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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are so many people willing to take the risk with there heath and not want to use protection ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it feels good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a lot of this and i ask myself does the woman know there is no protection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they have the freedom of choice. Maybe leave them to it.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm guessing you won't be meeting them OP so why worry about their health, they're adults, if that's their choice and you find it foolish, just pass them by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine wrapping your tongue in cling film then eating a cake, that's about how a condom feels.

That being said cake doesn't give you the clap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they think nothing will happen to them.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

because they choose to ...why are so many people so preoccupied about other peoples sex lives that do not concern them ?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Because I want to get them pregnant, especially a woman who is cheating on her husband. Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to and really don't need to justify their reason to people who don't want to meet them anyway!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they have the freedom of choice. Maybe leave them to it."

If something's not for you don't do it. Leave others to do what they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing you won't be meeting them OP so why worry about their health, they're adults, if that's their choice and you find it foolish, just pass them by "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos they think nothing will happen to them. "

See I find that is sonething that to many people seem to think in general. To be fair I think more people that play safe always think that they won't catch anything.

I looked for a post from a couple of years ago where a forum member accused anyone that got tested as being a secret barebacker because why would you need testing if you used condoms..

As to the op.. why do we all put ourselves at risk by having multiple partners ?

I'd say most would answer because we see adults and we want to and are fully aware of the risks..I'd imagine it's the same for bb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their choice, not for me but everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their choice to do as they please why judge leave people to do as they wish their life their fun......why do people smoke why do people drink why do people pick their nose why why why lol...cause they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh great another bareback post!!!

There hasn't been on for ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh great another bareback post!!!

There hasn't been on for ages."

No one forced you to read it or come in and comment............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh great another bareback post!!!

There hasn't been on for ages.

No one forced you to read it or come in and comment............"

Its a forum and anyone is entitled to comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a choice thing! Just remember condoms don't protect you from everything!!! And they aren't 100% safe.

Does everyone use condoms when giving a bj? And does everyone used dental guards when going down on a woman???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry if the question upsets people I was just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These posts always end up with an unappealing mix of sanctimonious posturing & name calling.

No gown up can possibly be unaware of the risks bareback entails but as grown ups they are perfectly entitled to make their own choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they want to and really don't need to justify their reason to people who don't want to meet them anyway!!!!"

Well said..!!!!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Why are so many people willing to take the risk with there heath and not want to use protection ?"

The same reason plenty smoke or are overweight etc when there's massive evidence that it can be fatal and cause all sorts of unpleasant diseases

humans do what they want even if can cause life limitation, it's part of the human make up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure all couples have bareback sex with each other , just as we do .

Why ?

Because of course it feels better , and those that choose to do it on meets have weighed up the risk vs pleasure and chosen to go for the pleasure .

We wish them well , and can certainly see why they choose to take the risk , despite it not being one we are prepared to take .

We enjoy the lifestyle way too much to have to stop so it's not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because they choose to ...why are so many people so preoccupied about other peoples sex lives that do not concern them ?"

This ^^^

Because it is their choice ... ...and nothing to do with anybody else ...

Worry about your own lives..business. .sexual health??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was invited to be part of a bb gang bang recently. Wow lucky me .

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No I didn't join in, in case you're wondering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people play Russian roulette? I guess it is the thrill. Why do guys go to brothels and pay extra for bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do bareback with my hand

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Why do people play Russian roulette? I guess it is the thrill. Why do guys go to brothels and pay extra for bareback?"

Bareback bingo first strike for Russian Roulette!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people play Russian roulette? I guess it is the thrill. Why do guys go to brothels and pay extra for bareback?

Bareback bingo first strike for Russian Roulette!"

Stacey Dooley x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Entirely depends on the person and situation but it never ceases to amaze me how many people will let me fuck them bb without even asking a few questions.

I'm like, "Do you *know* where I've been?!"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why are so many people willing to take the risk with there heath and not want to use protection ?"

You should not have sex with these people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why so defensive . Won't be asking any more questions in the forum learnt that lesson this evening

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Why are so many people willing to take the risk with there heath and not want to use protection ?"
. It is their decision. As no member is compelled to meet them , you can just ignore . Every member is entitled to freedom of choice and to assess the risks that they take. Do all those who condemn bareback visit the Gum clinic and ensure that they are tested regularly .?

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Why are so many people willing to take the risk with there heath and not want to use protection ?"
. It is their decision. As no member is compelled to meet them , you can just ignore . Every member is entitled to freedom of choice and to assess the risks that they take. Do all those who condemn bareback visit the Gum clinic and ensure that they are tested regularly .?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Why so defensive . Won't be asking any more questions in the forum learnt that lesson this evening "

I thought I gave some good advice there

Okay, have sex with these people if you want to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why so defensive . Won't be asking any more questions in the forum learnt that lesson this evening

I thought I gave some good advice there

Okay, have sex with these people if you want to"

Wasn't talking about you sorry if that was implied. We only do safe sex with meets

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Why so defensive . Won't be asking any more questions in the forum learnt that lesson this evening "

Don't think I was being defensive what I said is true, if you play safe the your likely to not be meeting them, so why be concerned with their sexual health.", it's their decision

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I only do bareback with my hand"

At least it's sex with someone you love, you won't catch anything, you won't get anyone pregnant etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why so defensive . Won't be asking any more questions in the forum learnt that lesson this evening "

You need broad shoulders in the forum at times. Don't let it bother you and do participate. Sometimes it's even fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think these threads are posted to stir up the hornets nest sometimes as it usually attracts the same responses everytime.

BB which ever way you look at it is more thrilling and intimate, it's the natural way to have intercourse but obv has risks attached if you play with someone that has an STD. People make their own decisions and way up this risks and in the heat of things in sure can get carried away only to worry later.

We have played bb with a third who we saw regularly but then we all knew each other's status as we were tested. Without doubt it added to the intimacy as it allowed a deeper connection, we are still here and live to tell the tale so obv wasn't all bad.

So long as YOU use or insist on protection then I don't see what the fuss is about. I don't understand why my friend likes to ride his bike at speed down mountains with shear drops but he chooses to so it's his choice, not something I'd be doing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people play Russian roulette? I guess it is the thrill. Why do guys go to brothels and pay extra for bareback?

Bareback bingo first strike for Russian Roulette!"

Right on RR - bingo!!

The only killer with a statistically higher chance of killing you than Russian Roulette is cancer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only do bareback with my hand

At least it's sex with someone you love, you won't catch anything, you won't get anyone pregnant etc etc "

Plus it is always there for me haha

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By *orbi24Man
over a year ago

London


"I think these threads are posted to stir up the hornets nest sometimes as it usually attracts the same responses everytime.

BB which ever way you look at it is more thrilling and intimate, it's the natural way to have intercourse but obv has risks attached if you play with someone that has an STD. People make their own decisions and way up this risks and in the heat of things in sure can get carried away only to worry later.

We have played bb with a third who we saw regularly but then we all knew each other's status as we were tested. Without doubt it added to the intimacy as it allowed a deeper connection, we are still here and live to tell the tale so obv wasn't all bad.

So long as YOU use or insist on protection then I don't see what the fuss is about. I don't understand why my friend likes to ride his bike at speed down mountains with shear drops but he chooses to so it's his choice, not something I'd be doing though."
same here. I am tested regular and got certs too. If it come to bareback. I ask them to get tested then i am happy to do it.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Put your hand up if you've ever exceeded the speed limit on a public road. Put your had up if you've ever exceeded the speed limit on a public road and you also insist on using a condom for recreational casual sex... ironic or what?

To answer the OP's question if I have sex with another person without using protection the other person would have to mutually agree to it, so there is no issue whatsoever there.

As for me personally, while I'm alive I intend to live the way I choose. When I'm dead I'll no longer be alive but I would have lived. I would rather live a short time than just exist for the longest time possible.

I'm not suggesting that so-called safe-sex means just existing, I'm not suggesting that bareback means really living life to the full but in the end we all try to live our lives the way we want to.

Why do some people partake of bareback casual sex... because they want to. OP, why are you a swinger? Why do you partake of casual sex with relative strangers? After all, if you didn't do such things you would be at no real risk of any STI. We can only assume that you consider the risk and then do what you want to do in spite of the risk

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By *adboi9inchMan
over a year ago

manchester

Haha thats wot i say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's everyone's big deal with bareback if someone plays bareback that's there business no point in looking down on them its up to them if they want too wreck there health leave them off that's there choice who are we too judge them

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Some people say "YES"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Some people who say "NO"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

After the break: some people who can't make up their minds

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"I'm guessing you won't be meeting them OP so why worry about their health, they're adults, if that's their choice and you find it foolish, just pass them by "

Very sensible answer x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Never fails to amaze me how promiscuous people saddle up and mount their moral high horses because others are more promiscuous then they!

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Perhaps the dangers are greatly exaggerated...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many people willing to take the risk with there heath and not want to use protection ?"

Same reason people drive fast cars, motorbikes, jump put of aeroplanes, eat till they're fat, and drink till they're falling down.

For them the risk is worth the reward.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Do you fancy a blowie ...with w condom of course ..i will be wearing a crash helmet ..steel cap boots ...high vis jacket

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I enjoy but I'm also very picky x

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Do you fancy a blowie ...with w condom of course ..i will be wearing a crash helmet ..steel cap boots ...high vis jacket "

no need for high-vis; glow-in-dark condom is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never fails to amaze me how promiscuous people saddle up and mount their moral high horses because others are more promiscuous then they! "

That's a very well made point!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Never fails to amaze me how promiscuous people saddle up and mount their moral high horses because others are more promiscuous then they!

That's a very well made point!"

Well, they can hardly feel 'superior' otherwise

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"Why are so many people willing to take the risk with there heath and not want to use protection ?"

Why do people keep asking the same bloody question???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless to the amazing pleasure you get from not using a condom, why on earth would ANYBODY allow a guy they've just met, don't even know ther name let alone know who they are, penetrate them with 50/50 chance of either getting pregnant or catching somthing unwanted.

The only time to have unprotected sex in my opinion is with a secure long term partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regardless to the amazing pleasure you get from not using a condom, why on earth would ANYBODY allow a guy they've just met, don't even know ther name let alone know who they are, penetrate them with 50/50 chance of either getting pregnant or catching somthing unwanted.

The only time to have unprotected sex in my opinion is with a secure long term partner. "

Well I think your odds are way off as I certainly don't have a 50/50 chance of catching something or getting pregnant If I chose to do it bare.. (which I don't but as a consenting adult I could do so)

Also plenty of people would say why out yourself at risk by having multilple partners...as you are still at risk. And there are things out there that condoms do not protect you for.

Yes we all know its more risky but people seem to feel they are better and judge those that choose to have sex that way. Chances are you have met a few people that have gone bare with strangers... As people may say one thing but could...could lie and do another.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Regardless to the amazing pleasure you get from not using a condom, why on earth would ANYBODY allow a guy they've just met, don't even know ther name let alone know who they are, penetrate them with 50/50 chance of either getting pregnant or catching somthing unwanted.

The only time to have unprotected sex in my opinion is with a secure long term partner.

Well I think your odds are way off as I certainly don't have a 50/50 chance of catching something or getting pregnant If I chose to do it bare.. (which I don't but as a consenting adult I could do so)

Also plenty of people would say why out yourself at risk by having multilple partners...as you are still at risk. And there are things out there that condoms do not protect you for.

Yes we all know its more risky but people seem to feel they are better and judge those that choose to have sex that way. Chances are you have met a few people that have gone bare with strangers... As people may say one thing but could...could lie and do another.

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Great point I love how people have the naive view that condoms are the magical form of prevention from everything, sorry but they aren't.

For example genital warts only require skin to skin contact of the whole gential areas and condoms don't cover the scrotum and anus, so your seemingly "clean" partner, at the time of play, could already have the virus, as the physical signs of the infection, the warts, can take up to 3 months after contracting the virus to appear

Sex with multiple partners, with or with the use of condoms, still leaves you vulnerable to catching something, condoms only reduce the risk

If they wish to play BB it is their choice, and if you want to play safe, you just don't meet them it's that simple, I've just turned someone down for that very reason this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course if there choice.

All I am aging is we would never just meet someone and have sex without condoms. Ok you say you can still catch things with a condom, true point, but by far a lot safer than letting a/several guys fuck you without a condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we've established which side everyone is on, some like to play bb some don't, it's entirely their own choice.

I'm sure the people who play unprotected know the risks so having some random people on a website pointing out the obv will make no difference at all to the way they do things and so the cycle continues, until the next thread where the same people take offence to the fact someone chooses to do something they don't agree with.

Anyway, in off to the pro smoking forums to air my discust with their choice to do something that is obv killing them!

Wonder how many anti bb swingers smoke on here? Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record, I'm not fussed either way with how people conduct their lives, it's non of my business. Just trying to balance the argument a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow a Bareback thread !

What a new idea ....

Leave people to do as they please ...

More people die of obesity or smoking than they do sexual diseases.....

Live and let live

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Oh yes it is!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Oh no it isn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we've established which side everyone is on, some like to play bb some don't, it's entirely their own choice.

I'm sure the people who play unprotected know the risks so having some random people on a website pointing out the obv will make no difference at all to the way they do things and so the cycle continues, until the next thread where the same people take offence to the fact someone chooses to do something they don't agree with.

Anyway, in off to the pro smoking forums to air my discust with their choice to do something that is obv killing them!

Wonder how many anti bb swingers smoke on here? Just a thought! "

Good point!!!

Would all anti BB swingers who smoke be brave enough to raise your hands??

Bet there's a fair few of them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cow Boys and Indians did it without any worries ----- think ???

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

"Sleeping with numerous sexual partners is not dangerous at all because I use condoms."

People need to chill.

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

Oh my God, not one of these threads again.

Why perpetuate this topic? Barebacker or not, mind your own business. The Swinging world is a diverse, vibrant community, with different preferences abound. Just stick to your own practices and pay no attention to others.

If a safer asks you to cover up before you play, politely tell them you only play bare and leave it there.

If a barebacker asks you to leave the condom, politely tell them you only play safe and leave it there.

I'm tired of seeing references to Russian roulette and accusations of holier than thou attitudes. We all like what we all like, and we have to accommodate one another.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh my God, not one of these threads again.

Why perpetuate this topic? Barebacker or not, mind your own business. The Swinging world is a diverse, vibrant community, with different preferences abound. Just stick to your own practices and pay no attention to others.

If a safer asks you to cover up before you play, politely tell them you only play bare and leave it there.

If a barebacker asks you to leave the condom, politely tell them you only play safe and leave it there.

I'm tired of seeing references to Russian roulette and accusations of holier than thou attitudes. We all like what we all like, and we have to accommodate one another."

Never going to happen I'm afraid. Swingers are just normal people and they aren't any more accepting or open minded than anyone else in fact I sometimes think as a group they're less so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I asked the question originally as I was told by a 50yr old female it's ok I don't use condoms as I've had a hysterectomy so can't get pregnant ( needless to say we did not meet )

New to the forum didn't realise it's been posted before and would piss people off and get such a reaction maybe I'm too nice so I apologise again .

I was not judging anyone was curious that was all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked the question originally as I was told by a 50yr old female it's ok I don't use condoms as I've had a hysterectomy so can't get pregnant ( needless to say we did not meet )

New to the forum didn't realise it's been posted before and would piss people off and get such a reaction maybe I'm too nice so I apologise again .

I was not judging anyone was curious that was all "
Don't listen to them, you can post anything you want and welcome to the forum x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked the question originally as I was told by a 50yr old female it's ok I don't use condoms as I've had a hysterectomy so can't get pregnant ( needless to say we did not meet )

New to the forum didn't realise it's been posted before and would piss people off and get such a reaction maybe I'm too nice so I apologise again .

I was not judging anyone was curious that was all Don't listen to them, you can post anything you want and welcome to the forum x."

Another warm fuzzy forum welcome

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I asked the question originally as I was told by a 50yr old female it's ok I don't use condoms as I've had a hysterectomy so can't get pregnant ( needless to say we did not meet )

New to the forum didn't realise it's been posted before and would piss people off and get such a reaction maybe I'm too nice so I apologise again .

I was not judging anyone was curious that was all "

I don't think people are referring to your post but the reaction to it.....well I was anyway.

You can post what you want within the rules and I don't have any issue with that at all because I do the same myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked the question originally as I was told by a 50yr old female it's ok I don't use condoms as I've had a hysterectomy so can't get pregnant ( needless to say we did not meet )

New to the forum didn't realise it's been posted before and would piss people off and get such a reaction maybe I'm too nice so I apologise again .

I was not judging anyone was curious that was all

I don't think people are referring to your post but the reaction to it.....well I was anyway.

You can post what you want within the rules and I don't have any issue with that at all because I do the same myself."

exactly, it's generally the response this subject brings that is like a stuck record. This and bloody uncut men threads are a regular on here, don't forget, men with foreskin have a 30% higher risk of transmitting HIV!

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts


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I don't think people are referring to your post but the reaction to it.....well I was anyway.

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Ditto. These sort of threads always tend to descend into pettiness.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


""Sleeping with numerous sexual partners is not dangerous at all because I use condoms."

People need to chill. "

Now this is the type of posting people really need to be wary of.

He could just be on the wind up but if he really believes he is safe because he uses condoms that is dangerous.

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

'it'll never happen to me' mentality? I doubt anyone would be cool with being told they had HIV or Hepatitis! I'll stick with being fat, that's stigma enough for me just do what you can to be as safe as you can and assume everyone barebacks!

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts


""Sleeping with numerous sexual partners is not dangerous at all because I use condoms."

People need to chill.

Now this is the type of posting people really need to be wary of.

He could just be on the wind up but if he really believes he is safe because he uses condoms that is dangerous."

I'm getting confused, lol. I believe CL Rogue was simply mimicking the erroneous view of some people that using condoms makes you completely impervious to stds.

Bit did you think he was serious or are you going along with his joke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doubt, being told you had either of those would be as devastating as being told you had cancer.

I think everyone is aware of the risks, unless they live under a rock, the point being people will take the risks as they see fit.


"'it'll never happen to me' mentality? I doubt anyone would be cool with being told they had HIV or Hepatitis! I'll stick with being fat, that's stigma enough for me just do what you can to be as safe as you can and assume everyone barebacks! "

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


""Sleeping with numerous sexual partners is not dangerous at all because I use condoms."

People need to chill.

Now this is the type of posting people really need to be wary of.

He could just be on the wind up but if he really believes he is safe because he uses condoms that is dangerous.

I'm getting confused, lol. I believe CL Rogue was simply mimicking the erroneous view of some people that using condoms makes you completely impervious to stds.

Bit did you think he was serious or are you going along with his joke? "

That's exactly what I was doing Grazedcat.

Garry247, you need to chill!

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