bow tie in an effort to seem 'normal'.

Three times she asked me about him.

The last time waited until after a particularly good fuck and, *again* asked about the man in the garden.

That time I cracked and told her everything.

She looked at me, kissed me, told me she loved me and thanked me for being honest.

She wanted to know if there was/is an emotional connection (no) and who's better in bed (she is).

I wouldn't put up with my shit.

I love reading your stories.

I think he should write a book! "

You're the second person to say that to me today.

Funnily enough I have written a book but it's about Burning Man :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I spent the rest of the evening lounging about with just the trousers & bow tie in an effort to seem 'normal'.

Three times she asked me about him.

The last time waited until after a particularly good fuck and, *again* asked about the man in the garden.

That time I cracked and told her everything.

She looked at me, kissed me, told me she loved me and thanked me for being honest.

She wanted to know if there was/is an emotional connection (no) and who's better in bed (she is).

I wouldn't put up with my shit.

I love reading your stories.

I think he should write a book!

You're the second person to say that to me today.

Funnily enough I have written a book but it's about Burning Man :P"

The trials and tribulations of Diamondjoe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent the rest of the evening lounging about with just the trousers & bow tie in an effort to seem 'normal'.

Three times she asked me about him.

The last time waited until after a particularly good fuck and, *again* asked about the man in the garden.

That time I cracked and told her everything.

She looked at me, kissed me, told me she loved me and thanked me for being honest.

She wanted to know if there was/is an emotional connection (no) and who's better in bed (she is).

I wouldn't put up with my shit.

I love reading your stories.

I think he should write a book!

You're the second person to say that to me today.

Funnily enough I have written a book but it's about Burning Man :P"

Oh yes, still need to watch that! But just deleted my whole inbox lol I'm intrigued, will go YouTube it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my ex husband was cheating on me with a woman we met through swinging

never to this day get why

we both used to meet alone as well as together so he had no reason to do it behind my back

guess he just liked the thrill of sneaking about

such is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet

Very risky and funny, good skills

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Caught my ex.

Forgave her.

We split up anyway eventually.

Wish I'd kicked her out at the time it was never the same after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my ex cheated on me, he was spending more time on his phone so i hacked his email, changed his passwords on his social accounts so i could access them, read the stuff. Cried, a lot. Confronted him, hated him, split up. Then i fucked someone else, told him about it, felt a lot better and forgave him. Did try getting back with him but the whole relationship had changed for the worse so called it a day. It's better now, we're friends and support each other for the sake of our kids. He was my first true love so it really hurt me when i saw him telling someone else he was in love with them.

Another ex cheated on me while i was pregnant, i never forgave him coz the whole relationship was abusive and shit anyway. I didn't cheat on him but did keep splitting up with him and fucking other guys (this was before we had kids). I was a complete pisshead and not really capable of a relationship at the time, but i did change once i got pregnant and got sober easy enough. I actually have to remain cpmpletely distant with this ex or he starts trying to control me and my life.

I cheated on a different ex because he wouldn't make any effort in bed and i got bored of this. I didn't just sneak off and do it behind his back until after i'd told him how unhappy i was with our sex life and he just continued to ignore me.

My last ex tried to cheat on me but didn't find anyone online. haha.

I'm only open to open relationships now, so hopefully no cheating is ever gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I found my ex cheated on me, he was spending more time on his phone so i hacked his email, changed his passwords on his social accounts so i could access them, read the stuff. Cried, a lot. Confronted him, hated him, split up. Then i fucked someone else, told him about it, felt a lot better and forgave him. Did try getting back with him but the whole relationship had changed for the worse so called it a day. It's better now, we're friends and support each other for the sake of our kids. He was my first true love so it really hurt me when i saw him telling someone else he was in love with them.

My last ex tried to cheat on me but didn't find anyone online. haha.

I'm only open to open relationships now, so hopefully no cheating is ever gonna happen."

Well done for beating the booze. Xx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I cheated on my ex husband when he no longer paid me any attention in the bedroom. I'm not proud of it and wish I'd just walked away. When I got caught t the time all I'd done was text someone nothing physical, he couldn't trust me so ended our relationship.

I've been cheated on by an ex I met off here. He wasn't nice at all. Told the women he who knickers he was trying to get into that I'd deceived him into thinking we'd swing together and hadn't come up with the goods. We'd barely got together to develop the relationship let alone trust him. I'm glad I held back now he didn't deserve my trust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My x cheated on me the whole time I was ill. Was with him for 6 years but I should've really left him before then. I knew there might've been someone else but didn't have the energy to fight with him over it so packed my things and left.

My relationship now is im the "+1" in someone's marriage. Wasn't supposed to be that way at all and I feel bad but you can't help who you like and he is like an addiction I can't break free from

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No, because we haven't....much easier that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, because we haven't....much easier that way."

Agreed. We have both had it done to us by ex partners in previous relationships but that was a long long time ago.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

early days I did cheat with certain people others, I was truthful too and never cheated on them

settled down never cheated on them

ex I was aware that she could cheat and yes she did even when we did try to get back together as I got used as a stepping stone to the next person twice the second time she wasnt coming back

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

AshleyMadison got Hacked. A lot of Cheating people will get a shock.

Makes me think how safe is this site?

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"AshleyMadison got Hacked. A lot of Cheating people will get a shock.

Makes me think how safe is this site? "

Very safe for me - as I'm not cheating or give a shit about my spare mail addy with no personal details attached to it

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

No because i have never cheated, i just don't see the point!!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My ex-husband. I met him as I left school & we'd been together nearly 20 years. I absolutely adored him

I still don't understand why or how - she lives 65 miles away, so probably online.

I tried to fix things for 2 days but in the end I gave him a hug, kissed his head & told him he had to leave. It took me a long time to get over him

They are still "together" (which I suppose is a good thing) but don't live together as he stayed local for our 2 boys but he's lost some very good friends because of her behaviour & his mum can't tolerate her (she also has the same name as me & is slowly morphing into me).

He's a good ex though, I can't fault him there, and we still get on really well but it just makes my life easier!!!!

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By *antonkid1955Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I watched transfixed from a distance in the night club as my first wife, who was then in her early 20s got stuck into the face of a guy during the erection section(the slow smoochy stuff they play at 0130 am before the end of the night)Watching them snog each others face off and watching their hands explore each others bodies was my introduction into the cuck lifestyle,Trying to work out my feelings of intense jealousy and sick to the pit of my stomach whilst sporting the biggest erection I had ever had was difficult to say the least.Our marriage didn't last long after that purely because in those days (early 70s)the swinging lifestyle we know today was in its infancy.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't think I could ever cheat. I'd feel too guilty to enjoy myself.

Cal

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

No but been with someone who as been caught cheating red handed years ago its funny now but not then.

We met this couple in a pub one afternoon as arranged got on went back to there house all stripped off all enjoying each other when this lady burst in and went berserk it was the guys wife the girl he was with was his fuck buddy we never knew all our cloths thrown out the bedroom window had to get dressed on the lawn the best we could before we drove off all the street out laughing funny now but was not then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex girlfriend. Came home and found she was fcuking some bloke from her work place. Rather blow my fuse. I said right a threesome it is with a puzzled look from her face I said dont worry just take my cock and enjoy we talk later. Did everything dp the lot. When he left told her to pack her bags and get lost. She was out In five minutes. That was 10 years ago lol. My introduction to swinging. Harsh I know but hey shit happens in life you just deal with it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex-husband. I met him as I left school & we'd been together nearly 20 years. I absolutely adored him

I still don't understand why or how - she lives 65 miles away, so probably online.

I tried to fix things for 2 days but in the end I gave him a hug, kissed his head & told him he had to leave. It took me a long time to get over him

He's a good ex though, I can't fault him there, and we still get on really well but it just makes my life easier!!!!

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interesting quate ... "He lost some very good friends because of her behaviour "

Takes 2 to tango

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

not cheating as such, when I was about 17 I lived at home fairly old parents and church going, so I never had girls in bed room or anything like that

one evening I had girl out of village in bed room just got her nixs off and condom out my parents came home early had to make her leave by window never got second chance lol

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"My ex-husband. I met him as I left school & we'd been together nearly 20 years. I absolutely adored him

I still don't understand why or how - she lives 65 miles away, so probably online.

I tried to fix things for 2 days but in the end I gave him a hug, kissed his head & told him he had to leave. It took me a long time to get over him

He's a good ex though, I can't fault him there, and we still get on really well but it just makes my life easier!!!!

interesting quate ... "He lost some very good friends because of her behaviour "

Takes 2 to tango"

You're quite right but in this case she had caused an argument which then got out of hand & he caught my best friend in the face knocking her contact lens to the back of her eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex-husband. I met him as I left school & we'd been together nearly 20 years. I absolutely adored him

I still don't understand why or how - she lives 65 miles away, so probably online.

I tried to fix things for 2 days but in the end I gave him a hug, kissed his head & told him he had to leave. It took me a long time to get over him

He's a good ex though, I can't fault him there, and we still get on really well but it just makes my life easier!!!!

interesting quate ... "He lost some very good friends because of her behaviour "

Takes 2 to tango

You're quite right but in this case she had caused an argument which then got out of hand & he caught my best friend in the face knocking her contact lens to the back of her eye. "
haha ok i see your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spent the rest of the evening lounging about with just the trousers & bow tie in an effort to seem 'normal'."

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"My ex girlfriend. Came home and found she was fcuking some bloke from her work place. Rather blow my fuse. I said right a threesome it is with a puzzled look from her face I said dont worry just take my cock and enjoy we talk later. Did everything dp the lot. When he left told her to pack her bags and get lost. She was out In five minutes. That was 10 years ago lol. My introduction to swinging. Harsh I know but hey shit happens in life you just deal with it and move on."

Very harsh

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